{"id":13611,"date":"2020-04-01T08:01:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T08:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13611"},"modified":"2022-01-24T13:56:22","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T13:56:22","slug":"pasa-que-la-chica-buena-se-la-juega","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/pasa-que-la-chica-buena-se-la-juega\/","title":{"rendered":"Esto es lo que pasa cuando se juega con una buena chica"},"content":{"rendered":"

She\u2019s generous and kind and caring and always there for those who need her. Even though she has a lot going on in her life, she\u2019s manages to be there for the people whom she loves no matter what.<\/p>\n

She never gives up on people and no matter what happens or how low someone falls, she\u2019ll be there, still, like the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s special, you know? She\u2019s one of those who love wholeheartedly. When she falls in love, she falls with her body, mind, and soul. She gives herself completely to the person she loves.<\/p>\n

Even though she\u2019s aware of the little imperfections and flaws, she always chooses to see the good in people and love them just the way they are.<\/p>\n

Siendo como es, ser una buena chica<\/a>es algo que le sale de forma natural.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s in her blood and it\u2019s something very hard to get rid of. It\u2019s not like she ever planned. But people often take it for granted.<\/p>\n

They use her kindness as if it will never get worn out. They call her in their lives when they need her, and they leave her alone when they no longer have any use of her\u2014until the next time.<\/p>\n

It didn\u2019t happen only once. People keep taking and taking without ever giving anything in return to her. And she doesn\u2019t mind because she\u2019s selfless. And because she\u2019s used to it.<\/p>\n

Ella puede soportar muchas cosas. Pero algunas de esas personas, rompen pedazos de su coraz\u00f3n poco a poco.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

She can\u2019t bear having someone jugar con ella<\/a> heart. She can\u2019t bear being someone\u2019s last resort<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t used to being let down by people she loves. She isn\u2019t used to hearing promises someone has no intentions to keep.<\/p>\n

There are people who aren\u2019t good to her no matter how much she gives to them.<\/p>\n

There are people who only use her and play with her and her feelings. And she can\u2019t draw the line between them\u2014, actually she\u2019s unable to do so because of the way she is.<\/p>\n

So they continue playing with her. They continue stretching her to the breaking point. And once they\u2019ve played her, everyone is at a loss.<\/p>\n

Cuando se juega con una buena chica, tambi\u00e9n se juega con sus sentimientos.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Todo lo que sent\u00eda se le hace muy extra\u00f1o. Lo que sea o quien sea que ten\u00eda en su coraz\u00f3n se vuelve demasiado doloroso para mantenerlo dentro y empieza a borrarlo todo de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Empieza a acallar sus sentimientos porque sentir algo significa sentirlo todo, incluido el dolor. Simplemente lo cierra.<\/p>\n

Su confianza se rompe.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esa idea de que la gente ser\u00e1 buena con ella porque no quiere hacerle da\u00f1o empieza a abandonarla poco a poco.<\/p>\n

La idea de que todos somos buenos empieza a desvanecerse.<\/p>\n

And when she decides to welcome someone new, to give that someone her trust, she can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Le roban su bondad.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not like she wanted to lose it. It\u2019s not like she had problems being the way she is. But obviously someone else did.<\/p>\n

Someone else didn\u2019t care how she feels or what happens to and with her.<\/p>\n

Jugaron con ella hasta el punto de hacerle perder todo lo bueno que hab\u00eda en ella.<\/p>\n

Ella cambia.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Everything in her shifts. She realizes she can\u2019t always be the one who ends up pulling the shorter end of the stick.<\/p>\n

She can\u2019t always be the one giving and not getting anything in return.<\/p>\n

She can\u2019t always be the one getting broken, and used and played in a relationship just because she\u2019s a good person.<\/p>\n

Empieza a construir muros a su alrededor.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo lo que le ha pasado, se siente un poco insegura sobre en qui\u00e9n puede confiar.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t know whom she can let in her life and she\u2019s scared to make the same mistakes she did before.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she starts pushing everyone away. That\u2019s why she lifts her walls high and never lets anyone in.<\/p>\n

Se vuelve inaccesible.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Because of all the pain she\u2019s going through, she doesn\u2019t think straight. She hates herself for being so naive and for allowing people to use her as it pleases them.<\/p>\n

Con todo este l\u00edo que est\u00e1 ocurriendo, se hace dif\u00edcil hablar con ella.<\/p>\n

Her kind words are replaced with sarcastic comments and she just doesn\u2019t listen. Even those who try to approach her with their hearts in their hands can\u2019t come close to her.<\/p>\n

Todos la pierden.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Even those who were good to her lose her because she doesn\u2019t know who\u2019s good and who\u2019s bad.<\/p>\n

Cre\u00eda que todo el mundo era bueno y eso le cost\u00f3 mucho.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que para alejarse de esos malos, sacrifica tambi\u00e9n a los que realmente se preocupan por ella.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/strong>7 cosas que pasan cuando pierdes a una buena chica<\/a><\/p>\n

Empieza a ser su propio h\u00e9roe.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes siempre se apresuraba a ayudar a los dem\u00e1s. Siempre estaba ah\u00ed para salvar a los necesitados y ahora, cuando los ha tachado de su vida, no tiene a nadie a quien salvar.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not like she could save anyone when she\u2019s feels broken, too. She needs to save herself first.<\/p>\n

Toda la bondad que daba a los dem\u00e1s empieza a guardarla para ella.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Instead of giving it to those who\u2019d just use it and darlo por hecho<\/a>Decide ser buena consigo misma. Decide hacer cosas por s\u00ed misma, cosas que la hagan feliz y cosas que la ayuden a crecer.<\/p>\n

Poco a poco empieza a aprender a ser buena para s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

Aprende algunas lecciones por las malas.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Even though she didn\u2019t sign up for these life classes, even though she didn\u2019t want to know, life showed her how life can be hard sometimes and how not all people are good.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 le ense\u00f1aron por las malas, pero al menos las lecciones que aprendi\u00f3 ser\u00e1n bien recordadas.<\/p>\n

Aprende que complacer a todo el mundo no le servir\u00e1 de nada.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ser buena la hac\u00eda feliz, pero complacer a los dem\u00e1s al final s\u00f3lo la agota f\u00edsica y emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

Porque la gente nunca deja de recibir y ella nunca sabe cu\u00e1ndo dejar de dar. Finalmente aprende que complacer a todo el mundo no le deja tiempo para complacerse a s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

Aprende que tiene que valerse por s\u00ed misma.<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Those people won\u2019t be as good for her as she is for them.<\/p>\n

Que a veces necesita cuidar de s\u00ed misma antes de cuidar de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

She learns that it\u2019s okay to have an opinion that doesn\u2019t agree with everyone else\u2019s and that it\u2019s okay to say it out loud.<\/p>\n

Aprende que no todo el mundo es bueno.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Just because she wouldn\u2019t play with other people\u2019s feelings, it doesn\u2019t mean that they wouldn\u2019t play with hers.<\/p>\n

Just because she\u2019d never hurt anyone deliberately, it doesn\u2019t mean they wouldn\u2019t hurt her.<\/p>\n

No todo el mundo es bueno y le llev\u00f3 un tiempo aceptarlo.<\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>\n

\"Esto<\/p>\n

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