{"id":12759,"date":"2020-05-19T11:46:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-19T11:46:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12759"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:08:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:08:19","slug":"carta-abierta-persona-ama-siguiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-abierta-persona-ama-siguiente\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta abierta a la persona que la ama Siguiente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Querido quien la quiera despu\u00e9s,<\/p>\n<p>Antes de enamorarla, tienes que saber algunas cosas. Y tambi\u00e9n tienes que estar preparado para hacer algunas cosas. Tambi\u00e9n tienes que prepararte para algunas cosas, ya que ella no es como las dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/why-im-not-like-other-girls-is-harmful\" rel=\"noopener\">She\u2019s not like other girls<\/a> and loving her won\u2019t be like anything you\u2019ve experienced so far. Someone needs to prepare you for this\u2014it might as well be me.<\/p>\n<p>See, this girl you want, she\u2019s been through a lot in her life. She\u2019s been bruised too many times. She\u2019s been taken for granted. She\u2019s been broken as well.<\/p>\n<p>Sigui\u00f3 esforz\u00e1ndose al m\u00e1ximo cada vez que lo intentaba, con la esperanza de que esta vez las cosas salieran bien. Pero cada vez sufr\u00eda un nuevo desenga\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97027\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada con sudadera sentada en las escaleras al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-woman-in-sweatshirt-sitting-on-stairs-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Personas que deber\u00edan haberla amado la quebraron. La gente que deber\u00eda haber estado ah\u00ed la abandon\u00f3. Los que deber\u00edan haber estado ah\u00ed eligieron no hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s been disappointed one too many times.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nunca esper\u00f3 de la gente cosas extraordinarias. S\u00f3lo esperaba lo que se merec\u00eda. En su vida, esperaba recibir al menos tanto como daba. Pero al parecer, eso era mucho pedir.<\/p>\n<p>One would think that after too many disappointments she\u2019d start losing hope in everything. But she didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>She never allowed herself to change just because some people didn\u2019t bother to love her right. Instead, she always held on the hope that one day, someone will know. I pray you\u2019ll be that someone to her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s guarded now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sol\u00eda llevar el coraz\u00f3n en la manga. Pero su pasado le ense\u00f1\u00f3 a no hacerlo m\u00e1s. Le ense\u00f1\u00f3 que <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/liane-clores\/2015\/02\/the-kind-of-love-that-every-person-deserves\/\" rel=\"noopener\">no <\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/liane-clores\/2015\/02\/the-kind-of-love-that-every-person-deserves\/\" rel=\"noopener\">todos merecen su amor<\/a> y que no todo el mundo la querr\u00e1 s\u00f3lo porque ella les entregue su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97028\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer con concha blanca al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-white-shell-outdoors-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que en lugar de entregar su coraz\u00f3n a quienes lo deseaban, decidi\u00f3 d\u00e1rselo a quienes realmente lo merec\u00edan.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s been let down so many times.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Others made promises that they had no intentions of keeping. They just wanted to use her kindness and made her believe that they\u2019re willing to do everything for her like she was willing to do for them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But even that didn\u2019t change her.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nunca dej\u00f3 de ser amable o cari\u00f1osa. Nunca dej\u00f3 de ser quien es. Tiene un coraz\u00f3n m\u00e1s grande que el espacio para \u00e9l y nada malo que le haya pasado podr\u00eda convertirla en alguien nuevo.<\/p>\n<p>She knew that everything she\u2019s been through in her life was a lesson and she always watches for the signs carefully, trying to read what the universe is trying to teach her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97029\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer con camisa de cuadros rojos y negros sentada en un acantilado con sombrero a su lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Woman-wearing-red-and-black-gingham-shirt-sitting-on-cliff-with-hat-at-his-side-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She never gave up on love or on loving. She never got tired of the love she felt deep within and she\u2019s been walking on this Earth hoping to find someone who\u2019s going to love her right.<\/p>\n<p>Pero jur\u00f3 no dar su amor as\u00ed como as\u00ed. Jur\u00f3 guardarlo para quien realmente mereciera recibirlo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ella ama a la derecha.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In her loving, there is no such thing as half-assed love. Whenever she loves, she gives it all in. She doesn\u2019t hold back and she\u2019s always honest. With her, you\u2019ll always know where you stand.<\/p>\n<p>Con ella, el amor adquiere un significado totalmente nuevo y conseguir su amor te har\u00e1 sentir que todos los amores anteriores no eran verdaderos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero llegar all\u00ed con ella es dif\u00edcil.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not going to be easy. You need to understand that you won\u2019t only need to prove your worth, but you\u2019ll also need to fight her past. She\u2019s been through much and she just wants to stop being so naive.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97030\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"pareja preocupada mir\u00e1ndose en una cafeter\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Levant\u00f3 sus muros para que s\u00f3lo los derribaran quienes de verdad quisieran intentarlo con ella.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t afraid of pain or taking another hit for love, but this time it needs to be right. It needs to be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/10-undeniable-signs-hes-truly-madly-deeply-love\/\">amor verdadero<\/a>. Esta vez tiene que salir bien.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y aunque no sea f\u00e1cil, merecer\u00e1 la pena.<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;So it&#8217;s not gonna be easy. It&#8217;s going to be really hard; we&#8217;re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me&#8230;every day.&#8221; -Nicholas Sparks<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Perhaps you\u2019ll need to try harder than you\u2019ve ever tried. Perhaps you\u2019ll want to give up on winning her over at times. But don\u2019t do it. You\u2019ll be glad you stuck by her side later.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97031\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer tristes abrazados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-and-woman-hugging-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because if you stay and choose to fit, if you choose to be the one to knock her walls down and if you show her you\u2019ll be there even in the darkest days, she\u2019ll also choose to love you.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll choose to let go and to stop seeing you through the prism of those who hurt her before.<\/p>\n<p>And once she does that, she\u2019ll accept you the way you are. She\u2019ll choose to love you unconditionally and she\u2019ll choose to make you feel like you\u2019re the only man in this world.<\/p>\n<p>Once she lets go, you\u2019ll see what it means to have a good girl fall for you. You\u2019ll see how it feels to be accepted completely by another human being and you\u2019ll see what it feels to be loved just the way you are. And you\u2019ll never want to lose that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-97026 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Carta abierta a la persona que la ama Siguiente\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Whoever loves her next, Before you make her fall for you, you need to know a few things. And you need to be ready to do a few things as well. You also need to prepare yourself for some things since she is not like others. She\u2019s not like other girls and loving her&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97025,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Person-Who-Loves-Her-Next.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12759","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12759"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12759\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}