{"id":137518,"date":"2021-10-31T20:39:41","date_gmt":"2021-10-31T20:39:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=137518"},"modified":"2021-10-31T20:39:41","modified_gmt":"2021-10-31T20:39:41","slug":"amistad-a-distancia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amistad-a-distancia\/","title":{"rendered":"10 consejos para salvar con \u00e9xito tu amistad a distancia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tener un verdadero amistad plat\u00f3nica<\/a> is something all of us desire. It’s not quite so easy to find, and we usually spend many years with falsos amigos<\/a> who don’t really care about us.<\/p>\n

Now, imagine finally filling that void only to have it taken from you one day in an instant. That’s the problem with long distance friendships.<\/p>\n

Perhaps they’ve just finished high school and got a new job in another city, or they fell in love with a foreigner. The bottom line is you lost someone dear to you, and you’re not quite sure what to do.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se mantiene un <\/i>amistad a distancia<\/i>?<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfEs posible hacerlo? \u00bfC\u00f3mo?<\/i><\/p>\n

If you find yourself tormented by these questions, stay with me because we’re about to answer them!<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs posible la amistad a distancia?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

La respuesta es s\u00ed.<\/i><\/p>\n

Amistades a distancia, o relaciones a larga distancia<\/a> of any kind, can be really hard to bear, and even harder to maintain. You believe that as soon as they go away, that’s it. Nothing will ever be the way it was.<\/p>\n

However, it’s actually upon you to not let this happen. It’s not enough to wish for something. Tienes que hacer el esfuerzo necesario para que tu amistad funcione.<\/b><\/p>\n

Text each other, make phone calls, or whatever else you think will help you maintain the friendship because truly, it’s not impossible.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo sobrevivir a una amistad a distancia?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

As we’ve established, if you try hard enough, you will definitely succeed. Loving each other isn’t enough. Good friends show the love they feel in their actions.<\/p>\n

Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 acciones ser\u00edan exactamente?<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo se puede hacer un <\/i>amistad a distancia trabajo<\/i>?<\/i><\/p>\n

Si buscas respuestas a estas preguntas, eso significa que te importa lo suficiente como para no permitir nunca la separaci\u00f3n de tu bff a pesar de la distancia. Ya que te sientes as\u00ed, aqu\u00ed tienes los trucos que pueden ayudarte:<\/p>\n

1. Aceptar las cosas como son<\/h3>\n

When our long distance friends leave us, it’s natural that we are so overwhelmed with grief that we can’t think straight. Allow yourself to feel your emotions for as long as you need. After all, you did just lose your best friend, didn’t you?<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, you shouldn’t let sadness prevent you from seeking out the best in the current situation<\/b>. Puede que est\u00e9n lejos, pero a\u00fan hay muchas formas de que sig\u00e1is siendo amigos para siempre. Al fin y al cabo, estamos en la era de las redes sociales.<\/p>\n

2. Aseg\u00farese de hablar con regularidad<\/h3>\n

There are so many apps nowadays that you can use to talk to your friend. It doesn’t matter if it’s WhatsApp or Viber, the bottom line is you can easily keep your friendship alive.<\/p>\n

Si est\u00e1n muy lejos, las diferencias horarias pueden ser un obst\u00e1culo. Por ejemplo, tengo una amiga en Australia, y cuando me despierto, ella ya se ha ido a dormir.<\/p>\n

Still, we find time for each other. It has been more than four years, but we always know what’s going on in each other’s lives.<\/p>\n

Since it isn’t just me who lost her but rather two other friends, we found that a group chat was also the perfect way to keep each other posted about our lives.<\/p>\n

The point is, if you really make an effort, you won’t lose your friendship.<\/b><\/p>\n

3. Sentir curiosidad por su vida<\/h3>\n

When we don’t see our friends for a very long time, we are tempted to share every little detail of our daily life. In our excitement to include them in our happiness, we often forget to ask them how they’re doing.<\/p>\n

I’m often guilty of this, too. Since my friend prefers to be the listener, she rarely talks about herself, and I make the mistake of not asking her.<\/p>\n

