{"id":137055,"date":"2021-10-27T10:36:39","date_gmt":"2021-10-27T10:36:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=137055"},"modified":"2022-08-27T09:51:40","modified_gmt":"2022-08-27T09:51:40","slug":"abuso-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/abuso-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"Detectar y detener el abuso narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Estar involucrado con un narcisista es el infierno en la tierra. Tarde o temprano, la persona m\u00e1s cercana a ellos cae en la trampa de su narcisista ciclo de abuso que parece imposible salir.<\/p>\n<p>Ellos gaslight y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-raras-que-hacen-los-narcisistas-para-manipular\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">manipulan a sus v\u00edctimas<\/a>. Deval\u00faan su val\u00eda y los a\u00edslan del resto del mundo.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s not even the beginning of it. The truth is that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-un-narcisista-juega-contigo-y-como-afrontarlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">juegan contigo de diferentes maneras.<\/a> Pero<strong> if you&#8217;ve ever dealt with a narcissist, you know exactly what I&#8217;m talking about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, I&#8217;m here to give you hope and to tell you that there is hope for your salvation. I&#8217;m here to give you instructions on how to identify narcissistic abuse, how to escape it, and, finally, how to heal from it.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el abuso narcisista?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137057 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"chica de espaldas a su novio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girl-facing-away-from-her-boyfriend-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>El abuso narcisista es cualquier forma de maltrato realizado por un individuo que sufre un trastorno narcisista de la personalidad.<\/strong> What&#8217;s crucial here is to understand that not only physical violence counts as abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Existen otras formas de abuso narcisista, como el abuso emocional o verbal, que son igualmente perjudiciales para la v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfCu\u00e1les son los s\u00edntomas del abuso narcisista?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137058 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-arguing-on-couch-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-consejos-para-detectar-el-abuso-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Identificar el abuso narcisista<\/a> is the hardest part of the entire process. The victim is not sure whether they&#8217;re exaggerating, imagining things, or really being abused.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That&#8217;s why I\u2019ve compiled all the signs of narcissistic abuse and explained them in detail. I promise that after reading this, you&#8217;ll be able to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-maneras-de-detectar-a-un-narcisista-en-la-primera-cita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">detectar a un narcisista en la primera cita<\/a>!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>1. Chantaje emocional<\/h3>\n<p>Seg\u00fan la definici\u00f3n, <strong>chantaje emocional significa cuando alguien utiliza literalmente tus emociones en tu contra.<\/strong> It&#8217;s a form of manipulation people with narcissistic personality disorder frequently use against their victims.<\/p>\n<p>The abuser knows you very well, and they&#8217;re aware they&#8217;re your weak spot. So whenever you try to leave them, they <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-tacticas-de-succion-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">pasar la aspiradora<\/a>Pueden amenazar con suicidarse o hacerte da\u00f1o de cualquier otra forma.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9ste es s\u00f3lo uno de los muchos ejemplos de chantaje emocional. <strong>B\u00e1sicamente, tu pareja narcisista hace diferentes demandas para conseguir lo que quiere de ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Otro caso com\u00fan de chantaje emocional es la situaci\u00f3n en la que tu pareja reacciona negativamente a tus decisiones.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you do something they don&#8217;t like, they&#8217;ll pretend to be the victim. They will threaten to leave you or to be depressed just so you feel remorse and, eventually, start behaving the way they want.<\/p>\n<p>Esta es s\u00f3lo una de las formas en que los narcisistas obtienen poder y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-horribles-que-hacen-los-narcisistas-para-controlar-a-sus-victimas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">control sobre sus v\u00edctimas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Luz de gas<\/h3>\n<p>Almost all victims of narcissistic abuse have been subjected to gaslighting \u2013 a very powerful narcissistic technique and form of psychological abuse.<\/p>\n<p><strong>B\u00e1sicamente, cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/narcisista-gaslighting\/\">narcisistas gaslight usted<\/a>los soci\u00f3patas distorsionan tu sentido de la realidad. Juegan con tu cordura hasta que, con el tiempo, empiezas a cuestionarte todo lo que te rodea.