{"id":135413,"date":"2021-09-15T14:11:39","date_gmt":"2021-09-15T14:11:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=135413"},"modified":"2022-05-24T09:50:02","modified_gmt":"2022-05-24T09:50:02","slug":"relacion-poliamorosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relacion-poliamorosa\/","title":{"rendered":"Una relaci\u00f3n poliamorosa no significa que seas incapaz de amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

If there\u2019s any concept worthy of exploration, it’s amor<\/a>… in all its odd forms. Or, perhaps not so odd as others believe them to be.<\/p>\n

\u00bfHa o\u00eddo hablar alguna vez de un <\/b>relaci\u00f3n poliamorosa<\/b>?<\/b><\/p>\n

With a vast presence of numerous myths, or if you’ve just recently heard about it for the very first time, there\u2019s a possibility you currently have concepts in your head that have nothing to do with polyamory.<\/p>\n

But, we\u2019re here to abandon every myth, offer you a concise definition, and gain an understanding of polyamorous relationship rules.<\/p>\n

What do the rules encompass? Or, is that something only poly people can decide? How many polyamorous relationship types are there? If you wish to understand the concept of polyamory and all its elements, or are perhaps just a poly person in need of empathy, don\u2019t flee. We\u2019re about to provide you with both.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que.., <\/b>qu\u00e9 es el poliamor<\/b>?<\/b><\/p>\n

The very term offers a lot of insight into what the meaning may be. Perhaps you are already familiar with the fact that \u2018poly\u2019 means \u2018more than one\u2019, and \u2018amor\u2019 means \u2018love\u2019.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Por qu\u00e9 el poliamor es malo: 11 razones sinceras<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es una relaci\u00f3n poliamorosa?<\/h2>\n

\"unEsencialmente, las relaciones poliamorosas son aquellas en las que una persona est\u00e1 involucrada con m\u00e1s de una pareja rom\u00e1ntica. Su caracter\u00edstica principal es precisamente el romance.<\/p>\n

No se trata de un deseo sexual excesivo<\/h3>\n

Las personas pol\u00edgamas optan por relaciones m\u00e1s \u00edntimas, pero esas relaciones no implican necesariamente sexo del mismo modo que las mon\u00f3gamas.<\/p>\n

For instance, you can be both an asexual polyamorist and a promiscuous polyamorist. The latter may be especially curious about polyamorous relationships, but those who don\u2019t belong in that group aren\u2019t interested any less.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, los poliamorosos suelen preocuparse por la salud sexual y toman todas las precauciones de seguridad necesarias.<\/p>\n

But, this myth makes it seem like polyamory is all about sex. This is an issue due to society\u2019s constant and strenuous efforts in strengthening our belief that monogamous relationships are ideal, and that we simply CANNOT love more than one person simultaneously.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad se puede amar a m\u00e1s gente?<\/h2>\n

\"unMost certainly, yes. The truth is that monogamy has been the norm for as long as we can recall, and people aren\u2019t accustomed to breaking firmly established rules very easily.<\/p>\n

Hay numerosos conceptos que anta\u00f1o se consideraban temas prohibidos tanto de conversaci\u00f3n como de pr\u00e1ctica, como la tendencia a las relaciones entre personas del mismo sexo.<\/p>\n

Pero, poco a poco, se est\u00e1n convirtiendo en algo normal a los ojos de la gente, como debe ser. En cambio, a las personas propensas al estilo de relaci\u00f3n poliamoroso les resulta m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil conseguirlo.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente hab\u00edamos sido ni\u00f1os testigos de historias sobre <\/b>el<\/b> el amor verdadero, un hombre y una mujer que se encaprichan el uno del otro y acaban teniendo su final perfecto.<\/b><\/p>\n

