{"id":12778,"date":"2020-05-26T13:47:43","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T13:47:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12778"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:21:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:21:58","slug":"15-senales-de-que-tienes-una-relacion-queerplatonica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-senales-de-que-tienes-una-relacion-queerplatonica\/","title":{"rendered":"15 se\u00f1ales de que tienes una relaci\u00f3n queerplat\u00f3nica"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cA queerplatonic (or quasiplatonic – QPP) relationship is a relationship that is not romantic but involves a close emotional connection (platonic) beyond what most people consider friendship.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Summarized, a queerplatonic relationship (QPR) is an intimate and intense relationship that doesn\u2019t have characteristics of either a friendship or a romantic relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Es uno de los v\u00ednculos m\u00e1s especiales y fuertes que se pueden experimentar en la vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Such a relationship is asexual but it also breaks the conventions of \u2018s\u00f3lo amigos<\/span><\/a>\u2019 and even if there was the possibility of sensual tension between the two, neither would ever act on it because it just seems wrong.<\/p>\n

Being in a queerplatonic relationship means being with someone who completes you on so many levels (that you didn\u2019t know even existed), which is simply incomparable with what you might have shared so far with your romantic partner in a romantic type of relationship.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo es una relaci\u00f3n queerplat\u00f3nica?<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

There are only a few words which can explain the feeling after you enter a queerplatonic partnership and those are…<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ve known each other for years and you can\u2019t imagine your life without your queerplatonic partner!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Son como una especie de alma gemela para ti, una llama gemela asexual, y probablemente nunca las mirar\u00edas de forma apasionada porque vuestra relaci\u00f3n es mucho m\u00e1s que eso.<\/p>\n

Both of you have sworn an emotional commitment and platonic love to one another. You’re best friends with non-romantic intentions.<\/p>\n

You understand each other\u2019s fears and emotions and sometimes you know what they are thinking without even asking them. You’ve formed a perfect queerplatonic partnership.<\/p>\n

While to outsiders, a queerplatonic relationship might seem confusing (because people have this tendency to always believe that there\u2019s something more romantic going on), this doesn\u2019t mean that you should immediately give up on this special connection you have with each other.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If you choose to take part in romantic or non-romantic relationships, that’s your decision and no one else’s.<\/p>\n

We’re living in the 21st century and every person has the right to make a choice of their own, so why should you make excuses for having an aromantic relationship which is both romantic and aromantic at the same time?<\/p>\n

I know, it sounds pretty confusing but it’s real.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDependen las relaciones queerplat\u00f3nicas de la orientaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Las relaciones queerplat\u00f3nicas, tambi\u00e9n conocidas como cuasiplat\u00f3nicas, no tienen l\u00edmites ni restricciones.<\/p>\n

Those kinds of relationships don’t look at sexual orientation and they don’t respect any so-called romantic norms. These relationships are spontaneous and pure-hearted.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico importante es la presencia de una conexi\u00f3n emocional y afecto f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Queerplatonic relationships don’t depend on polygamy or monogamy either, which brings us to the mention of queerplatonic marriage.<\/p>\n

Regardless of whether a marriage is in the form of an intimate relationship or it’s an asexual community, these people are perfectly capable to raise children and form a healthy community.<\/p>\n

A healthy marriage doesn’t depend on romantic attraction, cuddling, holding hands or kissing in public.<\/p>\n

Al final, el matrimonio se basa en la confianza mutua, la comunicaci\u00f3n y el respeto. Imagina estar casado con una persona que tiene todas las  cualidades de un <\/span>mejor amigo<\/span>.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Remember that sharing a queerplatonic relationship with someone is a truly rare and amazing thing to experience and if you\u2019re wondering if you\u2019re in one now, check the following 15 signs that your friend or bestie is so much more than that!<\/p>\n