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Simplemente dicho, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/gaslighting-8-ejemplos-de-abuso-mental-brutal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">el gaslighting es una forma de abuso mental<\/a> donde la otra persona miente, te enga\u00f1a y tergiversa la verdad.<\/p>\n<p>He aqu\u00ed un ejemplo. Sabes muy bien c\u00f3mo se desarroll\u00f3 cierta discusi\u00f3n entre tu pareja narcisista y t\u00fa. Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, cuando sacas el tema a colaci\u00f3n, ellos afirman que tuvo lugar una versi\u00f3n totalmente diferente de los hechos.<\/p>\n<p>And the worst part is that they&#8217;re so sure about it to the point where you wonder if you&#8217;re going mad. Of course, you have no idea that they&#8217;re actually trying to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/gaslighting-en-una-relacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">gaslight usted<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Esto suele ocurrir en relaci\u00f3n con el maltrato f\u00edsico. Por ejemplo, recuerdas que tu pareja te peg\u00f3 o hizo algo abusivo.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, niegan que haya ocurrido. Niegan haberte insultado o haber hecho algo que pudiera herir tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, it goes as far as hiding things from you or claiming that they saw you at a place you know you&#8217;ve never been to.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Devaluar su valor<\/h3>\n<p>Tienes que ser consciente de una cosa: todos los narcisistas luchan contra la inseguridad y la baja autoestima. Al mismo tiempo, saben lo digno que eres, as\u00ed que no tienen m\u00e1s remedio que rebajarte a su nivel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That&#8217;s why they&#8217;ll do everything in their power to destroy your mental health. After all, that&#8217;s the only way for them to feel superior and manipulate you in different ways.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The main goal of psychological manipulation is to reduce your worth. A narcissistic person will find ways to get inside your head and make you feel like you&#8217;re not enough.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que lo intenten insult\u00e1ndote, mientras que otros te hacen cumplidos por la espalda. Otros narcisistas inventar\u00e1n historias sobre tus seres queridos hablando a tus espaldas y comentando tus defectos.<\/p>\n<p>Even though they might use different tactics, at the end of the day, the result is the same. They want you to get the impression they&#8217;re the only ones you can trust. And when they achieve that, they can control you like a puppet and get you to do whatever they want.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Egocentrismo<\/h3>\n<p>When you&#8217;re in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, everything revolves around them. Even though they hide it extremely well at the beginning, you see how selfish they actually are later on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In fact, people who suffer from NPD are egomaniacs in most cases. They&#8217;re preoccupied with themselves, and their ego becomes the only thing they care about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In some cases, they&#8217;re unable to see the other person&#8217;s point of view, while in other cases, they&#8217;re capable of doing so but consciously refuse to.<\/p>\n<p>They constantly act like you&#8217;re beneath them in every way possible. They have a sense of entitlement and that they basically have the right to do whatever they want. At the same time, terms like \u2018equality\u2019 and \u2018equity\u2019 don&#8217;t exist in their dictionary.<\/p>\n<p>But a narcissist doesn\u2019t only act like they&#8217;re better than everyone else. That&#8217;s actually what they keep telling themselves.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, things are actually completely opposite. They&#8217;re dealing with deeply rooted insecurities and serious self-esteem problems that they try to resolve by putting everyone else down.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Falta de empat\u00eda<\/h3>\n<p>The best way to spot someone&#8217;s egocentrism is through their lack of empathy (beware that this is also quite common for psychopaths). Actually, that might be one of the reasons <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-tipos-de-narcisistas-que-todo-empatico-atrae\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">atraen a los emp\u00e1ticos<\/a> en primer lugar.<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re involved in a narcissistic relationship, the other person never puts any effort into walking a mile in your shoes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They have no compassion for their victims at all. Otherwise, they wouldn&#8217;t be treating them this way constantly.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>When a narcissist hurts you, they don&#8217;t think about how their actions will make you feel. They don&#8217;t think about the consequences their behavior leaves on other people.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t care what happens to you, and they never take your emotions into consideration. All they can think about is how the situation will affect them, which is, again, a sign of egocentrism as well.