Lo lamentable es que, en ambos casos, una de las partes siempre saldr\u00e1 perjudicada y sufrir\u00e1 profundamente.<\/p>\n
Remaining friends after a breakup isn’t an easy step to make, and that’s why both partners must really think it through before they make the final decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n That’s why the best thing you can do is to give yourselves some time after the breakup. Both partners need to be sure they’re able to move on and that there are no romantic feelings between them anymore.<\/p>\n I know it’s hard to accept that he won’t be a part of your life anymore, but trust me, it’s better that way than to stay friends with him and live in hope that one day, he’ll change his mind and start a real relationship again with you.<\/p>\n Cuando un chico s\u00f3lo quiere ser amigo despu\u00e9s de salir, puede ser una verdadera ayuda para una chica, sobre todo si ella a\u00fan siente algo fuerte por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n She knows that she can’t see him as a friend, but at the same time, she doesn’t want to lose him entirely. Rumbo a la zona de amigos<\/a> inmediatamente despu\u00e9s de terminar tu relaci\u00f3n es una mala idea.<\/strong><\/p>\n Neither one of you is ready for that step, but you probably don’t want to lose each other for good because even though you don’t love each other the way you did before, you still care.<\/p>\n La verdad es que hay muchas razones cuando un chico s\u00f3lo quiere ser amigos despu\u00e9s de salir.<\/p>\n It doesn’t have to mean that he really wants to be friends only; maybe it’s one of his techniques to get you back. Below, I will list a few more reasons why he just wants to be friends after dating.<\/p>\n When a guy just wants to be friends after dating, it’s, unfortunately, only because they don’t want to be the bad guy, not because they care about your feelings.<\/p>\n He doesn’t want other people to judge him. He doesn’t want to be seen as a guy who used you and then dumped you.<\/p>\n Probablemente te pidi\u00f3 que siguierais siendo amigos s\u00f3lo porque quer\u00eda que la ruptura fuera lo m\u00e1s suave posible.<\/strong><\/p>\n Cuando un chico s\u00f3lo quiere que seamos amigos despu\u00e9s de salir, probablemente significa que quiere mantenerte en un segundo plano.<\/em><\/p>\n Probablemente quiera mantenerte cerca para poder pedirte otra oportunidad si cambia de opini\u00f3n sobre la ruptura.<\/p>\n You don’t deserve to be his second choice when you’re made to be someone’s first and only choice. Don’t allow him to friend zone you so he can use you again as he wants.<\/p>\n Si estuvieras en un largo plazo, relaci\u00f3n seria<\/a>, then he’s probably still confused and isn’t completely sure in his decision about the breakup, and this is how he wants to leave all options open.<\/em><\/p>\n Maybe he already met someone new and he wants to keep the door open with you if the new relationship fails. He thinks that it’ll be easier to get a second chance from you if you guys stay friends.<\/p>\n Don’t allow him to think that he can walk in and walk away from your life whenever he wants. If he wants to end things, it has to be for good.<\/p>\n Cuando tu ex te pida que sig\u00e1is siendo amigos despu\u00e9s de la ruptura y t\u00fa lo aceptes, debes recalcarle que s\u00f3lo quieres que se\u00e1is amigos, no amigos con derecho a roce.<\/p>\n That means occasional hookups are strictly forbidden. Trust me, you don\u2019t want to go there because being friends with benefits with your ex will make your situation a lot more complicated.<\/p>\n That simply won\u2019t end up well. One of you will start catching feelings for the other one again, and soon, you\u2019ll want to rekindle the old flame.<\/p>\n Esa persona acabar\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s herida de lo que estaba tras la ruptura.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si inicias ese tipo de relaci\u00f3n con tu ex, hay muchas normas importantes para los amigos con derecho a roce<\/a> relaci\u00f3n que debes seguir ciegamente si quieres que funcione.<\/p>\n It really hurts when the guy you love puts you in the friend zone, but it\u2019s so much more hurtful when he puts you in a \u2018maybe zone\u2019.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll still claim that he wants to be friends with you, while at the same time, he\u2019ll also be giving you false hope that you\u2019ll be together with him again.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll end up stuck in the realm between a real relationship and friendship, and that won\u2019t allow you to move on for a long time.