{"id":13705,"date":"2018-02-02T09:10:42","date_gmt":"2018-02-02T09:10:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13705"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:24:07","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:24:07","slug":"letter-man-shouldve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/letter-man-shouldve\/","title":{"rendered":"Una carta al hombre que deber\u00eda haber estado a su lado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se dio cuenta de que a veces la gente sigue caminos separados, las relaciones se desmoronan<\/a> and that whatever you do and no matter how hard you try, the harsh truth is that sometimes it just wasn\u2019t meant to be. What she never imagined was that the end could come so suddenly, without any indication that it would happen. And the saddest thing of all is that it came when she needed you the most.<\/p>\n

She relied on you to be there for her as she was so many times for you but you were nowhere to be found. You had forgotten or you never knew what love was about. Let me tell you, so it sticks\u2014love is for better or worse. You don\u2019t just abandon someone when they are going through a rough patch.<\/p>\n

\u00bfImaginas c\u00f3mo te sentir\u00edas si te dejara cuando est\u00e1s pasando una mala racha?<\/em> Y tuviste m\u00e1s de una. Estuvo a tu lado, incluso cuando necesit\u00f3 toda la positividad que llevaba dentro para ayudarte a sentirte mejor. Eras importante para ella y nunca quiso que te sintieras solo en todo esto. Siempre se asegur\u00f3 de que supieras que te cubr\u00eda las espaldas.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY c\u00f3mo se lo pagaste?<\/em> Abandon\u00e1ndote cuando m\u00e1s te necesitaba, cuando necesitaba que fueras su roca. \u00bfPuedes decir honestamente que cuando te miras en el espejo, ves a un hombre decente, un ser humano decente?<\/p>\n

She realized that sometimes people drift away and relationships fall apart but what she couldn\u2019t come to terms with is that a few nights before that, you swore you loved her, you swore you would be there for her no matter what, you said she was your one and only for the rest of your lives. She believed you. That\u2019s why she is wondering now: \u201cWhere did all those promises go? Where did all that love go? Who are you and where is the man I used to call my own?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

She needed you the most then. She didn\u2019t need you to solve anything or to fight her battles\u2014she just needed your presence. She needed to know that she wasn\u2019t alone in this world, that she had her greatest supporter right there just so she could lean on him and rest for a while. To have someone to make her smile when her harsh life was making her cry.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 hiciste en su lugar?<\/em> A\u00f1adiste m\u00e1s l\u00e1grimas a su hermoso rostro. Y durante mucho, mucho tiempo, desde el momento en que dejaste de estar all\u00ed hasta que volvi\u00f3 a valerse por s\u00ed misma, llor\u00f3 hasta quedarse dormida.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe persiguen sus l\u00e1grimas por la noche?<\/em><\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo eso, no te dese\u00f3 ning\u00fan mal. Dice que est\u00e1 agradecida de que te fueras cuando lo hiciste. Le ense\u00f1aste que es m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que nunca imagin\u00f3. Dijo que le tom\u00f3 un tiempo, pero finalmente se dio cuenta de que... nunca fuiste el hombre adecuado para ella.<\/a><\/p>\n

En definitiva, est\u00e1 agradecida por tus acciones, o m\u00e1s bien por tu falta de acciones, porque la hicieron abrir los ojos y verte como realmente eras<\/a>. Ya casi no piensa en ti. Tiene su propia vida que vivir y sus propios sue\u00f1os que perseguir.<\/p>\n

Do you know that she has that perfect smile on her face again? And it\u2019s all because of her. She got up when nobody thought she could. She survived everything all on her own. She became her own hero. She rebuilt her life and she reinvented herself. She is amazing. She is someone you will regret losing your whole life.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She realized that sometimes people go their separate ways, relationships fall apart and that whatever you do and no matter how hard you try, the harsh truth is that sometimes it just wasn\u2019t meant to be. What she never imagined was that the end could come so suddenly, without any indication that it would happen….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":13715,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/quinten-de-graaf-278839.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13705"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13705\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13715"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}