15 definite signs you’re in a queerplatonic relationship<\/em> <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re excited about spending time with them<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t think of a single time you said yes to their plans and didn\u2019t feel like it.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t feel like clubbing, you\u2019re still excited about spending time with them because you just know that your day will get so much better the moment you see them.<\/p>\n

When we talk about queerplatonic relationships, you don’t need romantic love to be able to feel the excitement before meeting the person you like.<\/p>\n

Because of your special bond, you even make sure to make time especially for them and if there isn\u2019t any time, you cancel other plans for them.<\/p>\n

A menudo te preguntas si fue demasiado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re together, everything feels so natural and normal.<\/p>\n

 <\/span>Compartes tus pensamientos m\u00e1s profundos<\/span><\/a> y miedos, incluso en las primeras etapas de la amistad, porque simplemente se siente bien.<\/p>\n

When you’re with your person, you have a feeling that you’ve found a life partner regardless of whether you are a romantic couple or not.<\/p>\n

But once you\u2019re on your own, you wonder if that was a little bit too much to share.<\/p>\n

Te entienden cuando nadie m\u00e1s lo hace<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

De todos los tipos de relaci\u00f3n, \u00e9ste es el que tiene m\u00e1s comprensi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

When everyone else is looking at you like you\u2019re crazy, they seem to get you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re so connected that there are no boundaries between the two of you and sometimes it feels like you can read each other\u2019s minds.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no awkward silence \u2013 ever<\/h2>\n

\"feliz<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you can spend hours talking and the moment you separate, you remember something you forgot to tell them.<\/p>\n

You have so much in common and you share so many things you\u2019re passionate about that you can discuss them for ages.<\/p>\n

And you feel so comfortable with each other that it just feels good to tell them everything that\u2019s on your mind, no matter how stupid, scary or messed up it sounds.<\/p>\n

El silencio total o la falta de palabras no es un problema en esta comunidad arom\u00e1tica porque nunca se siente ese silencio inc\u00f3modo.<\/p>\n

It’s impossible to feel it when you’re with someone you’d trust your life with.<\/p>\n

They get you and you\u2019re not afraid to speak your mind because you know they won’t judge you.<\/p>\n

You complete each other\u2019s sentences<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Sometimes it freaks you out and sometimes it just feels amazing to have someone who\u2019s always on the same page with you.<\/p>\n

They know exactly what you mean at all times and you even find yourself finishing each other\u2019s sentences.<\/p>\n

Para los de fuera, parece como si hubierais desarrollado vuestro propio lenguaje, ya que habl\u00e1is r\u00e1pido y sin m\u00e1s explicaciones porque simplemente sab\u00e9is lo que el otro est\u00e1 pensando en ese momento.<\/p>\n

Espero que ahora entiendas que la asexualidad y las relaciones plat\u00f3nicas tambi\u00e9n pueden crear relaciones significativas.<\/p>\n

It’s not all about getting into bed with somene and physical contact.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s slight jealousy when they\u2019re talking about another friend<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing more painful for a queerplatonic relationship than a third person.<\/p>\n

Ese es el punto m\u00e1s vulnerable de toda relaci\u00f3n, incluida \u00e9sta.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not like you don\u2019t want them to have any other friends besides you, it\u2019s just that you don\u2019t want them to talk about them in front of you.<\/p>\n

Te sientes especial y cuando mencionan a otra persona, esa sensaci\u00f3n desaparece por un tiempo.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t worry, this one goes both ways. They\u2019re celoso cuando mencionas a otra persona<\/span><\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

After all, a small dose of jealousy hasn’t harmed anyone so far.<\/p>\n

Con ellos te sientes completo<\/h2>\n

\"bonita<\/p>\n

Buscamos toda la vida a ese alguien que nos complete, a ese alguien que nos haga sentir como la otra mitad de nosotros mismos.<\/p>\n

And you can feel just that with them, in a way you can\u2019t even feel with your own significant other.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not a sign that your relationship with your partner is not good enough or that there\u2019s something wrong with it.<\/p>\n

