Yes, it’s possible but, to be honest, it’s going to be a hell of a job.<\/p>\n
It’ll be a constant battle between your heart and your mind. <\/b>Por un lado, tu coraz\u00f3n te dir\u00e1 que sigas luchando por tu amor y, por otro, tu mente insistir\u00e1 en que debes dejarlo todo.<\/p>\n
Tus sentimientos estar\u00e1n a flor de piel. Sus emociones y <\/i>salud mental<\/i> ser\u00e1 un verdadero desastre.<\/i> You’ll try not to hurt your partner’s feelings while you’ll be going through desamor<\/a>.<\/p>\n So, if you’re about to sail on this kind of journey, you need to arm yourself with patience and strength because you’ll definitely need it.<\/p>\n There are some things you need to do if you want to end things the right way and have a clean break with your significant other. On the other hand, there are some things you should never, but really never, do if you don’t want to hurt your partner’s feelings.<\/p>\n \u200bI decided to make these two lists of dos and don’ts for romper con alguien<\/a> you love, and I hope it’ll be helpful to you.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, si quiere que su ruptura<\/a> lo menos doloroso posible tanto para ti como para tu pareja, esto es lo que tienes que hacer:<\/p>\n Si lo haces a tiempo, puede que haya una oportunidad de salvar tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n However, if you’ve already decided to end things, and you’re one hundred percent sure that it’s the only right thing to do, you should sit down and have a serious conversation with your SO.<\/p>\n Sea completamente sincero con ellos. Expl\u00edqueles todas las razones por las que decidiste poner fin a tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n You can admit that you still love them, but don’t give them falsas esperanzas<\/a> if you’ve already made up your mind and firmly decided to end things with them. They probably won’t understand and accept it, but try to explain that it’s really for the best.<\/p>\n Just because you’re breaking up with your partner doesn’t give you the right to treat them any less than how you treated them while you were in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n Esa persona form\u00f3 parte de tu vida durante alg\u00fan tiempo y juntos creasteis recuerdos tan bonitos. Lo menos que puedes hacer es darle <\/b>un adecuado, <\/b>cara a cara<\/b> adi\u00f3s<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n If you still love your soon-to-be ex-partner, I’m sure that the last thing you want to do is break their heart. That’s why you need to break up with them in the least painful way possible.<\/p>\n You need to pay attention to the time and place when you tell them about your decision. However, you shouldn’t beat around the bush too much because it definitely won’t make the breakup any easier for them.<\/p>\n Be upfront about your decision. Be honest and admit that you still love them but that it’s not the same kind of love you felt for them at the beginning.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, si sigue optando por hacerlo a trav\u00e9s de texto, puede que encuentre estos mensajes de texto de ruptura<\/a> \u00fatil.<\/p>\n Una vez que decid\u00e1is separaros, realmente tendr\u00e9is que separar vuestros caminos, y cada uno de vosotros tiene que seguir el camino que elija para s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n Of course, it would be nice to promise each other that you’ll always respect and cherish the time you spent together, but that’s all. If you really want to leave it all and move on with your life as soon as possible, you should really try to make a clean break.<\/p>\n \u200bKeep scrolling down if you want to find out what the biggest no-nos are when it comes to breaking up with a person you still have strong feelings for.<\/p>\n I know it’s not easy to end things with someone who still means so much to you, but as much as you need to take care of your feelings, you should pay attention to your partner’s feelings too.<\/p>\n They will be hurt no matter how you break up with them \u2013 it’s inevitable. But, fantasma<\/a> them would only show that you don’t respect them enough to give them proper closure.<\/p>\n Also, it would mean that you aren’t brave enough to stand behind your actions and that you don’t have the dignity to termina tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a> cara a cara.<\/p>\n Su pareja probablemente le sugerir\u00e1 tomar una ruptura de relaci\u00f3n<\/a> y reflexionar sobre tu relaci\u00f3n antes de tomar una decisi\u00f3n definitiva.