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll do it in such a sneaky way that by the time you figure out that he\u2019s keeping you on the back burner, it\u2019ll be almost impossible for you to let him go.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: Si hace estas 10 cosas, lo siento, te han hecho amigo<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n When a guy just wants to be friends after dating, it could also mean that even if he doesn\u2019t love you the same way he did before, he still cares for you and wants you in his life.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t want you as an emotional partner anymore, but he wants to stay friends with you.<\/p>\n After so much time spent together and after all the things you went through together, he doesn\u2019t want to cut off all contact with you for good.<\/p>\n I think that every man does this when they are breaking up with someone. The breakup talk suddenly turns into a ‘let’s remain friends’ speech.<\/p>\n If you didn’t expect it, and especially if you still have romantic feelings for him and you want to be more than friends with him, this talk will be hard on you.<\/p>\n A continuaci\u00f3n te damos algunos consejos que te ayudar\u00e1n a lidiar con cuando un chico s\u00f3lo quiere ser amigo despu\u00e9s de salir.<\/p>\n He did ask you to stay friends, but he didn’t say (and he definitely doesn\u2019t expect) that you need to answer it immediately.<\/p>\n I know you’re on an emotional rollercoaster right now. You’re so confused, your feelings are mixed, and you simply don’t know what you should do. I know, I get you because I was once in your place, too.<\/p>\n It was definitely one of the most confusing and hardest moments of my life. I didn’t want to lose the man I loved sincerely, but at the same time, I was aware that I couldn\u2019t have him in my life only as a friend.<\/p>\n Necesitaba tiempo para pensar en todo y aclarar mis sentimientos y mis pensamientos. Y, cr\u00e9eme, ese tiempo fue lo que m\u00e1s me ayud\u00f3, igual que te ayudar\u00e1 a ti.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9jate y pasa tiempo contigo mismo, porque ahora es cuando m\u00e1s te necesitas. Ese tiempo de tranquilidad te ayudar\u00e1 a tomar la decisi\u00f3n correcta.<\/em><\/p>\n Don’t hurry anywhere. We all know how bad breakups can be, and no one expects you to be fine and heal immediately.<\/p>\n T\u00f3mate todo el tiempo que necesites y piensa primero en tu propia vida, despu\u00e9s piensa en tu ex y en si seguir siendo su amigo s\u00f3lo te frenar\u00e1 o te ayudar\u00e1 a avanzar m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido.<\/p>\n Cry as much as you need. You’re going through a rough period and you need to let those negative emotions out somehow.<\/p>\n Don’t keep them bottled up because sooner or later, they’ll come to the surface, and that’s when the biggest problem will appear.<\/p>\n I’m assuming that all of this time, your focus was on your relationship and your boyfriend. Now, it’s high time to vuelve a centrarte en ti mismo<\/a>.<\/p>\n Para curarte por completo y seguir adelante como es debido, tienes que trabajar para mejorar tu autoestima y tu confianza. Seguro que tu ruptura les afect\u00f3 negativamente.<\/p>\n You need to understand that none of it was your fault. You’re still a beautiful woman who has so much to offer and who’s worthy of love indeed.<\/strong><\/p>\n You just need to wait for the right man who’ll know how to recognize it all.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, work on yourself and do things that make you happy. Once you manage to improve your self-esteem, you’ll be able to hang out with your ex as friends.<\/p>\n Esto es realmente imprescindible. Tanto si quieres seguir siendo amigo de tu ex como si no, tu relaci\u00f3n ha terminado y necesitas curarte tras la ruptura y seguir adelante con tu vida con o sin tu ex en ella.<\/p>\n Eat as much chocolate or ice cream as you want. Watch as many romantic movies as you want. Cry your heart out if you think it’ll help you heal.<\/p>\n Debes curarte primero porque seguir adelante antes de curarse<\/a> tendr\u00eda las peores consecuencias para tu salud emocional.<\/p>\n But, after it, you must get your strength back to draw the line and finally say that it’s enough. Get up from the bed and take your life by the horns.<\/p>\n Necesitas ordenar tus pensamientos y emociones. A veces, confundimos amor con lujuria<\/a>O, a veces, pensamos que amamos a una persona cuando, en realidad, simplemente nos hemos acostumbrado a ella.