{"id":136079,"date":"2021-10-05T15:51:17","date_gmt":"2021-10-05T15:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=136079"},"modified":"2022-10-17T15:49:49","modified_gmt":"2022-10-17T15:49:49","slug":"que-buscar-en-un-chico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-buscar-en-un-chico\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 buscar en un chico: 25 cualidades de un hombre de verdad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>What do you look for in a guy when dating? How do you differentiate a real man from &#8220;an almost man&#8221;?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Dark, handsome, tall, green eyes?&#8230;<\/i><\/b> and the list goes on and on. Since the beginning of time, women have been making real or imaginary lists of &#8220;the perfect man&#8221; according to their standards (or according to society&#8217;s standards).<\/p>\n<p>Some women solely focus on the physical qualities of a man while others look at the bigger picture. But, what&#8217;s common to every single woman on earth is the fact that we all stop at one moment to ask ourselves:<\/p>\n<p><b>&#8220;Wait, what SHOULD we even look for in men? Should we look for perfection or rely on <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/expectativas-en-una-relacion\/\"><b>expectativas razonables<\/b><\/a><b>?&#8221;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Worry not. Today, we&#8217;ll unravel the myths and mysteries of an ideal man.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 suelen buscar las chicas en un chico?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136081 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre sonriente apoyado en una ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-stands-leaning-against-a-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s not fool ourselves. Girls usually look for a good-looking guy (just like the majority of guys do when it comes to girls). There&#8217;s absolutely nothing wrong with that except for one thing:<\/p>\n<p><b>Un chico guapo con un interior terrible (personalidad) no es el <\/b><b>tipo de hombre<\/b><b> quieres estar en un <\/b><b>relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica<\/b><b> con. Punto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but I personally am looking for a man who knows what he&#8217;s doing, and by that, I mean a man with his shit together.<\/p>\n<p>To the world, this type of man is usually known as &#8216;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hombre-unicornio\/\">un hombre unicornio<\/a>&#8216; that a few women have the privilege to meet. Why?<\/p>\n<p><b>Because they&#8217;re becoming extinct.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A man who cares about his family and friends, a man who is passionate and has goals in life, who knows how to make a woman laugh&#8230; a man who supports his loved ones through the ups and downs is REALLY hard to find nowadays.<\/p>\n<p>But, ladies, this doesn&#8217;t mean we should lower our standards (because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/situacion\/\">estar en una situaci\u00f3n<\/a> no es una opci\u00f3n).<\/p>\n<p>Instead, we should make the list of qualities that define a real man that every girl deserves to be with! So, let&#8217;s do it!<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 buscas en un chico?<\/h2>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 buscas en un chico cuando sales con alguien? <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/17-signos-evidentes-atraccion-fisica-dos-personas\/\">Atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica<\/a> seguramente es importante, pero nunca deber\u00eda ser un factor decisivo. Hay cualidades mucho m\u00e1s importantes que buscar en un hombre aparte de su aspecto:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Un gran solucionador de problemas<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136082 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer sentados a una mesa cogidos de la mano mientras hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sitting-at-a-table-holding-hands-as-they-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dear ladies, I can&#8217;t accentuate enough how important this quality is in a man because everything stems from it. A man who is a problem solver won&#8217;t hide or run away from you once things become complicated.<\/p>\n<p><b>Instead, he will roll up his sleeves and deal with any issue at hand because he&#8217;s a problem solver and not a runner. <\/b>Esto incluye tanto los problemas de tu vida personal (y la de \u00e9l) como los de tu vida amorosa.<\/p>\n<p>You certainly don&#8217;t want to be with a guy who can&#8217;t handle a little stress in his life or in a relationship. Weak men are the type of men you can&#8217;t rely on. Strong men are problem-solvers.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Encontrar un resquicio de esperanza es su especialidad<\/h3>\n<p>If there&#8217;s one thing I hate most, it is people who can&#8217;t look on the bright side even if their life depended on it. I&#8217;m talking about eternal pessimists whose negative thoughts can drain even the most optimistic individuals.