Pero.., <\/b>un verdadero mejor amigo<\/b><\/a> se da cuenta de que ambas partes son igual de importantes.<\/b> Si se inclinan por el silencio, sienta curiosidad y acepte esta vez el papel de oyente.<\/p>\n

4. Verse en c\u00e1mara<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Since it’s impossible to see your friend face-to-face, try the best alternative \u2013 video chat.<\/p>\n

I don’t know if it has happened to you, too, but I sometimes forget what my friend even looks like. After all, so many years have passed. It’s not the same to receive a picture and see their facial expressions or movements during an actual conversation.<\/p>\n

Agradece las maravillas de la tecnolog\u00eda, y make sure you don’t forget their face even for a second<\/b>! There are so many applications to choose from \u2013 Facetime, Skype, Zoom, etc.<\/p>\n

If, on the other hand, you dislike making video calls, that’s perfectly valid. I, myself, belong to this group, so I understand you well.<\/p>\n

Si prefieres otras formas de comunicaci\u00f3n y crees que son suficientes para preservar vuestra amistad, adelante.<\/p>\n

5. Hacer cosas juntos<\/h3>\n

Just because physical distance divides you doesn’t mean you still can’t do things together. In fact, for the sake of your friendship, you SHOULD try to make new experiences no matter how small.<\/p>\n

Si quieres que tu amistad vuelva a ser como antes, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas sugerencias que pueden ayudarte a conseguirlo:<\/p>\n

    \n
  1. Ver pel\u00edculas.<\/li>\n
  2. Organice clubes de lectura.<\/li>\n
  3. Play ‘\u00bfVerdad o consecuencia?<\/a>‘.<\/li>\n
  4. Jugar ‘Most likely to?<\/a>‘.<\/li>\n
  5. Tener una cuenta de fans compartida.<\/li>\n
  6. Listen to each other’s favorite music.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    6. Si es posible, ve a visitarlos<\/h3>\n

    If your friend hasn’t gone too far away, make sure that you visit them every now and then. There are so many lugares a los que ir<\/a> and so many things to do! Don’t let distance stop you. Go buy a bus ticket and spend a day together!<\/p>\n

    Texting can be extremely fun, but it still doesn’t beat face-to-face conversation.<\/p>\n

    He tenido la desgracia de entablar amistad con gente de muchas ciudades diferentes. La mayor\u00eda se han marchado, pero aun as\u00ed, intentamos reunirnos regularmente para mantener viva la amistad.<\/p>\n

    If it’s impossible for you to do it, that’s fine. In the end, distance can never harm you if you don’t let it.<\/p>\n

    7. Llegar primero<\/h3>\n

    Sometimes, people truly are busy. Life gets in the way, and they rarely have time to properly communicate with anyone. Their obligations simply don’t allow them to.<\/p>\n

    However, this doesn’t mean that they no longer care about you. Abandon your pride, and text them first. Don’t always take into account who texted last. Si sientes la necesidad de hablar, hazlo. <\/b>Dile a tu mejor amigo cu\u00e1nto le quieres.<\/a><\/p>\n

    It’s true that both parties need to put in the effort, but there will always come a time when we have to be the person who tries more. While it’s important that your actions are reciprocated, do not hesitate to reach first. See where it goes from there.<\/p>\n

    On the other hand, if you\u2019re certain that it\u2019s a amistad unilateral<\/a>, it\u2019s okay to stop trying.<\/p>\n

    8. Env\u00edales memes<\/h3>\n

    \"una<\/p>\n

    When someone’s far away, we tend to focus more on big events worth talking about. We barely realize the relevance of things such as jokes.<\/p>\n

    Si encuentras un meme divertido, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no lo compartes con tus amigos?<\/i><\/p>\n

    It’s so important that you <\/b>hacernos re\u00edr mutuamente<\/b><\/a>, whether it’s sending memes, recalling old inside jokes or creating new ones. Not only personal conversations can create a bond. Besides, memes can reveal a lot, can they not?<\/p>\n

