{"id":12795,"date":"2020-06-19T14:44:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T14:44:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12795"},"modified":"2022-01-11T00:33:32","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T00:33:32","slug":"15-caracteristicas-de-los-hombres-emocionalmente-inasequibles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-caracteristicas-de-los-hombres-emocionalmente-inasequibles\/","title":{"rendered":"15 caracter\u00edsticas de los hombres emocionalmente indisponibles"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever been in a relationship with someone evasive, who constantly makes excuses or simply never talks about their feelings, you know the pain of loving someone emotionally unavailable.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Algunos de ellos utilizan la cr\u00edtica, la manipulaci\u00f3n o la ira para crear una distancia entre vosotros dos, lo que te lleva a estar roto, deprimido o rechazado.<\/p>\n

A menudo hablamos de hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles<\/a>pero, por desgracia, cada vez m\u00e1s cada vez m\u00e1s mujeres tambi\u00e9n se desvinculan emocionalmente<\/a>, whether it\u2019s because of a past abusive relationship with their parents, a significant other or a friend.<\/p>\n

There are two types of unavailability\u2014there\u2019s the chronic one and the temporary one.<\/p>\n

La indisponibilidad cr\u00f3nica est\u00e1 causada por una enfermedad mental, una adicci\u00f3n o una infancia problem\u00e1tica, mientras que la temporal procede de hacer de algo una prioridad mayor que una relaci\u00f3n. Puede ser tu carrera, tu libertad, tu educaci\u00f3n o tu salud.<\/p>\n

Algunas personas simplemente tienen miedo de enamorarse y que les vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o, por lo que se vuelven emocionalmente inaccesibles.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s almost impossible to tell if it\u2019s something temporary that can be solved with time, or if it\u2019s chronic.<\/p>\n

If you have found yourself in a relationship where you feel like a constant giver, like you\u2019re screaming at the wall and no matter what you do, you just can\u2019t get through, you could be in a relationship con un hombre emocionalmente distante<\/a>.<\/p>\n

A\u00fan recuerdas cuando os conocisteis, lo extasiada que estabas y c\u00f3mo cre\u00edas que \u00e9l pod\u00eda llegar a ser el Elegido.<\/p>\n

Pero con el paso del tiempo, te diste cuenta de que estabas enamorada de un completo desconocido, y no pod\u00edas hacer nada para cambiarlo.<\/p>\n

Para ayudarte a entender mejor el problema y las caracter\u00edsticas de los hombres emocionalmente no disponibles, hemos hecho una lista de las m\u00e1s comunes.<\/p>\n

If you recognize more than three characteristics in this list and you\u2019re hoping to have a stable relationship with the person in mind, maybe it\u2019s better to walk away before it\u2019s too late and you end up broken.<\/p>\n

Lleno de excusas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te parece que siempre tiene una excusa perfecta para cualquier problema que surja.<\/p>\n

Whether it\u2019s him canceling your date night, him vanishing from the face of the earth or him no est\u00e1 listo para comprometerse<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you ask him out, he\u2019s busy. If you want him to talk about your future, he\u2019s so exhausted from a long day at work.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not even sure if he\u2019s shy, uncomfortable or just a dickhead. And that\u2019s the catch; he needs you to stay as long as he wants you around.<\/p>\n

Comunicaci\u00f3n deficiente<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no way that he will tell you something intimate about himself unless he can benefit from it.<\/p>\n

If he tells you some sad story, if he shows you that he\u2019s vulnerable, that\u2019s because he knows he can catch you that way.<\/p>\n

Pero si notas que nunca se abre, que nunca hab\u00e9is tenido un v\u00ednculo profundo ni conversaciones profundas que lo sigan, presta mucha atenci\u00f3n a sus otras caracter\u00edsticas.<\/p>\n

Puede que sea t\u00edmido y que a\u00fan no se sienta c\u00f3modo abri\u00e9ndose a ti, pero si pasa el tiempo y nada cambia, ya tienes la respuesta.<\/p>\n

Si tiende a desaparecer despu\u00e9s de lo que parece ser un fin de semana muy \u00edntimo, ya tienes la respuesta.<\/p>\n

