{"id":137193,"date":"2021-10-27T20:34:39","date_gmt":"2021-10-27T20:34:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=137193"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:20:38","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:20:38","slug":"se-ha-acabado-mi-matrimonio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-ha-acabado-mi-matrimonio\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfSe ha acabado mi matrimonio? 32 se\u00f1ales de advertencia de una uni\u00f3n conyugal infeliz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage might just be the most sacred relationship of all. You love someone so much that you&#8217;re prepared to vow that you&#8217;ll belong to them for a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When we start doubting the vows we&#8217;ve once made, it seems like the whole world is crashing down around us. We may even start believing that no love will ever last.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo fue todo tan mal y por qu\u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfSe ha acabado mi matrimonio? \u00bfC\u00f3mo lo arreglo?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Si desea encontrar sus respuestas, as\u00ed como ser capaz de reconocer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/17-senales-de-un-matrimonio-infeliz-y-como-solucionarlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">se\u00f1ales de un mal matrimonio<\/a>, do read on. I\u2019m sure that by the end of this article, you&#8217;ll know exactly what to do.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si su matrimonio se ha acabado? 32 se\u00f1ales<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137195 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch.jpg\" alt=\"pareja infeliz sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-couch-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber cu\u00e1ndo los problemas entre usted y su c\u00f3nyuge han llegado a un punto sin retorno?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfEs posible reconocer cu\u00e1ndo tu matrimonio ya no tiene salvaci\u00f3n?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, even when you&#8217;re aware of the answers, it&#8217;s difficult to admit to yourself that the life you&#8217;ve built with someone might soon break up. But, since you&#8217;re here, you might be ready to finally face the facts.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s how you can know if your marriage is breaking up:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Ya no os gust\u00e1is.<\/h3>\n<p>Una de las m\u00e1s evidentes<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/15-senales-de-que-tu-matrimonio-acabara-en-divorcio\/\"> se\u00f1ales de un matrimonio condenado<\/a> is when you don&#8217;t enjoy each other for who you are anymore. <strong>Todos los rasgos que te hicieron casarte con ellos antes se han vuelto ahora poco atractivos e irritantes.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tal vez les sigas queriendo profundamente, pero simplemente no pueden gustarte. De todas formas, estos dos sentimientos no tienen nada que ver.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you care about someone&#8217;s well-being and would do anything for them doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean that you like them as a person.<\/p>\n<h3>2. You don&#8217;t spend a lot of time together.<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u00bfHa notado que cada vez est\u00e1 menos en compa\u00f1\u00eda de su c\u00f3nyuge? Si es as\u00ed, puede que tenga un problema.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not always our desire to be away from them. Sometimes, other things get in the way. For instance, if you work constantly, you&#8217;ll naturally be dedicated to your job.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por otro lado, si dispone de mucho tiempo libre y a\u00fan as\u00ed no encuentra ninguno para su c\u00f3nyuge, esa podr\u00eda ser una de las <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-un-matrimonio-sin-amor\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">signos de un matrimonio infeliz y sin amor<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No importa cu\u00e1l sea la raz\u00f3n, al final, la falta de tiempo de calidad juntos trae consigo la destrucci\u00f3n de un matrimonio.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Volver a casa es una pesadilla.<\/h3>\n<p>A veces, pasar tiempo fuera de casa puede hacerte sentir bendecido porque cada vez que vienes te sientes fatal.<\/p>\n<p>There doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to be an actual issue at hand, but you sense that something is terribly wrong. Things just aren&#8217;t what they once were.<\/p>\n<p>Quiz\u00e1s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-marido-me-echa-la-culpa-de-todo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tu marido te echa la culpa de todo<\/a>, or you\u2019re dealing with what\u2019s known as <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-maneras-eficaces\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201ccrazy wife\u201d syndrome<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You both feel it, but you can&#8217;t quite put your finger on it. Simply put \u2013 the connection you once felt seems to have perished.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Temes volver a casa porque s\u00f3lo te hace darte cuenta de lo infelices que sois los dos, as\u00ed que siempre encuentras razones para mantenerte alejado.