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Bombardeo amoroso<\/h3>\n<p>If you ever feel guilty for falling for a narcissist, it&#8217;s clear that you&#8217;re not familiar with the term <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/bombardeo-de-amor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">bombardeo de amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>En realidad, el t\u00e9rmino lo dice todo: el bombardeo amoroso se produce cuando una persona narcisista te bombardea con amor, atenci\u00f3n y afecto.<\/p>\n<p>If you look closely, you&#8217;ll notice the first signs of this manipulation technique in the initial stages of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>This is when you&#8217;ll think you&#8217;ve finally met your soulmate after all the failures. You&#8217;ll meet a person who tells you they love you right away, a person who has no trouble labeling your relationship, and who talks about the future from day one.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you&#8217;ll wonder if they&#8217;re too good to be true. Well, sadly, nothing they show you is real.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esto es lo que la gente con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-rasgos-narcisistas-que-quiza-no-reconozca-de-inmediato\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rasgos narcisistas<\/a> para atraer a sus v\u00edctimas. Te colman de cumplidos, te colman de regalos caros, explotan tu tel\u00e9fono con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ejemplos-de-mensajes-de-texto-narcisistas\/\">textos<\/a> and calls&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Before you know it, your sense of self-worth is determined by the amount of attention they give you. Once they realize they&#8217;ve made it, that&#8217;s when signs of narcissistic abuse start.<\/p>\n<p>Their behavior completely changes, and they take away all the love they&#8217;ve been giving you. Consequently, you try your best to get the person from the beginning of the story back.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s how you get stuck in this kind of toxic relationship without being aware of that.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Mentiras y enga\u00f1os<\/h3>\n<p>People who suffer from narcissism never show you their true selves. Why? Because deep down, they know they&#8217;re not enough.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que en su lugar, <strong>muestran esta versi\u00f3n maquillada de s\u00ed mismos. Te presentan la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-el-narcisista-engana-a-la-gente-haciendole-creer-que-es-el-bueno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">persona que quieren ser<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t matter if we&#8217;re talking about narcissistic parents, co-workers, or romantic partners \u2013 every relationship with a narcissist is filled with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-mentiras-narcisistas-comunes-hacen-permanecer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mentiras y enga\u00f1os<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The problem with these people is that they actually lie to themselves. They&#8217;re not honest when they look at themselves in the mirror, so they can\u2019t be honest with you either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They are actually generating their sense of self-worth from your reaction. That&#8217;s why they convince you that they&#8217;re much better versions of their true selves.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The biggest problem here is that they&#8217;re extremely skilled liars. They are capable of inventing an entire fake life, backed up with social media accounts, degrees, jobs&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Al igual que los que padecen el trastorno l\u00edmite de la personalidad, los narcisistas tambi\u00e9n tienen un fuerte miedo al abandono.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this doesn&#8217;t justify their behavior, the truth is that they lie because they&#8217;re convinced nobody would ever accept them for who they really are.<\/p>\n<h3>8. V\u00edctima jugando<\/h3>\n<p>Pase lo que pase en tu relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica, de alguna manera, t\u00fa resultas ser el villano. Al mismo tiempo, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-un-narcisista-juega-a-la-victima-10-tacticas-para-recuperar-el-control\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tu pareja se hace la v\u00edctima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But if you look at things objectively, it&#8217;s actually quite the opposite. They&#8217;re the violent ones, the ones who manipulate you, insult you, and put you through other forms of abuse.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, de alg\u00fan modo, consiguen darle la vuelta a la tortilla y hacerle quedar como el malo de la pel\u00edcula en todos los escenarios.<\/p>\n<p>Even if they literally hit you, they&#8217;ll blame you. They&#8217;ll start crying and accusing you that you provoked them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You end up being responsible for every argument you two have. You&#8217;re guilty of everything wrong in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sounds familiar? Well, it looks like you&#8217;re dealing with a person who suffers from NPD.