{"id":13751,"date":"2020-04-02T13:34:48","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T13:34:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13751"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:47:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:47:57","slug":"carta-que-el-hombre-dio-por-buena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/carta-que-el-hombre-dio-por-buena\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al hombre que me dio por sentado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca te ped\u00ed que entraras en mi vida. Quer\u00edas formar parte de ella.<\/p>\n

Te apuntaste a todo por tu cuenta. Quer\u00edas compartir tu vida conmigo y quer\u00edas que yo te dejara entrar en la m\u00eda.<\/p>\n

You were so convincing because in some moments I saw you looking at me like I was everything you\u2019d been looking for.<\/p>\n

You used all your \u2018resources\u2019 to make me fall for you.<\/p>\n

Eras simp\u00e1tico y atento y, adem\u00e1s de todo, encantador. Eras divertido y te esforzabas tanto por que me fijara en ti que pens\u00e9 que ser\u00eda buena idea darte una oportunidad aunque parecieras demasiado bueno para ser verdad.<\/p>\n

Aunque hab\u00eda dejado atr\u00e1s unas cuantas relaciones fallidas, me convenc\u00ed de que al menos merec\u00eda una oportunidad por sus esfuerzos.<\/p>\n

You deserved my time and you deserved my attention. You worked so hard for it. Something wasn’t right from the start, I could sense it from the very beginning, but I told myself it was just mi miedo a que el pasado se repita<\/a>.<\/p>\n

…and …I decided to give us a shot. I decided to believe your words and give my trust to you.<\/p>\n

Little by little I noticed I was falling for you. Actually, it wasn\u2019t just little by little, it was falling all at once. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Por desgracia, ca\u00ed de bruces. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Mientras mis mariposas se despertaban, t\u00fa envenenabas las tuyas y las hac\u00edas desaparecer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I guess I wasn\u2019t what you expected me to be; you thought I\u2019d be a sucker for your manipulative games or be like all the others naive girls you dated. But I wasn\u2019t. Because I despise games.<\/p>\n

I despise playing with other people\u2019s feelings because I was played with, too.<\/p>\n

And it destroyed me. It hurt me to the point when I couldn’t take any more of it. With you, I played all my cards out in the open. I played fair.<\/p>\n

I showed you everything I had so you\u2019d know what you were getting yourself into.<\/p>\n

Ojal\u00e1 hubieras hecho lo mismo por m\u00ed. Ojal\u00e1 hubieras sido sincera. Te am\u00e9 como esperaba ser amada alg\u00fan d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

I wanted to believe you were the one and that if I was honest, you\u2019d be honest too. So I held nothing back.<\/p>\n

Nunca te hice da\u00f1o, estuve ah\u00ed para ti cuando nadie m\u00e1s lo estaba, estuve ah\u00ed cuando me necesitaste e incluso cuando no ten\u00edas ni idea de que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n me necesitabas.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

I valued you and appreciated you for who you were. I didn\u2019t want to change you, I just wanted you to do the same for me as I was doing for you.<\/p>\n

I always listened to you. I tried to tend to your needs and I tried to make you happy, you know. I wanted us to work out and that\u2019s the main reason why I fought so hard for your love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qu\u00e9 idiota fui, qu\u00e9 tonta, luchando por el amor de un hombre que nunca plane\u00f3 amarme, ni siquiera para empezar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

All those things I did, I didn\u2019t do them so you\u2019d thank me, I didn\u2019t do those things so you\u2019d feel like you owed me, I did them because I felt like it. I did them because I thought you deserved them.<\/p>\n

Los hice porque era lo correcto<\/a> y quer\u00eda quererte bien.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t bother trying half as much as I did. It looked like you needed me just to fall for you and then your job was done.<\/p>\n

Then you\u2019d have someone to love you, to take care of you and your needs, someone to be there for you without feeling like you had to reciprocate their efforts at all.<\/p>\n

Al cabo de un rato, despu\u00e9s de ser tocada por tus manos y luego ser negada, despu\u00e9s de entregarme toda a ti y no recibir nada a cambio, despu\u00e9s de correr hacia ti s\u00f3lo para ver que no ten\u00edas ganas de tenerme en tus brazos, not\u00e9 que un extra\u00f1o me miraba en el espejo.<\/p>\n

Me sent\u00eda como si fuera una v\u00edctima y ya no una guerrera, como si me hubieran chupado toda la vida.<\/p>\n

Out all the relationships I\u2019ve been through, the one with you was the most heartbreaking, you know?<\/p>\n

Me hiciste sentir como si fuera una p\u00e9rdida de tu tiempo, como si todos mis esfuerzos no valieran nada y a\u00fan as\u00ed esperabas que hiciera todo lo que hac\u00eda por ti, como si te debiera todas esas cosas.<\/p>\n

The truth is, I owed you nothing. I should\u2019ve stopped trying the same time you did. You didn\u2019t deserve even an ounce of what I gave you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Tratarte como lo hice fue un error. Ponerte en un pedestal fue un error.<\/p>\n

Te equivocaste de mujer.<\/p>\n

If you thought I\u2019d still be there for you even after the way you made me feel, even after you showed me you couldn\u2019t care less about me<\/a>, you\u2019ve got me all wrong.<\/p>\n

Sigo teniendo una lista de prioridades y he colocado mi nombre en lo m\u00e1s alto de ella.<\/strong><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, I know I did my best. I know I’ve tried and you didn’t.<\/p>\n

There is nothing else to do than to show you how it feels to be without all those things I did for you. Perhaps you will learn to appreciate me once you don\u2019t have me in your life anymore. Perhaps you will be missing all those things I did for you that you barely noticed when I was next to you.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t really matter, it is already too late.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll learn from my mistakes and I\u2019ll do my best to not repeat the same mistakes I made with you. The minute I see someone is taking me for granted, I’m walking away.<\/p>\n

 \"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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