{"id":13675,"date":"2020-12-01T13:59:41","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T13:59:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13675"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:01:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:01:28","slug":"5-razones-por-las-que-no-puedes-encontrar-el-amor-por-mucho-que-lo-intentes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-razones-por-las-que-no-puedes-encontrar-el-amor-por-mucho-que-lo-intentes\/","title":{"rendered":"5 razones por las que no encuentras el amor (por mucho que lo intentes)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aunque ser soltero tiene sus ventajas y puede ser muy reconfortante, no estamos hechos para pasar la vida solos. Estamos hechos para tener a alguien a nuestro lado que nos ayude cuando nos sentimos mal o con quien compartir nuestros momentos felices.<\/p>\n

Ser soltero<\/a> es estupendo porque puedes aprovechar ese t3empo para dedic\u00e1rtelo a ti mismo. Todos tenemos que pasar un cierto periodo de nuestra vida solos. En ese tiempo, veremos qui\u00e9nes somos realmente y qu\u00e9 queremos de verdad.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re really trying to find love and it\u2019s not going the way you want, maybe there is something more to it. It\u2019s not you, you don\u2019t have to worry about that. You are lovable and you deserve to be loved, no matter what.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think that if you can\u2019t find love you will always be unable to find it. There is someone out there for you,waiting to be found. Maybe it just takes more time because you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

Take a look at why it\u2019s dif\u00edcil que encuentres el amor<\/a> por mucho que lo intentes:<\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re needy<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Ves a un hombre como algo que realmente necesitas y a los hombres les encanta que les necesiten porque les da una sensaci\u00f3n de importancia. Quieren ser cuidadores, pero cuando esa necesidad cruza una l\u00ednea, se convierte en demasiado.<\/p>\n

You have to want a man and not need one. You\u2019re perfectly capable of being on your own and taking care of yourself and you don\u2019t have to have a man to fill that void you feel.<\/p>\n

A man will sense that and run away because he won\u2019t want to be tied down and restricted like that.<\/p>\n

Tienes que respetarte m\u00e1s y tener m\u00e1s autoestima. Tienes que saber que todo empieza por ti. Si te sientes como una mierda, enviar\u00e1s esa se\u00f1al y la transferir\u00e1s a los dem\u00e1s a tu alrededor y te evitar\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Si te sientes menos digno, te buscar la validaci\u00f3n<\/a> en forma de necesitar a alguien y los hombres huir\u00e1n de ti. Intenta ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti misma y el resto caer\u00e1 por su propio peso.<\/p>\n

You fall for the ones you can\u2019t have<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you can\u2019t have them, it\u2019s that they are unavailable to you. Maybe they want to be with you, but something is in the way and the situation is far from ideal.<\/p>\n

Maybe they are still married, or they live far away from you. Whatever it is, don\u2019t force those kinds of relationships because you\u2019re going to end up hurt and alone.<\/p>\n

These kinds of men are the ones you can\u2019t have, so you might as well give up on them right now and save time. Focus on yourself and happiness will come knocking on your door.<\/p>\n

Eres inseguro<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Hay muchas m\u00e1s cuestiones que tienes que resolver por ti mismo. Hay muchas cosas sobre ti que no est\u00e1n claras para ti, y mucho menos para otra persona.<\/p>\n

Sigues teniendo miedo de hacer un movimiento, as\u00ed que te encierras en casa y esperas que alguien caiga del cielo s\u00f3lo para ti.<\/p>\n

Tienes que salir ah\u00ed fuera y encontrar valor para el mundo real. En cuanto derribes tus muros, ver\u00e1s la luz y todo ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know how to deal with rejection<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto es muy obvio: te est\u00e1s saboteando a ti mismo. Tan pronto como las cosas van a tu manera y encuentras a alguien que podr\u00edas amar, te echas atr\u00e1s por alguna raz\u00f3n inventada.<\/p>\n

You do this because you are afraid of getting hurt. You are afraid that he will reject you at some point. Well, look, all of it is a part of your life. Getting hurt is something we\u2019ve all been through and it made us stronger.<\/p>\n

It will make you stronger, too. It will turn you into the person you were supposed to be. So, don\u2019t be scared of rejection and open your heart because your heart is strong enough to take anything that life throws at it.<\/p>\n

Tiene un alto nivel de exigencia<\/h2>\n

\"atractiva<\/p>\n

Esperas demasiado de los hombres. Tienes que entender que nadie es perfecto, ni \u00e9l ni t\u00fa. Dale un poco de margen porque si se esfuerza lo suficiente para conquistarte, significa que le importas de verdad.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t obsess over his flaws because you have flaws too and he finds a way to ignore them or look the other way. When you love someone, you love him because he is the way he is.<\/p>\n

He is not perfect and he doesn\u2019t have to be. He is unique, like you are. Therefore, lower your expectations and don\u2019t be so harsh.<\/p>\n

Comprueba qui\u00e9n eres y c\u00f3mo puedes mejorar antes de juzgar a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

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