<\/p>\n<p>Hazte un favor y evita estar con un hombre as\u00ed. <b>En lugar de eso, elige a un hombre que sepa encontrar un resquicio de esperanza en cualquier situaci\u00f3n.<\/b> A man whose levels of optimism are stable and don&#8217;t get easily reduced by trivial events.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 elegir a un hombre as\u00ed?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because life is too short to be with someone who can&#8217;t see the beauty of life even if you slapped them in the face with it. Ups and downs are inevitable, but choosing how to react to life&#8217;s events is a matter of choice.<\/p>\n<p>Si me preguntas, deber\u00eda estar cient\u00edficamente demostrado que estar con un hombre optimista es una de las <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/principales-normas-de-relacion\/\">ingredientes clave para una relaci\u00f3n feliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>3. He&#8217;s ambitious<\/h3>\n<p>According to my previous romantic endeavors, I&#8217;ve realized that men who lack ambition are a huge turn-off. There&#8217;s something truly mesmerizing when you look in the eye of a man who has his goals set and knows exactly what he wants to pursue in life.<\/p>\n<p>Such men have become a rare occurrence (or they&#8217;re already taken). <b>Estar con un hombre ambicioso te da una sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad, porque un hombre as\u00ed no s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 orientado al presente, sino que tiene planes para el futuro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Este tipo de hombre tiene una rutina de entrenamiento establecida, cuida su salud y actualiza su lista de objetivos y logros con regularidad.<\/p>\n<p>No, he doesn&#8217;t only sit with crossed arms hoping that the universe and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-pasos-para-manifestar-el-amor-con-una-persona-especifica-utilizando-la-ley-de-la-atraccion\/\">la ley de la atracci\u00f3n<\/a> will do everything for him so he doesn&#8217;t need to lift a finger. Instead, he&#8217;s realistic and persistent.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Madurez emocional<\/h3>\n<p>Can you even imagine how many potential relationships have failed mainly due to men&#8217;s emotional immaturity? I&#8217;m not saying that women can&#8217;t be emotionally mature, but in this context, we&#8217;re referring to men.<\/p>\n<p><b>Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 significa ser maduro en el aspecto emocional?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It basically means that a person doesn&#8217;t have problems making decisions in life and relationships, and is not afraid of commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Emotionally mature men aren&#8217;t afraid of feelings, but they embrace them. They don&#8217;t run away when things become serious, but they stay.<\/p>\n<p>Toda mujer debe buscar a un hombre que sea sincero con sus sentimientos, porque \u00e9sa es la receta para el \u00e9xito de una relaci\u00f3n. Todo lo dem\u00e1s son complicaciones innecesarias.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Sigue sus propias normas morales<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136083 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre sonriente sentado en el sof\u00e1 y tecleando en un port\u00e1til\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-typing-on-a-laptop-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Otra buena cualidad de un hombre de verdad, y una de las <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/reglas-de-las-citas\/\">reglas clave de las citas<\/a>es un gran sentido de la integridad. Vivimos en un mundo en el que los ideales falsos son tendencia, mientras que los valores reales est\u00e1n enterrados en nuestro subconsciente.<\/p>\n<p><b>A man who has integrity follows his own moral standards and isn&#8217;t satisfied with mediocrity.<\/b> He&#8217;s not indifferent or mindless about things going on around him.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks outside the box, thinks about others, and strives to find a deeper meaning in everything. Being with such a man means knowing where you stand because he won&#8217;t allow his impulses to corrupt his reason.<\/p>\n<h3>6. He&#8217;s caring and protective of his loved ones<\/h3>\n<p>One of the surefire ways to know if he&#8217;s a man who will make you feel safe both emotionally and physically is to look at how he treats other people in his life.<\/p>\n<p>Is he caring and protective of his loved ones (best friends and family)? Or, is he self-centered and doesn&#8217;t really care about other people in his life except himself?<\/p>\n<p><b>En general, los hombres tienen ese deseo innato de proteger a sus mujeres y ser sus h\u00e9roes.