{"id":127457,"date":"2021-03-12T22:15:25","date_gmt":"2021-03-12T22:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127457"},"modified":"2022-03-02T23:01:55","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T23:01:55","slug":"el-amor-verdadero-es-un-reto-pero-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-verdadero-es-un-reto-pero-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-el\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor verdadero es dif\u00edcil, pero merece la pena luchar y esperar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No, el amor verdadero no llamar\u00e1 a tu puerta en mitad de la noche para despertarte de un mal sue\u00f1o. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-pasos-para-manifestar-el-amor-con-una-persona-especifica-utilizando-la-ley-de-la-atraccion\/\">Amor verdadero<\/a> will also not come to you when you\u2019re unprepared or not ready to experience it.<\/p>\n<p>When true love comes, chances are you will not recognize it at first. You will think that it\u2019s just another romance that is probably bound to fail in a couple of months.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>En un momento dado, pensar\u00e1s en dejarlo, y ser\u00e1 entonces cuando descubras que, durante todo ese tiempo, se trataba de amor verdadero.<\/p>\n<p><b>Misterioso. Inspirador. Potente. Transformador.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>El amor verdadero es todo eso (y m\u00e1s), por eso merece la pena luchar y esperar.<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t let your past romantic endeavors discourage you!<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-127459 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre besa a una mujer en la mejilla\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-kisses-a-woman-on-the-cheek-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m ashamed to say how many times I\u2019ve repeated this one sentence to myself: <b>Nunca conocer\u00e9 a la \u00fanica para m\u00ed; esa famosa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-unicornio\/\">hombre unicornio<\/a> que me har\u00e1 olvidar todos y cada uno de los romances de mi pasado porque, de repente, se volver\u00e1n insignificantes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sol\u00eda pensar que el amor verdadero s\u00f3lo exist\u00eda en las pel\u00edculas rom\u00e1nticas cursis creadas para que la gente se sintiera un poco mejor consigo misma y con sus fracasos amorosos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve met men who were legit players, commitment-phobes, indecisive men, you name it. I\u2019ve been taken for granted, I\u2019ve been cheated on, and I\u2019ve been <b>decepcionado en el amor<\/b> .&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The last three words of the previous sentence are key. How can you even be disappointed in something that you haven\u2019t even experienced?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019ve realized that the main reason why people lose hope in true love is that they compare it to their previous romantic endeavors.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Trust me, everything you\u2019ve experienced so far has nothing to do with real love. Don\u2019t allow your past romantic endeavors to influence your perspective on love.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make assumptions about something you have yet to experience. Also, I\u2019m not saying that it will be easy.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/true-love\/finding-the-one\/amor-verdadero-trabajo-duro\/\"> El verdadero amor es un trabajo duro<\/a>, but it\u2019s TOTALLY worth it!<\/h3>\n<p>Sol\u00eda pensar en el concepto de amor verdadero como algo que sucede de repente, te barre de los pies, cura todas tus heridas y restaura la fe en la humanidad.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve realized that I\u2019ve watched one too many romantic movies with \u201chappily ever afters,\u201d where the representation of love is anything but realistic.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Now that I can proudly say I\u2019ve experienced (and am still experiencing) the magic of real love, I can tell you one thing: <b>True love is not easy. It is hard work, but it\u2019s totally worth it!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There will be times when you will think that there\u2019s no point in pursuing it any longer. You will be challenged in so many ways that you\u2019ll have to pinch yourself to make sure that you\u2019re not in a poorly directed comedy movie.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll go through so many ups and downs, question your beliefs, change your perspective, and so on. Do you know why?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Porque el verdadero amor hace todo eso. Es a la vez divino, desafiante y edificante. Lo experimentas por una raz\u00f3n, y esa raz\u00f3n est\u00e1 m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de ti.<\/p>\n<h2>El amor verdadero es el m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de todos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-127460 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer abrazados\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/a-man-and-a-woman-embracing-each-other-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto puede sonar un poco contradictorio para muchos de ustedes, pero les aseguro que es la verdad. Una vez que experimentes el amor incondicional con la persona adecuada para ti, pasar\u00e1s por una serie de obst\u00e1culos y desaf\u00edos tanto personales como en tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de explicarte por qu\u00e9, perm\u00edteme que te ponga un ejemplo. Piense en <b>Elizabeth Bennet y el Sr. Darcy en <\/b><b><i>Orgullo y prejuicio<\/i><\/b><b>Allie y Noah de <\/b><b><i>El cuaderno<\/i><\/b><b>,<\/b> <b>o Peeta y Katniss de <\/b><b><i>Los Juegos del Hambre.