{"id":13441,"date":"2020-09-30T09:34:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-30T09:34:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13441"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:56:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:56:17","slug":"prioridad-no-opcion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/prioridad-no-opcion\/","title":{"rendered":"Ella deber\u00eda ser tu prioridad, no una opci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

No nos andemos con rodeos y admitamos que ocurre en muchos casos que cuando un hombre conoce a una buena mujer, no tiene ni idea de qu\u00e9 hacer con ella.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t know how to treat her, what to think or how to behave even to begin with.<\/p>\n

A veces, cuando un hombre conoce a una buena mujer, sabe al instante que la quiere en su vida, pero de alguna manera estropea las cosas.<\/p>\n

A menudo ocurre que empieza a pensar y analizar todo en exceso, desde la m\u00e1s peque\u00f1a situaci\u00f3n de su vida, y simplemente acaba siendo t\u00f3xico<\/a> para \u00e9l y para la mujer.<\/p>\n

At some point, it appears to him that it\u2019s too early to become serious about life, he is not ready or he is unwilling to settle down or to commit to a single woman, but he also doesn\u2019t want to miss out on this opportunity to tie an amazing woman to himself.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que arrastrar\u00e1 a esta buena mujer a algo que podr\u00eda ser una relaci\u00f3n, pero tambi\u00e9n podr\u00eda no serlo.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s just wrong. It\u2019s wrong on so many levels.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando conoces a una buena mujer, y hay un l\u00edo en tu cabeza, hay una de dos cosas que debes hacer: o intensificar tu juego o dejarla ir. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You either tell yourself, \u201cThis is what I\u2019ve been waiting for my whole life,\u201d or you say, \u201cShe\u2019s amazing, but I\u2019m not on the same page, so I\u2019ll just let it go.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re unsure whether you want to commit or not, you don\u2019t make empty promises, you don\u2019t talk to her about the future and you don\u2019t plan things if you aren\u2019t ready to make them happen.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t drag a good woman into something that you yourself have no idea what it is.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t confuse her and you don\u2019t hold her next to you and make her wait until you\u2019re ready to commit.<\/p>\n

A veces, la vida nos condimenta las cosas, pero otras veces, las cosas no son tan complicadas<\/a>\u00bfSabes?<\/p>\n

La vida es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil cuando tanto las alegr\u00edas como las penas se comparten con la persona adecuada.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

So when you meet the right woman, you don\u2019t come up with excuses of how you\u2019re not ready or how now is not the time or God knows what. You either make it happen or you let her go.<\/p>\n

There are women who love wholeheartedly, laugh from the bottom of their hearts, cry out loud, don\u2019t play games and always tell the truth.<\/p>\n

There are women who make things happen for themselves, women who don\u2019t need men to complete them in life and who aren\u2019t scared to live their lives to the fullest; you know, the kind of women who your mother talked to you about and your father told you to marry?<\/p>\n

These kinds of women aren\u2019t afraid to commit to a single man.<\/p>\n

No temen pasar el resto de su vida con un hombre soltero o formar una familia junto a \u00e9l, para invertir en \u00e9l y en su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

They aren\u2019t afraid to say, \u201cNo\u201d to other men and all the other possibilities.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de mujer deber\u00eda ser tu prioridad, no una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This kind of a woman shouldn\u2019t be lied to, shouldn\u2019t be played or led to believe she has a future with you when you yourself are confused about what you want from your life.<\/p>\n

Te mereces este tipo de mujer cuando, y s\u00f3lo cuando, sepas exactamente lo que quieres de ella.<\/p>\n

When you meet a good woman, you forget all about why it couldn\u2019t work and you start thinking about what you could do to make it work.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t come up with excuses, but you step up your game and make it happen. You tell yourself this is a once in a lifetime opportunity and you don\u2019t let yourself miss it.<\/p>\n

Cuando conoces a una buena mujer, la pones en lo m\u00e1s alto de tu lista de prioridades. No hay peros, ni otras opciones, ni juegos.<\/p>\n

Cuando conoces a una buena mujer, simplemente te haces hombre.<\/p>\n

Empiezas a construir tu vida, empiezas a construirte a ti mismo y empiezas a darte cuenta lo que significa comprometerse de verdad con alguien.<\/a><\/p>\n

You finally realize that you weren\u2019t born to wander through this life, but to find your other half and be happy.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Recuerdo las palabras que mi madre le dijo a mi hermano cuando ten\u00eda la cabeza hecha un l\u00edo: \u201cIf she respects you, if she’s loyal and generous, kind and smart, don\u2019t let her see any other man but you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If she\u2019s a good woman, don\u2019t let her wait for you or give her space to doubt your intentions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You take her hand, you tell her how much she means to you and you put her at the top of your priority list.\u201d<\/p>\n

If this isn\u2019t golden philosophy on how to treat women, I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n

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\"Ella<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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