La idea de una tercera persona, por no hablar de m\u00e1s que eso, siempre ha estado fuera de la cuesti\u00f3n<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Nos ense\u00f1aron que podemos y debemos volcar todo nuestro amor en una sola persona, porque \u00bfc\u00f3mo podr\u00edamos comprometernos con mucha gente? Compromiso<\/a> doesn\u2019t function like that. Or, does it?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo define usted el compromiso?<\/h2>\n

\"unDiccionario Cambridge<\/i> lo hace de esta manera: \u2018\u2019willingness to give your time and energy to a job, activity, or something that you believe in.\u2019\u2019<\/i><\/p>\n

Are you really obliged to give your full energy to only one person if you feel like you have more love to give, and even more you wish to receive? What about people with more than just one friend? Would you ever ask them: \u2018\u2019Why, how do you manage to love all your friends at the same time?\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

You really CAN \u201cgive your time and energy\u2019\u2019 to varios <\/a><\/b>parejas rom\u00e1nticas<\/b>. <\/b>You are allowed to practice polyamory and fully enjoy it if that\u2019s what you\u2019re inclined to do. If you are a person who is more prone to monogamy, or just one friend, that\u2019s perfectly fine, too.<\/p>\n

Las personas Poly son perfectamente capaces de verdadera intimidad<\/a> despite the number of their partners. The relationships they build aren’t any less meaningful only because they don’t involve a single partner.<\/p>\n

Sus deseos son v\u00e1lidos<\/h3>\n

A lot of polyamorous people feel like they are disturbed in some way. It\u2019s almost impossible not to be filled with guilt and shame when society never rests in its efforts to make you feel that way.<\/p>\n

Pero esas emociones son perfectamente comprensibles. Perm\u00edtelas porque, de todos modos, ya tienes bastante con lo tuyo.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t accept your feelings or actions right now, eventually, you will. Just remember \u2013 if the world refuses to offer you gentleness, you need it from yourself all the more.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDeber\u00edas unirte a una comunidad poliamorosa?<\/h2>\n

\"el\u00bfLe tentaba la idea del adulterio, pero dudaba en convertirla en realidad? O, tal vez, usted y su pareja estaban teniendo graves problemas de relaci\u00f3n<\/a>\u00bfy se te ocurre que la respuesta podr\u00eda ser el poliamor?<\/p>\n

It may also be that you don\u2019t consider polyamorous relationships all that fulfilling. In fact, they make you feel unworthy and unloved, but nevertheless, you stay.<\/p>\n

Todo lo anterior motivaciones para ejercer <\/b>poliamor<\/b> no son m\u00e1s que imprudentes y potencialmente perjudiciales.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you feel that you can\u2019t live your life in the absence of your significant other, and you decide to try polyamory for his\/her sake, you should probably put an end to your relationship.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Porque esto significa que ten\u00e9is necesidades totalmente distintas. Lo que tu pareja desea es una mayor cantidad de amor, que, a sus ojos, una sola persona no puede proporcionar. Y t\u00fa prefieres comprometerte con una sola persona.<\/p>\n

Los dos ten\u00e9is derecho a vuestros deseos, pero ninguno de los dos debe abandonarlos para complacer a la otra persona porque eso s\u00f3lo os dejar\u00eda insatisfechos.<\/b> Re\u00fane tu fuerza interior y al\u00e9jate de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Seas como seas, cuando se trata de tu felicidad, debes tomar cartas en el asunto, pero tambi\u00e9n reconocer que eres responsable si haces da\u00f1o a la otra persona sin pensar en lo que necesita.<\/p>\n

Furthermore, if you\u2019re of the opinion that accepting polyamory will make your relationship problems vanish, you\u2019re looking at it in the wrong way.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSon realmente tan diferentes el poliamor y la monogamia?<\/h2>\n

\"laAt their very core, they are both about mutual respect and love. If you\u2019re struggling with finding that in monogamy, it\u2019s unlikely you\u2019ll encounter it in polyamory.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also not uncommon for people to think that a polyamorous relationship is directly linked to infidelity. But, poly people are actually completely frank with each other. It doesn\u2019t constitute cheating because that would require the truth to be concealed from your partner(s).<\/p>\n