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Peleas todo el tiempo.<\/h3>\n<p>Los conflictos son algo normal. Los problemas s\u00f3lo surgen cuando son demasiado frecuentes.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfDiscute con su c\u00f3nyuge casi todos los d\u00edas?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfCualquier cosa es motivo para gritar?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If so, that&#8217;s a warning sign.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>In healthy relationships, people pick up on problems together in order to solve them. That&#8217;s the main goal \u2013 to find a solution.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But, if all you do is fight, there might be a much bigger problem hiding underneath. You\u2019re slowly but surely entering the zone of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-tratar-a-un-conyuge-negativo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tratar con un c\u00f3nyuge negativo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>5. You don&#8217;t fight at all.<\/h3>\n<p>Fighting every day may be unhealthy, but so is the lack of it. You might be surprised by this sign, but it&#8217;s actually a rather important one.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? \u00bfSe acab\u00f3 mi matrimonio cuando se llega a esta etapa?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Bueno, no querer tener ning\u00fan tipo de discusi\u00f3n con tu c\u00f3nyuge indica falta de inter\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Think about it. When two people care about each other, they eventually want to work through their issues. Even if there&#8217;s a period of silence, they come back to each other. Not their pride nor any problem in existence takes precedence over their spouse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si tu caso es diferente, es posible que tu pareja y t\u00fa ya no est\u00e9is tan interesados el uno en el otro.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Te enfadas con s\u00f3lo mirarlos.<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u00bfSu c\u00f3nyuge le irrita por el mero hecho de existir?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfCada palabra que sale de su boca es exasperante?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfTienes ganas de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/marido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">su marido es malo con usted<\/a> 24\/7? O que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/odio-a-mi-mujer\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">odias a tu mujer<\/a> (sin motivo aparente)?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you see your spouse this way for no particular reason, that&#8217;s a sign. It could be that you&#8217;ve bottled up your emotions for years, and they&#8217;ve started manifesting this way.<\/p>\n<p>Even when it seems like there&#8217;s no reason for how you feel, there always is. Whatever yours is, the bottom line is that you&#8217;re not satisfied with your marriage. Contemplate your reasons, and act accordingly.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Se niega a pedir disculpas.<\/h3>\n<p>Refusing to say that you&#8217;re sorry for your actions might stem from two things: emotional immaturity and lack of respect.<\/p>\n<p>Some people truly are incapable of comprehending that sometimes it&#8217;s their fault. They constantly perceive themselves as the victim. If this is either you or your spouse, you might consider seeking professional help, e.g., couples counseling.<\/p>\n<p><strong>However, if you ARE aware that you&#8217;re the one at fault and are still not ready to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asuma-la-responsabilidad-de-sus-actos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">responsabil\u00edzate de tus actos<\/a>eso s\u00f3lo demuestra lo poco que te importa tu pareja.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando amas de verdad a alguien, tu ego nunca ganar\u00e1, al menos no en casos graves como \u00e9ste.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Todos los buenos tiempos se han desvanecido.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Cuando piensa en su matrimonio, \u00bfs\u00f3lo le vienen a la mente malos recuerdos?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfHan perdido todos los buenos su significado?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If the answer is yes, that&#8217;s another sign <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lista-de-divorcio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">deber\u00edas considerar dejarlo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, we&#8217;re going to have all kinds of experiences, each of those equally valuable. The problems we&#8217;ve gone through will help us improve as a couple, and the marvelous times will serve as a reminder that the marriage really is worth fighting for.<\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, si deja de ver esto \u00faltimo, es posible que ya no considere que usted y su pareja son la pareja perfecta.<\/p>\n<h3>9. You aren&#8217;t friends anymore.<\/h3>\n<p>As Laura Hendricks once said: &#8221;Love is friendship set on fire.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfQu\u00e9 crees que te queda cuando pierdes la amistad?