<\/p>\n However, if you accept this, it’ll only give them false hope. They will start thinking that you aren’t completely sure about your decision and that there is still hope para salvar tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a> o empezar de nuevo.<\/p>\n I think this wouldn’t be fair to do to a person you love, right? So, if your SO suggests a relationship break, you should gently reject their offer and explain that your decision is final and that you don’t plan to change it, no matter what.<\/p>\n They might think that you were afraid to do it in private and that you’re using those people around you to make the breakup as fast as possible.<\/p>\n I know it would be nice to avoid creating a scene in front of other people, but I’m sure your partner would like for you to do it while you two are alone. You don’t know what their reaction will be, but you must be ready to handle it the best way possible.<\/p>\n Ruptura<\/i><\/a> en privado y hacerlo <\/i>cara a cara<\/i> tambi\u00e9n les demostrar\u00e1 que sigues respet\u00e1ndoles y preocup\u00e1ndote por ellos y por sus sentimientos.<\/i><\/p>\n Ya lo he mencionado antes, pero tengo que volver a insistir en ello. Una vez que tomes la decisi\u00f3n de separarte, tienes que atenerte a ella y hacer frente a todo lo que venga despu\u00e9s.<\/p>\n If you’re interested in dar otra oportunidad a su relaci\u00f3n<\/a>, then you should suggest a relationship break. You shouldn’t tell them that you’re ending things for good with them.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que.., <\/b>sexo de ruptura<\/b> est\u00e1 fuera de la mesa. <\/b>It can only confuse you and make you think that you’ve made a hasty decision and that you should try para solucionar las cosas<\/a> en lugar de romper.<\/p>\n I don’t care if your partner is a model or they’re begging you on their knees to do it one last time; you have to hold your horses and control your desires.<\/p>\n I know it’s difficult to make the decision romper<\/a> con alguien a quien todav\u00eda quieres, pero a veces, por desgracia, es necesario hacerlo para preservar tu salud emocional y mental.<\/p>\n There are a few red flags that it’s time to termina tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a>, and I have listed the major ones below. So, keep reading…<\/p>\n You’ve tried many different couple’s therapies, and you’ve followed all the relationship expert advice you get, but nothing has helped to make your relationship better.<\/p>\n Then, you know what you have to do… You need to prevent your relationship from draining you. S\u00e1lvate a ti mismo <\/a>y d\u00e9jalo en tu pasado de una vez por todas y pasa p\u00e1gina.<\/p>\n If you two are stuck in the awful cycle of breaking up and getting back together, it’s obvious that you still share strong feelings for each other that won’t allow you to separate forever.<\/i><\/p>\n Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n debe saber que <\/b>el amor nunca es suficiente<\/b><\/a> para que una relaci\u00f3n funcione.<\/b><\/p>\n Sooner or later, you’ll understand that it doesn’t lead anywhere. You’ll realize that you will never be able to maintain una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>, and it’ll make you break up once again. But this time, it’ll be for real and for good. <\/b><\/p>\n If that’s not the case, if you feel that you’re the only one who is trying to maintain the relationship, it’s a clear sign that the other side doesn’t love you <\/a>de la misma manera que t\u00fa los amas.<\/p>\n One day, you’ll get tired of it all, and you’ll make a definite and final decision. You’ll marcharse<\/a>, and you’ll never even want to look back.<\/p>\n Supongo que todos conocemos el base fundamental de toda relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>. La confianza y el respeto son esa base.<\/p>\n If you feel that you’re being disrespected or that you can’t trust your partner anymore, it’s a very clear red flag that you need to alejarse de esa relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n Of course, this doesn’t have to be a definite sign that you should end things with your romantic partner, but I’m sure there is a good reason why those close to you don’t support your relationship.<\/p>\n It’s probably because they think your partner doesn’t deserve you. El hecho es que su <\/b>seres queridos<\/b> s\u00f3lo quieren lo mejor para ti, y sin duda debes tener en cuenta su opini\u00f3n sobre tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n La gente cambia<\/a>. Feelings fade away… You start growing apart from your partner without even being aware of it.<\/p>\n One day, you just wake up and realize that nothing is the way it used to be. You know that your partner isn’t making you happy like they did before.