Emotionally unavailable men are by nature commitment-phobes, so he\u2019s not capable of maintaining a healthy relationship and good communication.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s arrogant<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Pay attention to the way he behaves toward other people when you\u2019re out in public.<\/p>\n

If he disrespects waiters or anyone he believes he has power over, that\u2019s a sign of pent-up anger that someday he could turn toward you.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s cocky and arrogant because he lacks self-esteem. He\u2019s showing himself that he\u2019s better than them, that they serve him, not the other way around.<\/p>\n

Necesita sentirse m\u00e1s poderoso y con m\u00e1s control que nadie.<\/p>\n

Tarde o temprano, empezar\u00e1 a tratarte de la misma manera, a controlarte y a comportarse como si fuera tu due\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Pero en cuanto se aburra o dejes de satisfacer sus necesidades, seguir\u00e1 buscando una nueva v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que se necesita confianza para intimar y comprometerse.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s nothing but talk<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Men like this enjoy talking about themselves, about their success and everything they\u2019re proud of (which does not include any personal info).<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong with being proud of your own work and sharing that with someone you like but pay attention to the way he does it.<\/p>\n

For example, there\u2019s a huge difference between, \u201cThe web app I\u2019ve been working on is now one of the top three apps they\u2019re considering launching next month.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so thrilled and really hope it will work out,\u201d and the other version being, \u201cThey finally realized that I\u2019m the best out there, my app is going to break all the records.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why they even considered the other apps, they\u2019re so bad it hurts my skills just looking at them.\u201d<\/p>\n

Tiene la necesidad no s\u00f3lo de presumir de s\u00ed mismo, sino tambi\u00e9n de burlarse de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

A menudo presumir\u00e1 de cosas materiales, como su sueldo, la cantidad de dinero que se ha gastado en vacaciones o en alcohol o cualquier otra cosa que sea realmente materialista.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s his way or no way<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Este tipo de hombre detesta los compromisos. Cree que la relaci\u00f3n (y el mundo entero) debe girar en torno a \u00e9l, y a nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

If he wants to stay home and you really want to go out to dinner somewhere, you\u2019ll stay home.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t even realize that you simply gave in to him, because he\u2019s tan bueno manipulando<\/a> y tergiversando las cosas en su beneficio, que no tienes m\u00e1s remedio que obedecerle.<\/p>\n

Once he sees that you\u2019re not easy to manipulate, that you\u2019re as strong as him mentally, don\u2019t think that he will try to fight it.<\/p>\n

He knows that he can find another victim in a matter of days, so he won\u2019t lose anymore precious time on you, because you no longer benefit him that much.<\/p>\n

Your strong-will makes him nervous and that\u2019s not good for him. Remember, this kind of a man only cares about himself.<\/p>\n

Actitud vaga<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Otra caracter\u00edstica de los hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles es una actitud evasiva.<\/p>\n

Huye de hablar de sus sentimientos, pensamientos, sue\u00f1os y planes.<\/p>\n

Cambiar\u00e1 completamente de tema cuando le preguntes o te dar\u00e1 una respuesta poco clara, algo s\u00f3lo para que dejes de insistir.<\/p>\n

Pero ten cuidado con este signo; muchos hombres necesitan tiempo para abrirse a alguien, para sentirse realmente c\u00f3modos hablando de sus emociones contigo, o incluso admitiendo que tienen algunas.<\/p>\n

But if you notice that this pattern keeps repeating, that you keep getting vague answers or not getting answers at all, even if months go by, then you\u2019re dealing with an emotionally unavailable man.<\/p>\n

He will also be vague about small things, such as explaining why he canceled your date last minute, why he was one hour late to it or why he doesn\u2019t want to spend time with your friends or sometimes even with you.<\/p>\n

This kind of a man tends to avoid any explanations and conflicts on emotional issues and this is because he doesn\u2019t plan on staying around long enough so they would matter to him.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo os veis bajo sus condiciones<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

He is only around when he feels like it. You go out when he calls you, and you spend time together when he decides he\u2019s ready.<\/p>\n