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfEs el romance suficiente para mantener el matrimonio? \u00bfY si eso tambi\u00e9n desaparece?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you pretended to be someone you&#8217;re not for them to like you at the beginning of the relationship. But, you can&#8217;t pretend forever because, eventually, you get tired.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s one way of losing your friendship \u2013 revealing your true nature. No matter how you lost it, though, it&#8217;s a crucial element in any relationship.<\/p>\n<h3>10. Escucha lo que te dice tu cuerpo.<\/h3>\n<p>Your marriage might be over if your body is telling you it&#8217;s over.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfYa nunca sonr\u00ede en presencia de su pareja?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Do you tremble every time you see them because you know they&#8217;ll start a fight?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Whatever it is, your body is sending you messages that you&#8217;re having a hard time receiving. Listen to what it has to say.<strong> Si ya no te sientes c\u00f3modo ni haces bromas delante de ellos, es posible que la conexi\u00f3n haya desaparecido.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t even laugh at those hilarious <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/45-divertidisimos-chistes-de-esposos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">bromas entre marido y mujer<\/a>, then you know something\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n<h3>11. You don&#8217;t care about each other&#8217;s problems.<\/h3>\n<p>When your partner has no desire to hear you vent nor the desire to help you solve your problem, that&#8217;s a clear sign that they don&#8217;t hold you in high regard.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfSe acab\u00f3 mi matrimonio entonces?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Carecer de un sistema de apoyo emocional puede incluso hacerte sucumbir a un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/etapas-de-los-asuntos-emocionales\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">aventura emocional<\/a>. Since your partner can&#8217;t provide you with what you signed up for, you desperately look for it elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Know that there&#8217;s no need for any <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-se-considera-hacer-trampa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tipo de infidelidad<\/a>. If you&#8217;re unhappy and you think your wife or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/signos-dolorosos-marido-no-ama\/\">husband doesn&#8217;t love you<\/a>\u00a0por m\u00e1s tiempo, vete.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00ed, realmente es as\u00ed de sencillo porque a veces <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cortar-el-paso-a-la-gente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">apartar a la gente de tu vida<\/a> es lo \u00fanico razonable. Seguir viviendo una vida insatisfactoria s\u00f3lo conduce a m\u00e1s de lo mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>12. You&#8217;re not each other&#8217;s priority.<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u00bfSe ha dado cuenta de que su c\u00f3nyuge nunca le escucha cuando habla?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfEs todo lo dem\u00e1s de alguna manera m\u00e1s relevante?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Si es as\u00ed, podr\u00eda ser una se\u00f1al de que tu matrimonio se est\u00e1 desmoronando. <strong>If you don&#8217;t have a spouse that not only pays attention to your words but also excitedly anticipates them, you&#8217;re bound to feel alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, if you notice that something as irrelevant as a video game is continuously more important to them than a conversation with you, that&#8217;s yet another red flag, but beware that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ultimatums-en-las-relaciones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dar ultim\u00e1tums<\/a> no es una opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h3>13. Ya no comparten intereses.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>You don&#8217;t really have to have a lot in common to be compatible with someone. But, there still have to be some similarities that allow you to co-exist in love and curiosity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If your free time activities differ greatly, so much so that you don&#8217;t know what to talk about anymore, that may be a sign.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, not every marriage will be ruined by such a trivial thing. However, if you&#8217;re the type of person that really cares about this, it&#8217;s not so trivial at all. Only you know your idea of a good marriage.<\/p>\n<h3>14. You&#8217;re sad all the time.<\/h3>\n<p><em>What&#8217;s a more obvious sign of an unhappy union than being constantly sad?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you notice that you don&#8217;t have even a moment of peace, whether it&#8217;s due to arguments or lack of communication altogether, it might be time to do something about it.<\/p>\n<p>Talk it out with your spouse, but if you never seem to agree, perhaps it&#8217;s time for a more drastic change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Just make sure you don&#8217;t stay in the cycle of grief because time is flying by, and we don&#8217;t live forever.