Este particular <\/b>tipo de relaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>, on the other hand, is all about openness. Each person is aware that other connections exist in their partner’s life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Pueden decidir compartir detalles \u00edntimos o guard\u00e1rselos para s\u00ed mismos. El concepto de intimidad est\u00e1 siempre presente, y cada pareja tiene sus propios l\u00edmites.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you don\u2019t want to know about your partner\u2019s other intimate relationships, but they want to know about yours.<\/p>\n

O puede que simplemente os resulte c\u00f3modo pasar tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, one partner doesn\u2019t want to hide that he\u2019s in a polyamorous relationship, but the other is not ready to share due to the fear of judgment, and the decision of the latter should be taken into consideration.<\/p>\n

Reglas de las relaciones poliamorosas:<\/h2>\n

\"unaLos l\u00edmites var\u00edan de un individuo a otro, pero las principales reglas de la relaci\u00f3n poliamorosa nunca se alteran.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY cu\u00e1les son?<\/p>\n

Perhaps you\u2019ve already comprehended the topic to answer this question yourself, but assistance will be offered.<\/p>\n

Respect your partner’s boundaries<\/b><\/h3>\n

One of the ground rules of polyamory is hidden precisely in the previous paragraph \u2013 fully respecting each other\u2019s established needs, or lack thereof.<\/p>\n

If you selfishly claim that your partner is obliged to fulfill your own need while you don\u2019t take into consideration how he\/she feels about it, you may want to reconsider your ways.<\/p>\n

Es comprensible lo dif\u00edcil que esto puede resultar tambi\u00e9n, pero la clave est\u00e1 en hacerse responsable y mejorar el comportamiento, lo que en \u00faltima instancia conducir\u00e1 a una relaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s sana.<\/p>\n

El consentimiento es necesario<\/h3>\n

La siguiente gran regla del poliamor, e innegablemente la m\u00e1s relevante, es el consentimiento.<\/p>\n

Este es un tema muy delicado hoy en d\u00eda, y aunque merece toda la atenci\u00f3n que se le presta, s\u00f3lo nos centraremos en su aspecto dentro de los l\u00edmites del poliamor, cuyo sin\u00f3nimo es en realidad la no monogamia consentida.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to bear in mind that each partner in a polyamorous relationship gives their consent, and this is precisely why it functions well.<\/p>\n

Cada individuo no s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 dispuesto, sino tambi\u00e9n m\u00e1s que feliz de entablar m\u00faltiples relaciones, respetando plenamente a todas las personas con las que se compromete.<\/p>\n

Todas las parejas pueden ser tratadas por igual y coexistir juntas en la anarqu\u00eda de las relaciones, pero la mayor\u00eda de las veces, la persona poli se compromete m\u00e1s con una relaci\u00f3n que con las otras.<\/p>\n

Se denominan socios primarios y secundarios. Pero, incluso a pesar de ello, hay una falta de igualdad, respeto mutuo<\/a>y amor, cada relaci\u00f3n se cuida con esmero en funci\u00f3n de lo que necesitan.<\/p>\n

Tipos de relaciones poliamorosas:<\/h2>\n

\"unPoliamor en solitario<\/h3>\n

En este tipo de relaci\u00f3n poliamorosa, las personas tienden a amar y comprometerse con m\u00e1s de una pareja manteniendo intacta su independencia. No comparten el mismo techo con su pareja ni dependen o se ayudan econ\u00f3micamente.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t make the relationship any less valuable. On the contrary, the person who is inclined towards solo polyamory derives power from their independence, which helps them maintain relaciones \u00edntimas saludables<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Poliamor en la cocina<\/h3>\n

