{"id":13442,"date":"2020-08-30T09:37:20","date_gmt":"2020-08-30T09:37:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13442"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:08:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:08:07","slug":"conseguir-amor-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/conseguir-amor-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo superar un amor t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre pens\u00e9 que encontrar\u00eda a un hombre del que me enamorar\u00eda y que vivir\u00edamos felices para siempre. Pensaba que una vez que conociera a alguien especial, ser\u00eda mi persona, mi alma gemela y mi verdadera pareja.<\/p>\n

But unfortunately, that didn\u2019t happen. Instead, I met a person who was anything but good. And the worst part was that I could see signs screaming that he was bad from miles away but I still decided to give him a chance.<\/p>\n

Yo era ingenua y pensaba que el amor pod\u00eda cambiar a cualquiera, incluso a \u00e9l que estaba tan jodido.<\/p>\n

So, our story began\u2014the one where I suffered, and he got all that he had ever wanted. It was so easy to control me because I fell in love with him, thinking that after some time passed, he would fall in love with me too.<\/p>\n

But that wasn\u2019t something that he wanted.<\/p>\n

En cambio, quer\u00eda una chica que hiciera las cosas como \u00e9l quer\u00eda, que lo amara y perdonara sus errores que \u00e9l repetir\u00eda una y otra vez.<\/p>\n

He wanted a girl who kept her mouth shut because he always had something smart to say. He was happy seeing that I was a bird in a cage but this time it wasn\u2019t a golden one.<\/p>\n

Era una jaula llena de miseria y dolor, en la que me sent\u00eda tan mal, d\u00e1ndole la oportunidad de destruirme.<\/p>\n

I once loved a man who couldn\u2019t love me back.<\/strong> Maybe that was just his decision because if he had loved me he wouldn\u2019t have hurt me so badly.<\/p>\n

Eso no es algo que se hace a las personas que amas. Lo amaba con todo mi coraz\u00f3n y mi alma, pensando que cambiar\u00eda y que me maltrataba s\u00f3lo porque ten\u00eda algunos problemas en su vida.<\/p>\n

But now I know that I shouldn\u2019t have made excuses for him. From the first time he treated me like I didn\u2019t deserve, I should have left him. But, at that time, I wasn\u2019t strong enough to do that.<\/p>\n

Una vez am\u00e9 a un hombre que me prometi\u00f3 una vida que merec\u00eda.<\/strong> Pero en lugar de eso, me hizo vivir un infierno en el que ten\u00eda que sacrificar cosas para que \u00e9l se sintiera feliz.<\/p>\n

I put my life on hold because of him and he didn\u2019t even ask me why I was doing that when he saw that it wasn\u2019t making me happy. He knew that I would do anything for him, so he just let me drown in his amor t\u00f3xico.<\/a><\/p>\n

Nunca se esforz\u00f3 por hacerme feliz, aunque quer\u00eda que hiciera cosas por \u00e9l. Nunca me trat\u00f3 bien y nunca me dio el amor que merec\u00eda.<\/p>\n

El hombre del que tanto me enamor\u00e9 era el ser humano m\u00e1s ego\u00edsta que jam\u00e1s hab\u00eda conocido, pero aun as\u00ed lo am\u00e9 con todo mi coraz\u00f3n y mi alma, sin pensar que podr\u00eda alejarme de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Una vez am\u00e9 a un hombre que me hizo pensar que yo era la antip\u00e1tica.<\/strong> He made me think that I didn\u2019t deserve the love people write books about.<\/p>\n

He made me believe that I didn\u2019t deserve anything special and that I should be satisfied with what he gave me. That man never thought about my needs and my wishes but he dared to take the right to think and to feel instead of me.<\/p>\n

With him, I felt like I didn\u2019t have any common sense and that he always had the last word. He took my sanity, my free will and my right to judge.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda transformarme en una mu\u00f1eca a la que pudiera controlar d\u00e1ndole s\u00f3lo migajas de amor de su mesa. Y aunque me parec\u00eda horrible, durante alg\u00fan tiempo pens\u00e9 que estaba haciendo lo correcto.<\/p>\n

Estaba ciega para ver que se aprovech\u00f3 de m\u00ed todo ese tiempo y que yo s\u00f3lo era alguien que estaba ah\u00ed para demostrarle que \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n pod\u00eda ser amado y que no estaba tan roto como la gente pensaba.<\/p>\n

Una vez am\u00e9 a un hombre que me hizo perder la confianza en el amor.<\/strong> Por su culpa, pens\u00e9 que nunca volver\u00eda a encontrar el amor. Pens\u00e9 que nadie me querr\u00eda, as\u00ed de rota y triste.<\/p>\n

I thought that because of him, I would never find a man who would love me like I deserved because he always told me that men like that didn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

He told me that men just pretend to love girls and after some time they take them for granted. He also told me that it goes like that in life and that I can\u2019t change it.<\/p>\n

Because of him, I stopped believing in stories about Prince Charming who would come when you least expected him and who would take you to the love land\u2014the place where love is so real that you can almost touch it. Because of him, I lost all that was making me move forward.<\/p>\n

Una vez am\u00e9 a un hombre que me demostr\u00f3 que era en vano luchar por su amor.<\/strong> Y se asegur\u00f3 de demostr\u00e1rmelo muchas veces.<\/p>\n

Every time he neglected me when we were in company, he would show me that he didn\u2019t give a damn about me. Every time a good-looking girl would walk past him, he showed me that he didn\u2019t respect me.<\/a><\/p>\n

Every time I was sad, he would just leave the house like he wasn\u2019t leaving anyone special inside.<\/p>\n

And because of him, I learned to finally fight for my rights because I saw that he wouldn\u2019t do that for me. Because of him, I made a huge step forward, starting to live my life again with the people I liked.<\/p>\n

Finalmente me liber\u00e9 de \u00e9l, demostr\u00e1ndole que yo tambi\u00e9n pod\u00eda tener una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Finalmente me decid\u00ed y me alej\u00e9 de sus manos t\u00f3xicas, de sus dulces palabras t\u00f3xicas que siempre pod\u00edan enga\u00f1arme, y al perderle, finalmente me encontr\u00e9 a m\u00ed misma. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que merec\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l pod\u00eda darme y, por primera vez en mi vida, \u00a1me puse a m\u00ed primero!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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