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When this happens, please keep in mind that you&#8217;re the one being subjected to physical, emotional, and verbal abuse in this relationship. You&#8217;re the victim of your partner&#8217;s narcissistic behavior; it&#8217;s not the other way around.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Aislamiento social<\/h3>\n<p>A healthy relationship gives you enough space to be yourself outside of the romance. But when you&#8217;re involved with a narcissist, they want you all to themselves.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you may even find it cute. They&#8217;re obviously so in love with you that they can&#8217;t spend a minute without you around.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero cuidado, porque en realidad se trata de otra forma de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-formas-de-proteger-el-abuso-emocional\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">abuso emocional<\/a>. It&#8217;s clear that your partner wants to isolate you from your loved ones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Why? Well, because it&#8217;s easier for them to manipulate you that way.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wouldn&#8217;t your best friend or a family member warn you that you&#8217;re in an abusive relationship? Wouldn&#8217;t they try to tell you that your partner hitting you is not normal and that you&#8217;re actually going through domestic violence?<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn&#8217;t they do their best to take off your rose-tinted glasses and help you see the truth?<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto que s\u00ed, y tu pareja narcisista es perfectamente consciente de ello. Por eso, hace todo lo que est\u00e1 en su mano para que dejes de lado a todos los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Empiezan siendo demasiado necesitados. Inventan actividades para ocupar tu tiempo e impiden que contactes con nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>After that, they start planting seeds of doubt in your mind. They keep telling you that your best friend doesn&#8217;t have your best interest at heart or that your parents have always loved your siblings more than you.<\/p>\n<p>Empieza con tonter\u00edas, pero al final, empiezas a evitar a los m\u00e1s cercanos.<\/p>\n<p>If that doesn&#8217;t work, they proceed in making you jealous. They become possessive and emotionally blackmail you into never spending time with anyone besides them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/etapas-del-divorcio-de-un-narcisista\/\">13 etapas del divorcio de un narcisista y c\u00f3mo superarlas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfCu\u00e1les son los 9 rasgos de un narcisista?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137059 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz sentada tras una pelea\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-after-fight-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Seg\u00fan el DSM (Manual diagn\u00f3stico y estad\u00edstico de los trastornos mentales), el NPD est\u00e1 clasificado como uno de los diez trastornos de la personalidad. Esto es lo que dicen los <a href=\"https:\/\/www.emedicinehealth.com\/what_are_the_nine_traits_of_a_narcissist\/article_em.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">9 rasgos narcisistas m\u00e1s comunes<\/a> son:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Grandiosidad<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Necesidad excesiva de admiraci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Relaciones superficiales y de explotaci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. 4. Falta de empat\u00eda<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Alteraci\u00f3n de la identidad<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Dificultad con el apego y la dependencia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Sentimientos cr\u00f3nicos de vac\u00edo y aburrimiento<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>8. Vulnerabilidad a las transiciones vitales<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>9. Factores de riesgo de suicidio y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/dentro-de-la-mente-de-un-suicida-y-como-ayudarle\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">intentos de suicidio<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Ciclo del abuso narcisista<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137060 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz discutiendo en casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-arguing-at-home-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No todos los narcisistas son iguales. Algunos padecen otras enfermedades mentales, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-diferencias-cruciales-entre-un-narcisista-y-un-sociopata\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">algunos son soci\u00f3patas<\/a>Algunos son psic\u00f3patas, otros padecen un trastorno l\u00edmite de la personalidad y otros s\u00f3lo tienen... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-rasgos-malignos-que-todos-los-narcisistas-tienen-en-comun\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rasgos narcisistas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A pesar de eso, <strong>hay un cierto patr\u00f3n de comportamiento que todos siguen despu\u00e9s de encontrar una nueva v\u00edctima.