We’ve been taught through media, movies and the stories we’ve heard our whole lives that ‘the one’ will come and that all we need to do is be ready to receive love.<\/p>\n
Everyone has their ‘one’ and that’s what is so wrong about it because no relationship advice should sound like ‘just be patient, the one will come’.<\/p>\n
What? Does he really fly right out of the sky to be your one and only true love? I’d like to tell you that you’ve probably met someone who was a potential life partner for you.<\/p>\n
You must be thinking that I’m going out of my mind, but it’s the truth.<\/p>\n
When we look for the right guy, we think that that position could only be taken by one person in particular, but the truth is that there a lot of guys out there to whom you’re attracted and have the right behavior that you’d like to see in your husband to be.<\/p>\n
Existe esta historia que nos jode la mente sobre c\u00f3mo conoceremos a alguien: nos tropezaremos con \u00e9l un d\u00eda y el tiempo se detendr\u00e1. Pensamos que al instante nos invadir\u00e1n los sentimientos.<\/p>\n
It’ll be like we’re the only two people in the entire world. But that’s so wrong. Las relaciones requieren mucho trabajo<\/a>compromiso y confianza.<\/p>\n Because of that, we’re giving you 7 things that you need to know before finding your right guy:<\/p>\n Al principio de la relaci\u00f3n, te invadir\u00e1n incre\u00edbles sentimientos de alegr\u00eda y felicidad, como si no hubiera nada que pudiera separaros.<\/p>\n Pero, \u00bfcu\u00e1ntas veces te ha pasado? Le conoces y todo va genial, pero cuando la relaci\u00f3n avanza, empieza a comportarse como un gilipollas y no te queda m\u00e1s remedio que romper.<\/p>\n La etapa del amor de cachorro es el tipo de amor superficial durante los primeros meses, cuando todo va genial, pero debes ser consciente de que llegar\u00e1n momentos dif\u00edciles y los dos ten\u00e9is que encontrar la manera de superarlos.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, this one I’ve learned the hard way. I would get into a fight with my boyfriend and in an instant, I would break up the relationship because I thought that there was nothing I could do.<\/p>\n I thought that I would never fight with my true love and I’ve been suffering because of that\u2014a lot. I am not telling you that insulting your partner or screaming and yelling is OK.<\/p>\n But arguments that happen along the way aren’t worthy of throwing in the towel.<\/p>\n Meaning passion and lust. Lust isn’t something that creates a lasting and loving relationship. It’s just an explosion of chemistry between you two.<\/p>\n That doesn’t bring long-term happiness. Healthy relationships aren’t built on that but rather on communication and deep connection.<\/p>\n Una relaci\u00f3n sana tambi\u00e9n tiene sexo apasionado, pero va acompa\u00f1ado de una conexi\u00f3n emocional y mental.<\/p>\n This goes together with the past point. I’m not telling you that you need to discuss the origin of the Universe but talking about your emotions and thoughts is very important.<\/p>\n Abrirse a tu pareja es lo m\u00e1s importante aqu\u00ed (incluso m\u00e1s que el sexo). Hablar de vuestro futuro juntos es como crear un camino que os lleve a los dos a un una relaci\u00f3n exitosa y saludable<\/a>.<\/p>\n I mean, if he doesn’t want kids and you do and there is quite a chance that none of you want to change your mind, so why would you want to spend your energy on that. But how would you know if you didn’t talk it through?<\/p>\n If you’ve been through a lot in your past relationships, if you’ve been unappreciated by your parents, there is a chance that you are now trying to make it all better by putting all your broken pieces into someone else’s hands and expecting them to rebuild you.<\/p>\n That’s not really effective and it can cause you too much pain if your expectations aren’t met. Rather, put in some time and effort to fix your own self before you start a new relationship.<\/p>\n S\u00f3lo t\u00fa sabes c\u00f3mo pegar tus piezas.<\/strong><\/p>\n A diferencia de las relaciones malsanas, las sanas empiezan poco a poco, con intereses y atracci\u00f3n mutuos m\u00e1s que con lujuria y una explosi\u00f3n de emociones.<\/p>\n Las relaciones sanas tardan en construirse. Intenta tom\u00e1rtelo con calma y usa la cabeza. S\u00e9 que puede ser dif\u00edcil, pero intenta usar la cabeza antes que el coraz\u00f3n, al menos al principio.<\/p>\n Your mind doesn’t operate according to reason and rationality. So, try to understand your thought process that goes with the relationship and take your time.<\/p>\n Women come to me complaining about how they’re treated in a relationship, about how the man isn’t the right one for them or how they simply don’t feel loved anymore.<\/p>\n1. The puppy love stage can’t last forever<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
2. A fight doesn’t equal a break up<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Recognize the ‘unhealthy’ connection<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
4. Las conversaciones en profundidad son cruciales<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Don’t expect him to heal you<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Las relaciones sanas se construyen con el tiempo<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
7. Est\u00e9 atento a las cualidades que lo convierten en un guardi\u00e1n<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n