Pues s\u00ed. Vivimos en la era de las redes sociales, que nos hacen esclavos de nuestras decisiones impulsivas porque todo est\u00e1 a un clic de distancia. En otras palabras, la infidelidad nunca ha estado m\u00e1s a nuestro alcance. Est\u00e1 a un solo clic. Divertid\u00edsimo, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n
But, it’s true. There are <\/b>diferente <\/b>tipos de enga\u00f1o<\/b><\/a> de inocente coquetear con un compa\u00f1ero de trabajo<\/a><\/b>\u00a0a <\/b>aventuras sexuales,<\/b> pero no todos lo percibimos de la misma manera.<\/b><\/p>\n Algunas personas definen la infidelidad como algo puramente f\u00edsico, mientras que otras definen el enga\u00f1o como una infidelidad emocional o tanto emocional como f\u00edsica. Y aqu\u00ed nadie est\u00e1 equivocado ni en lo cierto.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, hay algunos acciones universales que <\/b>se considera trampa<\/b>, and there are main types of infidelity in a relationship, so you have every right to be picky about which ones you’ll consider as cheating.<\/p>\n We’ll go through all that below, and we’ll also talk about texting cheating, cheating in a marriage, social media cheating, and micro-cheating. I hope you’re ready!<\/p>\n Estas son algunas de las actividades <\/b>se considera trampa<\/b> (if you’re doing them outside of your relationship):<\/b><\/p>\n Como puede ver, hay things that count as cheating, even though they’re not physical<\/a>. El enga\u00f1o puede ser f\u00edsico, emocional o cibern\u00e9tico. El contacto sexual sigue consider\u00e1ndose el acto de traici\u00f3n por excelencia, aunque el enga\u00f1o emocional cause m\u00e1s da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n Bueno, puede haber una mezcla de f\u00edsico-<\/b>enga\u00f1o emocional<\/b>, so things aren’t really black and white. <\/b>Cada pareja tiene que definir sus propias normas de enga\u00f1o en una relaci\u00f3n para saber a qu\u00e9 atenerse.<\/p>\n Some couples don’t see flirting and teasing as an act of cheating, while others do. Some people see enga\u00f1o emocional<\/a> como algo m\u00e1s destructivo, mientras que otros ven el enga\u00f1o como algo puramente f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 es <\/b>se considera trampa<\/b> en una relaci\u00f3n?<\/b><\/p>\n Existe una regla universal seg\u00fan la cual se puede saber al instante si es trampa o no. Esa regla consiste en hacerse la siguiente pregunta: Would I share what I’m doing with my partner, or would I keep it from them?<\/b><\/p>\n If you feel the urge to keep it a secret from them, then you know you’re doing something that you shouldn’t. Why? Because you know they would see it as unacceptable, and that’s the main reason why you don’t want to share it with them in the first place. A great rule, right?<\/p>\n So, whenever you’re in doubt as to whether your actions are considered cheating, just ask yourself that one question and you’ll know for sure.<\/p>\n Solo digo Hola<\/i> a una persona cualquiera no se considera necesariamente enga\u00f1o porque ser\u00eda absurdo, pero lo que m\u00e1s importa es tu opini\u00f3n y tus sentimientos hacia esa \u00fanica persona (si los hay).<\/p>\n Now, we’re entering the <\/b>aventura emocional<\/b><\/a> territory. There’s actually a name for it: <\/b>asuntos emocionales<\/i><\/b> y los mensajes de texto<\/i><\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s when you find comfort in that one person, and you start confiding in them. You start oversharing things because you feel like they understand you better than your partner.<\/p>\n Then, on the other spectrum, we have the physical aspect of cheating in texting. It’s when you engage in sexting and sending explicit content to that one person (or more).<\/p>\n Como ya he dicho, lo m\u00e1s importante de todo es c\u00f3mo te sientes con todo eso.<\/b> Do you feel like you’re doing something behind your partner’s back? Something that you wouldn’t want to share with them? If yes, then it’s cheating.<\/p>\n It’s time to get specific and talk about the main types of cheating. Note that some couples may be okay with some of the types below (or all of them), while others won’t.