{"id":12833,"date":"2020-05-04T11:48:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-04T11:48:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=12833"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:42:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:42:19","slug":"como-dejar-de-obsesionarse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-dejar-de-obsesionarse\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo dejar de obsesionarte con alguien: 10 maneras a prueba de balas para sacarlo de tu sistema"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfTe has encontrado alguna vez en una situaci\u00f3n en la que no puedes dejar de pensar d\u00eda y noche en alguien, simplemente son residentes permanentes dentro de tu mente?<\/p>\n

They are there 24\/7, never wanting to leave. You know you are obsessing in vain and it\u2019s not making you happy but you just don\u2019t know how to stop obsesionado<\/a> sobre alguien.<\/p>\n

Independientemente de si tuviste algo m\u00e1s \u00edntimo con una persona o simplemente est\u00e1s colado por ella sin motivo, el patr\u00f3n es el mismo: piensas en ella todo el tiempo, vayas donde vayas, hagas lo que hagas, siempre est\u00e1 en alg\u00fan lugar de tu mente.<\/p>\n

Tal vez ya haya tenido la oportunidad de seguir adelante<\/a> con otra persona.<\/p>\n

But your obsession is holding you hostage, and you hope that someday something might change, you just hold on to them so stubbornly that you can\u2019t give somebody else a chance.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sometimes you don\u2019t see that there is somebody else out there because your obsession is blocking your view. The worst part is when you don\u2019t see yourself either.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see that life gives you new opportunities every day, if you would just get out of your own mind and grab them.<\/p>\n

You realize it\u2019s time to change. Not necessarily move on but just to move. To take some steps forward because you feel like you have been stuck in the same place for a long time.<\/p>\n

The worst thing to do is to do nothing at all. But if you don\u2019t know where to start, here are some bulletproof ways to get your obsession out of your system:<\/p>\n

1. Date cuenta de que te est\u00e1s obsesionando.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

A veces, la persona a la que m\u00e1s mentimos es la que nos mira en el espejo.<\/p>\n

There is no one in this world who we can so easily deceive as we can ourself. That\u2019s why we need to take a step back and ser realista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the hardest part, admitting to ourselves that we have a problem.<\/p>\n

I know that sounds like we are in a sort of a rehab but that\u2019s just it, the person we are obsessing over is our drug of choice and the sooner we realize that we have a problem, the sooner we\u2019ll be able to move on.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: C\u00f3mo dejar de gustar a alguien que no puedes tener: 10 Maneras De Tener \u00c9xito<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Llegar a la causa.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s never about the other person, it\u2019s always about you.<\/p>\n

Tiene que haber alguna raz\u00f3n que nos haya hecho entrar en este estado de obsesi\u00f3n. Quiz\u00e1 tuvimos demasiadas malas rachas en nuestra vida.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1s todas las relaciones pasadas fueron con un hombre t\u00f3xico indigno y el chico de nuestros sue\u00f1os es como un soplo de aire fresco.<\/p>\n

Maybe we are just a bit lonely (though that\u2019s the hardest thing to admit) and we created something out of this guy that made him more into a dream than reality.<\/p>\n

Sea lo que sea, cuanto antes conozcamos la causa, la imagen perfecta de \u00e9l empezar\u00e1 a desvanecerse de nuestra mente.<\/p>\n

3. Proh\u00edbase el acceso a las redes sociales.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Las redes sociales son una maldici\u00f3n y una bendici\u00f3n a la vez.<\/p>\n

Son formas estupendas de comunicarse, aprender cosas nuevas y divertirse. Por otro lado, nos dan privilegios de acecho que nunca cre\u00edmos posibles.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que nos pasamos el d\u00eda investigando d\u00f3nde ha estado, con qui\u00e9n, nos quedamos mirando sus fotos, nos obsesionamos con sus posts.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s making us crazy because we have him on our screen but don\u2019t have him in our life. So the best thing to do is deactivate your social media accounts for a while or simply unfriend him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s one of the most helpful steps, otherwise we are just falling deeper by stalking their social media accounts.<\/p>\n

