{"id":127205,"date":"2021-03-08T10:26:40","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T10:26:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127205"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:38:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:38:30","slug":"hacer-un-movimiento-en-una-chica-de-la-manera-correcta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hacer-un-movimiento-en-una-chica-de-la-manera-correcta\/","title":{"rendered":"Si quieres conquistar a una chica, debes hacerlo de la forma correcta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>OMG, she\u2019s so hot, smart, and beautiful. She would never notice me even if my picture were stuck on her forehead (wait, that doesn\u2019t even make sense, but okay.) Maybe I should just say a simple hello&#8230; <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hmm, maybe playing hard to get is not a bad idea after all. But what if she doesn\u2019t like playing games? Maybe women like simple men. There\u2019s no way I\u2019ll ever make a move on this girl if I continue complicating things.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Raise your hand if you\u2019ve ever been in this situation. (And I thought so.) I bet millions of men experience such overthinking on a daily basis (especially those who are shy by nature).<\/p>\n<p>Antes de escribir nada m\u00e1s, tengo una pregunta para usted: <strong>\u00bfQu\u00e9 opinas de que una chica d\u00e9 el primer paso?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even though I\u2019m a girl myself, I have no problems making the first move if I really like the guy and notice that he\u2019s a little bit reserved or shy. I mean, we live in the 21st century when gender stereotyping shouldn\u2019t even exist!<\/p>\n<p>So, if you\u2019re a guy lucky enough to run into a girl like me who doesn\u2019t have a problem with making the first move, then congratulations! But, if you\u2019re not, learning <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/como-conquistar-a-una-chica-y-hacerla-tuya\/\">c\u00f3mo seducir a una chica<\/a> \u00a1el camino correcto es el \u00fanico camino!<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes saber si ella quiere que hagas un movimiento?<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127208 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se miran en la barra de un mostrador\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-looking-at-each-other-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Before you decide to approach a girl and impress her with your skills, it\u2019s advisable that you first learn if she wants you to make a move at all.<\/p>\n<p>Las chicas son seres complejos. A veces, pueden enviarte toneladas de se\u00f1ales contradictorias y dejarte totalmente confundido en el mejor de los casos.<\/p>\n<p>We certainly don\u2019t want that to happen. So, what do you need to do to find out if that one girl actually wants you to approach her?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Debe prestar atenci\u00f3n a estos puntos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-senales-sutiles-quiere-hacer-movimiento\/\">se\u00f1ales sutiles de que quiere que hagas un movimiento<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She\u2019s approachable, warm, and open to you.<\/li>\n<li>Hay muchos toques sutiles.<\/li>\n<li>Mantiene un profundo contacto visual.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If she feels relaxed and has that \u2018happy vibe\u2019 when in your company, this is a great sign. If she\u2019s a little bit flirty with her words and overall behavior, know that she\u2019s totally interested in you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A girl who doesn\u2019t want you to make a move will act like it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ignorar\u00e1 tus mensajes (la mayor\u00eda de las veces) o se esforzar\u00e1 lo m\u00ednimo por responderte. No le interesar\u00e1 conocerte mejor, as\u00ed que no te har\u00e1 preguntas.<\/p>\n<p>These are the things that you need to pay attention to, so make sure to take note. Observe her body language, texting patterns, and all those little things that can say a lot about her intentions, and you\u2019ll be just fine.<\/p>\n<h2>Ligar con una chica no es f\u00edsica cu\u00e1ntica, pero tienes que aprender lo b\u00e1sico.<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127209 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer hablando mientras beben vino en una azotea\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/man-and-woman-talking-while-drinking-wine-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tengo la extra\u00f1a sensaci\u00f3n de que a los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n les gusta hacer que ciertos temas parezcan complejos s\u00f3lo para confundir a los lectores.<\/p>\n<p>They even go one step further and invent new terms that don\u2019t even exist, only to make you feel incapable and dependent on their virtual help.<\/p>\n<p>This article is not about that. It\u2019s not about representing \u2018making the first move\u2019 as something complicated or \u201cunreachable\u201d to regular guys out there.<\/p>\n<p>Desde mi punto de vista femenino, puedo decirte una cosa: <strong>Intentar ligar con una chica es REALMENTE muy sencillo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And if it is not simple, then she\u2019s not worthy of you approaching her. Yup, I just said that, and I\u2019m really proud of that new hypothesis of mine.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que puedes acercarte con \u00e9xito a cualquier mujer, ya sea en la vida real o virtualmente, y todo lo que necesitas es una cosa, y es CONFIANZA (y una conexi\u00f3n a Internet, por supuesto, si eliges esto \u00faltimo).<\/p>\n<p>Now, what does it mean to be confident? No, it doesn\u2019t mean having a perfect body, trendy hairstyle, and a six-figure salary. You can be confident even if you\u2019re broke, have a dad bod, and no hair at all.<\/p>\n<p>Estos son s\u00f3lo factores externos que pueden ayudar, pero no son cruciales a la hora de atraer a las mujeres. As\u00ed que, en lo que tienes que centrarte es:<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que las mujeres encuentran atractivo en ti?<\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127210 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente mirando a un hombre sentados juntos en un restaurante\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es aquello (o aquello) que las mujeres podr\u00edan encontrar atractivo en ti? \u00bfCu\u00e1les son tus aficiones (si las tienes), intereses, rasgos de personalidad?<\/p>\n<p>What are the things that you can offer to her that would add value to her life? (and I don\u2019t mean only financially).