{"id":13499,"date":"2018-01-30T13:41:50","date_gmt":"2018-01-30T13:41:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13499"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:50:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:50:41","slug":"un-amigo-otro-merecen-alguien-mejor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/un-amigo-otro-merecen-alguien-mejor\/","title":{"rendered":"De un amigo a otro: Te mereces a alguien mejor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I hate to see you like this, all torn up because of some guy who is unworthy of someone as special as you are. If you could see what I see, you would realize that he doesn\u2019t deserve your time of day, let alone your heart.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s not easy to let go of him, even though deep down I know you feel you should. You invested so much time and energy into your relationship. You have given him all of you and he repaid you with all those tears rolling down your face.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Odio que te est\u00e9 dando un amor mediocre cuando deber\u00edas tener algo fuera de este mundo. Odio que te haga sentir m\u00e1s triste que feliz todo el tiempo. Odio que cada vez que te ilusionas pensando que ha cambiado, te falle a\u00fan m\u00e1s. Despierta querida, \u00e9l no es el hombre para ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Love shouldn\u2019t feel like torture. Love shouldn\u2019t hurt. You shouldn\u2019t settle for someone who gives you any less than you are giving him. Take a step back and see him for who he really is.<\/p>\n<p>His words don\u2019t match his actions. He says he loves you, he cares for you and that he would do anything to make you realize that. But he never does. He stays the same. His monologues and persuasion skills are getting better and better. Pay attention to what he does, not what he says. <strong>Sus palabras son baratas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 ah\u00ed cuando te necesita, pero \u00bfd\u00f3nde est\u00e1 cuando t\u00fa le necesitas? Sabe que vas a escucharle y a ofrecerle un buen consejo. Sabe que cuenta contigo cuando todo va cuesta abajo y su vida se convierte en un completo desastre. Pero, \u00bfd\u00f3nde est\u00e1 cuando t\u00fa sufres? <strong>Puede que de vez en cuando se abalance para salvar el d\u00eda, pero la mayor\u00eda de las veces no se le encuentra por ninguna parte.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He knows that you\u2019ll be there no matter what, and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-senales-de-alarma\/\">te est\u00e1 dando por sentado<\/a>. No matter how bad his behavior gets, or how disrespectful and unreliable he is, he always counts on you being there. That\u2019s why he sees no risk in hurting you more and more every time. <strong>Sabe que vas a encontrar en tu coraz\u00f3n la forma de perdonarle pase lo que pase. Por lo tanto, est\u00e1 repitiendo los mismos viejos patrones una y otra vez.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>He made you cry more times that you can count. I know relationships are hard work and not everything is rainbows and butterflies, but it doesn\u2019t have to be so hard and gloomy all the time. <strong>You used to be so happy and radiant all on your own. But I don\u2019t see that anymore. He has emotionally drained you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All of our conversations these days are revolving around what he has done this time. It\u2019s always bad and you are upset and sad all the time. I wish you could realize that you are better off without him, that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/men\/understanding-women\/types-of-bad-girlfriends-wholl-make-your-life-hell\" rel=\"noopener\">s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 haciendo de tu vida un infierno<\/a>. Despierta querida, \u00e9l no es el hombre para ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te mereces a alguien mejor.<\/strong> You deserve a man who will wipe away all the tears from that beautiful face of yours and do his best to put a smile back on it. You deserve a man who will make it his life\u2019s mission to build a happy relationship with you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te mereces a alguien desinteresado.<\/strong> Someone who won\u2019t put his needs in front of yours. Someone who will know how to give all of him in return. Someone who will provide you with the trust, respect, and love you are giving him. Someone who knows how to reciprocate and is grateful for all you are giving him. Someone who will never take you for granted.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te mereces a alguien que respalde cada una de sus palabras.<\/strong> Someone who isn\u2019t going to tell you one story one day and something completely different the next. Someone you can rely on. Someone honest and kind. Someone you can trust. Someone who will never look down on you and who will make you feel like<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/family\/mom-you-are-more-than-enough\/\"> eres m\u00e1s que suficiente.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Te mereces a alguien que cuide de ti.<\/strong> Don\u2019t get me wrong, I know you are not a baby and that you can take care of yourself, but I mean someone who will see all the burden you are carrying. Someone who will help you carry it and make it a little less heavy. Someone who will be there. Someone whose hug can heal you. Someone who will spoil and pamper you because he will see how tired you are and someone who loves nothing more than seeing you sparkling with joy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te mereces a alguien cuyo coraz\u00f3n sea tan grande como el tuyo.<\/strong> Alguien que ama con un amor tan tierno que jam\u00e1s se le ocurrir\u00eda hacerte da\u00f1o. Alguien que sea genuinamente amable y una buena persona por encima de todo. Alguien con un alma tan pura como la tuya.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, please wake up my dearest, the man you are holding on so tightly to is not the man for you. You wasted your precious time waiting for him to change, please don\u2019t lose a second more. He will always stay the same. He will always find new ways to disappoint you. You deserve to be happy and radiant again. You deserve someone better.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hate to see you like this, all torn up because of some guy who is unworthy of someone as special as you are. If you could see what I see, you would realize that he doesn\u2019t deserve your time of day, let alone your heart. I know it\u2019s not easy to let go of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":13501,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13499","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/jake-davies-305566-1.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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