{"id":136021,"date":"2021-09-30T06:06:03","date_gmt":"2021-09-30T06:06:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=136021"},"modified":"2022-01-03T18:20:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-03T18:20:58","slug":"segunda-cita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/segunda-cita\/","title":{"rendered":"La importancia de la segunda cita y 10 consejos para acertar"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’re about to go on a second date with someone you really like, I can already imagine what you’re currently doing…<\/p>\n

You’re pacing the room, trying to figure out <\/i>de qu\u00e9 hablar con tu pareja<\/i><\/a>y preocuparse por si causar\u00e1 una buena impresi\u00f3n.<\/i><\/p>\n

Estoy de acuerdo en que <\/b>primeras citas<\/b> can be really stressful because you feel like you’re on a test the whole time. <\/b>Sin embargo, una vez superada esa prueba y aterrizado ese segundo <\/i>encuentro<\/i>deber\u00edas relajarte porque obviamente te fuiste <\/i>una buena primera impresi\u00f3n<\/i><\/a> y les hizo caer de pie.<\/i><\/p>\n

Even if the first meeting didn’t go well, and you think that you didn’t quite impress your potential partner, you still got the second chance to repair the damage. You should embrace that opportunity and make the best out of it.<\/p>\n

O, como dice la coach de citas Annie Mayo: “As long as you haven\u2019t encountered any big deal-breakers during that <\/b>primera cita<\/b>y la cita fue bastante bien, entonces deber\u00edas estar dispuesto a ir a una <\/b>segunda cita<\/b> even if the proverbial \u2018sparks\u2019 didn\u2019t fly.”<\/b><\/p>\n

To calm you down and help you land the very important third date, I\u2019ve compiled a profound guide on the second date that will help you avoid some of the most dangerous pitfalls. So, let’s get started.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 debe ocurrir en una segunda cita?<\/h2>\n

\"unLo \u00fanico que puedo decirte con seguridad es que no hay reglas cuando se trata de este punto. B\u00e1sicamente puedes enamorarte, o puedes acabar odi\u00e1ndote hasta el final de tu <\/b>segunda cita<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Psicoterapeuta y coach de vida Alyson Cohen, <\/i>LCSW<\/i>dice que el <\/i>segunda cita<\/i> es tambi\u00e9n la oportunidad perfecta para crear m\u00e1s atracci\u00f3n. <\/i>Si hubo una chispa de atracci\u00f3n en la primera cita, una segunda puede reforzar esa atracci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, el <\/b>segunda cita<\/b> es una oportunidad perfecta para conocerse mejor.<\/b> You probably didn’t even talk too much on your first date because you’d just met, and both of you were a bit shy and closed off.<\/p>\n

I know how it goes. You’re thinking about <\/i>dejar una buena primera impresi\u00f3n<\/i><\/a> all the time, and you’re afraid to make any first move because you don’t want to mess things up on your <\/i>primera cita nocturna<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

And now you probably feel even more nervous because you’re a step closer to winning over the person you like. However, there is truly nothing to feel nervous about.<\/p>\n

Ya ha pasado el <\/b>primera cita<\/b> test… And even if you didn’t, even if you failed to leave a good first impression, you obviously got a <\/b>segunda oportunidad<\/b> para arreglar las cosas y gan\u00e1rselos.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfTe besas en la segunda cita?<\/h2>\n

\"unI’m sure you’ve heard the saying ‘<\/i>segunda cita<\/i> significa segunda base<\/i>,‘<\/i> PERO si realmente quieres llegar a la tercera cita, debes olvidarte de todo inmediatamente.<\/p>\n

Besos en el <\/b>segunda cita<\/b><\/a> is not a must, but it also isn’t a no-go zone. <\/b>The most important thing is that both partners want it and that both of them are giving clear signals they’re actually okay with it.<\/i><\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, si quieres dar este paso, tienes que prestar atenci\u00f3n a<\/b> your partner’s <\/b>lenguaje corporal<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>They’ll be giving you non-verbal signals through their behavior, and if you pay close attention to it, you’ll be able to pick them up and figure out when it’s okay to make the first move.<\/p>\n

If the other side likes you, you’ll notice that they have open <\/b>lenguaje corporal<\/b>.<\/b> They’ll laugh at your jokes (even the lousy ones), lean in toward you while you’re speaking, maintain deep eye contact, and start mirroring your behavior or facial expressions.<\/i><\/p>\n

Si notas alguna de estas se\u00f1ales, significa que la otra parte te est\u00e1 dando el visto bueno para beso<\/a> ellos.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, debe <\/i>conf\u00eda en tus instintos<\/i><\/a>. If your inner voice is telling you that it’s okay to make the first move, you should definitely listen to it.<\/i> Don’t overthink it at all, and just go for it without thinking about the possible consequences.<\/p>\n