<\/b> There&#8217;s actually a step-by-step guide on <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/3-maneras-sencillas-de-liberar-el-instinto-de-heroe-de-tu-hombre\/\">how to trigger a man&#8217;s hero instinct<\/a>pero esta es una historia para otro d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I&#8217;m trying to say is that men want to see themselves as protectors and providers because this is in their nature, but there are always exceptions.<\/p>\n<p>Another surefire way to know if he&#8217;s a real protector is to observe his behavior when something bad happens. Does he run away or stay and offer help and protection? Hmm&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3>7. Tiene buen sentido del humor<\/h3>\n<p><i>&#8220;If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything.<\/i>&#8221; \u2013 Marilyn Monroe<\/p>\n<p>Hacer re\u00edr a alguien requiere un conjunto especial de habilidades (inteligencia, ingenio y creatividad). Por lo tanto, un hombre con un gran sentido del humor no es un hombre que s\u00f3lo puede hacer re\u00edr.<\/p>\n<p><b>He&#8217;s a man who is intelligent, fun, and creative. He doesn&#8217;t take himself too seriously, and he wants his woman to enjoy every second spent with him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quiere que su mujer se r\u00eda y se lo pase bien, porque el sentido del humor es un gran alivio para el estr\u00e9s, muy necesario hoy en d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, s\u00ed, me niego a estar con un hombre que est\u00e9 24\/7 serio, hablando s\u00f3lo de trabajo. Quiero un hombre que me haga re\u00edr a carcajadas de m\u00faltiples maneras.<\/p>\n<p>I want a man with whom I&#8217;ll be able to make a list of internal jokes&#8230; a man who is strong enough to make me laugh even when the whole world is falling apart.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Te respeta<\/h3>\n<p>If a man doesn&#8217;t know how to respect a woman, this is a huge red flag. Any type of disrespect shouldn&#8217;t be tolerated because a woman needs to know her worth.<\/p>\n<p>Real men respect their women; they don&#8217;t abuse them or make them feel less worthy. Be with a woman who will both respect you and motivate you to keep working on yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don&#8217;t be with a man who looks for perfection because that doesn&#8217;t exist. Also, don&#8217;t be with a man who wants to change who you are because that&#8217;s not acceptable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A man who respects his woman will never make her question his intentions, and will never make her feel like she&#8217;s ordinary (one of the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-sigo-soltero\/\">reasons why I&#8217;m still single<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p><b><i>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-ames-a-nadie-que-te-trate-como-si-fueras-ordinario\/\">Never love anyone who treats you like you&#8217;re ordinary<\/a>.&#8221;<\/i><\/b><b> \u2013 Oscar Wilde<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Enam\u00f3rate de un hombre que te trate como a una delicada flor y nunca deje de mostrar su asombro ante tus bellos colores. Enam\u00f3rate de un hombre que te haga sentir especial sin siquiera intentarlo.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Comprende que el amor y las relaciones requieren sacrificio y esfuerzo<\/h3>\n<p>Yes, this is one of the most important things women look for in a guy because EFFORT is hot. I&#8217;m so tired of men who want everything, but aren&#8217;t ready to invest themselves in anything they do.<\/p>\n<p><b>Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 buscas en un chico?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Busca a un hombre que conozca la importancia del sacrificio y el esfuerzo en las relaciones y en la vida en general. Cualquier hombre puede quedarse en tu vida cuando todo va bien, pero solo unos pocos est\u00e1n dispuestos a luchar por lo que creen.<\/p>\n<p>So, look for a man who will fight for you and your relationship no matter what\u2026. a man who knows that relationships are hard work that requires constant maintenance.<\/p>\n<h3>10. Rezuma confianza<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136084 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre apuesto se sienta con los brazos en alto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-handsome-man-sits-with-his-arms-raised-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ladies, is there anything hotter than a guy who is self-confident in both his words and actions? I bet there isn&#8217;t, and that is why this is one of the top qualities we should ALWAYS look for in a guy. Why?<\/p>\n<p>Porque un hombre seguro de s\u00ed mismo te har\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-ser-sexy-2\/\">sentirse seguro de s\u00ed mismo<\/a>. He will know exactly what he wants, and he won&#8217;t allow his insecurities to ruin your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I&#8217;m not talking about those &#8216;wannabe confident men&#8217; who fake their confidence. <b>I&#8217;m talking about men who make goals early in a relationship, stick to their promises, and apologize when needed.