Aparece en tu casa con frecuencia, pero nunca cuando le invitas.<\/p>\n

If you initiate a date, he will be busy, he won\u2019t feel like it or he already has some other plans.<\/p>\n

If it happens that you need to talk to him about your feelings, that you need him when you\u2019re sad, he won\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n

Emotionally unavailable men are takers, not givers. He\u2019s not interested in you, your feelings or anything that can\u2019t benefit him in any way.<\/p>\n

Cuando necesite ayuda, cuando necesite tu apoyo y tu amor, no dudes de que aparecer\u00e1 en tu puerta.<\/p>\n

But when it\u2019s the other way around, he will vanish from the face of the earth.<\/p>\n

Puta de atenci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He just loves the spotlight. When it comes to him, there\u2019s no such thing as being modest or taking a step back and allowing someone else to be the center of attention.<\/p>\n

To be clear, there\u2019s nothing wrong with being confident and comfortable in certain social situations but his el ego es a menudo tan enorme<\/a> que le impide ser modesto ni por un segundo.<\/p>\n

Mostrar\u00e1 una gran arrogancia, celos, narcisismo y poca confianza en s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not happy with himself and is constantly looking for validation, he won\u2019t be happy with you either.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that when man a measures his worth by the number of compliments he gets, that\u2019s a sure-fire sign he\u2019s not emocionalmente maduro<\/a> and there\u2019s no way he can give you the emotional stability you need.<\/p>\n

Buscar\u00e1 constantemente tus defectos y se asegurar\u00e1 de que sepas que los ha encontrado.<\/p>\n

Al final encontrar\u00e1 la manera de quebrarte y quitarte la confianza y todo lo que antes te gustaba de ti se convertir\u00e1 en cosas que te molestan.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, nunca hablar\u00e1 de c\u00f3mo te sientes, sino que s\u00f3lo tendr\u00e1 en cuenta sus propios deseos.<\/p>\n

A sus ojos, el mundo gira en torno a \u00e9l, no a ti ni a nadie m\u00e1s. Si observas este patr\u00f3n en tu relaci\u00f3n, en la que \u00e9l no muestra ning\u00fan inter\u00e9s por tus problemas o sentimientos, tu hombre podr\u00eda no estar disponible emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

Buscador de la perfecci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Buscar\u00e1 cualquier defecto tuyo o un defecto de car\u00e1cter que pueda darle una raz\u00f3n para dejarte y pasar a la siguiente relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to raise his hopes that you\u2019ll be different than any other of his partners, because he\u2019s trapped in a pit of self-criticism and a fear of commitment that he will only look for an excuse to walk away.<\/p>\n

Incluso si te ajustas a sus est\u00e1ndares de perfecci\u00f3n, su ansiedad crecer\u00e1 porque el miedo a ser rechazado le empuja a encontrar cualquier cosa que pueda volver en tu contra.<\/p>\n

It will be the way you\u2019re being too pushy, too much, too sensitive; eventually, he will turn your own love against you, just so he can escape it.<\/p>\n

Evita etiquetar vuestra relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t even count how many times you\u2019ve asked him at what stage the two of you are, but you never got a clear answer.<\/p>\n

Was it ten times? Twenty? More? He\u2019s avoiding telling you what he thinks and the way he feels because he\u2019s not ready to commit.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to label your relationship because he wants you around as long as it suits him, and the moment he has had enough, that\u2019s the moment he will end it.<\/p>\n

No importa lo que hagas, lo mucho que lo intentes o lo mucho que te preocupes por \u00e9l, simplemente s\u00f3lo se preocupa de s\u00ed mismo y de sus necesidades.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him drag you along, because nothing is going to change. If he hasn\u2019t shown you a single sign that he truly cares about you, besides having you around for sex or boosting his ego, he\u2019s just not worth it.<\/p>\n

Historia turbia<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una de las principales caracter\u00edsticas del hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles<\/a> es su turbio historial.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00eda haber ciertos traumas y experiencias en su pasado que le hicieron ser as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

En las primeras semanas de la relaci\u00f3n, ya puedes notarlo, especialmente cuando se trata de sus relaciones pasadas.<\/p>\n

