{"id":13534,"date":"2020-01-31T11:53:56","date_gmt":"2020-01-31T11:53:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13534"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:54:40","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:54:40","slug":"hombre-7-cosas-maltratador-domestico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-7-cosas-maltratador-domestico\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tu hombre hace estas 7 cosas, es un maltratador dom\u00e9stico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Es sabido que muchas relaciones tienen altibajos y que a veces las parejas se pelean. Pero hay que distinguir una pelea normal de comportamiento abusivo<\/a> y si ves que eso te est\u00e1 ocurriendo, debes marcharte cuanto antes.<\/p>\n

You need to know that life with an abuser is not easy and that as long as you are with him, you won\u2019t be able to shine like you deserve. In fact, your life might be in danger if he decides to make a living hell out of your life.<\/p>\n

In case you have kids with a man like that, you should leave so they don\u2019t see and hear all the fighting because it can leave some serious marks on their emotions.<\/p>\n

For all those who are not quite sure if their relationship is abusive or for those who don\u2019t have the courage the leave a man like this, here are some things that could change your mind.<\/p>\n

1. Te amenaza<\/span><\/h2>\n

Un hombre enamorado nunca amenazar\u00e1 a la mujer que ama. Al contrario, la apreciar\u00e1 y ser\u00e1 la ni\u00f1a de sus ojos. En cambio, el maltratador es alguien que har\u00e1 que su vida sea peor de lo que era antes de conocerle.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t like something that you do, he will be rough, calling you names and making you feel bad about yourself.<\/p>\n

Si tienes hijos con \u00e9l, te amenazar\u00e1 con quit\u00e1rtelos porque sabe que haciendo eso te har\u00e1 m\u00e1s da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

2. Da portazos y rompe platos<\/span><\/h2>\n

Esto es algo que todo maltratador dom\u00e9stico hace para hacerte sentir miedo y obligarte a hacer todo lo que \u00e9l te diga.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t do something the way he wants, he will get mad and start slamming doors to show you that he won\u2019t tolerate that kind of behavior anymore and that you might be someone he will hit next time he gets mad. He wants to freak you out totally and to brainwash you to do things that he wants you to do.<\/p>\n

Si sorprendes a tu hombre haciendo algo as\u00ed, es se\u00f1al de que se est\u00e1 transformando en un maltratador.<\/p>\n

3. Coge tu dinero y quiere que le pidas algo<\/span><\/h2>\n

In this way, he wants to belittle you and even if you earn much more than him, he won\u2019t admit that.<\/p>\n

Te pedir\u00e1 el dinero de tu sueldo y luego te har\u00e1 acudir a \u00e9l para que le pidas un poco.<\/p>\n

De este modo, quiere que seas adicta a \u00e9l y que \u00e9l decida qu\u00e9 har\u00e1 y cu\u00e1ndo. Esta es una se\u00f1al m\u00e1s de violencia dom\u00e9stica<\/a> y si tienes la oportunidad de dejarlo, por favor hazlo para ahorrarte la agon\u00eda.<\/p>\n

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4. Te intimida con cuchillos o pistolas<\/span><\/h2>\n

Cuando un maltratador dom\u00e9stico ve que puedes escapar, utilizar\u00e1 todos los medios necesarios para mantenerte cerca. Eso incluye utilizar pistolas o cuchillos para intimidarte y que te quedes con \u00e9l o decirte que te matar\u00e1 a ti y luego a s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo est\u00e1 jugando contigo y sabe que te quedar\u00e1s porque te preocupa tu vida.<\/p>\n

If you have kids with a man like this, make sure that they don\u2019t see or hear all that fighting because it can make them go through serious trauma.<\/p>\n

5. Te abofetea o te pega<\/span><\/h2>\n

Si hace algo que pueda herirte f\u00edsicamente, puedes estar segura de que lo que est\u00e1s pasando no es s\u00f3lo una mala fase, sino que es un verdadero maltratador dom\u00e9stico.<\/p>\n

This is the worst thing that a man can do to a woman whom he loves, knowing that she can\u2019t do anything to defend herself. Also, don\u2019t trust him when he says that he won\u2019t do that again and that he made a mistake because if he hits you once, he will do it again.<\/p>\n

A man like this doesn\u2019t deserve your love, so don\u2019t be afraid to leave him because that is the only way you will find the right path.<\/p>\n

6. Desempe\u00f1a un papel de v\u00edctima<\/span><\/h2>\n

If he has a bad day or any other problem, he will blame you. As time passes by, his life expectations will be so high and you won\u2019t be able to fulfill them.<\/p>\n

And again, he will blame you but this time it won\u2019t stay only on that, but he will abuse you emotionally or even physically. He doesn\u2019t understand that you can\u2019t meet all his needs and that you have your needs as well.<\/p>\n

7. Dice que se suicidar\u00e1 si le dejas<\/span><\/h2>\n

Esta es una de las m\u00e1s obvias signos de maltrato dom\u00e9stico<\/a>. Al decir esto, tu agresor quiere que te quedes cerca para poder seguir controlarte<\/a> y hacer las cosas de la manera que a \u00e9l le funciona bien.<\/p>\n

So, in this case you are stuck between two fires\u2014on one side there is a man who wants to kill himself if you leave and on the other hand we are talking about your own life that will be destroyed if you stay with him.<\/p>\n

Ten en cuenta que siempre debes elegir tu vida antes que la suya porque \u00e9l se quiere demasiado como para hacerse da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Eso es s\u00f3lo un truco astuto que est\u00e1 utilizando para traerte de vuelta.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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