{"id":127710,"date":"2021-03-20T00:47:51","date_gmt":"2021-03-20T00:47:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=127710"},"modified":"2022-03-28T23:26:58","modified_gmt":"2022-03-28T23:26:58","slug":"su-lenguaje-corporal-dice-de-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/su-lenguaje-corporal-dice-de-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que dice de \u00e9l su lenguaje corporal"},"content":{"rendered":"

I used to be a woman who solely relied on a man\u2019s words. If a man said that he genuinely liked me, I wouldn\u2019t question it. If he said those three words, I wouldn\u2019t question his \u201cultimate affection\u201d.<\/p>\n

Perhaps, I didn\u2019t want to complicate things by entering an overthinking realm, so I subconsciously decided to just go with the flow and listen to their words instead of paying attention to their actions and, most importantly, their BODY LANGUAGE.<\/p>\n

He puesto en may\u00fasculas los t\u00e9rminos <\/b>lenguaje corporal<\/i><\/b> para acentuar su importancia, a menudo subestimada.<\/b> I\u2019ve learned this the hard way.<\/p>\n

If I had paid more attention to what their bodies were telling me, I wouldn\u2019t have experienced so many plot twists, the disappointment of fleeting romances, and unnecessary suffering due to modern dating.<\/p>\n

Suerte la m\u00eda que s\u00e9 convertir mis errores en valiosas lecciones de vida e historias que ayudar\u00e1n a otros (a ti) a no pasar por lo mismo.<\/p>\n

\u201cBody language is more powerful than words.\u201d \u2013 Ricky Gervais<\/h2>\n

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A menudo olvidamos que el lenguaje corporal tambi\u00e9n forma parte de nuestra comunicaci\u00f3n y de nuestra manera de intercambiar pensamientos y sentimientos. Nuestras expresiones faciales pueden decir mucho sobre c\u00f3mo nos sentimos en un momento determinado sin necesidad de decir una sola palabra.<\/p>\n

Our body movements can tell others if we\u2019re feeling uncomfortable, disappointed, vulnerable, happy, in love, or not in love.<\/p>\n

\u201cBody language is a very powerful tool. We had body language before we had speech, and apparently, 80% of what you understand in a conversation is read through the body, not the words.\u201d <\/b>\u2013 <\/b>Deborah Bull<\/b><\/p>\n

The funny thing is that we often don\u2019t pay attention to other people\u2019s body movements, even though they make up 80% of what we understand in conversations.<\/p>\n

Tal vez deber\u00eda reformular esto de la siguiente manera:<\/p>\n

We either don\u2019t know what a certain body language sign says about other people\u2019s feelings and intentions or we subconsciously decide to ignore it and rely on other communication aspects such as words.<\/b><\/p>\n

Y as\u00ed es como, se\u00f1oras m\u00edas, acabamos pensando m\u00e1s de la cuenta: He seemed a little bit reserved yesterday, but he said that he liked me a few days ago. When we\u2019re together, he barely ever looks me in the eyes, but he texts me every day how much he cares about me. <\/i><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re really into that one guy, chances are you will unwittingly decide to ignore all of his negative body language signs. By doing that, you end up living in an illusion, convincing yourself that everything is going smoothly.<\/p>\n

Y entonces, al cabo de un tiempo, te das cuenta de que te enga\u00f1aste a ti misma haci\u00e9ndote creer que ese chico se preocupaba de verdad por ti cuando, en realidad, sent\u00edas exactamente lo contrario. Su lenguaje corporal trataba desesperadamente de dec\u00edrtelo, pero t\u00fa te negabas a reconocerlo.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: Dice que te quiere, pero as\u00ed sabr\u00e1s si lo dice en serio<\/a><\/p>\n

Si le gustas de verdad, su lenguaje corporal te lo confirmar\u00e1.<\/h2>\n

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Cuando a un chico le gustas de verdad y te encuentra atractiva, o bien:<\/p>\n

a) Se lo dice abierta y honestamente lo antes posible.<\/p>\n

b) Te lo dice al cabo de un tiempo.<\/p>\n

c) DOESN\u2019T tell you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Lord knows that those guys under the a) category are in the minority. The only time a guy would say exactly what he means and how he feels at the most reasonable time possible is when he knows exactly what he wants and when he\u2019s not afraid of expressing his feelings.<\/p>\n

The chances for that to happen are extremely rare, if not non-existent. That\u2019s why we have the second category of guys who decide to tell you how they feel about you after some time, which is, in a way, okay.<\/p>\n

La categor\u00eda m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil de todas es la \u00faltima. <\/b> When a guy doesn\u2019t tell you anything about how he feels about you, there\u2019s nothing you can do about it but rely on the oldest \u201cromance method\u201d called overthinking.<\/p>\n

You can waste tons of your time trying to figure out what exactly is going on in his head and how you can help him open up to you. There\u2019s nothing worse in the universe than falling for someone who is obviously not on the same page as you.<\/p>\n

Well, you can either do all that OR you can pay attention to what his body language says about him. When his words fail to express his feelings, his body certainly won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed algunas de las m\u00e1s evidentes se\u00f1ales del lenguaje corporal de que le gustas en secreto<\/a>:<\/h3>\n