<\/b><\/p>\n You realize that your relationship isn’t as close as it was before. And no matter how much you try, it just seems that it’s impossible para volver a conectar<\/a> y vuelve a crecer junto a tu SO.<\/p>\n Drifting apart is one of the clearest signs that you should rethink your relationship and decide whether you should continue dating a person you don’t feel all that close to anymore.<\/p>\n You shouldn’t have to explain yourself to anyone because you’re the only one who is truly important. Pon un enorme punto final en tu<\/b> relaci\u00f3n abusiva<\/b> y cerrar ese cap\u00edtulo de tu vida para siempre.<\/b><\/p>\n Para que quede claro, todas las parejas se pelean. Peque\u00f1os desacuerdos de vez en cuando son una parte completamente normal de una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>.<\/p>\n However, once those ‘occasional fights’ become ‘contact fights,’ it’s really time to walk away from your relationship. Otherwise, it’ll only result in making your relationship toxic and ruining your mental health.<\/p>\n Mi mejor amiga termin\u00f3 su relaci\u00f3n hace poco. \u00bfY sabes lo que me dijo cuando le pregunt\u00e9 qu\u00e9 hab\u00eda pasado? Realmente tengo que citarla porque esa frase se me qued\u00f3 muy grabada.<\/p>\n Dijo, “Trust and passion left the relationship many moons ago. Now it’s time I left it too.”<\/i><\/p>\n If you’re constantly thinking about ending your relationship, it’s probably because you have more than one reason to do so.<\/p>\n You aren’t happy in that relationship, and you see breaking up as your only salvation. And you know what? You have every right to do so. You have every right to let go of anything that doesn’t make you happy.<\/p>\n La vida es demasiado corta<\/b><\/a> to waste your precious time on the wrong people and things that can’t make you happy.<\/b><\/p>\n So, if you’re interested in this part, I assume you have already finished with the breakup conversation.<\/p>\n Cuando un <\/b>relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/b> comes to an end, one side will always end up hurt, and, unfortunately, it’s inevitable.<\/b><\/p>\n Si todav\u00eda tiene sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos intensos por su <\/i>ex pareja<\/i>, it’s perfectly normal that you’ll suffer <\/i>despu\u00e9s del <\/i>ruptura<\/i>. However, that doesn’t mean that you’ll never be able to recover from it and move on with your life.<\/i><\/p>\n Duelo y curaci\u00f3n tras un ruptura<\/a> is a long and exhausting process. But, unfortunately, you have to go through that process if you want to move on. I\u2019ve prepared a few pieces of relationship expert advice for you below that will help you get through it all a bit faster.<\/p>\n Date tiempo<\/a>. Take a rest. Let both your mind and heart take a rest from everything and everyone else. It’s something that you owe yourself. Have some alone time and don’t think about your relationship, your ex-partner, or etapas de la ruptura<\/a> en absoluto.<\/p>\n Just try to relax and imagine that you’re the only person left in the world. Because the truth is, no one else actually matters besides you.<\/p>\n I suppose you’ve heard of the famous norma de no contacto<\/a> after the breakup. Now, you need to put that rule into practice immediately after you’ve finished with the breakup conversation.<\/p>\n So, this means no texts or phone calls to your ex-romantic partner. You really need to cut off communication after you’ve decided to end things.<\/p>\n M\u00e1s <\/b>expertos en relaciones<\/b> est\u00e1n de acuerdo en que <\/b>la regla del no contacto<\/b><\/a> es la \u00daNICA forma eficaz de superar un <\/b>ruptura<\/b> y seguir adelante con tu vida.<\/b><\/p>\n They are the people who love you the most and who will do just about anything to make you feel better. They’ll help you collect and glue each and every part of your broken heart back together, and they’ll stand right beside you at every step of your grieving and healing process.<\/p>\n Lo mejor para usted ser\u00eda tomar una peque\u00f1a desintoxicaci\u00f3n de las redes sociales<\/a>. It’s just so you don’t check if your ex is online or what they are sharing all the time.<\/p>\n Busca otra cosa que te mantenga ocupado. Lee libros, tu hor\u00f3scopo o intenta aprender una habilidad \u00fatil, un nuevo idioma, por ejemplo. Si sigues espiando a tu ex en <\/b>redes sociales<\/b>, it’ll be an enormous <\/b>dealbreaker<\/b> para tu proceso de curaci\u00f3n y superaci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n Suck it up. You’ve made the decision, and now all you can do is stand behind it. Ac\u00e9ptalo todo como una enorme lecci\u00f3n que tu vida intenta ense\u00f1arte.