<\/p>\n So, let’s see:<\/p>\n Una persona desarrolla sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos por alguien ajeno a su relaci\u00f3n (un miembro del sexo opuesto) y ellos establecer una conexi\u00f3n emocional profunda<\/a> con ellos. Puede ser un compa\u00f1ero de trabajo, un desconocido, un amigo, lo que sea.<\/p>\n Asuntos emocionales<\/b> se basan en la comunicaci\u00f3n a un nivel profundo, \u00edntimo y personal.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s when a person no longer relies on his or her partner, and comparte cosas personales<\/a> y las relaciones con la otra persona.<\/p>\n Habr\u00e1 muchos mensajes de texto (sobre todo en horas bajas) y salidas con la otra persona. Las mentiras y las excusas tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n incluidas.<\/p>\n Algunas personas piensan que <\/b>relaciones afectivas<\/b> aren’t a <\/b>gran cosa,<\/b> even though this type of infidelity is more serious, because it’s not based on an impulsive decision like <\/b>enga\u00f1o f\u00edsico<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s an affair of the heart that can make a person’s partner feel betrayed and rejected. Prioritizing another person more than your current partner can destroy even the strongest of relationships.<\/p>\n \u00bfC\u00f3mo se llama una conexi\u00f3n emocional desarrollada en l\u00ednea? Una aventura cibern\u00e9tica. Como dije en la introducci\u00f3n, las ciber aventuras est\u00e1n a un solo clic de distancia (o mejor dicho, a un solo mensaje de texto).<\/p>\n \u00bfSe consideran menos graves estos asuntos porque todo ocurre en un mundo virtual?<\/b> Puede que s\u00ed y puede que no.<\/p>\n It’s true that there are no real-life hangouts, but we have to consider one fact as well: An emotional connection created online can be equally powerful as the one created in the real world.<\/p>\n Los asuntos cibern\u00e9ticos son muy populares en relaciones infelices<\/a> because the person doesn’t feel like they’re cheating on their partner as it is all happening online.<\/b><\/p>\n La verdad sea dicha, enga\u00f1ar por tel\u00e9fono<\/a> can happen unintentionally, and sometimes it’s really hard to decide if an online relationship with someone else instead of your partner is considered an affair.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, he aqu\u00ed algunos indicadores de que, despu\u00e9s de todo, podr\u00eda tratarse de un asunto cibern\u00e9tico:<\/b><\/p>\n That something could be their hobby, watching porn, an obsessive idea, you name it. It’s considered cheating because it consumes the person and results in neglecting their partner.<\/p>\n El objeto de su obsesi\u00f3n se convierte en su principal prioridad, y ya no prestan la m\u00e1s m\u00ednima atenci\u00f3n a su pareja y a <\/b>problemas en su relaci\u00f3n<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Nunca tienen tiempo para hacer actividades en pareja o hablar con su pareja abierta y sinceramente porque est\u00e1n muy concentrados en esa \u00fanica cosa que les obsesiona.<\/p>\n If the person is obsessing over porn, they might experience an inability to have normal sexual intercourse with their partner because they’re no longer aroused by it.<\/p>\n Lo creas o no, un asunto de objetos es la raz\u00f3n por la que romp\u00ed con mi ex novio. En aquella \u00e9poca era un jugador empedernido y ya no me prestaba atenci\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n Empec\u00e9 a sentirme abandonada porque lo \u00fanico que hac\u00eda era jugar o hablar de videojuegos. Su antiguo hobby se hab\u00eda convertido en una obsesi\u00f3n. Intent\u00e9 hablar con \u00e9l de ello, pero se mostraba indiferente.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que me alej\u00e9 s\u00f3lo para darle una lecci\u00f3n y, por supuesto, salvarme. Despu\u00e9s de eso, me dijo que hab\u00eda borrado todos sus juegos y me suplic\u00f3 que volviera con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n \u00bfSabes lo que hice? <\/b>I didn’t come back because I knew that he had only paused his obsession temporarily, and it was just a matter of time when it would strike again.<\/p>\n You know what they say: “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” There’s actually a term for it, and it’s called ‘un tramposo en serie<\/a>‘.