Consid\u00e9relo una bendici\u00f3n porque ha encontrado algo que muchos de nosotros seguimos buscando.<\/p>\n

Otras personas expresan sus sospechas sobre su relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

They either tell you that it\u2019s unhealthy to be that close to someone or that there\u2019s something more going on than friendship.<\/p>\n

They may call you out for having a crush on each other or for \u2018hiding your true emotions\u2019.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s because most people don\u2019t understand the kind of bond you share, simply because of its rarity.<\/p>\n

Sigue un consejo y simplemente ignora lo que te dice todo el mundo y d\u00e9jate llevar por tus instintos. Si quieres abrazarte, hazlo.<\/p>\n

Si s\u00f3lo quieres hablar, entonces habla. Haz lo que te dicte el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Cuando ves su nombre en la pantalla, te da v\u00e9rtigo...<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

You feel like a little schoolgirl when you see that they texted you or they\u2019re calling you.<\/p>\n

You are eager to see what news they have to share with you, whether it\u2019s maybe something new you can do together or something new that happened to them since the last time you talked (and that was like, minutes ago).<\/p>\n

It\u2019s almost like you have a crush but then it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

They already know how you feel, so there\u2019s no need for you to explain<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

En lugar de buscar las palabras adecuadas, la mejor manera de expresar lo que sientes, ellos ya lo saben.<\/p>\n

Se siente tan bien tener a alguien que sabe c\u00f3mo te sientes, sin siquiera decir una sola palabra.<\/p>\n

And even when you\u2019re confused and you\u2019re not sure how you feel about something, when they put it into words, it makes sense instantly.<\/p>\n

Everything seems better when you\u2019re with them<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Everything seems less scary and you feel like you can conquer the world when you\u2019re together.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re down, they pull you up. When you\u2019re happy, they\u2019re happy with you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need expensive restaurants, clubs or pints of ice cream. You don’t need vacations or expensive trips.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo necesitas a tu mejor amiga para que todo sea mejor y simplemente est\u00e9 a tu lado.<\/p>\n

When something happens, they\u2019re the first person who comes to mind<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s a bad or good thing, they\u2019re the first person you think of when something happens to you.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter whether it’s good or bad, you just want them nearby to share the news.<\/p>\n

If they\u2019re not there, you\u2019re constantly thinking about how they would have enjoyed it, how you wished they were there.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re so close that you simply know how they think and what things they enjoy.<\/p>\n

Apodos raros<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Las relaciones queerplat\u00f3nicas se basan en apodos raros que os pon\u00e9is mutuamente.<\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re still in high school or in your late 40s, it\u2019s a way to tell everyone \u2018we\u2019re together\u2019.<\/p>\n

Those nicknames mean something to both of you but to everyone else they\u2019re just, well, weird.<\/p>\n

For example, you’ve probably called each other a zucchini or a squish. Trust me, it gets even weirder.<\/p>\n

Te vistes igual sin siquiera intentarlo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like you read each other\u2019s minds, as you dress alike without even telling each other what you\u2019re going to wear.<\/p>\n

Compart\u00eds el mismo gusto por la ropa, la m\u00fasica y b\u00e1sicamente todo lo dem\u00e1s, que era s\u00f3lo cuesti\u00f3n de tiempo que empezarais a vestir igual.<\/p>\n

Os gust\u00e1is tanto que inconscientemente os compr\u00e1is cosas que os recuerdan a ellos, lo que os lleva a tener casi exactamente el mismo vestuario el uno que el otro.<\/p>\n

Saben mejor que t\u00fa lo que necesitas<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s walking around all day, clubbing all night or simply sharing silence, they know what you need at that moment, even when you don\u2019t know it yourself.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it just feels so good to be in a queerplatonic relationship because you make each other happy so naturally and without any fuss.<\/p>\n

Os hac\u00e9is felices mutuamente porque eso tambi\u00e9n os hace felices a vosotros.<\/p>\n

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