<\/i><\/p>\n Don’t ever fight your feelings. <\/b>Of course, I get you. It’s hard to come to terms with the fact that you need to dejar ir a alguien<\/a> you’re still deeply in love with.<\/p>\n Pero lo cierto es que algunas personas ocupar\u00e1n siempre un lugar en nuestros corazones, y no puedes hacer absolutamente nada para cambiarlo. Solo puedes aceptarlo y esperar que el tiempo est\u00e9 de tu lado y haga que esos sentimientos se desvanezcan.<\/p>\n Lo \u00faltimo que debes hacer ahora es reprimir tus sentimientos. Puede afectar a tu salud mental de la peor manera posible.<\/p>\n I know you’re riding on a real emotional rollercoaster, but, trust me, you’ll feel much better if you share your sorrows with someone else.<\/b><\/p>\n Open up to someone you trust the most, whether it’s your best friend or a family member. Who knows, they may even give you some good advice and help you get over it all faster.<\/p>\n When you’re in el periodo sin contacto<\/a> after the breakup, it’s a huge no-no for you to start dating other people.<\/p>\n You’re currently in a period of your life where you need to put all your focus and attention on yourself.<\/i><\/p>\n You’re in a period of your life when it’s high time to<\/i> enam\u00f3rate de ti mismo <\/i><\/a>y empieza a salir con esa persona incre\u00edble que ves en tu espejo cada ma\u00f1ana.<\/i><\/p>\n You may think that dating other people will help you forget about your ex-partner faster, but the fact is that it’s such tomfoolery. You can’t fall in love with someone else as long as your ex is still firmly settled in your heart.<\/p>\n Do things you always wanted but didn’t have the opportunity to do before. Take a wellness day. Fill up the online shopping cart and buy yourself everything you want. Un poco de terapia de compras nunca ha matado a nadie, \u00bfverdad?<\/b><\/p>\n Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed, <\/b>el tiempo cura<\/b><\/a>. It has no magical power to make your feelings for someone disappear, but it’ll definitely help you recover from your emotional wounds.<\/b><\/p>\n The first time you give yourself time to grieve and heal in peace, you’ll understand what I’m talking about. Don’t put the “I’m okay, I’ve moved on” mask on because by doing that, you’ll only be <\/i>reprimir tus sentimientos<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n Tienes que ser lo bastante fuerte como para aceptar todas tus emociones, las positivas pero tambi\u00e9n las negativas. De lo contrario, ten por seguro que tarde o temprano todos esos sentimientos reprimidos saldr\u00e1n a la superficie y causar\u00e1n un da\u00f1o a\u00fan mayor.<\/p>\n There is no switch when it comes to love. You can’t turn your emotions on or off how and when you want.<\/b> As\u00ed que, incluso despu\u00e9s de <\/i>acabar con las cosas<\/i> with the person you truly love, it doesn’t mean that the love you feel for them will disappear overnight.<\/i><\/p>\n You’ll need time. A lot of time, actually. To suffer, to recover, to heal, para seguir adelante<\/a>… You’ll need time to get your life back on track.<\/p>\nHow To Break Up With Someone You Love: 10 Important Dos And Don’ts <\/b><\/b><\/h2>\n
C\u00f3mo romper con un ser querido<\/h3>\n
Mant\u00e9n una conversaci\u00f3n seria con tu pareja<\/b><\/h4>\n
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Honesto y abierto<\/b> comunicaci\u00f3n es<\/b><\/a>Sin duda alguna, la parte m\u00e1s importante de cada <\/b>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/b>. <\/b>La primera vez que empieces a pensar en una ruptura, deber\u00edas compartir esos pensamientos con tu pareja.<\/p>\nHabla de todas las cosas que te llevaron a tomar esta decisi\u00f3n en primer lugar<\/b><\/h4>\n
H\u00e1galo cara a cara<\/b><\/h4>\n
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Esto es absolutamente imprescindible. Si lo hace a trav\u00e9s de texto o <\/i>llamada telef\u00f3nica<\/i>, it’ll only hurt them more, and you’ll show that you’re nothing but a huge coward.<\/i><\/p>\nTake your partner’s feelings into consideration<\/h4>\n
Elija una pausa limpia<\/b><\/h4>\n
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Don’t offer them ‘let’s stay friends’ or ‘you’ll always have a true friend in me’ or the most clich\u00e9 one of all, the ‘it’s not you, it’s me’<\/a> bullshit. You can only stay as those “friends” who never call to check up, and you’ll only end up hating each other for real.<\/i><\/p>\nMajor Don’ts When It Comes To Leaving Your Loved One<\/h3>\n
El ghosting est\u00e1 totalmente prohibido<\/h4>\n