Saber por qu\u00e9 y c\u00f3mo estaba soltero cuando te conoci\u00f3 puede mostrarte la diferencia entre que no est\u00e9 disponible emocionalmente y que simplemente est\u00e9 dolido.<\/p>\n

If his past partner cheated on him, broke him or was the one who abused him and now he\u2019s taking things slowly with you, appreciate that and give him time (but be careful with that one if there are more than three signs on this list that apply to him).<\/p>\n

Pero si descubres que fue \u00e9l quien te enga\u00f1\u00f3, que fue \u00e9l quien hizo todo eso, haz las maletas y vete.<\/p>\n

Nadie debe ser juzgado por su pasado, pero si enga\u00f1\u00f3 una vez, puede volver a hacerlo.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re looking for an emotionally stable relationship, for someone who is ready to commit, who is not afraid of loving you, I\u2019m afraid that he\u2019s not the guy for you.<\/p>\n

Pr\u00edncipe Azul<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Look out for the men who are flirting with flattery. He\u2019s not being charming, he\u2019s simply \u2018doing\u2019 it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a well-rehearsed act, a way to seduce you. His focus is on short-term intimacy, because he prefers the chase to the catch.<\/p>\n

He may seem open, vulnerable and revealing, but you\u2019ll soon find yourself knowing basically nothing about him and wondering who the hell you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n

Si muestras inter\u00e9s por conocerle, cambiar\u00e1 de tema con la misma facilidad con la que te sedujo, porque es un maestro de la manipulaci\u00f3n y el control.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s so afraid of opening up that he will do anything to prevent it. If he runs out of options, he will simply walk away.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not interested in getting to know you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Un hombre emocionalmente inaccesible ve a las personas como objetos e intenta manipularlas para beneficiarse en la vida.<\/p>\n

He will only show interest in the sexual side of the relationship and won\u2019t do anything about getting to know you better.<\/p>\n

He sees everyone as a pawn in their own game, and pawns don\u2019t have faces or feelings for him.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo hablar\u00e1 de cosas que le interesen y, por desgracia, tu personalidad, tu historia y tu trayectoria no son ninguna de ellas.<\/p>\n

Incluso como amigo, un hombre emocionalmente no disponible no mostrar\u00e1 ning\u00fan inter\u00e9s en ti y s\u00f3lo hablar\u00e1 de cosas b\u00e1sicas contigo.<\/p>\n

Deshonestidad<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Simplemente te ocultar\u00e1 la verdad, incluso algunas cosas que son bastante importantes.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo te oculta amor, sino tambi\u00e9n informaci\u00f3n importante.<\/p>\n

He may think that he\u2019s doing this for your own good, for his good or for whatever reason, thinking that he\u2019s protecting you from the harsh truth but what\u2019s really going on is that he\u2019s afraid of your reaction, of rejection or any potential conflict this could cause.<\/p>\n

Podr\u00eda estar ocultando algo importante, como otra relaci\u00f3n, enfermedad o un pasado turbio<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But he could simply be embarrassed by the way he was treated and that he did nothing about, or he could have had a tough upbringing where he was taught that no woman should know any of a man’s business.<\/p>\n

He might not see this as an issue, but you can sure help him with that. With one good ol\u2019 kick in the ass.<\/p>\n

Explosi\u00f3n sexual<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Cuidado con los hombres que quieren familiarizarse sexualmente nada m\u00e1s conoceros.<\/p>\n

A menudo, los hombres emocionalmente no disponibles s\u00f3lo buscan otra cosa que conquistar, pero una vez que te tienen y vuestra relaci\u00f3n se vuelve m\u00e1s \u00edntima, \u00e9l se ir\u00e1.<\/p>\n

O quiz\u00e1 lo \u00fanico que te da es sexo y lo \u00fanico por lo que muestra inter\u00e9s es por revolcarse en las s\u00e1banas.<\/p>\n

They often do this either because they feel they have nothing else to offer or they\u2019re afraid of getting close to someone.<\/p>\n

Emotional unavailability appears after someone had a traumatic experience with a close person in their life, whether it\u2019s one of their parents or a past partner who was abusive in some kind of way.<\/p>\n

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