4. Marca una distancia f\u00edsica.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The saying \u2018fuera de la vista, fuera de la mente<\/a>\u2019 isn\u2019t there for no reason.<\/p>\n

When you are not spending time near them constantly, it\u2019s easier to get them out of your mind. Every time you see them, your obsession is just growing.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si sales con las mismas personas o visitas los mismos lugares, restr\u00edngete a hacerlo. Al principio te costar\u00e1, pero con el tiempo te resultar\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n

5. Evite ponerse en contacto con ellos.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si os encontr\u00e1is en una situaci\u00f3n en la que os mand\u00e1is mensajes o os llam\u00e1is de vez en cuando o con regularidad, s\u00f3lo est\u00e1is haciendo que vuestras heridas sean m\u00e1s profundas. Mant\u00e9n las distancias.<\/p>\n

Tell him you are busy with work, studies or with anything you can think of and you just don\u2019t have time for texting.<\/p>\n

Este camino es probablemente el m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil, pero fingir amistad nunca trajo nada bueno a ninguno de los implicados.<\/p>\n

6. Conc\u00e9ntrate en ti mismo.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hay montones de cosas que podr\u00edas o incluso deber\u00edas estar haciendo ahora mismo en lugar de obsesionarte con \u00e9l. Conc\u00e9ntrate en ellas.<\/p>\n

Mejora tu vida. Trabaja en ti mismo para ti mismo. Dentro de unos a\u00f1os, agradecer\u00e1s haber elegido hacerlo.<\/p>\n

Hay cosas mejores que hacer, as\u00ed que mueve el culo de ese sof\u00e1 y vete. El mundo entero est\u00e1 ah\u00ed fuera.<\/p>\n

El tiempo es oro y lo est\u00e1s malgastando. Puedes hacerlo mejor.<\/p>\n

7. Socializar m\u00e1s.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

You probably don\u2019t have much time for your friends because you are too busy obsessing. You see the problem.<\/p>\n

Llame a tus amigos<\/a>pasar el rato con ellos y hablarles de cualquier cosa menos de tu chico obsesionado con los sue\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

Hay muchos temas para elegir. Y el tiempo bien empleado con los amigos es la mejor terapia para ti.<\/p>\n

8. S\u00e9 aventurero.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Do something you\u2019ve never done before.<\/p>\n

Algo que quieres hacer pero que puede estar un poco fuera de tu zona de confort.<\/p>\n

You can do anything, like jump out of an airplane with a parachute, zip lining, ride a horse, bicycle rides, anything really; it\u2019s all up to your own preferences.<\/p>\n

In any case, change is the best medicine. Even consider traveling to somewhere you\u2019ve never been before.<\/p>\n

A change of scenery changes perspective so you might realize that things aren\u2019t all that you made them out to be.<\/p>\n

9. Reconocer que no es del todo perfecto.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No es perfecto<\/a>que acabas de hacer que sea.<\/p>\n

He might have a lot of qualities and you can really feel like there\u2019s no one in this world quite like him but that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

Simplemente te has encaprichado de \u00e9l y te has creado una imagen en la cabeza que no tiene nada que ver con el verdadero. No est\u00e1s enamorada, est\u00e1s obsesionada.<\/p>\n

10. Don\u2019t try to stop thinking about him.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the best answer on \u2018How to stop obsessing over someone?\u2019\u2014simply don\u2019t try.<\/p>\n

Cuanto m\u00e1s lo intentes, m\u00e1s te acordar\u00e1s de \u00e9l. F\u00edjate en que la mayor\u00eda de estos pasos no tienen nada que ver con \u00e9l, pero s\u00ed contigo.<\/p>\n

Lo esencial es que te concentres en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

You just do \u2018you\u2019 for a change. Live your life to the fullest and he will simply fade away from your thoughts without you even putting any effort into not thinking about him.<\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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