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>15. You&#8217;re in love with someone else.<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u00bfSe ha desvanecido el amor por tu pareja? Espere, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/34-signos-ya-no-ama\/\">\u00bfle corresponde su pareja?<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfHas desarrollado sentimientos por alguien fuera de tu matrimonio?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Si lo has hecho, eso podr\u00eda provocar una ruptura importante en tu relaci\u00f3n. El hecho de que te hayas acercado emocionalmente a otra persona demuestra que ya no te sientes unido a tu pareja o viceversa.<\/p>\n<p>Si tu pareja es fr\u00eda contigo, puede que busques consuelo en otra parte.<\/p>\n<h3>16. You&#8217;d be fine with your spouse finding someone else.<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u00bfAlguna vez se ha imaginado a su c\u00f3nyuge en brazos de otra persona?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfNo le molesta la idea?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If so, that&#8217;s a major sign that you&#8217;re no longer romantically interested in them. <strong>The mere fact that you have these ideas indicates that you feel trapped in your marriage. You\u2019re seeking escape through your imagination.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t allow yourself to stay in a loveless marriage. If you really want to, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-quitarte-a-alguien-de-la-cabeza\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">seguir adelante<\/a>. Al fin y al cabo, s\u00f3lo tenemos una vida.<\/p>\n<h3>17. Having kids isn&#8217;t a mutual desire.<\/h3>\n<p>The wish to have kids or lack thereof can be a sign you and your spouse aren&#8217;t so compatible after all. Perhaps they aren\u2019t too enthusiastic about being a parental figure, whereas you see no greater joy.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t possibly imagine a home without children roaming around. On the other hand, your spouse almost sees them as a burden, simply wishing for some peace and quiet. That can be one of the reasons you or your wife\/<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-marido-quiere-el-divorcio-pero-yo-le-sigo-queriendo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">marido quiere el divorcio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>While you shouldn&#8217;t force them into having the same opinion, you can&#8217;t wait for them to change either. In the end, you&#8217;ll have to make a choice: them or your ideal life? Can you even have an ideal life without them?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo usted puede responder a esta pregunta.<\/p>\n<h3>18. Ten\u00e9is diferentes m\u00e9todos para criar a los ni\u00f1os.<\/h3>\n<p>Tal vez no est\u00e9n de acuerdo en la forma en que su c\u00f3nyuge quiere educar a sus hijos, y lo vea como una se\u00f1al de alarma. Puede que ellos quieran disciplinarlos y obligarlos a obedecer, mientras que t\u00fa quieres tratar con delicadeza su mal comportamiento.<\/p>\n<p>Or, maybe their treatment of children depends on whether it&#8217;s a girl or boy, and you don&#8217;t want your kids to grow up in a sexist household.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que quieras considerar acudir a un terapeuta familiar.<\/p>\n<p><em>Esto puede ser una se\u00f1al o no, como todo lo dem\u00e1s. Al final, s\u00f3lo importa lo importante que sea algo para TI.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>19. Te falta entusiasmo por el futuro.<\/h3>\n<p>Solemos entrar en una uni\u00f3n matrimonial porque esperamos que cada d\u00eda con nuestro c\u00f3nyuge nos traiga felicidad perpetua. Elegimos a una pareja determinada porque creemos sinceramente que podemos conseguirlo con ella.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sin embargo, cuando empiece <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-que-debes-hacer-si-te-estan-faltando-al-respeto-en-tu-relacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sentirse irrespetado<\/a> y sin amor, tu perspectiva sobre una uni\u00f3n feliz cambia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you start feeling like every day is absolute torture, and you cease to have any hope for the future, that&#8217;s a telltale sign of an unhappy marriage life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You start accepting that this is it, and it&#8217;s not going to get any better. The excitement you had at the beginning has completely vanished.<\/p>\n<h3>20. Tienes una vida familiar infeliz en general.<\/h3>\n<p>It could be that you&#8217;ve moved to your husband&#8217;s family home, and you utterly dislike his family members, or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/mi-marido-elige-a-su-familia-antes-que-a-mi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">elige a su familia antes que a ti<\/a>. You can&#8217;t stand that her son is always on her side, even when she&#8217;s obviously mistreating you.<\/p>\n<p>Or, perhaps you&#8217;re unable to have children, which disrupted your primary plans, and now you&#8217;re not quite sure what to do.<\/p>\n<p><em>Sea cual sea tu situaci\u00f3n, lo esencial es que tener una vida familiar sin alegr\u00eda es un problema grave. As\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de no reprimir lo que sientes.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>21. You&#8217;ve suffered domestic violence.