{"id":13142,"date":"2018-01-25T09:26:58","date_gmt":"2018-01-25T09:26:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13142"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:16:38","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:16:38","slug":"poner-mucho-esfuerzo-excusas-tal-vez-podria-haber-hecho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/poner-mucho-esfuerzo-excusas-tal-vez-podria-haber-hecho\/","title":{"rendered":"Si te esforzaras tanto como pon\u00edas excusas, quiz\u00e1 lo habr\u00edamos conseguido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pas\u00e9 tanto tiempo poniendo excusas por ti, perdon\u00e1ndote tus errores, d\u00e1ndote segundas oportunidades<\/a> and hoping that one day we\u2019ll come to the same page. I hoped that one day you\u2019ll see how hard I was trying for us and that you\u2019ll try to match my efforts.<\/p>\n

De alg\u00fan modo, me convenc\u00ed de que me quieres de verdad y de que, en el fondo, quieres estar conmigo. Me dije a m\u00ed misma que solo ten\u00eda que darte tiempo para que te dieras cuenta de lo nuestro y que las cosas acabar\u00edan funcionando.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te am\u00e9 con todo mi cuerpo y mi alma. Te am\u00e9 tanto como una mujer puede amar a un hombre. Y nunca quise quitarte nada de lo que<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t deserve or that I wasn\u2019t ready to give you myself. I just wanted you to love me as honestly as I loved you. And I wanted to see you trying. But, obviously, I wanted too much.<\/p>\n

Siempre te pasaba algo. Siempre hab\u00eda algo que te imped\u00eda hacer las cosas que una persona normal har\u00eda sin siquiera pens\u00e1rselo dos veces.<\/p>\n

Siempre hab\u00eda una raz\u00f3n por la que cancelar nuestros planes en el \u00faltimo minuto<\/a>. There was always a reason why you couldn\u2019t pick up the phone or a perfect explanation of why it took you hours to text me back.<\/p>\n

Siempre hubo algo m\u00e1s importante que estar a mi lado cuando m\u00e1s te necesitaba. Hubo siempre una excusa <\/a>o una raz\u00f3n o algo que surgi\u00f3 en el \u00faltimo minuto.<\/p>\n

It took me a while to see that you really had a perfect reason to not show up when you supposed to\u2014you just didn\u2019t care enough.<\/p>\n

Segu\u00ed aguantando, siempre demasiado ciego e ingenuo para ver las cosas que me mostrabas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tu boca me dec\u00eda una cosa, pero la forma en que te comportabas me dec\u00eda algo completamente opuesto. Y yo estaba confundido.<\/p>\n

My heart was telling me one thing and my mind something completely opposite. I should\u2019ve known that a person\u2019s effort sometimes matters more than love does.<\/p>\n

It was always easier for you to come up with excuses than it was for you to try. And I was so easily convinced. I kept saying that it doesn\u2019t matter and how it\u2019s not that big of a deal…how something must\u2019ve stopped you in your intention to be there for me.<\/p>\n

Segu\u00ed haci\u00e9ndolo hasta que por fin me di cuenta de que no hay nada en este mundo que pueda impedirte estar a mi lado si de verdad te importo.<\/p>\n

I always wore my heart on my sleeve and I never loved just so I\u2019d be loved back. I always gave my best and always had my purest intentions.<\/p>\n

Pero ya sabes, s\u00f3lo puedes darle a alguien hasta cierto punto.<\/strong> Hay una l\u00ednea hasta la que puedes seguir dando sin recibir nada a cambio. Cuando cruzas esa l\u00ednea, te rompes.<\/p>\n

When people ask me how is it possible we didn\u2019t make it when I loved you so much and when I tried so hard, I just remember how in love, it\u2019s impossible to make things work if there is only one person trying.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s doomed to end up sadly when there is one person bending over backwards to make things work and another one is just coming up with excuses. Love (if that was what you felt) doesn\u2019t survive without effort.<\/a><\/p>\n

Actually, I almost gave up on myself so I\u2019d make us work. I almost demolished all my values and all my beliefs to get your love.<\/p>\n

I almost deleted everything off of my priority list and decided to focus only on you. But then I realized I\u2019d just lose myself in my effort to make you love me.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t do it. I didn\u2019t choose you to be the only important thing in my life because I realized I\u2019m not half as important to you as you are to me.<\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que era la \u00fanica que lo intentaba de verdad. En alg\u00fan momento me pregunt\u00e9 qu\u00e9 pasar\u00eda si dejara de intentarlo. Y obtuve mi respuesta.<\/p>\n

Cuando me retir\u00e9, you didn\u2019t fight back.<\/a> You didn\u2019t reach out to me. You didn\u2019t try to stop me. You didn\u2019t decide it\u2019s time to actually make an effort. You let me go. And it seemed to be the easiest thing you did.<\/p>\n

If it was meant to be, it would be\u2014wasn\u2019t this your ultimate excuse?<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you had tried perhaps we would\u2019ve made it. If you had put in as much effort as you made excuses, maybe it would be.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t. So don\u2019t blame it on destiny or anything else. For once, be a man and say how it was your fault.<\/p>\n

Cari\u00f1o, esta la pagas t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know that I have no sins here other than staying longer than I should have and fighting for someone who never made an actual effort for me. I tried, you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019m done. I\u2019m finally done.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I spent so much time making excuses for you, forgiving you for your mistakes, giving you second chances and hoping that one day we\u2019ll come to the same page. I hoped that one day you\u2019ll see how hard I was trying for us and that you\u2019ll try to match my efforts. Somehow I convinced myself…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":13156,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/neil-fedorowycz-469549.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13142","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13142"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13142\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13156"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13142"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13142"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13142"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}