    9. Los periodos de silencio son normales<\/h3>\n

    It’s perfectly understandable if there comes a period when you don’t talk much, especially if you’re adults now. Your life may change drastically, or you wish for it to change, so you focus more on yourself.<\/p>\n

    Silence doesn’t necessarily suggest a lack of affection. Sometimes, you’re simply not up for a conversation.<\/b><\/p>\n

    Amigos de verdad<\/a> don’t hold a grudge if you stay silent for a while. Follow this regla del c\u00f3digo de las chicas de oro<\/a>, and when you’re ready, carry on where you left off. Time doesn’t change anything if there’s a true connection between two people.<\/p>\n

    10. Env\u00edales regalos<\/h3>\n

    Si su <\/i>friend’s birthday<\/i> se acerca, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no pensar en un regalo para enviarles?<\/i><\/p>\n

    It doesn’t have to be anything spectacular or too expensive. What’s important is that you show them that you care.<\/p>\n

    Try to come up with something meaningful for both of you. If you’re having difficulties with that, you needn’t worry. There’s a whole variety of gift ideas to choose from which they will surely love.<\/p>\n

    P.S. If you\u2019re not even sure what to say to them, here\u2019s a list of 280 deseos y frases de cumplea\u00f1os m\u00e1s conmovedores y sinceros<\/a>.<\/p>\n

    Los 5 mejores regalos de amistad a distancia que adorar\u00e1 tu mejor amiga<\/h2>\n

    \"la<\/p>\n

    Finding the perfect gift for your friend can sometimes be frustrating, but I (and Amazon) have got you covered. Below, you’ll find the most thoughtful gifts for your long-distance friend that will make your friendship all the more special:<\/p>\n

    1. Llavero amistad a distancia<\/a><\/h3>\n

    Do you want to let your friend know that you’ll always be there for them no matter what? Then, you’ll love this unique keychain that says “No matter what, no matter where. Always & Forever.”<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

    Una de mis amigas recibi\u00f3 un llavero as\u00ed (s\u00f3lo que de otro color) de su amiga de la distancia, y a\u00fan lo conserva como un dulce recuerdo de su profunda conexi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

    I must admit that I’m kind of jelly that no one gave me this keychain, but I truly hope that this will change in the near future.<\/p>\n

    Actually, I might give it to one of my friends, which means I’ll also have one because they come in a set of 2.<\/b> \u00a1Qu\u00e9 idea tan brillante!<\/p>\n

    I might as well do some DIY work because I’m not a fan of those artificial gift boxes. I prefer unique ones because they have more value (obviously)<\/p>\n

    2. Pulseras de conexi\u00f3n a distancia<\/a><\/h3>\n

    Imagina poder enviar un toque a tu amigo a trav\u00e9s de una pulsera. Pues ya es posible.<\/p>\n

    Cuando env\u00edes un toque a tu amigo (tocando tu pulsera), su pulsera se iluminar\u00e1 en el color que t\u00fa elijas. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 momento para estar vivo!<\/p>\n

    Lo mejor de todo es que puedes hacerlo sin importar d\u00f3nde est\u00e9 tu amigo y siempre que quieras<\/b> (However, don’t overdo it if you don’t want to annoy them).<\/p>\n

    Connection bracelets are also a great Valentine’s Day gift for relaci\u00f3n a distancia<\/a> parejas.<\/p>\n

    3. Portarretratos amistad a distancia<\/a><\/h3>\n

    “Together forever, never apart. Maybe in distance, but never in heart.”<\/i><\/p>\n

    If you like the previous sentence, then you’ll fall in love with this heartwarming picture frame.<\/p>\n

    Este marco de madera hecho a mano tiene capacidad para 2 fotograf\u00edas, as\u00ed que aseg\u00farate de elegir las mejores para ti y tu <\/b>bestie<\/b>.<\/b> Lo m\u00e1s bonito de todo es un coraz\u00f3n de lana atravesado por clavos debajo de la inscripci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

    The heart and wooden material add a vintage touch to the picture frame, and that’s why it totally rocks! And, yes, that’s why it is the perfect birthday gift as well.<\/p>\n

