{"id":13108,"date":"2019-11-24T14:44:13","date_gmt":"2019-11-24T14:44:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13108"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:27:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:27:42","slug":"carino-no-me-sueltes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carino-no-me-sueltes\/","title":{"rendered":"Cari\u00f1o, si no lo dejas ir, s\u00f3lo doler\u00e1 m\u00e1s."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando nos perdemos en nuestra mente, tendemos a ver personas que siguen ah\u00ed, que nunca se van, que siempre acechan en los rincones m\u00e1s oscuros, esperando a que las busquemos para tragarnos enteros.<\/p>\n<p>Van por ah\u00ed, intentando mantenernos en sus vidas, intentando demostrarnos que nunca encontraremos a alguien como ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Thank God we won&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>Por culpa de estas personas, olvidamos c\u00f3mo se siente la felicidad y qu\u00e9 es el verdadero amor. <strong>Olvidamos que no puede haber felicidad en el sufrimiento ni luz en el abismo negro de sus mentiras.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Suena raro cuando lo digo as\u00ed, lo s\u00e9. Pero, querida, si\u00e9ntate un rato y hablemos de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Os conocisteis, \u00bfc\u00f3mo? Lleg\u00f3 a tu vida haciendo que el amor pareciera sin esfuerzo y como si nada pudiera salir mal entre vosotros dos, porque parec\u00eda dispuesto a comprometerse con alguien tan hermosa como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So you went for it. You went all in. You didn&#8217;t leave anything for yourself, am I right? Everything that was you, was now his.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 hizo con esos pedazos de ti que retuvo? \u00bfTe cuidaba bien? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/your-partner-isnt-the-one\/1042323\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00bfTe hizo sentir segura y amada<\/a>? No. No, he didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>He made you cry yourself to sleep at night because you didn&#8217;t know where he was for days, just for you to find out that he was with other women, having his fun.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9l se lo estaba pasando en grande mientras t\u00fa yac\u00edas en tu cama, desolada y desesperada, sin saber qu\u00e9 hacer con esas l\u00e1grimas que no paraban de brotar.<\/strong> You didn&#8217;t know what to do to make it all stop.<\/p>\n<p>He made you feel like you didn&#8217;t deserve the love and affection he gave you at the beginning, although you gave him all of the love you could, you gave him everything he could ever ask for.<\/p>\n<p>But it still wasn&#8217;t enough. There was nothing you could do to make him believe that loving you was the right choice.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero la verdadera pregunta es: \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 lo intentas siquiera?<\/strong> \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 intentas convencerlo de que amarte ser\u00eda tan hermoso? No. Detente ahora mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Las personas de nuestra vida que nos aprecian y nos muestran respeto merecen estar ah\u00ed. No las personas con las que tenemos que luchar solo para que vean que somos valiosos y cari\u00f1osos.<\/p>\n<p>No es necesario que persigas a alguien que sigue huyendo de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Para. Date la vuelta. M\u00e1rchese.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/life-gets-hard-keep-moving-forward-one-step-time\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Sigue avanzando en tu vida<\/a> on your own two feet and don&#8217;t ever look back. I know that leaving will hurt. Trying to forget everything will hurt even more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But it can&#8217;t compare to the suffering that is going to occur if you stay even a minute longer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t deserve you in his life. The miserable life of him chasing other women just so he could satisfy his immature self isn&#8217;t something you should be paying attention to right now.<\/p>\n<p>But rather, pay yourself that attention. Find a way to be the center of your own little universe and stop staying with him, because you know he won&#8217;t change.<\/p>\n<p>He can&#8217;t change. He doesn&#8217;t want to change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He didn&#8217;t just break promises, he broke you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Te quebr\u00f3 hasta el punto de no saber que existe una vida fuera del alcance de alguien tan t\u00f3xico como \u00e9l. Te hizo creer que nunca ser\u00e1s feliz sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Pero la verdad es que s\u00f3lo cuando lo dejes, encontrar\u00e1s la verdadera alegr\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you need to pack your stuff, take everything you have with you. <strong>Recoge tus pedazos rotos y empieza a seguir adelante. Si te quedas, solo te doler\u00e1 m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48172\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Darling-If-You-Dont-Let-Go-It-Will-Just-Hurt-More-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Cari\u00f1o, si no lo dejas ir, s\u00f3lo doler\u00e1 m\u00e1s.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Darling-If-You-Dont-Let-Go-It-Will-Just-Hurt-More-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Darling-If-You-Dont-Let-Go-It-Will-Just-Hurt-More-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Darling-If-You-Dont-Let-Go-It-Will-Just-Hurt-More.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we get lost in our minds, we tend to see people who are still there, never leaving, always lurking in the darkest corners, waiting for us to search for them just so they can swallow us whole. They go around, trying to keep us in their lives, trying to show us that we will&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":13114,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13108","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-54566.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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