<\/p>\n We’re certainly all familiar with this type of affair. It’s one of the most popular types of cheating in both movies and in real life.<\/p>\n But, what you didn’t know or didn’t pay attention to is that a physical affair doesn’t mean only sexual intercourse with someone who is not your partner. It also means kissing, holding hands, and all kinds of things that are considered physical.<\/p>\n Lo m\u00e1s importante aqu\u00ed es la intenci\u00f3n.<\/b> \u00bfC\u00f3mo se siente la persona al hacer cualquiera de estas cosas f\u00edsicas con alguien ajeno a su relaci\u00f3n? \u00bfCu\u00e1l era su intenci\u00f3n al <\/i>primer puesto<\/i>?<\/i><\/p>\n After being caught in a physical affair, some people say that it didn’t mean anything to them and they did it on impulse, while other tramposos<\/a> admiten que tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1n emocionalmente unidas a ellos. As\u00ed pues, las aventuras f\u00edsicas pueden ser desde involuntarias hasta graves.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, el asunto f\u00edsico se define de forma diferente en <\/b>monogamia<\/b> y poligamia<\/a>.<\/b> En (la mayor\u00eda de) las relaciones mon\u00f3gamas, la aventura f\u00edsica se considera enga\u00f1o, mientras que en las poliamorosas y las relaciones abiertas<\/a> tienen sus propias reglas para hacer trampas.<\/p>\n \u00bfQu\u00e9 es la <\/b>microtrampas<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n It’s something that many people do without even knowing. It’s a small act of emotional infidelity that happens through texting or other types of online interactions.<\/p>\n Como ocurre con cualquier otro tipo de trampa, esto no es algo que todos consideremos trampa. Algunas personas ven estas microtrampas como una diversi\u00f3n inofensiva.<\/p>\n Algunos ejemplos de <\/b>microtrampas<\/b> incluyen:<\/b><\/p>\n So, it’s up to you, dear reader, whether you’ll see these things as a cheating act or something trivial. As always, if you aren’t comfortable with your partner’s behaviors, it’s best to be honest with yourself and talk to them.<\/p>\n S\u00ed, el enga\u00f1o financiero existe. Ocurre cuando las parejas con finanzas compartidas deciden mentirse mutuamente sobre su situaci\u00f3n financiera. Por ejemplo, uno de los miembros de la pareja puede mantener sus deudas en secreto para que el otro no se entere.<\/p>\n O bien, uno de los miembros de la pareja gasta en secreto m\u00e1s dinero del que deber\u00eda (o del acordado con su pareja), por lo que esto afecta instant\u00e1neamente a su pareja y a la calidad de su relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n Por supuesto, una infidelidad financiera de este tipo no puede durar mucho porque, tarde o temprano, el otro miembro de la pareja empezar\u00e1 a sospechar que algo no va bien.<\/b><\/p>\n Las razones del enga\u00f1o financiero pueden ser personales o profesionales. Sea cual sea el motivo, afecta a ambos miembros de la pareja.<\/p>\n When a person is making financial moves behind their partner’s back, it endangers their financial future, trust, and comunicaci\u00f3n en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n Every individual has a different definition of cheating. There are a lot of grey areas here, and relationship experts can’t really help you with this one. Some people don’t see flirting with others as a red flag, while others see it as an act of betrayal.<\/p>\n El flirteo es un comportamiento l\u00fadico (normalmente) sin intenciones serias.<\/b><\/p>\n A person flirting with anyone outside their committed relationship can greatly affect their partner’s trust. Things could get even more serious if their partner is jealous by nature.<\/p>\n Coquetear significa b\u00e1sicamente mostrar inter\u00e9s por otra persona. Cuando una persona es propensa a ocultar su comportamiento coqueto a su pareja, entonces puede llamarse enga\u00f1o.<\/p>\n Asuntos emocionales<\/b> don’t have to include <\/b>infidelidad f\u00edsica<\/b>.<\/b> Sometimes, it’s only about the feelings that have crossed the line into emotional intimacy. We’re talking about a person oversharing things and treating the other person (instead of their current partner) as their safe haven.