{"id":13734,"date":"2020-04-02T13:30:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T13:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13734"},"modified":"2021-12-15T21:01:58","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T21:01:58","slug":"guy-ghosted-texts-wants-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/guy-ghosted-texts-wants-back\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 hacer cuando un chico que te enga\u00f1\u00f3 te env\u00eda un mensaje y quiere que vuelvas"},"content":{"rendered":"

You made peace with the fact that he ghosted you, he is no longer in your life and that’s it.<\/p>\n

De repente, la pantalla de tu tel\u00e9fono se ilumina y ves un mensaje del chico que estabas segura de que no volver\u00eda a ponerse en contacto contigo.<\/p>\n

Ghosting suele significar que no hay contacto<\/a>\u2014no goodbye, no explanation, no nothing from a guy you have been dating for a while, or maybe even had a relationship with. It\u2019s one of the most disrespectful ways to end things.<\/p>\n

Al principio, no est\u00e1s seguro de si est\u00e1s delirando o el texto es real.<\/p>\n

Una vez que reconoces su autenticidad (y probablemente env\u00edes una captura de pantalla a tu amigo, s\u00f3lo para asegurarte de que no te est\u00e1s imaginando cosas), te paras a pensar: “What happened that made that ghost reappear?”<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Las opciones pueden variar, pero lo m\u00e1s probable es que quiera tantear el terreno y ver si a\u00fan tiene una oportunidad contigo.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n podr\u00eda ser un ligue. Y en el mejor de los casos, se ha acobardado, lo siente de verdad y quiere otra oportunidad.<\/p>\n

So don’t rush into devolvi\u00e9ndole el mensaje<\/a>\u2014even if that’s your first instinct, resist it.<\/p>\n

\"primer<\/p>\n

Puede que est\u00e9s esperando el mejor de los casos y al ver su mensaje esas mariposas fantasma en tu est\u00f3mago se hayan vuelto locas de nuevo. Para, respira hondo y t\u00f3mate tu tiempo para evaluar la situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, don’t get ahead of yourself; take your time in texting him back. This guy disappeared on you for no reason, for a long period of time. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ha herido tus sentimientos y puede que incluso haya sacudido tu autoestima, as\u00ed que lo menos que puede hacer es esperar tu respuesta, si es que va a haber respuesta, claro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might have even secretly hoped that this day would come, but just never let him know that. You don’t know the real reason why he is texting you.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 no merezca tu tiempo. Tal vez necesita demostrar que es digno.<\/p>\n

Sea cual sea el caso, al responder de inmediato est\u00e1s sugiriendo involuntariamente que dejas tu vida en suspenso a la espera de que reaparezca.<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes algunas cosas que deber\u00edas hacer antes de contestar al mensaje y antes de dejarle volver a tu vida:<\/p>\n

Lee el texto un par de veces, con atenci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Don’t give the text a higher meaning. Look with your eyes and not your hopes.<\/p>\n

If he texts something simple, like, \u201cHello\u2026\u201d don’t even bother texting back.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00eda intensificar su juego o dejarlo por completo. Solo cuando veas que hace un verdadero esfuerzo podr\u00e1s pensar en devolverle el mensaje.<\/p>\n

Si decides enviarle un mensaje, no te pases y s\u00e9 siempre amable.<\/h2>\n

\"primer<\/p>\n

He hurt your feelings. You might be super-ecstatic about him reaching out again but don’t let that cloud your judgment when texting. Take it slow.<\/p>\n

Don’t overcommunicate. Match his efforts. If he texts you three words, don’t reply to him with a novel.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 breve y sencilla. Nunca dejes que detecte ira o resentimiento en tus textos.<\/p>\n

Juega bien tus cartas<\/h2>\n

\"pelo<\/p>\n

Hay varias formas de hacerlo. Puedes contestarle normalmente, como si no hubiera pasado nada, todo dentro de los l\u00edmites de la amistad, por supuesto. Pero t\u00f3mate tu tiempo para salir con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Make him work for it. You can also be open and honest and say that his behavior wasn’t OK but you are willing to give him one last shot.<\/p>\n

O si decides que ya no te interesa y que ese barco ha zarpado, s\u00e9 mejor persona que \u00e9l y dile que agradeces su invitaci\u00f3n pero que ya no te interesa.<\/p>\n

Se sorprender\u00e1, tanto por tu sinceridad como por el hecho de que ya no desees ver su fantasmag\u00f3rico culo.<\/p>\n

Cuestione sus emociones<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Dar una segunda oportunidad<\/a> a alguien que te hizo ghosting puede ser realmente arriesgado, ya que podr\u00eda volver a desaparecer sobre ti.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, para empezar, aseg\u00farate de que quieres que vuelva. Despu\u00e9s de todo, mostr\u00f3 su verdadera cara antes de que empezaras nada.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si decides que merece la pena correr el riesgo y que puedes soportar que vuelva a desvanecerse en el aire, haz que se gane tu confianza.<\/p>\n

He no longer has your trust and you can’t give him the benefit of the doubt so easily.<\/p>\n

Debe reconocer que lo que hizo estuvo mal y debe estar dispuesto a trabajar duro y a hacer todo lo posible para reconstruir esa confianza. Si no, no merece tu tiempo.<\/p>\n

\"Qu\u00e9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You made peace with the fact that he ghosted you, he is no longer in your life and that’s it. Then all of a sudden, the screen on your phone lights up and you see a text from the guy you were sure would never contact you again. Ghosting usually means that there is no…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":83893,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13734","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/What-To-Do-When-A-Guy-Who-Ghosted-You-Texts-You-And-Wants-You-Back-1.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13734","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13734"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13734\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83893"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13734"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13734"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13734"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}