{"id":133767,"date":"2021-08-25T12:01:03","date_gmt":"2021-08-25T12:01:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=133767"},"modified":"2022-05-11T11:11:28","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T11:11:28","slug":"odio-a-mi-marido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/odio-a-mi-marido\/","title":{"rendered":"Odio a mi marido: 15 posibles razones y qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto"},"content":{"rendered":"

“I hate my husband.”<\/em> Si a cada mujer le dieran diez centavos cada vez que pronuncia esta frase, ya ser\u00eda m\u00e1s rica que Oprah.<\/p>\n

Let’s be honest with ourselves. Marriage is tough. At first, everything seems like a fairytale, and then, “all of a sudden,” you wake up in the middle of a pesadilla llamada matrimonio<\/em>.<\/a><\/p>\n

Vale, puede que lo haya exagerado, pero ya te haces una idea. (Bueno, espero que s\u00ed...)<\/p>\n

Empiezas a preguntarte: Why don\u2019t happy marriages come with instructions? Why do you suddenly hate your spouse when you’re supposed to be madly in love with them?<\/em><\/p>\n

Here’s the harsh reality: It’s impossible to live with someone without occasionally hating them. Period.<\/strong><\/p>\n

El problema surge cuando odia a tu c\u00f3nyuge <\/a>every single day of your life and have no idea why or what to do about it. If that’s what’s happening to you at the moment, I’m glad that you “landed” here.<\/p>\n

\u00a1Hoy es tu d\u00eda de suerte! (No, no se trata de una de esas t\u00e1cticas comerciales para persuadirte de que compres algo).<\/p>\n

Today you’ll learn about all the possible reasons why you hate your husband, signs of a bad husband (I’m really excited about this one), and what to do about it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Also, we’ll go through some signs that will help you realize whether your marriage is over (or not).<\/strong><\/p>\n

Have an imaginary drink on me (I’m sure you need one), and let’s get started!<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs normal odiar a tu marido?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yes, it’s completely normal to hate your husband from time to time (or all the time). Here’s why.<\/p>\n

We often tend to misinterpret the word “hate” and use it incorrectly. Whenever something bad happens to us, we immediately think, OMG, odio a esta mujer\/hombre. Odio esta situaci\u00f3n. Odio este clima. Odio esta ciudad. Odio este pastel.<\/em><\/p>\n

As you’ve probably noticed, we tend to overuse the word “hate” for the sake of expressing our annoyance and other negative feelings.<\/strong> So, when you say that you hate your husband, this doesn’t mean that you don’t love him<\/a> m\u00e1s o que he doesn’t love you<\/a>. Bueno, si te fijas en otros signs he doesn’t you anymore<\/a>entonces puedes empezar a sospechar que es verdad. <\/p>\n

Otherwise, when you say that you hate your husband it means that, for some reason, you find him annoying. So, there’s no reason to blame yourself when you start feeling like this.<\/p>\n

Estos sentimientos de fastidio suelen pasar con el tiempo, una vez que tu marido cambia o una vez que t\u00fa cambias de mentalidad.<\/p>\n

Well, sometimes these feelings of hatred last for longer, and that’s a red flag that something in your marriage needs a serious makeover or has come to an end.<\/p>\n

Odio a mi marido: 15 posibles razones por las que le odias<\/h2>\n

Su matrimonio est\u00e1 estancado<\/h3>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Ya no os sorprend\u00e9is el uno al otro con peque\u00f1as cosas, no hay gestos rom\u00e1nticos<\/a>, and you can’t remember the last time you said something nice to each other.<\/p>\n

You know your marriage is in a rut when the biggest romantic gesture you make for each other is bringing toilet paper in case of emergency, aka “no toilet paper in the house.” ?\u200d\u2640\ufe0f<\/p>\n

Be honest with yourself. When was the last time you went on a trip or did something new like joining a new class? If you can’t remember, then you know su matrimonio est\u00e1 estancado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

“Surprisingly,” this is one of the most common reasons why spouses start hating each other. You don’t really start hating your husband, but you start hating your boring marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perhaps your husband is totally okay with all this, and he\u2019s happy to only watch movies with you for the rest of his life (or do nothing), and that’s why you hate him even more.<\/p>\n