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Being with such a man means having someone to rely on without fearing that he&#8217;ll run away once things get serious. Because men do that!<\/p>\n<p>But, mature men who ooze confidence rarely make the mistake of losing a good woman just because they didn&#8217;t set their priorities at the moment. They can&#8217;t afford to make such a mistake because they know the value of such a woman.<\/p>\n<h3>11. Amabilidad y consideraci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;re aware of the fact that being with a man who is not kind or thoughtful equals a legit nightmare. How do I know that? Well, I&#8217;ve been with such a guy and I regretted it big time.<\/p>\n<p>La cuesti\u00f3n es que estos dos valores est\u00e1n interconectados. Si un chico no es amable, no ser\u00e1 considerado, y viceversa.<\/p>\n<p><b>La amabilidad y la consideraci\u00f3n son algunos de los <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cualidades-de-un-buen-hombre\/\"><b>rasgos de un <\/b><b>buen chico<\/b><\/a><b> nunca se debe subestimar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You want to be with a guy who knows the importance of little things&#8230; a guy who will always give his best to make your day (especially when you&#8217;re feeling off).<\/p>\n<p>You want to be with a guy who will be kind to everyone around him regardless of their social status. That&#8217;s the kind of man who deserves our utmost respect and admiration, so don&#8217;t settle for anything less than that.<\/p>\n<h3>12. He pursues you like you&#8217;re the only girl in the world.<\/h3>\n<p>Chasing, pursuing, proving himself worthy of being with you&#8230; you can call it however you want, but one thing is sure: <b>You should never give your heart on a plate to someone who hasn&#8217;t made the slightest effort to earn it.<\/b> Punto.<\/p>\n<p>Be with a man who PURSUES you. Such a man won&#8217;t make you feel like there&#8217;s something wrong with you just because you have some standards.<\/p>\n<p>Le entusiasmar\u00e1 impresionarte con sus mensajes de texto y sus habilidades para las citas. Te perseguir\u00e1 no por motivos turbios, sino porque realmente le importas.<\/p>\n<p><b>Y, una vez que se gane tu coraz\u00f3n, seguir\u00e1 manteniendo su juego de persecuci\u00f3n.<\/b> No te har\u00e1 cuestionar su compromiso contigo, sino que te har\u00e1 sentir protegida, valorada y querida.<\/p>\n<p>Me llev\u00f3 un tiempo poner en pr\u00e1ctica este nuevo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/consejos-de-citas-para-mujeres\/\">regla de fechado<\/a>: <b>S\u00f3lo conf\u00eda en los chicos que te persiguen. <\/b>Those who don&#8217;t bother chasing you will never know how to appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p>So, it&#8217;s your task to let the guys know that you won&#8217;t tolerate anything in between. He either pursues you or he&#8217;s not worthy of being with you.<\/p>\n<h3>13. He&#8217;s reliable to the core<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 buscas en un chico? Yo digo que hay que buscar un buen chico que sepa lo que quiere en la vida y que sea FIABLE.<\/p>\n<p><i>Do you want to be with a guy who freaks out like a little child when something bad happens? Do you want to be with someone you can&#8217;t rely on when you need help with anything?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m aware of the fact that we women are strong and independent, but even we need to rely on someone when it gets hard.<\/p>\n<p>Also, we need to know that the guy we&#8217;re with is trustworthy and not someone who will leave us once they realize <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-sindrome-de-la-hierba-mas-verde\/\">la hierba es m\u00e1s verde<\/a> al otro lado de la valla.<\/p>\n<p><b>CONFIANZA, FIABILIDAD, COMPROMISO. <\/b>Estas son las palabras clave que debe memorizar.<\/p>\n<p>Finding such a man is really difficult nowadays because we&#8217;re greatly affected by the fake ideals of the modern lifestyle. A guy who values reliability is a guy worthy of your time.<\/p>\n<h3>14. He doesn&#8217;t try to change who you are<\/h3>\n<p>Too late&#8230; I&#8217;ve realized that you don&#8217;t have to follow a step-by-step guide to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-mantener-el-interes-de-un-chico\/\">mantener el inter\u00e9s de un chico<\/a> or change yourself completely to capture his attention. If you do, then you know you&#8217;re with the wrong guy. It&#8217;s as simple as that.<\/p>\n<p><b>Un chico que realmente se preocupa por ti se asegurar\u00e1 de respetar tus gustos y <\/b><b>no le gusta<\/b><b>alaba tu <\/b><b>peculiaridades<\/b><b>y valora tu personalidad \u00fanica.<\/b> He won&#8217;t be intimidated by any of the mentioned, and he definitely won&#8217;t try to change who you are.<\/p>\n<p>So, look for the guy who will see the real you instead of trying to change you to his preferences&#8230; a guy who will know when you need a hug, when you&#8217;re feeling distressed, and when you need some time alone.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don&#8217;t be with someone who judges you just because you don&#8217;t fit their definition of the perfect girlfriend.