10 Second Date Tips To Leave A Great Impression (Dos & Don’ts)<\/h2>\n

\"unHere’s some interesting data: according to an SIA study, 61% of single guys and 70% of <\/b>mujeres solteras<\/b> sentirse m\u00e1s entusiasmado con la <\/b>segunda cita<\/b> que sobre la <\/b>primera cita<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Si t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n lo crees, aqu\u00ed tienes algunos consejos para triunfar en tu segunda reuni\u00f3n. I’m sure these tips will help your <\/i>amar la vida<\/i> florecer.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c1brete a tu cita<\/h3>\n

Esta cita es la oportunidad perfecta para <\/i>conozca mejor a su pareja<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

And by this, I don’t mean that you should ask them tons of questions and make them feel like they\u2019ve been brought in for questioning. <\/b>Simplemente debes empezar a abrirte a ellos, lo que har\u00e1 que ellos tambi\u00e9n empiecen a hablar de s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\n

DON’T reveal too much<\/h3>\n

Deja esa peque\u00f1a dosis de misterio porque en ella se esconde una verdadera belleza. <\/b>If you reveal everything about yourself during your second meeting, then your potential partner won’t have a reason to see you again.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e9 abierto a diferentes ideas de citas<\/h3>\n

Aunque tu pareja te sugiera probar algo nuevo y diferente en tu <\/i>segunda cita<\/i>algo que se sale de tu zona de confort, debes aceptarlo e ir a por ello.<\/i><\/p>\n

Show them how flexible and adaptable you are. After all, what’s the worst thing that could happen?<\/p>\n

DON’T overcomplicate it<\/h3>\n

If you aren’t sure about their idea para una cita nocturna<\/a>, don’t start unnecessarily complicating things. It was their idea, so just relax and let them lead.<\/p>\n

V\u00edstete bien<\/h3>\n

El aspecto f\u00edsico desempe\u00f1a un papel muy importante (aunque no el m\u00e1s importante) en la construcci\u00f3n de la imagen inicial. <\/b>atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>Si quieres gustarle a tu cita, tienes que vestirte y estar incluso mejor que en la primera cita.<\/p>\n

DON’T overdo it<\/h3>\n

However, that doesn’t mean that you should stress out over what to wear on your date. After all, you should remember that the most important thing is to wear something you’ll feel comfortable in.<\/p>\n

Esc\u00fachelos atentamente<\/h3>\n

If you listen carefully and without interrupting your partner while they talk, you’ll show them that you respect them. And also, it’ll show them that you’re interested in what they have to say.<\/p>\n

DON’T psychoanalyze them<\/h3>\n

Una vez que tu posible pareja empiece a compartir contigo an\u00e9cdotas de su vida personal, lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer es escucharlas.<\/i> Don’t make your own conclusions about them too soon.<\/p>\n

I know you’re curious to find out everything about the person you like, but you’ll find it all out with time. Lo peor que puedes hacer es intentar sumergirte en su mente y sacar conclusiones (probablemente muy err\u00f3neas) sobre su personalidad y naturaleza.<\/b><\/p>\n

Habla de tu vida amorosa<\/b><\/h3>\n

Talking about your past relationships and things you look for in a romantic relationship is perfectly fine. It’s how you’ll encourage your partner to talk about their <\/i>vida amorosa,<\/i> tambi\u00e9n, y averigua sobre sus <\/i>accesibilidad<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

DON’T talk about your ex<\/h3>\n

I’m really serious about this one. Don’t talk about your previous relationship and partner, especially if things have just ended between you.<\/i><\/p>\n

You’ll sound either nostalgic or resentful. Either way, it won’t do you any good. Tu pareja s\u00f3lo puede llegar a la conclusi\u00f3n de que a\u00fan sientes algo por tu ex, lo que har\u00eda que tu <\/b>segunda cita<\/b> el \u00faltimo tambi\u00e9n.<\/b><\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 hacer en una segunda cita: 7 buenas ideas para una segunda cita<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"unIf you’ve read our article about <\/i>ideas para la primera cita<\/i><\/a>, then it’s no wonder you’ve landed this second meeting. Now, it’s time to take your potential relationship to the <\/i>siguiente nivel<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

We’ll prepare you for your next date with these interesting second date ideas that will ensure you get la tercera cita<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Settle in for a movie marathon<\/h3>\n

All you need to know for this kind of date is what your partner’s favorite movie genre is and their favorite snacks. If you’ve met on Tinder or some other dating site, you’ve probably already talked about these kinds of things.<\/p>\n

Noche de cita<\/i> movies really sound like lots of fun, and it’s also a promising one. This intimate atmosphere is the perfect opportunity to snuggle up to your partner and make the first move.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u2022 A game night sounds fun<\/h3>\n