<\/p>\n<p>Like every human being on the planet, your set of skills and personality traits are unique. There isn\u2019t another you out there. So, what you need to do is CONVINCE that one girl you like that you are exactly what she needs in her life.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se trata de dar el primer paso, piense en ello como si fuera publicidad. T\u00fa eres tanto el anunciante como el producto que quieres vender. B\u00e1sicamente, te est\u00e1s vendiendo a ti mismo (por raro que suene).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puede uno venderse sin ser demasiado obvio, grosero o prepotente?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, debes tener en cuenta que lo principal que una mujer busca en un hombre es que sea DIFERENTE del resto. \u00bfCrees que puedes serlo o demostr\u00e1rselo? Apuesto a que s\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres causar una buena primera impresi\u00f3n y conquistar a esa chica, haz lo siguiente:<\/p>\n<h3>Intrigarla<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127211 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente usando su smartphone tumbada en el sof\u00e1\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/smiling-woman-using-her-smartphone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re planning on approaching her in the virtual world, then you need to make sure that your profile looks intriguing enough for her to decide to text you back.<\/p>\n<p>To save you the trouble, I\u2019ll tell you what kind of profiles DON\u2019T look interesting at all:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Tener una foto de perfil de su coche.<\/strong> (Yes, we understand that you\u2019re a car lover, but you don\u2019t have to display it everywhere.)<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tener fotos repetitivas de ti mismo.<\/strong> (Si beber con tus colegas es lo \u00fanico que haces, \u00bfhasta qu\u00e9 punto eres interesante?).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Exagerando con las fotos del gimnasio.<\/strong> (Yes, it\u2019s good to know that you take good care of your physical appearance, but what about your personality?)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If I don\u2019t stop myself right here, I\u2019m afraid I never will. So, what you need to pay attention to, both virtually and in the real world is: Don\u2019t be boring or predictable.<\/p>\n<p>Intr\u00edgala siendo todo un caballero o mostrando inter\u00e9s por varias cosas y no s\u00f3lo bebiendo cerveza con tus amigos. En otras palabras:<\/p>\n<h3>DON\u2019T be generic<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127213 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria escuchando a un hombre juntos al aire libre\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/serious-woman-listening-to-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be one of those guys who sends something like this every single time: <em>Hola, \u00bfc\u00f3mo est\u00e1s? \u00bfEn qu\u00e9 andas?<\/em> These sentences scream BORING (especially if you\u2019re overusing them).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Let\u2019s say that you\u2019re approaching a girl on the street.<\/strong> \u00bfQu\u00e9 le dir\u00edas? <em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 tal?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, that\u2019s not a bad idea for starters, but you would have much bigger chances of impressing her if you said something like: <em>\u00bfD\u00f3nde compraste esa pulsera?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re really interested in her bracelet or not. What matters is that you\u2019ve noticed it!<\/p>\n<p>You can pretend that you\u2019re thinking about buying the same bracelet for your mother, sister, or best friend for their birthday, and that\u2019s the reason why you\u2019re asking her in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfRecuerdas lo que dijimos sobre la publicidad? <strong>De este modo, te est\u00e1s vendiendo indirectamente. Captas su atenci\u00f3n, le demuestras lo atento que eres y la impresionas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de lo de la pulsera, puedes preguntarle si quiere ir a tomar algo o algo parecido. Ella nunca sabr\u00e1 que ese era en realidad tu objetivo principal. Los acercamientos indirectos suelen ser los<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/como-pedirle-a-una-chica-que-sea-tu-novia\/\"> las mejores formas de invitar a salir a una chica.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Intenta ser misterioso<\/h3>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-127214 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer hablando en una cafeter\u00eda mientras toman caf\u00e9\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-woman-talking-in-a-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t tell her everything about yourself too soon. Leave her guessing. Don\u2019t be an open book. Instead, focus on listening to her more because, let\u2019s be honest, women LOVE to talk a lot (except me).<\/p>\n<p>You can certainly not go wrong by letting her talk, but don\u2019t be passive either. Ask her some sub-questions, make her laugh.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a1Haz que se sienta bien!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let her know that you want to get to know her better. Don\u2019t be one of those low-effort guys waiting for a girl to do everything. Take the initiative, roll up your sleeves, and win her!<\/p>\n<h2>\u201cLife is a game board. Time is your opponent. If you procrastinate, you will lose the game. You must make a move to be victorious.\u201d \u2013 Napoleon Hill<\/h2>\n<p>So, what are you waiting for? Now that you know the basics of making a move like a boss don\u2019t wait any longer.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 diferente. Ten confianza. Salga victorioso.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>OMG, she\u2019s so hot, smart, and beautiful. She would never notice me even if my picture were stuck on her forehead (wait, that doesn\u2019t even make sense, but okay.) Maybe I should just say a simple hello&#8230; Hmm, maybe playing hard to get is not a bad idea after all. But what if she doesn\u2019t&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":127207,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29640],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127205","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29640,"label":"seducing women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/If-You-Want-To-Make-A-Move-On-A-Girl-You-Need-To-Do-It-The-RIGHT-Way-1-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29640,"name":"seducing women","slug":"seducing-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29640,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing women requires a unique set of skills and mastering lots of dating tips. 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