<\/b> I repeat: perfection doesn&#8217;t exist. Be with a guy who appreciates your imperfection and always finds new ways to embrace it.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Admira tu fuerza y devoci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136085 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer sonriente sentada junto a la ventana con un hombre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-woman-sitting-by-the-window-with-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever allow yourself to be with someone who downplays the strength and efforts you invest into <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-una-buena-novia\/\">ser una buena novia<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A great guy will admire your strength and make you even stronger instead of trying to manipulate you. That&#8217;s the kind of man you want to stick to.<\/p>\n<p><b>You don&#8217;t want to be with someone who will give his best to make you feel less worthy only to manipulate you.<\/b> El mundo est\u00e1 lleno de personas t\u00f3xicas que han perdido la capacidad de alabar las buenas cualidades de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Grateful men know how to value a woman&#8217;s selflessness, and they admire her strength and devotion to becoming the best version of herself.<\/p>\n<p>Such a man encourages you and always lifts you up when you&#8217;re feeling down. He trusts in you, and he knows that you can achieve anything you set your mind to. Still, he lets you know that you can rely on him whenever you need to.<\/p>\n<h3>16. Asume la responsabilidad de sus actos<\/h3>\n<p>Irresponsible men have cost me lots of time and nerves so far. Here&#8217;s the newest example. Recently, I dated a guy who was the epitome of irresponsibility, but obviously, I was too blind to see it (on time).<\/p>\n<p>On top of all his selfish actions, he even forgot about our date twice, after which, he ghosted me. A few days later, he apologized for it, and also made me feel like I should lower my &#8220;unreasonable expectations&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00bfEn serio? \u00bfDesde cu\u00e1ndo <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asuma-la-responsabilidad-de-sus-actos\/\"><b>asumir la responsabilidad de sus actos<\/b><\/a><b> \u00bfy ser un ser humano digno de confianza se considera poco razonable?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s how, my ladies, you know you&#8217;re dealing with a man who is not good for you. Instead, choose to be with a man who takes responsibility for his actions in both love life and life in general.<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre as\u00ed har\u00e1 todo lo posible por no decepcionarte, e incluso si lo hace, se disculpar\u00e1 a tiempo y se asegurar\u00e1 de no volver a repetir el mismo error. Un hombre as\u00ed es el que se queda.<\/p>\n<h3>17. He&#8217;s attentive and supportive<\/h3>\n<p>In the age of smartphones and social media, it can be really hard (if not impossible) to get and hold someone\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you have to teach him how to be attentive, that kind of guy is not worthy of your time, and he&#8217;s definitely not a candidate for a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quieres estar con un chico que ya conozca la importancia de una buena comunicaci\u00f3n y un apoyo ilimitado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever beg for a guy&#8217;s attention or see it as something that should be earned. No, it shouldn&#8217;t. If you give your best to listen to him and support him through his life goals and other things, you have every right to expect the same thing in return.<\/p>\n<p><b>La reciprocidad es algo que nunca pasar\u00e1 de moda. <\/b>Men who are not worthy of your time will only be there when it&#8217;s convenient for them.<\/p>\n<p>Do you know what? You don&#8217;t need such a man in your life because you deserve ten times better.<\/p>\n<h3>18. Un buen comunicador<\/h3>\n<p>La comunicaci\u00f3n es uno de los aspectos m\u00e1s importantes de toda relaci\u00f3n sana. Un buen comunicador da y recibe en una conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>No s\u00f3lo se centran en sus propias palabras y pensamientos, sino que te escuchan activamente y responden en consecuencia.<\/p>\n<p><b>One of the surefire ways to know that he&#8217;s a good communicator is if you can never run out of new <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/temas-para-hablar-con-chicos\/\"><b>temas para hablar con \u00e9l.<\/b><\/a> Tu lenguaje corporal y tus palabras se unen, haciendo que la conversaci\u00f3n sea apasionada, significativa e inspiradora.<\/p>\n<p>Un buen comunicador nunca te juzgar\u00e1, manipular\u00e1 o ignorar\u00e1. Cuando surjan problemas en la relaci\u00f3n, estar\u00e1 dispuesto a hablar contigo sobre ello en lugar de saltar al modo pasivo-agresivo.