{"id":13688,"date":"2018-02-02T08:16:41","date_gmt":"2018-02-02T08:16:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13688"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:48:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:48:01","slug":"no-dejes-que-nadie-te-robe-el-trueno-viaje-autodescubrimiento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-dejes-que-nadie-te-robe-el-trueno-viaje-autodescubrimiento\/","title":{"rendered":"No dejes que nadie te robe tu trueno - Un viaje al autodescubrimiento"},"content":{"rendered":"

The teenage years are hard. Cliques and cliqu\u00e9s\u2014having to maintain a fa\u00e7ade of false confidence to fit in. Heaven forbid you say or do the wrong thing and your reputation is ruined. You spend a little more time primping in the bathroom and a little less time worrying about your studies.<\/p>\n

They are hard and for this reason: they leave a lasting impression that many women carry with them for the rest of their lives. Putting aside our true inner selves and morphing into what society wants becomes second nature. Only when we\u2019re alone in our car, behind closed doors, or otherwise sure we\u2019re alone do we dare focus on what\u2019s going on inside. Only when it\u2019s seguro.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s a tendency for women to get stuck in the same circles over and over again throughout the various stages of their lives. First, we try to blend in with the \u201ccool\u201d crowd. Then, it\u2019s the \u201cother cool crowd\u201d or \u201cparty crowd\u201d. After that, with a ring on our finger, it\u2019s the \u201cmarried crowd\u201d and post-baby, it\u2019s with the other moms. Women are social creatures by nature, and we\u2019re forever trying to define our social circles.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/strong> <\/em>Para alejar los sentimientos negativos de desapego y soledad<\/a>. It can be terrifying to feel alone, misunderstood, or unacknowledged. It\u2019s much easier to be \u201ca part of\u201d than \u201capart from\u201d. This is a concept that\u2019s instilled in us early on in life, and unfortunately, oftentimes, it takes tragedy or an otherwise extreme life event to center us and bring us back to what matters most \u2013 nosotros mismos.<\/strong><\/em> For, it\u2019s amid tragedy that we\u2019re often made to realize who are true allies are or are forced into realizing that at the end of the day, estamos esencialmente solos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This is why, although there is much devastation attached to tragedy, there can also be immense healing and self-discovery. Once you are propelled through a journey back to self, you\u2019ll never return to who you were before. Those who have completed the process feel \u2018full\u2019 for the first time, maybe ever. They feel courageous and complete, comfortable in their own skins.<\/p>\n

Of course, this evolution doesn\u2019t have to stem from a traumatic event. We can all choose to wake up one day and say basta ya.<\/strong><\/em> It\u2019s never too late to hit the restart button and choose to love ourselves. All we need is a little motivation to inspire us, and perhaps a few extra minutes of quiet time.<\/p>\n

Cuando comprendemos qui\u00e9nes somos y qu\u00e9 nos mueve, empiezan a suceder cosas maravillosas. Creamos un efecto domin\u00f3 de energ\u00eda positiva:<\/p>\n

Empezamos a centrarnos en objetivos alineados con lo que nos hace felices.<\/strong> <\/em>Maybe you love your mom\u2019s club, your book club, attending Toastmasters, and playing online trivia. Cool. These are things que quieras<\/strong> <\/em>in life\u2014not what others want for you. This is very important. Keep doing what you love and loving what you do, and this will be evident, so evident that\u2026<\/p>\n

Cumplimos la ley de la atracci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/em> We become more positive when we\u2019re happy with ourselves and the journey we\u2019re on. And, this is evident to others. The law of attraction says that by focusing on positivity or negativity, we bring positive or negative experiences into our lives. Thus, point three\u2026<\/p>\n

Proyectamos felicidad.<\/strong> <\/em>We\u2019re so filled with positive energy, that this energy almost visibility illuminates our steps. Everyone can\u2019t help but notice, so\u2026<\/p>\n

Atraemos a otros.<\/strong> <\/em>Positive energy is contagious, and people start asking how they can get in on your secret. It\u2019s hard not to notice you\u2019re killin\u2019 it, and they want what you\u2019re having.<\/p>\n

Al atraer la positividad, nuestros sue\u00f1os se hacen realidad.<\/strong> <\/em>Creer en uno mismo<\/a> is the first step to fulfilling even your most fantastic goals. If you project confidence, others will see this, and they\u2019ll believe in you, too. When others believe in you, you are presented with opportunities. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n

Choosing to start this journey is like choosing to embark on a positive, self-fulfilling prophecy, much as deciding to disengage from self and continue trying to \u201cfit in\u201d is like accepting a path of discontentment. We are all faced with decisions, large or small, throughout our lives. At the end of the day, the choice is yours.<\/p>\n

by\u00a0Sara E. Teller<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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