<\/strong> It&#8217;s called a narcissistic abuse cycle, and here is how it usually goes.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Idealizaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>Al principio, un maltratador narcisista idealiza a su v\u00edctima. Los ponen en un pedestal y los ven como su salvaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>They refuse to notice their victim&#8217;s flaws. <strong>For them, this is not just an ordinary human being \u2013 they&#8217;re the closest thing to perfection.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, a esta idealizaci\u00f3n le sigue el bombardeo amoroso. <strong>Siguen convenciendo a su v\u00edctima de que ambos son almas gemelas destinadas a pasar la eternidad juntos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is more than love they&#8217;re experiencing. This is a destiny and a once-in-a-lifetime kind of connection.<\/p>\n<p>El principal problema es que casi todas las v\u00edctimas lo confunden con la fase de luna de miel, habitual en la mayor\u00eda de las nuevas relaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Pero hay una diferencia crucial: el bombardeo amoroso y la idealizaci\u00f3n pretenden crear dependencia emocional, poder y control. En cambio, en la fase de luna de miel todo son mariposas.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Devaluaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>In a healthy relationship, things don&#8217;t change much after the honeymoon stage. Yes, the butterflies fly away, but most couples keep on loving and respecting each other. The worst thing that can happen here is falling into a rut.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, this is where a narcissistic relationship is different. This is when victims of narcissistic abuse see their partner&#8217;s true colors for the first time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esta es la fase del ciclo en la que el narcisista deval\u00faa a su v\u00edctima. Destruye su autoestima y su sentido de la propia val\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Aqu\u00ed es donde comienzan los insultos, el maltrato f\u00edsico y las diferentes formas de manipulaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>3. Rechazo<\/h3>\n<p>Finally, the third phase begins once the narcissist has fulfilled all of their twisted needs. They&#8217;re aware they&#8217;ve managed to ruin their victim but don&#8217;t feel sorry about it due to their lack of empathy.<\/p>\n<p>Es entonces cuando la persona que padece el trastorno narcisista de la personalidad comienza a alejar a su v\u00edctima. <strong>Their job is done here, and they&#8217;re ready to move on to the next person they&#8217;ll also break.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Trucos y consejos para la recuperaci\u00f3n del abuso narcisista<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137061 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing.jpg\" alt=\"chicas sentadas en un caf\u00e9 riendo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/girls-sitting-at-cafe-laughing-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/recuperacion-del-abuso-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sobrevivir a este tipo de abusos<\/a> and coming out of it stronger is doable. Nevertheless, it&#8217;s easier with the help of this step-by-step guide.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>1. Desapego emocional<\/h3>\n<p>Before actually leaving your narcissist, it&#8217;s more important to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-separarse-emocionalmente-de-alguien\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">desapegarse emocionalmente<\/a> de ellos. \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa eso?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Alejarse de un maltratador no siempre es f\u00e1cil. De hecho, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, puede ser potencialmente peligroso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now that you know who you&#8217;re dealing with, you can&#8217;t just walk out the door. You need an exit strategy and a support system.<\/p>\n<p>What about your relationship? Start with reducing all the communication with your partner. Even when you have to talk to them, always be aware of what they&#8217;re doing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t argue with them. But when they try to manipulate you, identify their tactics in your head.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to tell them that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-narcisista-sabe-que-le-has-descubierto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">you&#8217;ve figured them out<\/a>. It&#8217;s enough to mentally tell yourself: <em>They&#8217;re trying to gaslight me now. I am aware of it, and I won&#8217;t fall into that trap.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t fall for their false promises, and kill all hopes that things will change.