<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s not uncommon to experience physical abuse by your spouse. You may feel helpless, like there&#8217;s no possible way out, especially if you depend on them financially.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, si su c\u00f3nyuge le menosprecia constantemente, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/gaslighting-8-ejemplos-de-abuso-mental-brutal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">gaslighting usted<\/a>y haciendo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sientes-que-no-eres-lo-suficientemente-bueno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">you feel like you&#8217;re not good enough<\/a>Eso constituye maltrato emocional y puede tener graves consecuencias para tu salud mental.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si reconoce alg\u00fan signo de comportamiento nocivo en su matrimonio, quiz\u00e1 le convenga acudir a un abogado especializado en divorcios.<\/strong> It might be hard to be all on your own, especially if you have kids, but it&#8217;s not impossible to find an alternative. Don&#8217;t you deserve a better life than this?<\/p>\n<h3>22. You&#8217;re too different.<\/h3>\n<p>You often hear people say that the ideal couple is one where the partners are complete opposites. If you talk too much, it attracts you that they&#8217;re quiet. If you always visit the same places, you&#8217;re intrigued by someone with an adventurous spirit.<\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t entirely inaccurate.<strong> Puede que sientas curiosidad por alguien que no se parece en nada a ti. Sin embargo, pasar toda una vida con ella es otra cosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/28-senales-de-que-eres-un-romantico-empedernido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">you&#8217;re a hopeless romantic<\/a> que constantemente quiere pasar tiempo en la naturaleza y tener citas de picnic, tener un c\u00f3nyuge fr\u00edo que prefiere las cenas elegantes puede que no cumpla tus ideales.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez m\u00e1s, las personas son capaces de llegar a acuerdos y cada situaci\u00f3n es diferente. Este signo puede o no aplicarse a tu caso.<\/p>\n<h3>23. Tienes una vida sexual insatisfactoria.<\/h3>\n<p>Otro signo de un matrimonio infeliz podr\u00eda ser un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-hay-intimidad-en-el-matrimonio-por-parte-de-la-esposa\/\">falta de intimidad f\u00edsica<\/a>. Su c\u00f3nyuge ya no puede satisfacerle, o bien no hace el amor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>After all, we are sexual beings, and the desire for sexual intercourse is engraved in almost all of us. If your spouse isn&#8217;t able to fulfill that desire, that might be a problem for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Pero, \u00bfse puede superar? \u00bfSe acab\u00f3 mi matrimonio cuando se trata de esto?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well, not if you decide that it isn&#8217;t. However, if you aren&#8217;t prepared to solve it together as a couple, that&#8217;s where the real issue comes in.<\/p>\n<h3>24. Uno de vosotros es infiel.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>La falta de sexo tambi\u00e9n puede indicar que una de las partes est\u00e1 satisfaciendo sus necesidades sexuales en otro lugar.<\/strong> La aventura tambi\u00e9n puede ser emocional. En cualquier caso, si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-pillar-a-un-tramposo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">su c\u00f3nyuge le es infiel,<\/a> there&#8217;s no greater sign that it&#8217;s time to let them go.<\/p>\n<p>Some people may be prepared to work through their issues, even if it&#8217;s as grave as this.<\/p>\n<p><em>However, if you find that you&#8217;re unable to forgive, don&#8217;t stay with them only for the sake of marriage. That will only increase your resentment as well as the overall unhappiness of your relationship.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>25. Ten\u00e9is grandes expectativas el uno del otro.<\/h3>\n<p>\u00bfEst\u00e1 resentida con su marido por no ser un pr\u00edncipe de cuento?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEst\u00e1 resentido contigo por ser demasiado mandona?<\/p>\n<p>Sean cuales sean las expectativas que teng\u00e1is el uno del otro, est\u00e1n arruinando todo lo bueno que podr\u00edais tener si aprendierais a desprenderos de ellas.<\/p>\n<p>What you need to do is realize that you&#8217;re both human, and we are bound to be flawed. <strong>Reject the idea of a perfect individual because it doesn&#8217;t exist.<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/expectativas-en-una-relacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Establezca expectativas sanas<\/a> y amaos tal como sois.<\/p>\n<h3>26. You feel like you&#8217;re suffocating.<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u00bfEs cada d\u00eda m\u00e1s miserable que el anterior?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfYa no soportas todo lo que representa tu c\u00f3nyuge?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Sinceramente, si ninguna de las partes puede seguir siendo ella misma, quiz\u00e1 deber\u00edas replantearte tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>After all, you&#8217;ve pledged your love to this person. It&#8217;s supposed to be &#8221;till death do us part,&#8221; right?