<\/p>\n Stop hurting yourself. I know that we can’t command our hearts, but when you see that someone has stopped loving you, you must accept it.<\/p>\n You can’t be stuck in one place for too much time. You’ll waste many great opportunities that God is sending your way right now.<\/em><\/p>\n As long as you feel you aren’t over your ex, you shouldn’t even try to be friends with him. It’ll only make things much, much worse.<\/p>\n Hay muchas otras personas en tu vida que te quieren y se preocupan sinceramente por ti, y deber\u00edas rodearte de ellas en estos momentos.<\/p>\n They’ll do everything to make you happy and distract your thoughts of the breakup and all of that. They’ll try to make you forget about some of these unfortunate events that are happening in your life.<\/p>\n Esas personas son las que m\u00e1s cuentan y deber\u00edas recordarlo siempre. Las parejas pueden ir y venir, pero los amigos y la familia permanecer\u00e1n a tu lado pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n Even if you aren’t still completely sure that you’re ready to let it go and move on, you have to go out and live your life.<\/p>\n Rod\u00e9ate de tu ser querido y oc\u00fapate de cosas que aporten felicidad a tu vida. Disfrute de las peque\u00f1as cosas<\/a>y simplemente vive tu vida al m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n Tambi\u00e9n puedes crearte una cuenta en algunos sitios de citas y conocer as\u00ed a gente nueva.<\/p>\n I’m not saying you should jump into a new relationship immediately, but going out and hanging with people would definitely help you move on faster.<\/p>\n I know that it’s difficult to move on from a romantic relationship, especially if you’ve imagined that you’ll be with that person for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n However, you need to snap out of it. You have your own life you need to think about because it didn’t stop when your relationship did.<\/p>\n I already said this, but I have to repeat it again: you must be sure that you’re ready to move on if you want to try to be friends with your ex.<\/p>\n The breakup did hurt you, but it’ll hurt you more if you accept to remain friends with him if you still share some feelings for him and hope that you’ll reconcile one day.<\/p>\n You’re now ready to meet up with your ex. Dress up nicely, do your hair, but don’t exaggerate because you aren’t trying to make him understand what he lost.<\/p>\n Ask him how he pictured the friendship between you. Tell him that you’ll need to set some boundaries if you want to make it work.<\/p>\n If you see that his behavior is strange or that he’s giving you some mixed signals with his body language, that could mean he has possibly changed his mind… pull away immediately.<\/p>\n Retroceder es definitivamente la mejor respuesta a sus se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/a>. You don’t want to go through all of this once again, and you definitely don’t deserve someone who’s so indecisive.<\/p>\n After you go through all of these steps, you’ll be ready to make the decision. I’m saying this again: if your breakup wasn’t nasty, you’ll probably decide to stay friends with your ex-boyfriend.<\/p>\n You have already gone through the healing process and you’re probably ready to move on with your life now, and accepting to remain friends with your ex is a good step toward moving on.<\/p>\n However, if you feel like you can\u2019t be \u2018just friends\u2019 with the man you once loved<\/a>, don\u2019t accept it.<\/p>\n You can become very good friends, but because of all the things that happened between you, you’ll never be able to become best friends.<\/p>\n After all, this doesn’t have to be bad or awkward. You’ll get a guy friend who already knows you very well and who can give you excellent advice.<\/p>\n If you don’t have any romantic feelings for your ex and you really think you’re ready to have a friendly relationship with him, then below are some rules for those post-dating friendships.<\/p>\n If you don’t want to get hurt again, you should follow each and every one of these rules.<\/p>\n Starting a friendship immediately after the breakup would really be a bad idea. One of you still probably has strong feelings for the other and your friendship wouldn’t simply work that way.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo os har\u00eda sufrir a los dos. El caso es que a los dos os vendr\u00eda bien pasar un tiempo a solas despu\u00e9s de que termine vuestra relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica y antes de que decid\u00e1is empezar otro tipo de relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n De verdad, no es una decisi\u00f3n que s\u00f3lo uno de vosotros pueda tomar.