<\/p>\n<p>And, one thing is sure&#8230; <strong>r<\/strong><b>elationship issues will always be present, and you can&#8217;t exterminate them, but you can learn to deal with them in an effective and painless way.<\/b> Estar con un buen comunicador lo hace posible.<\/p>\n<h3>19. He always finds time for you (because you&#8217;re his priority)<\/h3>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a universal truth that every lady deserves to know: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-puedes-hacer-cuando-empieza-a-darte-por-sentada\/\"><b>Un tipo que te da por sentada<\/b><\/a><b> no es digno de tu tiempo, nervios, palabras y acciones.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Imagine being with a guy who decides to simply ghost you from time to time, make excuses, and make you feel like you&#8217;re asking too much from him.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ahora, imagina estar con un chico que siempre est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para ti, y que te hace sentir simplemente <\/b>right. I won&#8217;t ask you which one you would choose because it&#8217;s evident.<b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>With the right guy, you&#8217;ll never worry about where you stand, and he will never make you feel like you&#8217;re too much to deal with. Instead, he will always find time for you because he wants to. That&#8217;s the kind of guy you should be with.<\/p>\n<h3>20. Honestidad<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136086 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se sientan en un caf\u00e9 y hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-in-a-cafe-and-talk-3-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Of course, being honest means that he&#8217;ll never do anything behind your back, and he&#8217;ll treat you the way you deserve. But, being honest also means having the courage to tell you things that might be painful for you to hear.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you&#8217;ve recently gained weight, the right man will express his concern for your health, and will help you with motivation and a training regimen.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ser\u00e1 sincero y atento con usted, independientemente de la situaci\u00f3n, porque quiere lo mejor para usted.<\/b> Por lo tanto, est\u00e9 con un hombre que participe activamente en su vida en lugar de ser un observador pasivo.<\/p>\n<p>You deserve to be with someone whose honesty will help you improve your lifestyle and make you a better person. A kind man deserves the same thing, and he&#8217;s completely aware of that.<\/p>\n<h3>21. Sigue las reglas de caballero<\/h3>\n<p>&#8220;Please&#8221; and &#8220;thank you&#8221; are the words you can find in his dictionary. He doesn&#8217;t feel the need to show off or boast about his successes.<\/p>\n<p><b>Te respeta y te defiende. S\u00ed, tambi\u00e9n te abre las puertas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Te escucha con atenci\u00f3n y sabe expresar sus sentimientos de forma honesta y caballerosa.<\/p>\n<p>So, what do you look for in a guy? Look for a good man who follows gentleman rules. Look for a man who will treat you like I described above, and don&#8217;t settle for anything less.<\/p>\n<h3>22. Un alma rom\u00e1ntica<\/h3>\n<p>I&#8217;m perfectly aware of the fact that most men have problems with expressing their romantic side, especially if they aren&#8217;t romantic souls by nature. However, we&#8217;re not looking for perfection, but a man who tries.<\/p>\n<p><b>So, a man who tries will find a way to add romance to dating or to a relationship. He will not neglect the romance aspect just because he thinks he&#8217;s incapable of delivering it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>En cambio, har\u00e1 todo lo posible por impresionarte con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mensajes-romanticos-pensando-en-ti\/\"><i>pensando en ti<\/i> mensajes<\/a>cartas de amor y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/frases-cursis-de-amor\/\">frases cursis de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A man doesn&#8217;t have to be a hopeless romantic to make a woman feel loved. All he has to do is make an effort and his actions will match the level of his affection. Keep that one in mind when looking for the right guy.<\/p>\n<h3>23. Valora m\u00e1s el compromiso que su ego<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-hacer-que-se-comprometa-sin-presiones\/\">Hacer que un hombre se comprometa<\/a> has always been an art in itself. I&#8217;m sure every relationship expert would agree with me on this one.<\/p>\n<p>So, you meet a nice guy and everything goes smooth until he turns into a legit commitment-phobe, which is every woman&#8217;s nightmare. <b>Hay varias razones <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-hombres-huyen\/\">por qu\u00e9 huyen los hombres<\/a> from commitment, and it&#8217;s often because of their ego.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Piensan que comprometerse con una mujer les atrapar\u00e1 y les har\u00e1 parecer d\u00e9biles a los ojos de otros hombres. Tonto, de hecho.