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Those pledges aren&#8217;t worth anything if you have to conceal any part of yourselves, especially when you have to do it for YEARS. That&#8217;s a major deal-breaker.<\/p>\n<h3>27. Todo el trabajo recae sobre ti.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Do you always do the housework even though you&#8217;re employed as well?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfEst\u00e1s obligado a tomar t\u00fa solo las decisiones importantes de tu vida?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If so, it&#8217;s understandable you feel exhausted. Reciprocity is one of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/principales-normas-de-relacion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">las principales normas de relaci\u00f3n<\/a> para una uni\u00f3n sana. Todo el trabajo debe repartirse a partes iguales, as\u00ed que intenta comunicar tus opiniones a tu c\u00f3nyuge.<\/p>\n<p>If they&#8217;re unable to understand, or if they don&#8217;t even try to, that&#8217;s your cue. <strong>Trust me \u2013 you don&#8217;t want someone who doesn&#8217;t care enough to make things a little bit easier for you.<\/strong> You don&#8217;t have to carry the whole world on your shoulders.<\/p>\n<h3>28. Oculta su infelicidad al mundo.<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u00bfPublic\u00e1is constantemente fotos en Facebook en las que ambos parec\u00e9is felices?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfPresumes de lo afortunado que eres por haber conocido a tu c\u00f3nyuge?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you do, that might be your way of convincing not others but yourself that you aren&#8217;t as unhappy as you really are.<\/p>\n<p>You refuse to let your true emotions out because you don&#8217;t know how to deal with them. But, you truly must because suppression will only make things worse for both you and your partner.<\/p>\n<h3>29. You don&#8217;t work as a team.<\/h3>\n<p>Nunca empiezas una relaci\u00f3n para unirte completamente a otra persona. Naturalmente, te sientes unido a ella. Incluso puede que sientas que vuestras almas est\u00e1n unidas.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, you&#8217;re individuals who&#8217;ve come together to form something unique while still belonging to yourself first.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Problems only arise when the bond you&#8217;ve formed ceases to exist, and you remain nothing but two people who secretly resent each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00bfSe habr\u00e1 acabado mi matrimonio cuando esto ocurra?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Bueno, no necesariamente, pero trabajar en equipo y respetarse mutuamente es como debe funcionar un matrimonio de \u00e9xito. Tambi\u00e9n, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-eficaces-de-devolver-la-chispa-a-tu-matrimonio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">devuelve la chispa a tu matrimonio<\/a> debe ser su prioridad.<\/p>\n<h3>30. Traes a los cuatro jinetes a jugar.<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u00bfSe ha acabado mi matrimonio?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Si metes a alguno de los cuatro jinetes en un conflicto, puede que no sea una buena se\u00f1al.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 son en primer lugar? <strong>Pues bien, a este grupo pertenecen estas t\u00e9cnicas: cr\u00edtica, desprecio, actitud defensiva y <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/un-perfecto-metodo-de-tratamiento-silencioso-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">evasivas<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If any of these are present in place of mutual understanding and empathy, you&#8217;re doing it all wrong.<\/p>\n<h3>31. A menudo piensas en una vida sin ellos.<\/h3>\n<p>The dissatisfaction with your marriage may have gotten to the point where you\u2019ve started thinking of a future that doesn&#8217;t include your husband or wife.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You picture yourself living your best life in solitude, with your kids, or with another partner. The bottom line is your spouse is excluded entirely because you simply don&#8217;t think you could ever <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-es-la-verdadera-felicidad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">experimenta la verdadera felicidad<\/a> con ellos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t forget that your imagination plays a key role. After all, it&#8217;s your wishes we&#8217;re talking about here. If you can no longer find joy in your marriage, perhaps it&#8217;s best to part ways.<\/p>\n<h3>32. You&#8217;ve thoroughly planned your departure.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>You don\u2019t just imagine a new life anymore. You&#8217;ve actually thought of leaving. That&#8217;s why you&#8217;re here, reading this. An elaborate plan to escape your current situation has already been made.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you&#8217;ve spoken to your family, and they&#8217;ve told you that you could come and stay with them. Or, you&#8217;ve gotten a job, and you&#8217;re saving money until you eventually have enough to leave.