<\/p>\n Las rupturas nunca son f\u00e1ciles. <\/em>Believe me, one side will always suffer after the breakup, and that’s why you need to take some time for yourself just to think and process everything that is going on in your life right now.<\/em><\/p>\n Los dos necesit\u00e1is ese tiempo para aclarar vuestros pensamientos y vuestras emociones, y los dos querr\u00edais beneficiarse de la prohibici\u00f3n de contacto<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Esto es especialmente importante si a\u00fan sientes algo por tu ex. El tiempo es tu aliado y te ayudar\u00e1 a tomar la mejor decisi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n En primer lugar, tienes que pensar bien tu decisi\u00f3n. Reconsidere la pros y contras de seguir siendo amigo de tu ex<\/a>. Why do you want to keep him in your life even if it’s as a friend?<\/p>\n If you had a nasty breakup, and especially if he did something wrong that led to your breakup, it’ll be even harder for you to remain friends with him after it.<\/p>\n Tambi\u00e9n tienes que pensar si merece tener alg\u00fan lugar en tu vida. If he disrespected or mistreated you, you definitely don’t need him, not even as a friend.<\/strong><\/p>\n On the other hand, if your paths have separated without any special reason and you still think he’s a great guy, then it would be nice to have a guy friend who already knows so much about you.<\/em><\/p>\n If you’re planning to stay friends with your ex just to get him back, I have to tell you that it’s a very bad idea and you should forget about it immediately.<\/p>\n That’s not a way you could get your man back, AND you’ll be even more hurt in the end. You don’t need another heartbreak, right?<\/p>\n Si los dos ten\u00edais una relaci\u00f3n duradera y comprometida, deb\u00e9is estar completamente seguros de que pod\u00e9is seguir siendo amigos despu\u00e9s de la ruptura.<\/p>\n If either one of you still has some feelings for the other one, it would be a huge red flag that your friendship won’t succeed.<\/p>\n Sinceramente, la verdad es que dos personas nunca pueden llegar a ser demasiado amigas despu\u00e9s de una relaci\u00f3n seria.<\/p>\n Siempre habr\u00e1 cosas y asuntos sin resolver, y una persona siempre sentir\u00e1 algo por la otra y esperar\u00e1 una reconciliaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Utiliza este tiempo de tranquilidad para trabajar en ti mismo y mejorar la confianza en ti mismo y la autoestima que, con toda seguridad, se ver\u00e1n da\u00f1adas tras la ruptura.<\/p>\n Una vez que consigas mejorarlas, todo lo dem\u00e1s te resultar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s claro.<\/p>\n No matter what you decide and what happens with you and your ex, you have to know that at the end of the day, you have yourself, and that’s the most precious and important thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n Si est\u00e1is de acuerdo en seguir siendo amigos despu\u00e9s de la ruptura, entonces ten\u00e9is que friendzone \u00e9l<\/a> and don’t allow him to step away from that “safe” zone as I like to call it.<\/p>\n That’s why arranging and setting clear and healthy boundaries in your new relationship is of huge importance. They’ll keep your friendship safe and sound.<\/p>\n You’ll probably have the famous ‘let’s stay friends’ talk, and that’s when you should talk about things you would and won’t tolerate.<\/p>\n For example, you can’t interfere in each other’s love life or how hookups must be off the table under all circumstances.<\/p>\n Llamadas telef\u00f3nicas y mensajes de texto<\/a> are allowed. You can keep in touch, and it’ll probably be easier for both of you because you got used to each other a lot I assume.<\/p>\n However, you shouldn’t be in touch 24\/7, like you did as you were dating. And, I honestly advise you to avoid meet-ups at least for the first three months until you both get used to this new situation.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, todo ser\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil para los dos si mantuvierais las cosas plat\u00f3nicas. Pod\u00e9is ser buenos amigos y preocuparos el uno por el otro sin necesidad de estar en contacto y salir todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n If you don’t see each other too often, there’s less chance that your feelings will come back and that you’ll hook up again. So, mant\u00e9n tu amistad plat\u00f3nica<\/a> al principio.<\/p>\n Don’t talk about the first time you met and fell in love. Don’t mention your first date or the first place you made love. Don’t bring up your memories, neither the good ones nor the bad ones.