{"id":13711,"date":"2020-06-02T09:25:05","date_gmt":"2020-06-02T09:25:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13711"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:17:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:17:00","slug":"chico-7-cosas-no-le-importa-un-bledo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chico-7-cosas-no-le-importa-un-bledo\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tu chico hace estas 7 cosas, no le importas una mierda"},"content":{"rendered":"

En el fondo, todos anhelamos el amor. Todos queremos que nos quieran porque no estamos hechos para estar solos.<\/p>\n

Existe esa necesidad insaciable que tenemos de satisfacer, una necesidad de amor y compa\u00f1\u00eda.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s true that we were born alone and that we die alone, but going through our life alone just isn\u2019t right.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to be alone, but believe me, it is better being alone than in an unhappy relationship, pretending that you are happy.<\/p>\n

No one deserves to be someone\u2019s plan de respaldo<\/a> porque todos tenemos nuestra pareja y tenemos que encontrarla.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t settle and don\u2019t be blind on purpose to avoid being alone.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him fool you by pretending to love you. That is not love, that is nothing but the pain you will feel at some point. Believe me, you\u2019re better off alone.<\/p>\n

Te mereces a alguien que te demuestre que te quiere. Te mereces a alguien que apoye sus palabras y no las lance al aire sin sentido.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/strong>Prefiero seguir soltero a conformarme con menos de lo que merezco<\/a><\/p>\n

Si crees que no eres su primera opci\u00f3n, lee estas se\u00f1ales para estar segura y deja su lamentable culo:<\/p>\n

1. Te averg\u00fcenza en p\u00fablico<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say you have a situation in public and he is there with you. If he doesn\u2019t take your side and stick up for you, his feelings for you are not real.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t have the courage to defend someone he allegedly loves, there is something wrong in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Or if he does something to embarrass you, tells a joke at your expense or wants to look like a big shot in front of his friends by making snarky comments about you, he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n

Probablemente sea algo extra, s\u00f3lo para matar el tiempo. D\u00e9jalo inmediatamente<\/a> porque te mereces mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

2. He doesn\u2019t bother to kiss and make up after a fight<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfEres t\u00fa la que siempre da el primer paso? Supongo que siempre coges primero el m\u00f3vil y le env\u00edas un mensaje o le llamas despu\u00e9s de calmarte.<\/p>\n

First of all, it\u2019s completely normal that couples fight, but if you are always the one who makes it all better, then something is wrong.<\/p>\n

It can\u2019t be that he is that stubborn that he doesn\u2019t want to be the one to say sorry first.<\/p>\n

To test if he is just stubborn or he couldn\u2019t care less if you make up or not, next time you have a fight, don\u2019t touch your phone after you cool off.<\/p>\n

Deja que sea \u00e9l quien d\u00e9 el primer paso y a ver cu\u00e1nto tarda y si se molesta en coger el tel\u00e9fono o en presentarse primero.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t, there\u2019s your reason to dump the bastard who only wastes your time.<\/p>\n

3. Quiere que cambies de aspecto<\/h2>\n

\"El<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t have the right to tell you what to wear and what not to wear.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t have the right to tell you how to do your make-up, or whether it is too much or not enough.<\/p>\n

Tienes que tener el control de tu vida y tomar las decisiones que te conciernen.<\/p>\n

If you want to wear revealing clothes or clothes that cover you up, there shouldn\u2019t be anyone who has the power to stop you. If he does these things to you, you don\u2019t need him at all.<\/p>\n

4. Te presenta como amigo<\/h2>\n

\"sonriente<\/p>\n

Bueno, \u00a1esto es una enorme bandera roja! Cuando te saca a pasear y te presenta a su familia o amigos por tu nombre o, peor a\u00fan, como su amiga, definitivamente no eres su novia.<\/p>\n

He is probably embarrassed of you, your behavior or the way you look, but the most common reason is that he is just terrified of commitment and you don\u2019t need that. You need a real man who will be proud of having you as his girlfriend.<\/p>\n

5. Es abusivo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Nadie tiene derecho a hacerte da\u00f1o de ning\u00fan modo, especialmente f\u00edsica o emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

Algunos hombres son tan cobardes y se esconden detr\u00e1s de este exterior duro, cuando la verdad es que son tan d\u00e9biles e inseguros.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que demuestran su fuerza arremetiendo contra los que creen m\u00e1s d\u00e9biles que ellos. Si alguna vez te pone las manos encima, d\u00e9jalo en ese mismo instante.<\/p>\n

You mustn\u2019t endure violence\u2014no one should. You shouldn\u2019t be afraid of anyone, let alone a wuss like him.<\/p>\n

6. Nunca est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para ti<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

You have no support whatsoever. When something is bothering you and you\u2019re feeling down, he should be there for you to make you feel better.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even have to say anything, it\u2019s enough that he is by your side. He should next to you and listen to what you want to get off your chest.<\/p>\n

If he disappears in the times when you need him the most, then sorry, but he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you or your problems.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> Me Voy Porque Nunca Estuviste Cuando Te Necesit\u00e9<\/a><\/p>\n

7. Evita hablar del futuro<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Todos los f\u00f3bicos al compromiso hacen esto. Les asusta hablar de vuestro futuro juntos porque no te ven en el suyo.<\/p>\n

For now, you are something casual and he doesn\u2019t want to be too attached.<\/p>\n

Si mencionas vuestro futuro juntos, evitar\u00e1 hablar de ello o cambiar\u00e1 de tema. Si sigues insistiendo, se enfadar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Si tu chico hace esto a menudo, entonces no es para ti. D\u00e9jalo y date otra oportunidad de amar.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Deep inside, we all crave love. We all want to be loved because we weren\u2019t designed to be alone. There is this insatiable need that we have to satisfy, a need for love and company. It\u2019s true that we were born alone and that we die alone, but going through our life alone just isn\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":92118,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-7-Things-He-Doesnt-Give-A-Damn-About-You.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92118"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}