{"id":13515,"date":"2020-07-22T12:16:50","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T12:16:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13515"},"modified":"2021-10-28T13:42:34","modified_gmt":"2021-10-28T13:42:34","slug":"no-dejes-que-te-escuche-la-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-dejes-que-te-escuche-la-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"No le dejes volver a tu vida (porque ya lo has o\u00eddo todo antes)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don’t you have that feeling that the text he is sending you right now is so similar to those you have read before? That all he says feels like it has been already said? That all he does has been done before?<\/em> <\/p>\n

That’s because he saw what works on you and he is replaying the same scenario all over again.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 intentando ablandar tu coraz\u00f3n. Sabe que sientes algo por \u00e9l, aunque te haya decepcionado tantas veces.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 confiando en tu buena naturaleza que te har\u00e1 comprender, que te har\u00e1 darle una oportunidad m\u00e1s, que le perdonar\u00e1 una vez m\u00e1s. Est\u00e1 usando todo el amor que le tienes contra ti.<\/p>\n

But what he doesn’t know is that you are harto de perdonar.<\/a> Sientes n\u00e1useas cuando ves su nombre en la pantalla porque ya puedes adivinar la historia de medio pelo que ha creado.<\/p>\n

It’s always the same story. He didn’t mean it. He loves you. He knows you deserve more. He hopes that you can find it in your heart to forgive him.<\/p>\n

Pones los ojos en blanco, no te lo crees, pero hay una parte de ti que quiere creer que quiz\u00e1 esta vez sea diferente. Quiz\u00e1 esta vez sea sincero. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That part of you is so strong because it loves him deeply, even though he doesn’t deserve it. But he hasn\u2019t changed. He is still the same old pitiful excuse for a human being.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

This time is no different than those millions of previous times you heard the same words. And you just can’t handle going through the heartache one more time. He broke your heart one too many times and he would do it again.<\/p>\n

He is used to having his safe harbor in you. He relies on you to be there and to take him back no matter what. But there comes a point where there is no going back. When all the love you have for him just isn’t enough.<\/p>\n

Si te quisiera como t\u00fa le quieres, nunca te har\u00eda da\u00f1o repetidamente como lo hace. Casi todo el mundo puede tener una segunda oportunidad, pero algo m\u00e1s es demasiado.<\/p>\n

Porque le diste innumerables oportunidades y cada vez te hac\u00eda m\u00e1s da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

So, don’t take him back, because you have heard it all before. You lived through it all before and this time won’t be any different no matter what he says or how he says it.<\/p>\n

Es el mismo hombre que te decepcion\u00f3 tantas veces antes y no es diferente ahora.<\/p>\n

En lugar de darle innumerables oportunidades, date una oportunidad a ti misma. Una oportunidad para empezar de nuevo. Una oportunidad de descubrir qui\u00e9n eres sin que \u00e9l te arrastre de nuevo al mismo l\u00edo todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Puedes hacer mucho m\u00e1s. Puedes ser mucho m\u00e1s. Puedes ser feliz.<\/p>\n

Recu\u00e9rdate que te mereces el mundo. Que eres m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que crees<\/a> que eres. Puedes encontrar la fuerza en ti que te asegure que a veces tienes que olvidar lo que sientes y recordar lo que mereces.<\/p>\n

He is not the one for you. He is just blocking the way and real love is not able to find you. And all that love you have for him would look a lot better if it was given to the right person\u2014 the one who is going to give all that love back.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, cuando te diga que esta vez es diferente, dile que lo sabes, porque esta vez te est\u00e1s eligiendo a ti misma por encima de \u00e9l. Esta vez est\u00e1s eligiendo tu propia felicidad.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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