If you have met your partner on a dating app, you should check their profile once again before choosing your perfect second date idea. If they’ve put playing fun games in their interests and hobbies list, then this is the perfect way to spend your second date night.<\/p>\n

Hay montones de juegos de pareja interesantes y divertid\u00edsimos que puedes elegir para organizar la cita m\u00e1s emocionante de la historia.<\/b><\/p>\n

Jugar <\/i>trivialidades<\/i> juegos de preguntas, <\/i>Verdad o reto<\/i><\/a>, <\/i>Nunca jam\u00e1s<\/i><\/a>o, si realmente quieres conocer a tu cita a un nivel m\u00e1s profundo, simplemente elige la opci\u00f3n <\/i>Juego de las 21 preguntas.<\/i><\/a><\/i><\/p>\n

\u2022 Tarot reading \u2013 A useful and quite unique date idea<\/b><\/h3>\n

Si t\u00fa y tu posible pareja cre\u00e9is en la astrolog\u00eda, esta idea de cita os parecer\u00e1 perfecta.<\/b> Y tambi\u00e9n puede ser \u00fatil antes de descubrir vuestra compatibilidad y el potencial que ten\u00e9is para construir una relaci\u00f3n duradera.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Get your Zen on with a yoga class<\/h3>\n

Bien, este es el <\/i>segunda vez<\/i> you guys are meeting, and you should feel more relaxed around each other, but it’s perfectly normal if you still feel as nervous as the <\/i>primera vez<\/i> que conociste.<\/i><\/p>\n

En ese caso, sin duda deber\u00eda elegir una clase de yoga o meditaci\u00f3n para su segunda cita. Para subir la temperatura, puedes organizar una sesi\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica de yoga en casa. <\/b>noche de cita<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Love goes through the stomach, so go with a picnic in a botanical garden<\/b><\/h3>\n

Pasear y explorar un <\/i>jard\u00edn bot\u00e1nico<\/i> es definitivamente un <\/i>gran idea para una segunda cita<\/i>. And if you add a small blanket and a picnic basket filled with delicious food, it’s definitely a win-win combination.<\/i><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n ser\u00eda estupendo que pudieras empaquetar t\u00fa mismo la cesta de picnic. If you show your good cooking skills, you’re definitely getting a <\/b>volver a llamar<\/b>. ?<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Music has the power to make you fall in love, take your date to a concert<\/h3>\n

La mayor\u00eda de los expertos en relaciones est\u00e1n de acuerdo en que la m\u00fasica une a las personas. Y esta afirmaci\u00f3n est\u00e1 respaldada por la ciencia.<\/p>\n

The fact is that listening to music releases dopamine (the ‘happy hormone’) in the brain, which gives us the feeling of excitement and happiness.<\/b> The magic of music is in lightening up people’s moods, and that’s why it should be important to all of us.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Get your adrenaline pumping with a zip-line course<\/h3>\n

Aunque esta idea parezca una locura para un segundo encuentro, sin duda ser\u00eda una experiencia perfecta para estrechar lazos. Eso, por supuesto, solo si la otra parte est\u00e1 dispuesta a un subid\u00f3n de adrenalina.<\/p>\n

30 preguntas interesantes para una segunda cita que animar\u00e1n la conversaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"unThere are probably so many things you want to know about your potential partner but simply don’t know how to ask, or you’re just afraid that it may go wrong.<\/i><\/p>\n

And that’s when the awkward silence happens.<\/b> Para evitar ese tipo de situaciones y aumentar tus probabilidades de tener una tercera cita, aqu\u00ed tienes una lista de interesantes preguntas que hacer en una segunda cita:<\/a><\/p>\n

1. \u00bfQu\u00e9 suele hacer en su tiempo libre?<\/p>\n

2. \u00bfTe gustar\u00eda ser famoso? \u00bfEn qu\u00e9 sentido?<\/p>\n

3. \u00bfQu\u00e9 tema o actividad te hace perder la noci\u00f3n del tiempo?<\/b><\/p>\n

4. \u00bfC\u00f3mo narrar\u00edas tu trayectoria vital en menos de 2 minutos?<\/p>\n

5. Si pudieras aprender cualquier cosa, \u00bfqu\u00e9 elegir\u00edas y por qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

6. \u00bfEst\u00e1 contento con su vida laboral actual?<\/p>\n

7. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son sus sue\u00f1os para el futuro?<\/p>\n

8. What would constitute a \u201cperfect\u201d day for you?<\/b><\/p>\n

9. Si pudieras cambiar algo de ti, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ser\u00eda?<\/p>\n

10. \u00bfQu\u00e9 considera que tenemos en com\u00fan?<\/p>\n

11. \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que m\u00e1s temes?<\/b><\/p>\n

12. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 aspecto de tu vida te sientes m\u00e1s agradecido?<\/p>\n

13. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son los tres momentos m\u00e1s decisivos de su vida?<\/p>\n

14. \u00bfCu\u00e1l ha sido su peor desenga\u00f1o amoroso?<\/b><\/p>\n

15. \u00bfA qui\u00e9n tienes m\u00e1s cerca en tu familia?<\/p>\n

16. \u00bfCu\u00e1l fue su primera impresi\u00f3n de m\u00ed?\"un17. Si pudieras despertarte ma\u00f1ana habiendo ganado una cualidad o habilidad, \u00bfcu\u00e1l ser\u00eda?<\/p>\n

18. Si pudieras volver atr\u00e1s y hacer cualquier cosa en tu vida de nuevo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ser\u00eda?<\/b><\/p>\n

19. \u00bfQu\u00e9 buscas en una relaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

20. \u00bfLe gusta cocinar?<\/p>\n

21. \u00bfCu\u00e1l es su <\/b>primera cita<\/b> \u00bfExperiencia?<\/b><\/p>\n

22. Si una bola de cristal pudiera decirle la verdad sobre usted mismo, su vida, el futuro o cualquier otra cosa, \u00bfqu\u00e9 le gustar\u00eda saber?<\/p>\n

23. What is the scariest thing you\u2019ve ever done?<\/p>\n

24. \u00bfD\u00f3nde ha querido viajar siempre?<\/p>\n

25. \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo lleva viviendo en esta ciudad y qu\u00e9 le gusta de ella?<\/b><\/p>\n

26. Is there something that you\u2019ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven\u2019t you done it?<\/p>\n

27. \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo \u00fanico que lamenta haberse perdido?<\/p>\n

28. \u00bfTiene animales dom\u00e9sticos?<\/p>\n

29. Si supieras que dentro de un a\u00f1o vas a morir de repente, \u00bfcambiar\u00edas algo de tu forma de vida actual? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/b><\/p>\n

30. \u00bfHas tenido alguna experiencia graciosa o inc\u00f3moda en una cita por Internet?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si una segunda cita ha ido bien?<\/h2>\n

\"unaPor supuesto, la se\u00f1al m\u00e1s evidente de que tu cita fue genial es una invitaci\u00f3n para otra cita.<\/b> However, if you didn’t get the invitation, it’s still not a reason to start panicking. Maybe the other side is waiting for you to take that step and invite them on a third date.<\/p>\n

If you feel happy after your date has finished and think your partner had a great time, too, then it’s the best proof your date was successful.<\/i><\/p>\n

Tu cita probablemente te dio algunas se\u00f1ales de que les gustas<\/a> y estamos deseando volver a verle pronto. Estas se\u00f1ales incluyen <\/b>contacto visual prolongado<\/b><\/a>burlas, risas y contacto f\u00edsico.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ah, y la \u00faltima pero no menos importante se\u00f1al de que tu cita ya se ha enamorado de ti es que te deje llevarla a casa. <\/b>And if you got a goodbye kiss when they were leaving the car, don’t worry, the <\/i>tercera cita<\/i> est\u00e1 garantizada.<\/i><\/p>\n

Cierre<\/h2>\n

\"unaLa conclusi\u00f3n es que la segunda cita<\/a> is more significant than the first, but it’s also less important than date number three. However, to get to the third date, you need to pass the second one successfully.<\/p>\n

If you stick to these rules and tips, you have nothing to worry about. You’ll <\/b>clavar esa segunda reuni\u00f3n<\/b><\/a> y conseguir el tercero f\u00e1cilmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Just don’t stress over unimportant things and don’t overthink things too much. If your heart or gut says that you should say or do something, just go for it.<\/p>\n

The point is to get them to like the real you. Your inner voice represents exactly that, the real you, and by shushing it, you’re only ruining your own chances of finding true love.<\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you’re about to go on a second date with someone you really like, I can already imagine what you’re currently doing… You’re pacing the room, trying to figure out what to talk about with your crush, and worrying about whether you will make a good impression. I do agree that first dates can be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":136023,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-136021","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/The-Importance-Of-The-Second-Date-And-10-Tips-To-Get-It-Right-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136021","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=136021"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136021\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/136023"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=136021"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=136021"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=136021"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}

Sin embargo, lo cierto es que ambos miembros de la pareja esperan m\u00e1s afecto f\u00edsico y v\u00ednculo emocional en el <\/b>segunda cita<\/b>. In other words, the second date is an appropriate time for a first kiss, of course, if you didn’t kiss after la primera cita<\/a>.<\/p>\n