Guess what? You’re totally right about it!<\/p>\n

Now that you know where the problem lies, it’s time to do something about it. Hable con su marido sobre ello, sugi\u00e9rale hacer cosas nuevas y devuelve la chispa a tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There’s no reciprocity<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Whenever he needs support, you’re there. When he needs help with something, you stop what you’re doing only to assist him. You’re the only one who still says Te quiero<\/a> de vez en cuando.<\/em><\/p>\n

You know a marriage lacks reciprocity when one person feels like they\u2019re doing everything in a relationship without getting anything in return.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Once frustration and resentment build up, hating your husband seems logical. If your husband thinks that he’s always right and is not willing to even consider your opinions, then you know your marriage is not equal.<\/p>\n

What you need to do is show him that you’re not happy with that. Stop doing things for him until he starts appreciating it and reciprocating.<\/p>\n

El compromiso es un arte perdido<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Before, you would consider each other’s feelings and ideas, but today, you fight over every single thing only to avoid compromising. Perhaps you’re the one who is dispuestos a transigir<\/a>, but he’s not cooperating.<\/p>\n

Y entonces te preguntas: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 odio a mi marido?<\/strong><\/em> Obviously, you hate him because he’s not even trying to let you know that your opinion matters too.<\/p>\n

If one spouse thinks and behaves like they’re always right, you can forget about equality in a relationship. Constant fights over trivial things are not a solution either.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 puede hacer al respecto?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I suggest baby steps and starting with small things. For example, if you don’t know how to arrange pictures on the wall, find a solution that will result in compromising. Then switch to bigger things and apply the same method.<\/p>\n

Falta de respeto<\/h3>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

A\u00fan recuerdo uno de los mejores consejos sobre relaciones que me dio mi mejor amigo: Sin respeto, no tienes nada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

En mi opini\u00f3n, el respeto es sin\u00f3nimo de amor. When partners don’t respect each other, they allow themselves to behave how they want without taking responsibility for their actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lack of respect is one of the biggest marriage destroyers for a reason. It’s when a partner (or both partners) don’t express gratitude for little things and when they don’t care about each other’s feelings.<\/p>\n

If you’re sentirse irrespetado<\/span><\/a> en un matrimonio, tienes que hacerle saber a tu marido que algo tiene que cambiar. O puedes activar el instinto de h\u00e9roe<\/a> \u00a1que le motivar\u00e1n a ser su h\u00e9roe cotidiano!<\/p>\n

Su marido ha dejado de cuidarse<\/h3>\n

\"Vago<\/p>\n

They say that if you’re not in love with yourself, you cannot love others either. When one spouse stops taking care of themself, this reflects on their marriage as well.<\/p>\n

Atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica<\/a> is also one of the important aspects of every relationship. When your partner stops taking care of themself, it means they\u2019ve stopped taking care of your marriage as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he’s not doing anything about his physical appearance even though he should, then this is a sign of laziness and disrespect (unless it’s linked to mental health).<\/p>\n

So, don’t be afraid to let him know how you feel about all this. Help him establish a healthy diet and an exercise routine. Inspire him to start loving himself again.<\/p>\n

Hay grandes diferencias entre vosotros dos (que nunca abordasteis)<\/h3>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Cada persona tiene sus propios valores fundamentales, que pueden ser culturales, espirituales y morales. Estos valores forman parte de qui\u00e9n eres y de lo que quieres de tu vida ahora y en un futuro pr\u00f3ximo.<\/p>\n

Have you ever noticed a huge gap between you and your husband’s valores fundamentales<\/a>? \u00bfAlguna vez se dirigi\u00f3 a ellos?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perhaps you desire to have kids one day, and your partner doesn’t. Or he wants you to split finances while you want it to be shared.<\/p>\n

Hay muchas otras cosas que podr\u00edan convertirse en grandes problemas (si no se abordan a tiempo). Por lo tanto, hay tres cosas que puedes hacer aqu\u00ed:<\/p>\n