Ready? Then let’s get to it!<\/p>\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 es una relaci\u00f3n de situaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n
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Here’s one simple situationship definition: A situationship is the space between a committed relationship and something that is more than a friendship. It is an uncommitted or undefined romantic relationship.<\/p>\n
Urban Dictionary lo define de la siguiente manera: \u201cA relationship that has <\/i>sin etiqueta<\/i> on it\u2026 like a friendship but more than a friendship but not quite a relationship.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n
If you want an even simpler definition: It’s when you’re neither HERE nor THERE.<\/b><\/p>\n
You’ve been seeing each other regularly for a couple of weeks, months (or even years?), and you both know that it’s not just about sex.<\/p>\n
You have so much fun together, meaningful conversations are a part of your hangout routine, but you still haven’t (or you have no idea how to) define all that.<\/p>\n
Quiere evitar el DTR (definir la relaci\u00f3n)<\/a> conversaci\u00f3n a toda costa porque no tienes ni idea de c\u00f3mo abordarla. Tambi\u00e9n quieres evitar estar en un relaci\u00f3n unilateral<\/a>.<\/p>\n It’s when you know that the struggle (situationship vs. relationship) is real.<\/p>\n V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 a los hombres les gustan las situaciones? 10 razones reveladas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n If one partner wants to define things and (secretly) desires to be in a committed relationship while the other partner doesn’t want the same thing, then their situationship is a bad thing.<\/p>\n Si ambos miembros de la pareja est\u00e1n de acuerdo, pero s\u00f3lo necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo para salir de un <\/b>situaci\u00f3n<\/b> and define things, then it’s not that bad.<\/b><\/p>\n It all depends on both people’s expectations of the thing they currently have. Being in such a relationship doesn’t need to be bad if it’s only a transitional phase toward something defined.<\/p>\n But if we’re talking about potential amor no correspondido<\/a>Si tienes problemas de pareja, de compromiso, etc., este tipo de relaci\u00f3n puede pasarte factura. Entonces, sea sincero consigo mismo<\/a>. \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que realmente quieres?<\/p>\n Este tipo de relaci\u00f3n puede ser una fase de transici\u00f3n hacia una relaci\u00f3n comprometida y definida, o nunca avanzar\u00e1.<\/b><\/p>\n One (or both partners) will initiate the DTR (define the relationship) conversation, or one or both partners will decide to move on. There’s no grey area here. Wait, there is. It’s staying in a situationship.<\/p>\n If you’re feeling anxious about being on the same page as your partner, you know you’re in an undefined relationship or <\/b>una casi relaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Also, if you’re having trouble sleeping, eating, etc., then you secretly wish to be in a committed relationship with your partner but are afraid that they don’t. Therefore, you’re in a situationship.<\/p>\n That’s what happened to me recently. I refused to initiate DTR because I didn’t want to pressure the guy I was dating, so I waited for him to take the first step.<\/p>\n Well, he didn’t, and we continued being in an undefined relationship until I decided that it was time to move on. Here’s how you’ll know if this is happening to you:<\/p>\n There are multiple reasons for this “phenomenon.” Perhaps you’re dealing with un hombre emocionalmente inaccesible<\/a> or woman, or they’re not interested in anything serious at the moment.<\/p>\n You don’t make plans in advance, but you’re hacer el amor<\/a> and not just having sex. This is probably one of the most complicated sentences in the universe, but that’s just how this type of relationship works.<\/p>\n Last-minute or short-term plans have become routine. You know it’s less than a relationship, but still, it’s more than a casual encounter or booty call.<\/p>\n Every official and healthy relationship is based on a strong emotional connection. If you’re having surface-level conversations, this is a telltale sign that there is no connection or exclusivity.<\/p>\n Learning about the other person’s life, dreams, goals, etc., helps partners connect on a deeper level. If they don’t, then they get stuck in a situationship.<\/p>\n Christie Tcharkhoutian, PhD, LMFT, casamentera senior de Three Day Rule en Los \u00c1ngeles, describe esto de las citas online seguido de la fobia al compromiso de la siguiente manera:<\/p>\n “Online <\/i><\/b>aplicaciones de citas<\/i><\/b> have created this paradox of choice. We have so many options, and it\u2019s hard to commit to that person in front of us because when they go to the bathroom, we can just swipe.”