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Ning\u00fan contacto<\/h3>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de que finalmente los dejes, tu narcisista har\u00e1 todo lo que est\u00e9 en su poder para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-dicen-los-narcisistas-ganan-bac\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">recuperarte<\/a>. They&#8217;ll bargain, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-turbias-razones-por-las-que-tu-ex-narcisista-quiere-seguir-siendo-tu-amigo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">pedirte que sigamos siendo amigos<\/a>, beg, shower you with love, make false promises&#8230; They&#8217;ll basically become the person you once fell in love with.<\/p>\n<p>This is a trap! They won&#8217;t ever change. They just want you back so they can go back to their old ways the moment they see they&#8217;ve managed to capture you once again.<\/p>\n<p>But that doesn&#8217;t mean you won&#8217;t hesitate to ride into the sunset with them. Well, that&#8217;s why you have to take all precautionary measures to prevent this.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lo que quiero que hagas es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-cosas-que-pasaran-cuando-dejes-de-tener-contacto-con-un-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ir sin contacto<\/a>. \u00a1C\u00f3rtalos por completo y para siempre!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Block their number, block their social media accounts, stop talking to anyone who&#8217;ll give you information about them, stop showing up wherever you could encounter them&#8230;<\/strong> Desaparece de su vida y ruega a Dios que ellos tambi\u00e9n desaparezcan de la tuya.<\/p>\n<h3>3. 3. Sistema de apoyo<\/h3>\n<p>I mentioned earlier the importance of a support system. Let&#8217;s make it clear: <strong>pasar por todo este proceso solo lo har\u00e1 todo mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>That&#8217;s why you must turn to people you trust.<\/strong> Yes, I know that you&#8217;ve probably ignored them while you were in the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You never returned your best friend&#8217;s calls, and you even cut ties with most of your family.<\/p>\n<p>Pero bueno, esta es tu gente. Entienden perfectamente todo por lo que estabas pasando, y te prometo que te acoger\u00e1n con <strong>brazos abiertos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que \u00e1rmate de valor y ll\u00e1males. Diles que quieres salir y p\u00eddeles ayuda.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>First of all, they&#8217;ll give you much-needed emotional support. But not only that \u2013 they can also help you get by after you leave.<\/p>\n<p>What if you don&#8217;t have anyone to turn to? Ask your healthcare provider to give you information on where you can seek help.<\/p>\n<p>There are numerous support groups for victims of narcissistic abuse. You&#8217;ll get the guidance you need there.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Autocuidado<\/h3>\n<p>Lo que la mayor\u00eda de las v\u00edctimas olvidan en todo este l\u00edo es<strong> aprender a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/13-formas-de-quererse-a-uno-mismo-tras-liberarse-de-una-relacion-toxica\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">amarse a s\u00ed mismos de nuevo<\/a>.<\/strong> You\u2019re so focused on getting out of this abusive relationship alive that you completely forget the importance of self-care.<\/p>\n<p>Please, use this time to spoil yourself. Use it to remember how much you deserve. Use it to remember that you&#8217;re worthy of self-love. At last, use it to regain your sense of self-worth.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/reflejando-a-un-narcisista\/\">El arte de reflejar a un narcisista<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>5 etapas de la curaci\u00f3n del abuso narcisista<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137062 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house.jpg\" alt=\"chica triste sentada en el suelo de su casa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-girl-sitting-on-floor-of-her-house-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Healing from narcissistic abuse doesn&#8217;t end the moment you leave the relationship.<strong> It&#8217;s an undertaking that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/recuperarse-del-abuso-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dura mucho m\u00e1s de lo que crees<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A decir verdad, cada v\u00edctima se cura a su propio ritmo. Sin embargo, todas tienen algo en com\u00fan: pasan por las mismas etapas de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-superar-a-un-narcisista-10-pasos-para-el-exito\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">superar a un narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Denegaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>Al principio, todas las v\u00edctimas lo niegan. <strong>They refuse to accept that their partner has a severe mental health condition and that they&#8217;re their victim.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>It&#8217;s not possible that this is happening to me. They were so loving and kind.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I&#8217;ve finally found my true soulmate. This is just a phase. It will go away.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Maybe it&#8217;s something I&#8217;ve done. They will go back to their old ways before I know it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If these and similar thoughts are going through your head, you&#8217;re definitely in denial. But that doesn&#8217;t have to be so bad. After all, it is the first step of healing.