{"id":13618,"date":"2020-07-01T08:11:33","date_gmt":"2020-07-01T08:11:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13618"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:06:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:06:38","slug":"guy-10-things-youre-nothing-booty-call","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/guy-10-things-youre-nothing-booty-call\/","title":{"rendered":"Si un chico hace estas 10 cosas, no eres m\u00e1s que su reclamo sexual"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes we get carried away and we can\u2019t see what\u2019s really going on. Maybe we actually do see it, but we don\u2019t want to admit it because things would change and our heart would be broken.<\/p>\n

Puede que en el fondo sepas que no eres m\u00e1s que un reclamo para \u00e9l, pero te niegas a admitirlo porque sientes algo por \u00e9l. Tienes la esperanza de que crecer\u00e1 en \u00e9l y que va a cambiar.<\/p>\n

He probably never talked openly to you and is keeping you in a grey zone where everything is possible. So, to some extension, it\u2019s not your fault that you\u2019ve been kept in the dark. It\u2019s logical that you will draw your own conclusions and hope for the best.<\/p>\n

But, let\u2019s face it, this way you are only prolonging the inevitable. By choosing to be blind in order not to get hurt, you are only making it worse when the truth comes to light\u2014and it will. You will only get attached to him even more and therefore, you\u2019re going to hurt much harder.<\/p>\n

Echa un vistazo a las se\u00f1ales que indican que s\u00f3lo piensa en ti para tener sexo y ah\u00f3rrate disgustos y l\u00e1grimas:<\/p>\n

Todas tus citas acaban con sexo<\/h2>\n

\"coqueteo<\/p>\n

Literalmente, nunca has tenido una cita normal en la que te acompa\u00f1e a casa y te bese suavemente d\u00e1ndote las buenas noches.<\/p>\n

I know that there are some passionate feelings involved and that it\u2019s hard to resist him, but if every time you go out he gets sex, he will only expect sex in the future\u2014not to mention that he will call you only when his sex drive hits the roof.<\/p>\n

Evita las reuniones p\u00fablicas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, te ignora en p\u00fablico, especialmente durante el d\u00eda. S\u00f3lo quiere verte durante la noche porque hay algo que quiere de ti y es sexo.<\/p>\n

So, if you see him during the day somewhere in the mall, walking the dog in the park or whatever, he will pretend he doesn\u2019t see you and practically run away.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l te encadena<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This is that grey area I\u2019ve written about. This is the position that suits him best. He probably doesn\u2019t know exactly what he wants or you are his backup girlfriend, so he keeps you around giving you hope that someday it may turn into something more.<\/p>\n

I hate to break it to you, but it will change only if he wants it to. Do you want to be a girlfriend of the guy who wasn\u2019t sure about you right at the beginning? I think not.<\/p>\n

Esconde su tel\u00e9fono<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

This is too suspicious. Most people nowadays keep their phones in front of them because let\u2019s face it, we can\u2019t live without our phones anymore. If he is being weird and secretive about his phone, he is probably hiding something.<\/p>\n

Maybe he already has a girlfriend and although his phone is probably on mute while he is with you, he is afraid that her name might pop up on the screen and then he is busted\u2014which most definitely doesn\u2019t work to his advantage.<\/p>\n

Nunca habla del futuro<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Whenever he plans something, he never mentions you. He never uses \u201cwe\u201d, he always uses \u201cI\u201d which is definitely not a good sign.<\/p>\n

This means that he isn\u2019t planning to be with you for a longer time. You are probably only his plan B until something better comes along.<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t around when you need him<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

He has the perfect ability to disappear when you need him to be there for you. When you are going through a rough period in life, when you have problems and you need someone just to be there for you and to listen to you, he won\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t feel he needs to comfort you because he doesn\u2019t care for you. This is an undeniable sign that you are just a booty call for him.<\/p>\n

Evita presentarte a sus amigos o familiares<\/h2>\n

\"Chico<\/p>\n

He will mostly try to hide you from everyone he knows. He is well aware of the fact that for him, what you have is not serious, so he doesn\u2019t want anyone to know about you.<\/p>\n

He even takes you to places where he is sure nobody he knows will see you. The bottom line is that if he never introduces you to anyone, he doesn\u2019t take you seriously.<\/p>\n

Hace planes de \u00faltima hora contigo<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Esta es definitivamente una firma se\u00f1al de que eres una side-chick<\/a>. Si realmente quiere pasar tiempo contigo por ti y no por algo que quiere de ti, lo habr\u00eda planeado con antelaci\u00f3n al menos un d\u00eda o dos.<\/p>\n

But, if he calls you and expects you to be free right that second or in an hour, he only wants you for one thing. His plans have probably fallen through, so he turned to his plan B\u2014you.<\/p>\n

Te manda mensajes por la noche<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

Te env\u00eda mensajes a horas intempestivas, a veces en mitad de la noche. No te manda mensajes para ver c\u00f3mo est\u00e1s o porque te echa de menos.<\/p>\n

He is texting you because he wants to hook up with you and texting: \u201cWhat\u2019s up?\u201d is a lame attempt to see if you are awake and up for it.<\/p>\n

Se va justo despu\u00e9s del sexo<\/h2>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Llega tarde y se va en cuanto termina. \u00bfQu\u00e9 m\u00e1s necesitas?<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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