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Aunque he dicho que las pel\u00edculas rom\u00e1nticas no tienen nada que ver con la verdadera representaci\u00f3n del amor real, algunas s\u00ed (hasta cierto punto, claro). <b>Todas las pel\u00edculas mencionadas ten\u00edan importantes giros argumentales, y los amantes se enfrentaron a montones de desaf\u00edos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, ser\u00eda poco realista afirmar que cada gran<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-es-complicado\/\"> el amor en el mundo real es un reto extra<\/a>. Algunas de ellas son m\u00e1s exigentes, mientras que otras lo son menos. La cuesti\u00f3n es: <b>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9?&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Hay dos razones principales por las que este amor es el m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de todos:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">Estas conexiones tan profundas est\u00e1n llenas de emociones intensas<\/h3>\n<p>El amor verdadero es extremadamente apasionado en todos los aspectos y sentidos. Cuando conectas con otra persona a un nivel tan profundo, empiezas a experimentar emociones intensas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Eso significa que hasta las cosas m\u00e1s insignificantes pueden convertirse en furiosas llamas. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque te preocupas demasiado. Sientes con demasiada intensidad.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>True love is the most challenging of all because it\u2019s addictive, intense, and also demanding. <\/b> Cuanto m\u00e1s se conozcan, m\u00e1s conectados estar\u00e1n.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s so easy to get addicted to this euphoric feeling of something bigger than you. Something too divine and impossible to be described with words.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"numbered-headline\">El papel de tu alma gemela es ayudarte a crecer<\/h3>\n<p>True love happens for a reason. There\u2019s a reason why you met that one special person at that one period in your life. Your soulmate\u2019s entrance into your life was not random. It happened because you\u2019re ready to grow, and they are there to help you with that.<\/p>\n<p><b>Your soulmate\u2019s role is to push you to your limits, challenge your perspectives, improve your way of thinking, and help you become who you\u2019re meant to be.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-eso-merece-la-pena-luchar-por-el-amor-verdadero\/\"> That\u2019s why true love is worth fighting for<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Cuando experimentes el amor verdadero, entrar\u00e1s en contacto con tu verdadero yo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-127461 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"Primer plano de una hermosa pareja sonriente abraz\u00e1ndose en la playa.\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Close-up-of-a-smiling-beautiful-young-couple-embracing-while-standing-at-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por algo ser\u00e1s desafiado y provocado. Si tuviera que elegir el mejor sin\u00f3nimo del amor verdadero, ser\u00eda EVOLUCIONAR.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, love is not only about that. It consists of all those cozy moments we\u2019ve dreamed of experiencing with our loved one such as:<\/p>\n<p><i> &nbsp;Looking deeply into their eyes and knowing what they\u2019re thinking even without asking them.&nbsp; <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Pillow fights in the morning because someone has to get up first, and you don\u2019t want to be that person.&nbsp; <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Conversaciones profundas y significativas que invocar\u00e1n a Arist\u00f3teles, que estuvo escondido dentro de ti todo este tiempo.&nbsp; <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Long cuddling sessions, heartfelt romantic gifts, you name it\u2026 <\/i><\/p>\n<p>El amor verdadero es todo eso (y m\u00e1s), \u00a1y por eso merece la pena luchar y esperar!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It is about YOU and THEM getting in touch with your true selves. It\u2019s about motivating each other to do your best every day, sharing your deepest thoughts, contradicting each other, laughing together&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>True love is worth fighting and waiting for because it\u2019s the only way to experience true happiness.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you haven\u2019t experienced such divine love yet, let these <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/citas-que-demuestran-que-merece-la-pena-esperar-por-amor-2\/\"> waiting for love quotes <\/a> le dan una idea de la complejidad y la belleza del amor verdadero:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i> \u201cThe course of true love never did run smooth.\u201d \u2013 William Shakespeare <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> \u201cYou must learn to wait for the fulfillment of your visions.\u201d \u2013 Lailah Gifty Akita <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> \u201cLove is everything it\u2019s cracked up to be. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.\u201d \u2013 Erica Jong <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> \u201cWe must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.\u201d \u2013 Joseph Campbell <\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> \u201cWhatever we are waiting for \u2014 peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness of simple abundance \u2014 it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive it with an open and grateful heart.\u201d \u2013 Sarah Ban Breathnach <\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No, true love will not knock on your door in the middle of the night and wake you up from a bad dream. True love will also not come to you when you\u2019re unprepared or not ready to experience it. When true love comes, chances are you will not recognize it at first. You will&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":127458,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-127457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/True-Love-Is-Challenging-But-Its-Worth-Fighting-And-Waiting-For-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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