We\u2019ve all been forewarned about romantic vampires\u2014predators that suck the life out of us. And yet, no matter how hard we try, sometimes they come along unexpectedly and we need to find a way to rid ourselves of the negative energy.<\/p>\n
Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo podemos identificar y eliminar a un amante t\u00f3xico<\/a> de nuestras vidas?<\/p>\n A partner is \u2018toxic\u2019 if he is any or all of the following:<\/p>\n It\u2019s great to feel loved, needed, adored by another. But, there is a fine line between being loved and being obsessed over. Partners who feel the need to obsessively cling to their mates likely have very little self-esteem. These are individuals who need the affection of others in order to feel complete. Sometimes they\u2019re referred to as \u2018codependent\u2019.<\/p>\n It\u2019s flattering that your significant other wants to spend time with you, but this necesidad de atenci\u00f3n constante<\/a> can quickly become overbearing. We all need our personal space, too, and if you feel as if you can\u2019t sneeze without your partner grabbing a tissue and dabbing your nose, you may begin to feel suffocated by the relationship.<\/p>\n We all need to feel as if we can trust our partner, that we don\u2019t need to worry about where he\u2019s going or who he\u2019s hanging out with. And it\u2019s perfectly normal for our mate to reciprocate these feelings. However, it is abnormal for a partner to have the final say in who we\u2019re with, where we\u2019re going, what we\u2019re wearing.<\/p>\n A healthy partnership doesn\u2019t involve hacking into our email account or reading our texts. It doesn\u2019t involve taking away every bit of independence, insisting on having total control over our physical, mental, emotional or financial well-being.<\/p>\n If you find your significant other has very quickly moved you into his home, taken over all of your bills, and insisted you combine your finances into one joint account\u2014beware! While it may feel nice to be taken care of, these are very common tactics of abusadores narcisistas.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n If you\u2019re pretty sure you can\u2019t trust a thing your partner says, you\u2019re probably right. Having a hunch, or an intuitive feeling, that he is lying about anything at all\u2014big or small\u2014should be a red flag. Being sneaky around your birthday or anniversary is one thing, but being sneaky all the time likely means your partner is up to no good. Once you catch him in a lie or two, it becomes difficult to trust anything he says or does.<\/p>\n Probably the most annoying trait of a toxic partnership! Again, it\u2019s natural for your mate to become suspicious or feel uneasy if you insist on maintaining a close friendship with your ex; a certain level of healthy insecurity exists in every relationship. It\u2019s quite another if you are unable to hang out with anyone at all.<\/p>\n1. Obsesivo:<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h1>\n
2. Controlar:<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
3. Manipulador:<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
4. Demasiado celoso:<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n