{"id":13484,"date":"2020-07-30T12:35:28","date_gmt":"2020-07-30T12:35:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13484"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:39:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:39:54","slug":"la-verdad-tras-los-muros-emocionales-construidos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-tras-los-muros-emocionales-construidos\/","title":{"rendered":"La verdad tras los muros emocionales que construy\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

La miras desde la distancia, pregunt\u00e1ndote por lo que habr\u00e1 pasado para construir muros tan gruesos y altos.<\/p>\n

Looking at the deep oceans of pain in her eyes, hiding behind the strongest smile on her face, you know she\u2019s hurting.<\/p>\n

You know she\u2019s afraid. But you\u2019re just blown away by the strength of her courage and the beauty of her soul. And you can\u2019t help but wonder if there is a way you can pass through those walls?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHay alguna forma de nadar a trav\u00e9s de esos oc\u00e9anos de tristeza y quiz\u00e1s, s\u00f3lo quiz\u00e1s, convertirlos en felicidad una vez que se llega al otro lado?<\/p>\n

Ya no conf\u00eda en la gente.<\/strong> Se ha jugado con su confianza<\/a> demasiadas veces como para que se rindiera f\u00e1cilmente. Confiaba en la gente con su coraz\u00f3n, con sus emociones y sus miedos, solo para ver c\u00f3mo le sal\u00eda el tiro por la culata.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo para verlos usados como arsenal contra ella. Confiaba en que otras personas no dejar\u00edan caer su tierno coraz\u00f3n, s\u00f3lo para ver c\u00f3mo lo romp\u00edan en miles de pedazos, que quedaban para que ella los recogiera.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Confiaba en que otros le cubrir\u00edan las espaldas, s\u00f3lo para ver c\u00f3mo la apu\u00f1alaban. Ya no conf\u00eda en los dem\u00e1s, s\u00f3lo conf\u00eda en s\u00ed misma y en los muros que la mantienen a salvo.<\/p>\n

Ya no deja entrar a la gente.<\/strong> Sol\u00eda dejar que la gente utilizara su coraz\u00f3n como refugio contra las tormentas de la vida. Siempre era la que ten\u00eda el coraz\u00f3n m\u00e1s grande, la que se preocupaba m\u00e1s y se esforzaba m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Siempre era ella la que ven\u00eda corriendo a ayudar, siempre que se la necesitaba. Pero la dejaron sola demasiadas veces.<\/p>\n

Abandonada a ser desgarrada por las fr\u00edas alas de la soledad y los afilados trozos de su propio coraz\u00f3n que giraban a su alrededor, cort\u00e1ndola y magull\u00e1ndola mientras intentaba recogerlos.<\/p>\n

Siempre era ella la que sosten\u00eda a los dem\u00e1s, pero nunca la sosten\u00edan a ella. As\u00ed que aprendi\u00f3 a hacerlo ella misma.<\/p>\n

Cuando por fin peg\u00f3 todos los pedazos de s\u00ed misma, los encerr\u00f3 en su propio mundo, sin querer compartirlos una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Miedo de ver c\u00f3mo se hacen a\u00f1icos una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ya no siente.<\/strong> Sol\u00eda arde en amor<\/a> y le quem\u00f3 la espalda.<\/p>\n

She used to hope and it crushed her. She used to believe and it broke her. She\u2019s afraid of believing in a happy ending anymore.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s afraid of believing in love. She\u2019s just afraid of letting go of the only thing that\u2019s keeping her safe, because there\u2019s no way she can survive another heartbreak.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no way she can survive another disappointment.<\/p>\n

Ya no brilla tanto como antes.<\/strong> Su fuego, esa pasi\u00f3n que se puede ver tras la tristeza de sus ojos, sol\u00eda arder con tanta intensidad.<\/p>\n

Ese fuego era lo que la empujaba hacia adelante, ese fuego estaba detr\u00e1s de todo ese amor que compart\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Ese fuego era la chispa de sus ojos, el calor de su coraz\u00f3n y la belleza de su alma.<\/p>\n

But the wrong people came too close to it and dimmed it. Now she\u2019s keeping it to herself, hiding it behind all those walls.<\/p>\n

Trying to protect what\u2019s left of her, trying to hide all of the scars she bears. Now she\u2019s hiding her fire, because she\u2019s afraid it will burn down.<\/p>\n

Ya no lo intenta, porque est\u00e1 muy cansada.<\/strong> Cansado de que se d\u00e9 por sentado, cansado de ser<\/a> el que m\u00e1s ama.<\/p>\n

Cansado de ser demasiado y demasiado menos. Cansado de no ser suficiente. Cansada de creer en el amor, pero acabar herida y sola. Recibi\u00f3 golpes tan fuertes como para matar y, sin embargo, sigue en pie.<\/p>\n

A\u00fan respira y vive. Solo espera que el tiempo cure todas sus heridas, y que tal vez, solo tal vez, haya alguien digno de dejar caer esos muros.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esperando que haya alguien que vea su belleza tras esas cicatrices y el fuego tras esos muros.<\/p>\n

That there will be someone who will put in the effort to show her that she really matters, that she won\u2019t be hurt again.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re looking at her from a distance, because she won\u2019t let you near.<\/strong> You\u2019re looking at her, wondering what her story is.<\/p>\n

Wondering if there is a way to conquer those walls. But there\u2019s no shortcut to her heart, there\u2019s no army strong enough to crush those walls. It takes time. It takes love.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re looking at her, but do you really see her?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re looking at her from a distance, wondering what she\u2019s been through to build walls so thick and high. Looking at the deep oceans of pain in her eyes, hiding behind the strongest smile on her face, you know she\u2019s hurting. You know she\u2019s afraid. But you\u2019re just blown away by the strength of her…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":105244,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/The-Truth-Behind-The-Emotional-Walls-She-Built.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13484"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13484\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105244"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}