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, if you&#8217;re upset enough to have done this, then the wisest course of action would be to proceed with it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-dios-esta-restaurando-su-matrimonio\/\">23 se\u00f1ales seguras de que Dios est\u00e1 restaurando su matrimonio<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfSe ha acabado mi matrimonio?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137196 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers.jpg\" alt=\"pareja firmando los papeles del divorcio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-signing-divorce-papers-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>No necesariamente.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Al final, s\u00f3lo ustedes pueden saber la verdadera respuesta. Pero por muy graves que sean sus problemas, siempre pueden resolverlos, si no solos, con la ayuda de un consejero matrimonial.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al fin y al cabo, un matrimonio s\u00f3lo se acaba cuando uno de los c\u00f3nyuges, o ambos, as\u00ed lo deciden.<\/strong> If you feel like that&#8217;s your case, there&#8217;s your answer. However, if you feel even the slightest bit of hope, that&#8217;s good news.<\/p>\n<p><em>Each married couple suffers their fair share of trials and tribulations. It&#8217;s only natural for it to feel like it&#8217;s going to end on a bad note sometimes. But, just because it feels that way at the moment doesn&#8217;t make it true.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfC\u00f3mo arreglar un matrimonio infeliz?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137197 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sentada en el sof\u00e1 en la consejer\u00eda matrimonial\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/couple-sitting-on-couch-at-marriage-counseling-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-arreglar-un-matrimonio-roto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Arreglar un matrimonio que fracasa<\/a> can indeed be a difficult task. However, it&#8217;s only up to you to determine whether the relationship is worth fighting for.<\/p>\n<p><em>Si tanto t\u00fa como tu pareja est\u00e1is dispuestos a superar los problemas, \u00e9stos se vuelven instant\u00e1neamente m\u00e1s peque\u00f1os ante vuestro amor y esfuerzo mutuos.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you feel hopeful and ready, here&#8217;s what&#8217;s best to do:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Comunicaci\u00f3n saludable<\/h3>\n<p>Don&#8217;t hide your negative thoughts or talk about them with someone outside your marriage. Freely express your feelings to your partner. You will never resolve any problem with silence, so start practicing having honest conversations.<\/p>\n<h3>2. L\u00edmites<\/h3>\n<p>If there&#8217;s a crack in your marriage, that doesn&#8217;t mean it can&#8217;t be covered with hard work and mutual understanding.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/limites-en-las-relaciones\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Establecer l\u00edmites saludables<\/a> and establish rules that each party has to honor. If you need some time apart, that&#8217;s fine too. Just beware that it doesn&#8217;t turn into complete isolation.<\/p>\n<h3>3. 3. Asesoramiento matrimonial<\/h3>\n<p>If you feel like you can&#8217;t solve your marital problems on your own, why not try <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/terapia-de-pareja\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">terapia de pareja<\/a>?<\/p>\n<p>Descubra la ra\u00edz de sus disputas y haga lo necesario para revivir el matrimonio sano que un d\u00eda fue.<\/p>\n<h2>En conjunto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-137198 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"pareja triste tumbada en la cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/sad-couple-laying-in-bed-1080x716.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve come to the point where you\u2019re wondering, &#8221;Is my marriage over?&#8221;, I&#8217;ll tell you this much: an unhappy marriage doesn&#8217;t mean that it&#8217;s necessarily doomed.<\/p>\n<p>Intente exponer directamente todos sus problemas a su c\u00f3nyuge. Sin embargo, si se niega a cooperar, puede ser una se\u00f1al de alarma.<\/p>\n<p>Either way, you can always fight for your marriage, but everyone has a breaking point. If you truly feel that there&#8217;s no way to get over your problems, then it&#8217;s best to finally leave.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nadie est\u00e1 obligado a permanecer en un matrimonio sin amor por ning\u00fan motivo. Tu felicidad individual es lo primero.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage might just be the most sacred relationship of all. You love someone so much that you&#8217;re prepared to vow that you&#8217;ll belong to them for a lifetime. When we start doubting the vows we&#8217;ve once made, it seems like the whole world is crashing down around us. We may even start believing that no&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":137194,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623,29620],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-137193","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage","category-relationships"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"},{"value":29620,"label":"RELATIONSHIPS"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Is-My-Marriage-Over-32-Warning-Signs-Of-An-Unhappy-Spousal-Union-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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