At the beginning everything is easy. You are blinded by infatuation and the sexual chemistry is too strong to see what is really going on or what your partner is truly like. We all give the best of ourselves to impress whoever we are dating. Most of us hide our imperfections, but that is completely understandable if you don\u2019t have anything serious to hide.<\/p>\n
El verdadero problema surge cuando tropiezas con alguien que es t\u00f3xico. Por supuesto, ocultar\u00e1 esa faceta suya porque quiere atraerte. Se presentar\u00e1 como perfecto e intachable hasta que te sueltes un poco y empieces a confiar en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n
When the honeymoon phase is over, the masks drop and you are finally able to see the true face of your loved one. The problem is that most of us get comfortable and we put down our guards. That\u2019s when the toxic behaviors start emerging.<\/p>\n
There doesn\u2019t have to be anything big at first. Actually, there never is. Toxic behaviors are disclosed bit by bit until they cause a great explosion of emotions and finally a catastrophe.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n To prevent becoming a victim of toxic behavior, it\u2019s best not to give in to the passion completely at the beginning. Try to look at things with a different pair of eyes, like it\u2019s happening to someone else.<\/p>\n Intenta ser objetivo y cauto. Quiz\u00e1 entonces veas todas las alertas rojas que te gritan que salgas de ese entorno t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n Estos son los comportamientos t\u00f3xicos que presenta y que har\u00e1n que vuestra relaci\u00f3n se vaya al garete:<\/p>\n Siempre que hay un problema en tu relaci\u00f3n que te hace infeliz y cuando te enfrentas a \u00e9l por ello, se vuelve loco. Digas lo que digas, le critiques lo que le critiques, reacciona de forma exagerada.<\/p>\n You think that after some time you\u2019ve been together, he will realize that you don\u2019t want to put him down but help him become better by showing him his mistakes and things he did that hurt you. But, he doesn\u2019t get it that way.<\/p>\n He thinks you are out to get him and humiliate him. Therefore, any overreaction by him as feedback on something you\u2019ve got to say is clearly showing disrespect to you.<\/p>\n By doing this, he is telling you he doesn\u2019t want to hear what you\u2019ve got to say. He doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let this happen to you. No one has the right to control your life or to see you submissive to him. If you are feeling unhappy, you have the right to talk about it.<\/p>\n If he denies you this, then it\u2019s better to leave than to deal with much greater consequences that will follow.<\/p>\n Your self-respect is highly important and if he doesn\u2019t respect you, it\u2019s only a matter of time when you will stop respet\u00e1ndote a ti mismo.<\/a> Y entonces, tienes un problema.<\/p>\n Trust is the most important ingredient of a successful relationship. It\u2019s the ground on which you build your future life with the one you love. If you are not honest with each other, your relationship will fail sooner or later.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t know if he is lying to you at the beginning, but he won\u2019t be able to withhold the truth for so long. It will eventually come out in the open.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t deserve to be treated like this. Just remember that there are plenty of guys out there who would treat you like their princess, who would never lie to you because they simply trust you.<\/p>\n Saben que les ayudar\u00e1s y comprender\u00e1s sin juzgarles.<\/p>\n This is pretty much the same as ignoring someone. He won\u2019t even acknowledge your presence.<\/p>\n Si est\u00e1s hablando con \u00e9l y tratando de explicarle c\u00f3mo te sientes o tratando de resolver alg\u00fan problema, te ignorar\u00e1 por completo y se quedar\u00e1 mirando su tel\u00e9fono o simplemente abandonar\u00e1 la conversaci\u00f3n sin anunciarlo.<\/p>\n Why? Simply, because he doesn\u2019t give a damn. This is not healthy behavior. By stonewalling your partner, the two of you can only grow more apart even if there was a chance to solve your problems.<\/p>\n Tienes derecho a que te escuchen. Tu voz tiene que ser escuchada. Aunque no tengas raz\u00f3n, tienes derecho a decir lo que quieras. Nadie puede ni debe imped\u00edrtelo.<\/p>\n1. He can\u2019t stand criticism<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Te est\u00e1 ocultando cosas<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Te est\u00e1 dando largas<\/span><\/h2>\n