    4. pack de 2 vasos best friends<\/a><\/h3>\n

    Fabricados en acero inoxidable (igual que vuestra amistad a distancia), estos simp\u00e1ticos vasos vienen con pajitas, dos cepillos para limpiarlas y una impresionante inscripci\u00f3n:<\/p>\n

    “<\/i><\/b>Buenos amigos<\/i><\/b> are like stars. You don’t always see them, but they are always there.”<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

    I’m sure this is enough to make your friend cry tears of joy. If it isn’t, then you can always give them an onion care package. Just kidding, of course!<\/p>\n

    I remember when my brother gave a similar tumbler cup to our mother on Mother’s Day. She has never been happier in her life because these cups are elegant, and they are made of quality material (which is her main criteria when it comes to everything).<\/p>\n

    So, I’m sure your friend will also fall in love with this special gift.<\/p>\n

    5. L\u00e1mparas t\u00e1ctiles de amistad a distancia<\/a><\/h3>\n

    \u00bfRecuerdas las pulseras de conexi\u00f3n a larga distancia que hemos mencionado antes? Pues estas l\u00e1mparas t\u00e1ctiles funcionan seg\u00fan el mismo principio.<\/p>\n

    With a simple touch of your lamp, you can brighten your friend’s day because all lamps will radiate the same shade of your choice.<\/b> Whenever you touch your lamp, you will let them know that you’re thinking of them, and vice-versa.<\/p>\n

    If you ask me, this is one of the most brilliant inventions since sliced bread because it’s thoughtful, stylish, and heartwarming… just like your long-distance friendship!<\/p>\n

    40 mejores frases de amistad a distancia<\/h2>\n

    \"dos<\/p>\n

    Sometimes, despite our efforts, we simply can’t properly express how we feel. Words fail us, and we end up ruining the greatness of our feelings with silly declarations, or else we don’t say anything at all.<\/p>\n

    Have you ever wanted to tell your friend how much you love them, but weren’t sure how?<\/i><\/p>\n

    \u00bfLe cuesta expresar cu\u00e1nto desear\u00eda que estuvieran aqu\u00ed?<\/i><\/p>\n

    Si es as\u00ed, siga leyendo para descubrir un gran n\u00famero de frases sobre la amistad<\/a> que pueden ayudarte siempre que te falten las palabras.<\/p>\n

    Sentidas frases de amistad a distancia<\/h3>\n

    1. \u201cWhenever I start feeling sad because <\/b>Te echo de menos<\/b>, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss.\u201d <\/b>\u2013<\/b> Henri Nouwen<\/b><\/p>\n

    2. \u201cHow lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.\u201d \u2013 A.A. Milne<\/p>\n

    3. To know someone here or there with whom you can feel there is understanding in spite of distances or thoughts unexpressed \u2013 that can make of this earth a garden. \u2013 Johann Wolfgang von Goethe<\/p>\n

    4. \u201cIn French, you don\u2019t really say \u201c<\/b>Te echo de menos<\/b>\u201d… you say \u201cTu me manques\u201d, which means \u201cYou are missing from me.\u201d <\/b>\u2013<\/b> Desconocido<\/b><\/p>\n

    5. \u201cWe all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere.\u201d \u2013 Tim McGraw<\/p>\n

    6. \u201cWhen twilight drops her curtain down and pins it with a star, remember that you have a friend though she may wander far.\u201d \u2013 L.M. Montgomery<\/p>\n

    7. \u201cThough we drifted apart in distance I still think of you as being right here. And, although we have many <\/b>nuevos amigos<\/b>, it is our friendship that means the most to me.\u201d <\/b>\u2013 <\/b>Desconocido<\/b><\/p>\n

    8. \u201cNo matter how far you manage to go, distance will never be able to erase those beautiful memories. There is so much goodness that we shared together.\u201d \u2013 Lucy Aims<\/p>\n

    Frases inspiradoras sobre la amistad a distancia<\/h3>\n

    1. \u201cSo what if the distance is too long? What matters is that we have the courage of love to cover any distance which dares to separate us.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