<\/p>\n<p><b>Un hombre de verdad valora m\u00e1s el compromiso que su ego. <\/b>He doesn&#8217;t care about what other people will think of him because he knows he&#8217;s doing the right thing. That&#8217;s the kind of man you want to be with.<\/p>\n<h3>24. Comparten intereses y valores mutuos<\/h3>\n<p>Ni que decir tiene que la compatibilidad de valores es esencial cuando se trata de citas y relaciones potenciales. De hecho, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/valores-relacionales-que-toda-pareja-debe-tener\/\">valores fundamentales en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> tambi\u00e9n debe coincidir.<\/p>\n<p><b>Si vuestros intereses y valores son completamente diferentes, no podr\u00e9is conectar ni entenderos. <\/b>Sin conexi\u00f3n y comprensi\u00f3n, no hay relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>When you meet a guy, make sure to talk about your goals, core values, and things that matter to you. If you&#8217;re compatible, then it will be easier for you to form a healthy and happy relationship.<\/p>\n<h3>25. Jugar no es lo suyo<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136087 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"una bonita pareja sentada en una cafeter\u00eda y charlando tomando un caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-beautiful-couple-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-over-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Those men who like to play games certainly don&#8217;t care about your feelings or your mental health. Keep that one in mind as well when looking for the right guy.<\/p>\n<p><b>La verdad es que <\/b><b>buen chico<\/b><b> que sigue las reglas de los caballeros expresar\u00e1 sus sentimientos desde el primer d\u00eda en lugar de jugar contigo.<\/b> No jugar\u00e1 con tu coraz\u00f3n, pero dar\u00e1 lo mejor de s\u00ed para ganarlo.<\/p>\n<p>So, do yourself a favor and don&#8217;t waste your time on players who make you question things and your own sanity. You deserve a man who is emotionally stable and ready to fully commit to you without any complication.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfCu\u00e1les son las 5 cosas que m\u00e1s busca una mujer en un hombre?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136088 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer sonrientes caminan por la calle y hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-smiling-man-and-woman-walk-down-the-street-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tuvi\u00e9ramos que resumir todo lo dicho anteriormente, estas son las 5 cosas que deber\u00edas poner en tu lista de deseos cuando busques un hombre de verdad:<\/p>\n<p><b>1. Reflexivo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>2. Madurez emocional.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. Un buen comunicador.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>4. Fiable.<\/p>\n<p><b>5. Responsable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Of course, this list is not fixed, and it can be modified to everyone&#8217;s standards and preferences, but these are the top qualities that shouldn&#8217;t be neglected. I&#8217;m sure you all agree with me, right?<\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-136089 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre y una mujer se sientan en la hierba y hablan\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-grass-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What do you look for in a guy? Now, I don&#8217;t want you to think that the right guy for you should have ALL of the qualities above.<\/p>\n<p>There are some essential qualities that you shouldn&#8217;t take for granted, such as honesty and responsibility, and there are some things that he can work on, such as his confidence and his romantic efforts.<\/p>\n<p><b>Seguir ciegamente una lista de cosas que debe ser un hombre no te ayudar\u00e1 a encontrar <\/b><b>Sr. Correcto<\/b><b> porque elegimos a la gente con el coraz\u00f3n.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In the end, what matters is that he&#8217;s a good man who is willing to work on himself because effort always sounds promising.<\/p>\n<p>When you find your man, here&#8217;s some advice on making your relationship last: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relacion-seria\/\">6 se\u00f1ales de una relaci\u00f3n seria y 7 consejos para construirla<\/a>. Buena suerte.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What do you look for in a guy when dating? How do you differentiate a real man from &#8220;an almost man&#8221;? Dark, handsome, tall, green eyes?&#8230; and the list goes on and on. Since the beginning of time, women have been making real or imaginary lists of &#8220;the perfect man&#8221; according to their standards (or&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":136080,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-136079","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/What-To-Look-For-In-A-Guy-25-Qualities-Of-A-Real-Man-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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