<\/p>\n You’ve decided to break up and move on with your life and now, you must do that. Bringing up your past relationship and talking about all the things you went through together won’t do you any good, trust me.<\/p>\n It might only hold you back. You’ll never be able to free yourself from the shackles of the past until you finally leave it right where it belongs, in the past, and stop talking about it once and for all.<\/p>\n Yes, you’re friends and friends talk about all the spheres of each other’s lives. However, you should always keep in mind that you’re exes who decided to become friends after they ended their relationship.<\/p>\n You just can’t talk about new love and new partners to someone you loved in the past. Trust me, it’ll be the most awkward conversation you ever had.<\/p>\n You both have every right to move on with your lives and to meet new people, but you shouldn’t talk with each other about it.<\/p>\n Admit it, wouldn’t it be too damn awkward and weird to ask your ex-boyfriend for dating advice?<\/p>\n En el momento en que sientas que tus emociones est\u00e1n volviendo, tienes que retirarte.<\/p>\n Lo mismo ocurre si ves que tu ex te env\u00eda se\u00f1ales contradictorias y que ha cambiado de opini\u00f3n y quiere recuperarte.<\/p>\n You must take care of yourself and your own life. Going back and forth with your ex won’t do you any good.<\/p>\n On the contrary, you’ll only be wasting your time, and you could miss something or someone really great because of it.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, la primera vez que notes que algo no va bien y empieces a dudar de que tu ex pareja\/nuevo amigo haya cambiado de opini\u00f3n sobre vosotros dos, ret\u00edrate de tu amistad y que se vaya para siempre<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo afrontar que tu mejor amiga sea amiga de tu ex<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n You can become close friends and you probably will, and I’m saying again: IF your breakup wasn’t awful and nasty, of course. After all, you spent so much time together and you probably know each other best.<\/p>\n\u00bfQu\u00e9 significa que un chico s\u00f3lo quiera que seamos amigos despu\u00e9s de salir? Seis posibles razones<\/h2>\n
Quiere aliviar su culpa, no tu dolor.<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nIt’ll stop you from moving on, and he knows it<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nHe’s keeping the door open<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00bfS\u00f3lo amigos o amigos con derecho a roce?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nFriend zone or ‘maybe zone’?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nSe preocupa por ti y te quiere en su vida<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10 Things (Not) To Do After He Gives You The ‘Let’s Stay Friends’ Talk<\/h2>\n
Don’t answer immediately<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nPasar tiempo a solas<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nConc\u00e9ntrese primero en s\u00ed mismo<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nPasar por el proceso de curaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nConecta con tus pensamientos y emociones<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nRod\u00e9ate de la gente que quieres<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nEat, drink, go out, dance, travel… Simply enjoy life!<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nNow, are you sure you’re ready to move on?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nP\u00eddele que hable<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nYou’re ready for THE decision<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n9 reglas de oro para la amistad despu\u00e9s de una cita<\/h2>\n
T\u00f3mese primero un tiempo de silencio<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nReconsidere sus motivos<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nMake sure you’re ready for this step<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nEs imprescindible establecer l\u00edmites claros<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nMant\u00e9n las cosas plat\u00f3nicas<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nEl pasado debe permanecer en el pasado<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nDon’t talk about your new relationships<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nSaber cu\u00e1ndo retirarse<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nThe fact is you’ll never become best friends<\/h3>\n
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