<\/p>\n Physical affairs include sexual contact of all types (touching of intimate areas, having sex, etc.). It’s true that emotional affairs can sometimes be more hurtful than physical affairs.<\/p>\n Si sospecha que su c\u00f3nyuge le enga\u00f1a<\/a>Estos son algunos signos comunes de <\/b>infidelidad en el matrimonio<\/b><\/a>:<\/b><\/p>\n Si nota alguna de las cosas anteriores (y su c\u00f3nyuge act\u00faa de forma m\u00e1s extra\u00f1a de lo habitual), tiene todo el derecho a cuestionar su fidelidad y su vida matrimonial<\/a> tambi\u00e9n. Tienes todo el derecho a suponer que your partner doesn’t love you anymore<\/a>.<\/p>\n Liking an attractive person’s photo (or a few of them) can also backfire if your partner sees it as a threat. There is also complimenting a beautiful person’s picture<\/a>.<\/p>\n Some partners don’t get insulted by it, while others see it as a red flag. It all depends on their type of personality, and, well, the strength of trust in a relationship (or lack thereof).<\/p>\n So, what is considered cheating on social media? If your actions are contradicting your partner’s point of view, then it’s cheating.<\/p>\n He aqu\u00ed algunas cosas que <\/b>se considera trampa<\/b> en <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> (some of them are classified as ‘<\/b>microtrampas<\/b>):<\/b><\/p>\n Remember, if you’re doing any of these things behind your partner’s back and you fear that they might find out about it, then it is considered cheating.<\/p>\n Why do people decide to do something behind their partner’s back when they know it will hurt them once they find out about their secret mission(s)? Why do <\/i>la gente enga\u00f1a<\/i> en una relaci\u00f3n en lugar de ponerle fin y seguir adelante con su vida?<\/i><\/p>\n In most cases, it’s because they aren’t ready to give up what they have (their current partner), but they also want something more (or, should I say, something different).<\/b><\/p>\n Actually, the keyword here is DIFFERENT. People don’t cheat just because they’re interested in someone better, stronger, or mightier. They do it because they feel either stuck in a rut or there’s something that their relationship lacks.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, en lugar de ocuparse de ese problema, deciden encontrar el ingrediente que les falta en otra parte. Puede ser apoyo emocional, placer f\u00edsico, etc.<\/b><\/p>\n Ending a relationship means losing something (their current partner), which creates fear, especially if they aren’t sure about ending things in the first place. That’s how some individuals end up in physical affairs, emotional affairs, cyber affairs, micro-cheating, you name it.<\/p>\n Otra raz\u00f3n por la que <\/b>la gente enga\u00f1a<\/b> in a relationship instead of just ending it is that they don’t realize the seriousness of their actions. <\/b>They don’t think about how their partner might feel, so they choose to do whatever they want (or whatever their impulses are telling them to do).<\/p>\n Actually, every person has their own reason why they don’t break up with their partner before cheating on them, and these are all just assumptions that can be applied to the majority of cases. And, remember that enga\u00f1ar es una elecci\u00f3n, no un error<\/a>.<\/p>\n For example, if we’re talking about <\/b>enga\u00f1o emocional<\/b> o <\/b>enga\u00f1o f\u00edsico<\/b>estos dos <\/b>tipos de enga\u00f1o<\/b> son m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles de digerir y de recuperarse.<\/b><\/p>\n Again, it all depends on what partners consider cheating in the first place. If we’re talking about micro-cheating (things like flirting with others and texting), this shouldn’t be a dealbreaker unless it gradually turns into something more.<\/p>\n Ver\u00e1s, cada <\/b>relaci\u00f3n sana<\/b><\/a> se basa en la confianza. Generar confianza<\/a> lleva alg\u00fan tiempo, y puede romperse f\u00e1cilmente en una relaci\u00f3n, incluso por <\/b>microtrampas<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n If the cheated partner is unable to get rid of trust issues caused by their partner’s betrayal, then this could be the end of their relationship.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s, si ambos miembros de la pareja est\u00e1n dispuestos a trabajar en su relaci\u00f3n y resolver los problemas pendientes, su relaci\u00f3n seguir\u00e1 teniendo posibilidades de prosperar.<\/p>\n El enga\u00f1o puede ser una <\/b>dealbreaker<\/b> in a relationship, but it’s not exclusive.<\/b> Todo depende del nivel de confianza en una relaci\u00f3n y de si los implicados est\u00e1n dispuestos a hacer que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n\u00bfQu\u00e9 acciones se consideran trampa?<\/h2>\n