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Verg\u00fcenza y culpa<\/h3>\n<p><em>Maybe it&#8217;s something I&#8217;ve done. They will go back to their old ways.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>My family can never find out about this! I don&#8217;t want them to look at my partner differently! I don&#8217;t want people to think they don&#8217;t love me!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Let me cover up this bruise! I guess they&#8217;re right \u2013 I really did provoke them to hit me.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>These are all common thoughts every victim of narcissistic abuse thinks. This isn\u2019t strange for victims of emotional abuse as well as for ones who go through domestic violence.<\/p>\n<p>If you can relate to this, please let me tell you that you&#8217;re not to blame. <strong>There is nothing to be ashamed of \u2013 your abuser is the only one responsible for this, and they&#8217;re the one who should be ashamed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But this is exactly what they want. They count on your feelings of self-blame. After all, they&#8217;ve implanted it inside your brain.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de ocultar las cosas a tus allegados, busca tu grupo de apoyo. \u00c1brete a alguien y deja que te d\u00e9 su punto de vista.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Ira<\/h3>\n<p>Esta es la etapa en la que empiezas a odiar a tu agresor. Y con raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Quieres destruirlos a toda costa. Quieres que paguen por cada l\u00e1grima que lloraste.<\/p>\n<p>So you try to get even. You try to hurt them without being aware that you&#8217;re just sinking deeper.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cr\u00e9eme: la \u00fanica manera de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-herir-emocionalmente-a-un-hombre-narcisista-6-formas-efectivas-de-hacerlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">interpretar a un narcisista<\/a> es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/guia-paso-a-paso-para-ignorar-a-un-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ignorarlos<\/a>.<\/strong> Nunca se puede <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/3-metodos-inteligentes-para-burlar-a-un-narcisista-y-dejar-la-relacion-para-siempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ser m\u00e1s listo que ellos<\/a> when it comes to manipulation because you have something they don&#8217;t possess: empathy.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Depresi\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de que desaparezcan los sentimientos de ira, la depresi\u00f3n llama a tu puerta. En realidad, es la primera vez que consigues ver tu situaci\u00f3n con objetividad.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s the first time you realize everything you&#8217;ve been through.<strong> La primera vez que la realidad te golpea con fuerza en la cabeza.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s perfectly normal for you not to be happy about it.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you feel like your narcissist has taken away your desire to live. You&#8217;ve moved on from them physically up to now, but your mind is still trapped in darkness.<\/p>\n<p>No tienes motivaci\u00f3n para volver a tu antigua vida. <strong>Todo lo que ves son nubes tormentosas sin ning\u00fan rayo de sol.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mira, no hay nada raro en sentirse as\u00ed. <strong>But if your depression lasts longer than a couple of weeks, maybe it&#8217;s time to talk to a healthcare professional.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There are mental health professionals who&#8217;ll help you drag yourself out of this abyss you&#8217;ve fallen into. Please, ask for help if you see that this is more than you can handle by yourself!<\/p>\n<h3>5. Curaci\u00f3n<\/h3>\n<p>Finally, you start to slowly accept everything that went on. Not only that \u2013 you also accept that none of it was your fault.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, incluso <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/dealing-with-narcissists_b_786512\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">perdona a tus narcisistas.<\/a> You don&#8217;t forget what they did to you, nor do you justify their behavior, but somehow, you let the anger go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You have no trouble talking about your experience anymore. On the contrary, you&#8217;re more than willing to help other victims going through the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;re still not ready for a new relationship, but you know that, eventually, you&#8217;ll get there. Your traumas haven&#8217;t magically faded away, but things are getting better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Congratulations, you&#8217;ve healed!