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<\/p>\nTodo lo que hiciste fue jugar con ella. Todo lo que hiciste fue jugar a empujar y tirar con ella.<\/p>\n
It was this endless game that only you would probably never get tired of. The only problem is you sucked in a girl who didn\u2019t want to become a part of your game.<\/p>\n
S\u00f3lo te quer\u00eda a ti, pero era imposible conseguirte sin todo el equipaje que llevabas contigo.<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t enter this \u2018relationship\u2019 or whatever you choose to call it now so you\u2019d be able to project your insecurities onto her.<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t hop on that ride so you could keep her just close enough to know you existed, but always at arm’s length so she never got too close.<\/p>\n
Whenever you saw things were getting serious, you\u2019d pull back. <\/b><\/p>\n
Nunca quisiste entregarte por completo. Nunca quisiste permitirte sentir todo lo que una relaci\u00f3n conlleva.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
It seemed as if you were only there for the good parts and small talk, but once things would get heated, once you actually needed to involve true emotions, you\u2019d bail.<\/p>\n
Siempre has tenido la costumbre de desaparecer en el momento menos oportuno.<\/p>\n
The moment it appeared to her that you would actually come forward with how you truly felt, she\u2019d end up getting zero response from you in days.<\/p>\n
Como si hubieras desaparecido de la faz de la tierra.<\/p>\n
Whenever she got tired of your games or waiting for you, you\u2019d pull her back and start it all over again. <\/b><\/p>\n
The moment you saw her doubting you or questioning your \u2018relationship\u2019, you\u2019d pull her back into your little game that usually led her only to a dead end.<\/p>\n
You\u2019d start with your sweet talk once again and you\u2019d start appearing in front of her whenever you had the chance.<\/p>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-wiping-his-tears-of-e1590489515880.jpg\")
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You\u2019d start doing everything just to make sure she got used to having you around one more time and when things eventually got too heated, you\u2019d once again perform your good old trick called \u2018pull away while you still can\u2019.<\/p>\n
You\u2019d leave her wondering what she did wrong this time.<\/p>\n
Sab\u00edas que nunca podr\u00eda intentarlo con nadie m\u00e1s mientras t\u00fa siguieras en el juego. <\/b><\/p>\n
Necesitaba un cierre o algo que le dijera que tu historia hab\u00eda terminado.<\/p>\n
But you never gave her any of that. You got her hooked and that\u2019s how you always wanted to keep her. <\/p>\n
You knew she couldn\u2019t move on until someone said out loud that everything you had was over.<\/p>\n
Pero ella nunca pudo ser esa persona, no porque fuera demasiado d\u00e9bil, sino porque nunca supo a qu\u00e9 atenerse contigo.<\/p>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-with-a-cap-in-the-fog-e1590489455550.jpg\")
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You never had the chance to truly try and that\u2019s what kept her for so long.<\/p>\n
Creaste un cliffhanger, una tensi\u00f3n que le dec\u00eda que le esperaban cosas mejores. Pero esos momentos nunca llegaron porque nunca estuviste preparado para comprometerte de verdad con ella.<\/p>\n
S\u00f3lo necesitabas que pensara as\u00ed porque t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n la necesitabas.<\/p>\n
Ella era tu refugio seguro. Era la \u00fanica que siempre estaba ah\u00ed para ti, pasara lo que pasara.<\/p>\n
Sab\u00edas que pod\u00edas contar con ella, d\u00eda y noche. Era tu persona, la que todo el mundo espera encontrar a lo largo de su vida.<\/p>\n
Pero t\u00fa ten\u00edas demasiado miedo para intensificar tu juego, as\u00ed que la arrastraste al torbellino de tu toxicidad.<\/p>\n
You know, you might be the bigger player here, but you\u2019re missing something.<\/p>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-near-the-fence-e1590489434731.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
You\u2019re missing the fact that as good as you are at this push and pull game, nothing you do will stop her once she decides to cut all strings with you.<\/p>\n
And although this might seem unrealistic to you, she\u2019ll do it.<\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer to see you for who you truly are.<\/p>\n
She\u2019ll see that you\u2019re only a player full of promises you never intend to keep.<\/p>\n
Que s\u00f3lo te quedas cuando las cosas no van en serio, pero que huyes cada vez que los sentimientos reales empiezan a aflorar.<\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer to see she deserves more than you.<\/b><\/p>\n
![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/stressed-man-sitting-on-couch-e1590489412958.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
She deserves more than a guy who doesn\u2019t know what he wants, more than someone who\u2019s afraid of real feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n
It won\u2019t take her much longer before she realizes that there will be someone who\u2019ll give her everything she deserves and everything you\u2019ve been unwilling to give her.<\/p>\n
When she realizes there is someone else who\u2019s going to make a true effort and who\u2019s going to be there for her the same as she was for you.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t bother coming back once she realizes you are just an immature boy who’s too scared to commit.<\/p>\n
Because by the time you realize what you\u2019ve pushed away, all your efforts to pull her back will be in vain.<\/p>\n
She will have found someone who\u2019ll appreciate her the way you never knew.<\/p>\n
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