{"id":131044,"date":"2021-09-02T21:37:05","date_gmt":"2021-09-02T21:37:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=131044"},"modified":"2022-01-07T12:22:51","modified_gmt":"2022-01-07T12:22:51","slug":"es-real-el-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/es-real-el-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfEs real el amor? Los secretos del amor verdadero"},"content":{"rendered":"

Es <\/i>amor real<\/i>? <\/i>\u00bfEncontrar\u00e9 alguna vez el amor<\/i><\/a>? \u00bfSon todos esos poemas rom\u00e1nticos y <\/i>citas de amor profundo<\/i><\/a> inspirado por <\/i>amor verdadero,<\/i> \u00bfo son s\u00f3lo una ilusi\u00f3n de algo inalcanzable?<\/i><\/p>\n

Son <\/i>seres humanos<\/i> capaz de experimentar el amor en todo su esplendor y los retos que conlleva? Espera, <\/i>qu\u00e9 es el amor<\/i><\/a>\u00bfC\u00f3mo sabemos que existe?<\/i><\/p>\n

Love is a complex concept that words can\u2019t really define, but it has to be recognized and felt by our hearts and souls. That\u2019s how you know it\u2019s real.<\/b><\/p>\n

El amor es la sensaci\u00f3n que tienes cuando esperas impaciente a que tu <\/i>amado<\/i>\u2019s reply or when <\/i>un beso en la frente<\/i><\/a> multiplies those butterflies in your stomach. Love is also feeling confused and not knowing if it\u2019s real or not.<\/i><\/p>\n

Love is so powerful that there aren\u2019t simply enough paragraphs in the world to define its essence.<\/b> Today, we\u2019ll try to fix that. The following paragraphs are written in an attempt to simplify love and celebrate its divine complexity.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs el amor real o una ilusi\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

We’ve all witnessed the lavishness of love portrayed in movies. Once two souls fall in love with each other, their worlds become brighter and more colorful. Of course, before they’re ready to indulge in the essence of pure love, they need to overcome a few challenges.<\/p>\n

After that, they usually reach the happy-ever-after stage, and we’re all happy for them. Inspired by their romance, we start contemplating the definition of love in real life.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSomos capaces de experimentar el amor tal y como nos lo pintan en las pel\u00edculas, o todo esto no es m\u00e1s que una gran mentira que nos venden para hacernos sentir menos desgraciados?<\/b><\/p>\n

(Perd\u00f3n por la siguiente digresi\u00f3n).<\/p>\n

The other day, when I was in a cab, Hillsong Young & Free’s \u201cReal Love\u201d made the awkward silence extremely bearable. The Esto es <\/i>amor verdadero<\/i> La letra a\u00fan resuena en mis o\u00eddos:<\/p>\n

“Yeah, this love is for real<\/i><\/p>\n

Nunca te soltar\u00e1s<\/i><\/p>\n

Nunca te sueltes, oh<\/i><\/p>\n

And it’s more than just words<\/i><\/p>\n

Amor m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de mi control<\/i><\/p>\n

Fuera de control<\/i><\/p>\n

Esto es <\/i>amor verdadero<\/i><\/p>\n

Esto es <\/i>amor verdadero<\/i>…”<\/i><\/p>\n

Cuando termin\u00f3 la canci\u00f3n, m\u00faltiples preguntas ocuparon mi cerebro,<\/b> como las siguientes:<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfEs falso el amor? \u00bfEs <\/i>verdadero amor real<\/i>? \u00bfTiene <\/i>amor verdadero<\/i> \u00bfExistir? Espera, <\/i>es \u00e9l mi <\/i>alma gemela<\/i><\/a>? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo saber el <\/i>diferencia entre amor y <\/i>encaprichamiento<\/i><\/a>?<\/i><\/p>\n

Suddenly, Lady Gaga\u2019s \u201cPerfect Illusion\u201d lyrics started to mix with Hillsong Young & Free’s: \u201cIt wasn\u2019t love, it wasn\u2019t love. It was a perfect illusion (Perfect illusion)\u2026\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

So, I decided to do my research. Here\u2019s what I found out based on my personal experience (and of people close to me) and data I found on the internet:<\/p>\n

Love is real, but it can\u2019t really be defined. You either experience the <\/b>intensos sentimientos de amor,<\/b> or you don’t. You either know it\u2019s <\/b>amor verdadero,<\/b> or you don\u2019t.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you ask me, there\u2019s no gray area here. Things are actually pretty simple: We fall in love, and we either stay in love with that person, or we fall out of love, and that\u2019s the reality.<\/p>\n

Si puede expresar <\/b>sentimientos de amor<\/b>, then you know it\u2019s real.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfEs real el amor a primera vista?<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Es <\/i>amor real<\/i>? Pues s\u00ed. Pero.., <\/i>es amor en <\/i>primera vista<\/i> real<\/i><\/a>, \u00bfy por qu\u00e9 ocurre?<\/i><\/p>\n

Cada vez que intento imaginar el concepto de enamorarse en <\/b>primera vista<\/b>Pienso en esto:<\/b> A man and a woman on the street (or at a bar) looking each other in the eye. Then comes the moment of sudden realization that they know each other even though it\u2019s their first encounter.<\/p>\n

El tiempo se detiene. Todo el mundo a su alrededor se vuelve invisible, y se siente como una escena de pel\u00edcula real de almas gemelas que conectan a trav\u00e9s de los ojos<\/a>. But, is it really like this? Let\u2019s find out.<\/p>\n

There aren\u2019t many studies on love at <\/b>primera vista<\/b>, but here\u2019s an interesting <\/b>investigaci\u00f3n emp\u00edrica de la Universidad de Groningen (Pa\u00edses Bajos)<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> El investigador Florian Zsok y su equipo descubrieron que el amor al <\/b>primera vista<\/b> ocurre raramente.<\/b><\/p>\n

En su estudio, dicho amor se basaba principalmente en signos de atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica entre dos personas<\/a>. B\u00e1sicamente, lo que experimentan estas dos personas es lujuria y no amor a primera vista.<\/p>\n

However, through time, this lust turns into something more meaningful, and that\u2019s when we can officially call it \u2018love at first sight.\u2019<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfes real el amor a primera vista? S\u00ed, es real, pero se basa en la atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica, y cada uno de nosotros lo experimenta de forma diferente.<\/p>\n

In case you\u2019re not sure whether you\u2019re experiencing it or not, here are a few <\/b>se\u00f1ales de amor en <\/b>primera vista<\/b><\/a>:<\/b><\/p>\n