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Is watching porn cheating? What about innocent flirting with no intention of “doing anything stupid”? What counts as cheating?<\/p>\n\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 se considera enga\u00f1o en una relaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n
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Given that every couple (and person) has their own idea of cheating in a relationship, this should be perceived as an individual thing. Some couples don’t see watching porn as an act of cheating, while others do.<\/p>\n\u00bfSon infieles los mensajes de texto en una relaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n
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Yes, texting can be considered cheating in a relationship if you wouldn’t want to share the texting content with your partner. It’s really simple.<\/p>\n7 tipos principales de infidelidad en una relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n
Asunto emocional<\/h3>\n
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Emotional cheating is an emotional attachment between a person and someone who isn’t their significant other. Physical cheating is not necessarily a part of the emotional affair, but it can be included.<\/p>\nAsunto cibern\u00e9tico<\/h3>\n
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Asunto objeto<\/h3>\n
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Chances are you haven’t heard of this cheating type before. The object affair happens when a partner becomes obsessed with something outside their relationship.<\/p>\nAsunto f\u00edsico<\/h3>\n
Microtrampas<\/h3>\n
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Al contrario que el enga\u00f1o f\u00edsico, el microenga\u00f1o es un tipo de enga\u00f1o habitual entre quienes no est\u00e1n preparados para comprometerse con su pareja.<\/p>\n\n
Infidelidad financiera<\/h3>\n
Ligar<\/h3>\n
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\u00bfEs enga\u00f1ar flirteando?<\/a>? Well, some people consider it cheating, while others don’t.<\/p>\n\u00bfQu\u00e9 se considera enga\u00f1o en el matrimonio?<\/h2>\n
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Las dos formas m\u00e1s comunes de enga\u00f1o en el matrimonio son las aventuras emocionales y las aventuras f\u00edsicas. Las aventuras f\u00edsicas incluyen los rollos de una noche, las aventuras de larga duraci\u00f3n, el enga\u00f1o por venganza y las aventuras online.<\/p>\n\n
\u00bfQu\u00e9 se considera enga\u00f1ar en las redes sociales?<\/h2>\n
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Si me preguntas a m\u00ed, <\/b>redes sociales<\/b> es uno de los mayores destructores de todas las relaciones. <\/b>Publicar una foto tuya y de tu pareja puede convertirse en una pesadilla si otra persona lo ve como un reto (intenta arruinar vuestra felicidad).<\/p>\n\n
\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 la gente enga\u00f1a en una relaci\u00f3n en lugar de terminar primero?<\/h2>\n
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Esta es una gran pregunta.<\/p>\n\u00bfEs el enga\u00f1o un factor decisivo en una relaci\u00f3n?<\/h2>\n
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No, el enga\u00f1o no siempre es motivo de ruptura. Todo depende de la gravedad de la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\nLo esencial<\/h2>\n
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What is considered cheating? We’ve learned today that there are many types of cheating, from emotional affairs to cyber affairs, and every individual has their own standards when it comes to infidelity.<\/p>\n