This type of polyamory is perfect for you if you don\u2019t mind spending quality time with your partner\u2019s partner(s). Feelings of awkwardness don\u2019t exist. It\u2019s rather just all parties co-existing in harmony and acceptance.<\/p>\n

Throuple<\/h3>\n

The meaning is fairly evident in the very term \u2013 it involves three people. It\u2019s either one person having an intimate relationship with the other two people, or them all being intertwined.<\/p>\n

Quad<\/h3>\n

Este tipo de relaci\u00f3n es similar a la de pareja. Solo afecta a cuatro partes, y todas ellas pueden estar o no implicadas entre s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Poliamor paralelo<\/h3>\n

When it comes to this particular type of polyamory, the partners know of each other\u2019s secondary partner(s), but aren\u2019t really involved with them in any way.<\/p>\n

Polycule<\/h3>\n

Se trata de un tipo muy espec\u00edfico de relaci\u00f3n poliamorosa, en la que numerosas personas est\u00e1n vinculadas sentimentalmente entre s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Polifidelidad<\/h3>\n

\u00c9sta es otra estructura de relaci\u00f3n muy importante. Consiste en m\u00e1s de dos parejas rom\u00e1nticas que son igual de importantes la una para la otra y que, curiosamente, descartan a cualquiera que est\u00e9 fuera de su c\u00edrculo.<\/p>\n

La relaci\u00f3n polimono<\/h3>\n

En este tipo de relaci\u00f3n, s\u00f3lo uno de los miembros de la pareja es poliamorista, mientras que el otro no tiene ninguna otra relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica.<\/p>\n

Esto puede ocurrir por varias razones. Por ejemplo, un miembro de la pareja quiere una relaci\u00f3n estrictamente rom\u00e1ntica mientras que el otro se deja llevar por deseo sexual<\/a>, and starts seeking sexual relationships that he can\u2019t have with his primary partner.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t this lead to extreme jealousy?<\/h2>\n

\"elNo necesariamente.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, los poliamoristas celoso y posesivo<\/a> sobre sus parejas, pero tienen un enfoque muy diferente al de los mon\u00f3gamos.<\/p>\n

Cuando perciben esos sentimientos negativos, se niegan a dejarse abrumar por ellos, sino que proceden a observarlos cr\u00edticamente. Que lo consigan o no tiene menos importancia que el hecho de que se esfuercen por superarlos.<\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t possess magical powers that will erase your thoughts or emotions, but you can still fight for the happiness of your significant other(s) as well as for the overall health of your relationships.<\/b><\/p>\n

Procese lo que siente en soledad, o com\u00e9ntelo con su pareja. Si cada d\u00eda tienes m\u00e1s dificultades, quiz\u00e1 debas buscar en otra parte. Ocultar tus verdaderas emociones s\u00f3lo empeorar\u00e1 el problema y provocar\u00e1 resentimiento.<\/p>\n

Qui\u00e9rete m\u00e1s<\/h3>\n

It’s possible to love someone but still manage to leave them because sometimes, love is not enough, and your wishes don’t collide. Refuse to succumb to self-sacrifice no matter how great your love is.<\/p>\n

Choose inner peace and seek a monogamous relationship if you can\u2019t deal with the jealousy, and let your partner be happy with his\/her metamour(s), a.k.a., other partners.<\/p>\n

Pero si esos sentimientos negativos est\u00e1n ausentes y sientes aut\u00e9ntica alegr\u00eda al ver a tu pareja en un estado de felicidad, est\u00e1s experimentando compersi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de relaci\u00f3n emocional<\/a> difiere mucho de las que la gente confunde con el poliamor.<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 NO es el poliamor<\/h2>\n

\"unPoliamor frente a poligamia<\/h3>\n

The first on the list is polygamy. Evidently, both terms include the same prefix, that is, \u2018poly\u2019, so it\u2019s quite understandable that this may create confusion among people, even though the suffix of polygamy literally means \u2018marriage\u2019.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed pues, se trata esencialmente de casarse con m\u00e1s de una persona, y se refiere t\u00edpicamente a los hombres porque, a lo largo de la historia, han sido ellos los que se han casado con varias mujeres.<\/p>\n