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Ghosting<\/a> es lo peor que puedes hacerle a alguien que fue una gran parte de tu vida durante alg\u00fan tiempo. Esto solo les demostrar\u00eda que nunca les quisiste de verdad, y convertir\u00eda en odio todo el amor que sienten por ti.<\/p>\nDon’t even think about taking some time apart first<\/h4>\n
Don’t break up in a public place<\/b><\/h4>\n
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The first reason why you shouldn’t do it in a public place is that it might make the situation even worse for your partner.<\/p>\nDon’t give them false hope<\/h4>\n
Don’t even think about breakup sex<\/b><\/h4>\n
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As crazy as it sounds, most couples practice breakup sex nowadays. I don’t know if it\u2019s because they want to have fun one last time (right before etapas de la ruptura<\/a> kick in) or because they think it’ll make them change their mind, but, in my opinion, it’s absolutely freaking crazy.<\/p>\n\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber cu\u00e1ndo romper con un ser querido? 10 se\u00f1ales de alarma<\/h2>\n
You’ve tried couple’s therapy, but…<\/h3>\n
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It didn’t work. No matter how much you try and try… No matter how much effort you’re putting into arreglar su relaci\u00f3n<\/a>, things just don’t get better.<\/p>\nSigues rompiendo y volviendo<\/h3>\n
You’re the one making all the effort<\/h3>\n
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Una relaci\u00f3n es y debe ser siempre una calle de doble sentido.<\/b> The respect, your feelings, and all the effort you’re putting into making your relationship work must be reciprocated.<\/i><\/p>\nYa no hay confianza ni respeto en tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n
Your loved ones aren’t supportive of your relationship<\/h3>\n
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“If nobody in the community supports your relationship, that\u2019s a red flag<\/i>,“<\/i> dice la experta en relaciones Lindsay Chrisler, de Nueva York.<\/p>\nThere’s a rift between you<\/h3>\n
You’re experiencing any form of abuse<\/h3>\n
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Por mucho que quieras a alguien, nunca debes soportar que te falten al respeto o que te comportamiento abusivo<\/a>. Recuerda, una persona que te ama de verdad nunca te har\u00eda da\u00f1o continuamente y a prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\nLas peleas se han convertido en una parte normal de su relaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n
Por otra parte, la pasi\u00f3n lo ha dejado hace mucho tiempo<\/h3>\n
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Cuando la chispa abandone tu relaci\u00f3n, ten por seguro que el amor le seguir\u00e1. Por supuesto, la chispa nunca ser\u00e1 tan fuerte como cuando empezasteis a salir, pero tampoco deber\u00eda desaparecer por completo.<\/p>\nYou’re thinking about the breakup all the time<\/h3>\n
C\u00f3mo superar una ruptura con un ser querido: 10 pasos importantes<\/h2>\n
Date tiempo para descansar<\/h3>\n
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Now you’ve got time to do all the things you wanted to do before, but the only thing you should do right now is take a very deep breath and relax.<\/p>\nCortar el contacto tras la ruptura<\/b><\/h3>\n
Los mejores amigos son siempre la mejor terapia<\/h3>\n
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If you’re feeling <\/b>con el coraz\u00f3n roto<\/b>, I know a cure that will definitely help you feel better. That incredible cure is called ‘<\/b>mejores amigos<\/b><\/a>.’<\/b><\/p>\nMantente alejado de las redes sociales durante un tiempo<\/h3>\n
Acepte su situaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n
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Your situation isn’t actually that good and clear, right? So, what? There are so many people in a similar or even the same situation as you are.<\/p>\nAcepta y abraza tus sentimientos<\/h3>\n
Conf\u00ede en un familiar<\/b><\/h3>\n
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After you decide to part ways with your significant other, the only thing you shouldn’t do is shut yourself off from your loved ones.<\/p>\nDon’t jump into a new relationship<\/b><\/h3>\n
Date un capricho<\/h3>\n
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En pocas palabras, ha llegado el momento de que te concentres en ti mismo. Tienes que mimarte al m\u00e1ximo porque te lo mereces.<\/p>\nCree en el poder del tiempo<\/h3>\n
Para concluir<\/h2>\n
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Tambi\u00e9n quiero advertirte de una \u00faltima cosa. El amor es<\/a> a very complex emotion. It’s one that can never be controlled.<\/p>\n