<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n And that’s how you end up in an undefined relationship. You might secretly prioritize them, but they might be seeing other people because you haven’t defined anything.<\/p>\n If your “new relationship” consists of Netflix and random hookups, then you know you’re not in a real relationship.<\/p>\n The same thing applies if they haven’t introduced you to their friends and\/or family. Ladies, being too busy is just one of the many excusas que usan los hombres para huir del compromiso<\/a>.<\/p>\n This type of undefined relationship can greatly influence a person’s mental health and quality of life (speaking from experience). Don’t be ashamed to ask for help from psychotherapists and relationship experts.<\/p>\n There’s no discussion about the future, rasgos de una buena novia<\/a> o novio, o cualquier otra cosa relacionada con relaciones reales.<\/p>\n La \u00fanica discusi\u00f3n que tienes (contigo mismo) es mientras piensas en las banderas rojas de esta cosa indefinida que tienes.<\/p>\n La honestidad es la <\/b>mejor pol\u00edtica<\/b>. Diles que quieres ser su legitimo <\/b>novio\/a<\/b>. Tell them you’re interested in a <\/b>relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/b> y no <\/b>situaciones<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n If you’re both on the same page, then you’ll easily make a transition to an official relationship. Before having a conversation with them, think about whether you’re sabotear inconscientemente tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a> (o, deber\u00eda decir, la relaci\u00f3n indefinida).<\/p>\n If you’re interested in defining your relationship, but they aren’t, then walking away from a situationship and cutting off all communication is the best option (and probably the only option).<\/p>\n\u00bfEs mala una situaci\u00f3n de pareja?<\/h2>\n
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A situationship is not necessarily bad, and it all depends on both partner’s expectations of their relationship (or the thing they have at the moment). Look at it this way:<\/p>\n\u00bfCu\u00e1nto duran las situaciones?<\/h2>\n
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Lo creas o no, estas relaciones pueden durar meses (o incluso a\u00f1os), y suele haber dos resultados posibles:<\/p>\n\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si se est\u00e1 en una situaci\u00f3n de pareja?<\/h2>\n
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If you haven’t defined the thing you have yet, then you’re in a situationship. Wait, I have better examples.<\/p>\nSigns You’re DEFINITELY In A Situationship<\/h2>\n
You haven’t put a label on your relationship (yet)<\/h3>\n
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If you haven’t defined the relationship, then you know you’re in a situationship. Talking about the meaning of real situationship…<\/p>\nYou don’t make plans in advance<\/h3>\n
Periodicidad irregular de las reuniones<\/h3>\n
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En tiempos de aplicaciones de citas, la falta de coherencia ha sido tendencia. Esto es especialmente cierto para los millennials que se encuentran con frecuencia en relaciones indefinidas.<\/p>\nFalta de conexi\u00f3n emocional<\/h3>\n
Podr\u00edan estar viendo a otras personas<\/h3>\n
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Cuando estaba atrapada en una relaci\u00f3n indefinida con un chico, me preguntaba constantemente: \u00bfEs un jugador<\/i><\/a>?<\/i> Buscaba pistas en las redes sociales de que esto pod\u00eda ser cierto, y acert\u00e9.<\/p>\nThey haven’t introduced you to their friends and family<\/h3>\n
Se siente ansioso y confuso<\/h3>\n
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Are you okay with being someone’s media novia<\/a> or half-boyfriend? If not, then, of course, you’ll feel anxious and confused.<\/p>\nThere’s no discussion about future plans<\/h3>\n
What To Do If You’re In A Situationship<\/h2>\n
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If you’re okay with being in such a relationship, then continue doing what you\u2019re doing. If you’re not okay with being in an undefined relationship but want something more, then don’t follow situationship rules.<\/p>\nSituaciones Citas<\/h2>\n
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Situationships don’t have to be complex or frustrating if both partners know what they want. With that being said, conversation is key when it comes to taking things to the next level and entering the realm of real relationships.<\/p>\n