{"id":13557,"date":"2020-08-31T12:40:45","date_gmt":"2020-08-31T12:40:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13557"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:04:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:04:06","slug":"podria-liar-a-alguien-le-encantara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/podria-liar-a-alguien-le-encantara\/","title":{"rendered":"Puedes ser un desastre, pero alguien te querr\u00e1 por ello"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Probablemente tengas la costumbre de mirarte al espejo y preguntarte si mereces que te quieran.<\/p>\n<p>Probablemente usted hace este tipo de cosas todo el tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Probablemente te digas a ti mismo c\u00f3mo<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/dentro-de-la-mente-chica-piensa-isnt-lo-suficientemente-bueno\/\"> you\u2019re not good enough<\/a>, how everyone else is doing well and you can\u2019t seem to get out of your own mess.<\/p>\n<p>All you see when you look at yourself are your flaws. All you see are the reasons why you don\u2019t deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>It started with some small imperfections and now it\u2019s so widespread that you can\u2019t get rid of it.<\/p>\n<p>God knows when the last time was that you looked at yourself in the mirror and told yourself how pretty you are or how well you\u2019re doing in life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00fa dices <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/8-signs-tell-much-hot-mess\/\">you\u2019re a mess<\/a> and how you&#8217;re lost and I say: \u201cSo what?\u201d <\/strong><em>\u00bfY qu\u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116756\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer pelirroja con pecas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-redhead-woman-with-freckles-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>You won\u2019t stay a mess forever. You won&#8217;t be lost forever. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Even though you feel like you can\u2019t get your head straight now, even if you feel stuck and that everyone is ahead of you, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re a lost cause. Because you\u2019re not.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You might think you don\u2019t deserve to be loved. You might think that nobody will ever love you the way you are now.<\/p>\n<p>Que nadie se molestar\u00e1 en mirar m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de tu desorden ni intentar\u00e1 verte como realmente eres.<\/p>\n<p>That nobody will care to see that you can be better than you are or think that you have a bright future. But you\u2019re wrong once again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See, the truth is you\u2019re only capable of seeing yourself as a mess now. You only see your flaws and you have this feeling like everyone is doing better than you are. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>But the truth is we are all a bit of a mess. We\u2019re all a bit messed up, too. And we\u2019re all destined to find love despite this.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116760\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa sentada en un sof\u00e1 del sal\u00f3n\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-sitting-on-a-couch-in-the-living-room-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Habr\u00e1 alguien que quiera o\u00edr lo que pasa por tu cabeza.<\/p>\n<p>There will be someone who will want to listen to all the stories about why you\u2019re a mess and what\u2019s going on with you.<\/p>\n<p>There will be someone who\u2019ll see you like everything that person was looking for. Mark these words.<\/p>\n<p>When you look in the mirror, you think: \u201cWho will ever fall for me?\u201d You keep wondering how come you had to turn out that way.<\/p>\n<p>How is it possible that it\u2019s you that has to fight for everything and how is it that you never got anything easy in life?<\/p>\n<p>Often you feel like losing it, you feel like you\u2019ve had enough and how you can\u2019t do it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>But be that as it may, you\u2019re are<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-renuncia-a-dar\/\"> no un desertor.<\/a> Eres un luchador. \u00bfC\u00f3mo si no habr\u00edas llegado tan lejos en la vida?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116761\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background.jpg\" alt=\"chica pensativa en el fondo de oto\u00f1o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-girl-in-autumn-background-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some days you thought you were done. That you can\u2019t do it anymore and how you\u2019re going to lose it.<\/p>\n<p>But yet, here you are. Well and alive\u2014in your messy life, with your messy head but standing firmly on the ground.<\/p>\n<p>Lo mejor es que alguien vendr\u00e1 y ver\u00e1 todo esto. Alguien ver\u00e1 todas tus batallas, todas tus luchas y todas las veces que te ca\u00edste, pero te levantaste.<\/p>\n<p>Someone won\u2019t see you as a disaster but as someone who fights with all her strength to keep her head above the water.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/deborah-stachelski\/marry-someone-you-admire-not-someone-you-love_b_7684386.html\" rel=\"noopener\">Alguien te admirar\u00e1<\/a> desde el fondo de su coraz\u00f3n. Alguien amar\u00e1 todo lo que odias de ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Alguien ver\u00e1 tus cicatrices y decidir\u00e1 besarlas. Alguien ver\u00e1 todo tu desorden y decidir\u00e1 quedarse.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t try to change you. He won\u2019t try to unmess you or solve your problems. He won\u2019t try to save you.<\/p>\n<p>He will&nbsp; just be there to hold your hand, to show you he loves you despite what you think, to show you that you\u2019re an amazing human being despite the things you keep telling yourself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116759\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair.jpg\" alt=\"bella joven de pelo casta\u00f1o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-woman-with-brown-hair-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Alguien entrar\u00e1 en tu vida, ver\u00e1 tu desastre y se quedar\u00e1. Ve tu desorden y agradece a Dios por enviarte a su camino tal como eres. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Alguien amar\u00e1 tu desorden m\u00e1s de lo que algunas personas amar\u00edan tus perfecciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ese alguien esperar\u00e1 hasta que te desmelenes. Aceptar\u00e1 tus lados feos tan felizmente como acepta tus lados hermosos.<\/p>\n<p>And it doesn\u2019t matter if it takes you a lifetime to unmess yourself. It doesn\u2019t matter if you never unmess yourself.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll sign up for it, for all of it. He\u2019ll love you for it, for all of it.<\/p>\n<p>You will be loved just the way you are\u2014the lost you, the messy you, the you that even you don\u2019t love.<\/p>\n<p>Todos tus defectos ser\u00e1n amados, todas tus cicatrices ser\u00e1n besadas, todas tus batallas ser\u00e1n admiradas.<\/p>\n<p>Because that\u2019s how we all deserve to be loved. You too, even if you have a hard time believing it at the moment.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116747\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Might-Be-A-Mess-But-Someone-Will-Love-You-For-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Puedes ser un desastre, pero alguien te querr\u00e1 por ello\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Might-Be-A-Mess-But-Someone-Will-Love-You-For-It-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Might-Be-A-Mess-But-Someone-Will-Love-You-For-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Might-Be-A-Mess-But-Someone-Will-Love-You-For-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You probably have this habit of looking at yourself in the mirror and wondering if you deserve to be loved. Heck, you probably do this kind of thing all the time. You probably tell yourself how you\u2019re not good enough, how everyone else is doing well and you can\u2019t seem to get out of your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":116754,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13557","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/You-Might-Be-A-Mess-But-Someone-Will-Love-You-For-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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