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>C-TEPT Abuso Narcisista<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137063 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head.jpg\" alt=\"chica angustiada sujet\u00e1ndose la cabeza\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-girl-holding-her-head-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>C-PTSD son las siglas de Complex <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-senales-de-que-estas-pasando-por-un-trastorno-de-estres-postraumatico-de-pareja\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Trastorno de estr\u00e9s postraum\u00e1tico<\/a>. Esta condici\u00f3n puede ser una consecuencia del abuso narcisista.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, people don&#8217;t overcome everything they&#8217;ve experienced in their abusive relationships the moment they escape it.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, they develop a trauma that haunts them long after the relationship ends. Of course, this is highly treatable, but it&#8217;s important for the victim to identify their post-traumatic stress disorder and ask for help in time.<\/p>\n<h3>S\u00edntomas del TEPT-C<\/h3>\n<p>Si sientes alguno de estos s\u00edntomas a pesar de haberte alejado de tu relaci\u00f3n narcisista hace tiempo, considera la posibilidad de buscar ayuda:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Impotencia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Miedo<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Ira abrumadora<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Verg\u00fcenza<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Flashbacks<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es el abuso narcisista? Ejemplos:<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137064 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells.jpg\" alt=\"mujer angustiada sujet\u00e1ndose la cabeza mientras un hombre grita\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/distraught-woman-holding-her-head-while-man-yells-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Some of the most common examples of narcissistic abuse are physical abuse, emotional abuse, verbal abuse (insulting, criticizing, shaming, bullying), emotional manipulation, threats&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cada una de estas t\u00e9cnicas sirve para lo mismo: <strong>destruir y traumatizar a la otra persona tanto como sea posible.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You must wonder why they do it: it&#8217;s the only way for them to feel dominant and because they&#8217;re mentally ill people who enjoy making others suffer.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacen los narcisistas a sus v\u00edctimas?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137065 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz en el dormitorio tras una pelea\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-in-bedroom-after-fight-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Narcissists use different methods to get inside their victims&#8217; heads, but it all comes down to manipulation at the end of the day.<strong> Their final goal is to destroy one&#8217;s self-esteem because that&#8217;s the only way for them to feel better about themselves and feed their egotistical needs.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They implant self-doubt, guilt, and shame into their victim&#8217;s brain. They make them feel crazy and isolate them from everyone who could help them see the truth at the same time.<\/p>\n<h2>Para concluir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137066 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer infeliz y hombre al tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-woman-and-man-on-phone-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Escaping the cycle of narcissistic abuse is never easy. To be honest, it will probably be one of the hardest things you&#8217;ll ever have to do.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero cr\u00e9eme, se puede hacer con mucho esfuerzo, energ\u00eda y devoci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, I won&#8217;t lie to you: <strong>you&#8217;ll never be the same person you were before this hit you.<\/strong> But hey, I&#8217;m not talking about your traumas and baggage here.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m talking about the strength you&#8217;ll gain.<\/strong> I&#8217;m talking about how after this, you&#8217;ll never settle for less than you deserve, nor will you need anyone&#8217;s approval to feel worthy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I guess there is a silver lining to every cloud, and yours are the lessons you&#8217;ll learn.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being involved with a narcissist is hell on earth. Sooner or later, the person closest to them falls into the trap of their narcissistic abuse cycle that seems impossible to get out of. They gaslight and manipulate their victims. They devalue their worth and isolate them from the rest of the world. And that&#8217;s not&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":137056,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633,22911],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-137055","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism","category-psychology"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"},{"value":22911,"label":"PSYCHOLOGY"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Spotting-And-Stopping-Narcissistic-Abuse-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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