Polyamory, on the other hand, is a romantic relationship. It\u2019s not created out of the desire to dominate and exert power, but rather, to experience genuine emotional connection.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, no todo cabe en una caja. Los poliamorosos tambi\u00e9n pueden tener motivaciones corruptas, como los que pertenecen a cualquier otro grupo, pero en el fondo, el poliamor es amor.<\/p>\n

Poliamor frente a relaciones abiertas<\/h3>\n

Las parejas propensas a la no monogamia consensual se asocian a\u00fan m\u00e1s a menudo con las que est\u00e1n en relaciones abiertas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s very important to differentiate between these two types because they are very distinct. As previously stated, polyamorists only want to create a safe space in order to provide each other with the intimacy they so dearly crave; each party giving consent and being aware of the other.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones abiertas, en cambio, son relaciones sexuales ocasionales sin ning\u00fan v\u00ednculo rom\u00e1ntico. Los miembros de este tipo de relaciones probablemente considerar\u00edan totalmente inaceptable que su pareja sintiera algo por otra persona, porque perciben el compromiso a trav\u00e9s de lentes diferentes a las de las personas poli.<\/p>\n

But, then again \u2013 not necessarily.<\/p>\n

Poliamor vs swinging<\/h3>\n

Los swingers tambi\u00e9n suelen estar relacionados con los poliamoristas. Suelen ser parejas que buscan a otras parejas para mantener relaciones sexuales ocasionales. Aunque estos dos conceptos se diferencian, a veces las personas pueden ser categorizadas como swingers y poli, por ejemplo, si los poliamoristas desarrollar sentimientos<\/a> para sus parejas sexuales.<\/p>\n

P.D. Algunas personas piensan que <\/i>poliamor<\/i> tambi\u00e9n es un <\/i>orientaci\u00f3n sexual<\/i>. A pesar de su inexactitud, algunos <\/i>poliamoristas<\/i> tend to disagree while others consider it merely a way of living. It may even be perceived as a direct connection to one’s <\/i>identidad sexual<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

This is not the end of polyamory misconceptions\u2026.<\/h2>\n

\"unaComo se ha mencionado al principio de este art\u00edculo, las relaciones no mon\u00f3gamas siguen siendo un tema muy prohibido en la sociedad. La gente desaprueba el estilo de vida que llevan estas personas.<\/p>\n

This is why they sometimes deprive polyamorous families of employment, or even children if they\u2019re fighting for custody. They perceive them as incompetent parents with a bad influence, the same way they do people from the lgbtq+ community.<\/p>\n

But, the truth is that such components are irrelevant when it comes to raising children. There are many factors that impact the child\u2019s personality.<\/p>\n

What’s crucial is a parental figure who will create a safe environment for the child to exercise their personal freedom in. <\/b>Mon\u00f3gamos<\/b> aren\u2019t necessarily good nor necessarily bad parents either.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nadie criticar\u00e1 jam\u00e1s a un padre por ser verbalmente abusivo y asegurarse de que el ni\u00f1o crezca profundamente traumatizado. Pero, cuando un padre es poliamorista, todo el mundo le juzga sin rechistar porque se ha atrevido a cruzar los l\u00edmites que la sociedad le ha impuesto.<\/p>\n

En general<\/h2>\n

\"unUna relaci\u00f3n poliamorosa tiene muchos tipos, y cada pareja es un individuo que necesita cosas diferentes. Todos consienten en mantener relaciones m\u00faltiples, y no hay secretos ni adulterio como muchos pueden pensar.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to distinguish the myths from reality, but also to realize that in the end, nothing is really simply defined.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not our job to put labels on other people, but to respect their own declarations about who they feel they are.<\/p>\n

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