    2. \u201cThere is magic in <\/b>amistades a distancia<\/b>. They let you relate to other human beings in a way that goes beyond being physically together, and is often more profound.\u201d <\/b>\u2013<\/b> Diana Cort\u00e9s<\/b><\/p>\n

    3. \u201cA friend who is far away is sometimes much nearer than one who is at hand. Is not the mountain far more awe-inspiring and more clearly visible to one passing through the valley than to those who inhabit the mountain\u201d \u2013 Kahlil Gibran<\/p>\n

    4. \u201cTrue friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.\u201d \u2013 Josh Grayson<\/p>\n

    5. Don\u2019t be dismayed at good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends. \u2013 Richard Bach<\/b><\/p>\n

    6. Absence is to love as wind is to fire: it extinguishes the little flame, it fans the big. \u2013 Umberto Eco<\/p>\n

    7. Distance sometimes endears friendship, and absence sweeteneth it. \u2013 James Howell<\/p>\n

    8. \u201cNo distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other\u2019s worth.\u201d \u2013 Robert Southey<\/p>\n

    Citas tristes de amistad a distancia<\/h3>\n

    \"dos<\/p>\n

    1. \u201cYour absence has gone through me like thread through a needle; everything I do is stitched with its color.\u201d <\/b>\u2013<\/b> W.S. Merwin<\/b><\/p>\n

    2. \u201cBut nothing makes a room feel emptier than wanting someone in it.\u201d \u2013 Calla Quinn<\/p>\n

    3. \u201cNothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes.\u201d \u2013 Henry David Thoreau<\/p>\n

    4. \u201cI think I’ll miss you forever, like the stars miss the sun in the morning sky.\u201d\u2013 Lana Del Rey<\/p>\n

    5. Odd how much it hurts when a friend moves away \u2013 and leaves behind only silence. <\/b>\u2013 <\/b>Pam Brown<\/b><\/p>\n

    6. You will never be completely at home again because part of your heart will always be elsewhere. That\u2019s the price you pay for the richness of loving and knowing people in more than one place. \u2013 Miriam Adeney<\/p>\n

    7. The scariest thing about distance is that you don’t know whether they’ll miss you or forget you. \u2013 Nicholas Sparks<\/p>\n

    8. \u201cYou can never love people as much as you miss them.\u201d \u2013 John Green<\/p>\n

    Pies de foto de amistad a distancia en Instagram<\/h3>\n

    1. \u201cThe distance cannot matter \u2013 Ours is a friendship of the heart.\u201d – Mary Anne Radmacher<\/b><\/p>\n

    2. \u201cIf the days won\u2019t allow us to see each other, memories will, and if my eyes can\u2019t see you, my heart will never forget you.\u201d \u2013 Wale Olabode<\/p>\n

    3. \u201cIf you think missing me is hard, you should try missing you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

    4. “I wish I could teleport to you.”\u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

    5. S\u00f3lo nos separamos para volver a vernos. <\/b>\u2013<\/b> Michael Scott<\/b><\/p>\n

    6. \u201cPoets use countless words to describe their pain, but I only need three: I miss you.\u201d \u2013 Caroline George<\/p>\n

    7. \u201cI carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart).\u201d \u2013 E. E. Cummings<\/p>\n

    8. \u201cI exist in two places, here and where you are.” \u2013 Margaret Atwood<\/p>\n

    Al final<\/h2>\n

    Sobrevivir a una amistad a distancia puede ser dif\u00edcil, pero seguro que no imposible. Lo \u00fanico verdaderamente importante es que os quer\u00e1is lo suficiente para que funcione.<\/b><\/p>\n

    There are so many ways to stay in touch these days. It really doesn’t have to end if you put in the effort.<\/p>\n

    Chatea con tu amigo, m\u00edralo en c\u00e1mara y vive nuevas experiencias. Acu\u00e9rdate de ellos en su cumplea\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

    Your gifts don’t have to be all that spectacular, but it’s always the thought that counts. It really doesn’t have to end. Value your friendship enough not to give up on it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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