I didn\u2019t want to move on because the pain took control of me. I felt sorry for myself and I spent so many nights crying over my past actions and him.<\/p>\n
Culp\u00e9 a Dios, culp\u00e9 a todo el mundo pero, sobre todo, me culp\u00e9 a m\u00ed mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n I didn\u2019t want to forgive myself and I didn\u2019t want to leave the past where it belonged. I was stuck in it and I couldn\u2019t find a way out. It was a never-ending enchanted circle.<\/p>\n De vez en cuando, sent\u00eda que me hab\u00eda hecho m\u00e1s fuerte y que pod\u00eda dejar todo eso atr\u00e1s, pero entonces mi pasado volv\u00eda a absorberme.<\/p>\n Perd\u00ed mi autoestima y me odiaba. Ahora, cuando miro atr\u00e1s, lo que m\u00e1s siento es rabia. No ira hacia \u00e9l, sino hacia m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n I\u2019m furious because I let him make me think of myself as less worthy and of guilty of everything that happened to us.<\/p>\n I thought I didn\u2019t deserve to be happy<\/a>Pens\u00e9 que era un desastre hasta que dej\u00e9 de compadecerme de m\u00ed mismo y despert\u00e9.<\/p>\n He didn\u2019t have the power to rule over me. Too bad it took me that long to realize that. Too bad I put myself through hell and back because I was too blind to see how much I really deserved.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m ready now. He left a huge mark on my life. He changed me. I\u2019m not saying that I\u2019m a different person, it\u2019s just that I don\u2019t see the world like I used to see it.<\/p>\n But that\u2019s okay because I\u2019m not afraid anymore. I\u2019ve felt things and I\u2019m ready for whatever life throws at me because what doesn\u2019t kill me, makes me stronger.<\/p>\n I\u2019m ready to open my heart again and if destiny so decides, I\u2019m ready to have my heart broken again. He was my lesson, he made me stronger, and he made me smarter.<\/p>\n Encontr\u00e9 esa parte de m\u00ed que me faltaba. Encontr\u00e9 ese gatillo que necesitaba apretar para volver a la vida.<\/p>\n Me llev\u00f3 mucho tiempo llegar a donde estoy hoy. Si alguna vez conoces a una chica rota como yo, prom\u00e9teme que intentar\u00e1s comprenderla.<\/p>\n Promise me that you\u2019re going to look after her. Promise me that she won\u2019t just be temporary because she wouldn\u2019t be able to take it. Not right now.<\/p>\n Promise me that you will be there for her because\u2026.<\/strong><\/p>\n She will be suspicious of your actions and your feelings. She won\u2019t believe the words you say to her because she has heard them a thousand times before.<\/p>\n Le prometieron el mundo, le dieron falsas esperanzas, pero nunca ocurri\u00f3 nada. Ella no vio nada de eso.<\/p>\n La primera vez que estuvo enamorada, se lo grit\u00f3 al mundo y le sali\u00f3 el tiro por la culata. Le pisotearon el coraz\u00f3n y se lo rompieron.<\/p>\n You have to understand that she can\u2019t just open up that easily and show how she feels about you, but never doubt her.<\/p>\n Puede que no lo diga y puede que lo oculte, pero ten paciencia porque una vez que se abra, vas a sentir un amor que no sab\u00edas que exist\u00eda.<\/p>\n She will think that it\u2019s her fault for everything that has happened to her. He robbed her of her self-respect and self-love. She was left with nothing but the feeling of guilt.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let her treat herself poorly. Don\u2019t let her abandon herself. Show her that there is hope and prove to her that you are not like everybody else.<\/p>\n Demu\u00e9strale que de verdad te importa y estate a su lado cuando m\u00e1s te necesite.<\/p>\n You have to take it slowly, otherwise you\u2019ll scare her off. She has just had a huge trauma and it took her awhile to heal and to bounce back from it.<\/p>\n She won\u2019t be making the same mistake again and if you pressure her into doing something she isn\u2019t yet comfortable doing, she will run away.<\/p>\n No matter how much she loves you, she has a plan in case that the two of you don\u2019t work out. She\u2019s been to hell and back and she won\u2019t risk going there again.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to be angry about it; it\u2019s just a consequence of her heartbreak and pain that she felt and will never forget.<\/p>\n She will second-guess your every decision like she second-guesses hers, too. It\u2019s nothing personal, it\u2019s a defense mechanism she uses not to get hurt ever again.<\/p>\n Even when you treat her the way she deserves, she will be suspicious because she isn\u2019t used to being treated that way. It will take her a while to realize that she was supposed to be treated like that from the beginning.<\/p>\n The one before you made her that way. He gaslighted her and he turned her into an obedient puppet. She didn\u2019t have a mind of her own and her voice was completely silent.<\/p>\n She always apologized to avoid fights he initiated. She apologized for things she did and didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n Le recuerda a cuando estaba atrapada en una relaci\u00f3n que la estaba matando poco a poco. Le aterroriza que t\u00fa le hagas lo mismo.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, tened paciencia con ella porque merece toda la espera del mundo.<\/p>\n Be patient with her. She is a girl who had her heart broken. Don\u2019t you break it too\u2026<\/p>\n I never realized how hard this hit me. When it was happening, I guess I was too stressed to think about myself and where I would go from there. I just wanted to escape him so badly, at any cost. I didn\u2019t realize how guarded I was and how I had built this bulletproof wall…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":97280,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13759","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Things-You-Should-Know-Before-Dating-A-Girl-Who-Had-Her-Heart-Broken.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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<\/p>\nShe won\u2019t trust you right away<\/a><\/h2>\n
![\"Una](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/A-sad-couple-sitting-in-the-park-and-thinking.jpg\")
<\/p>\nShe won\u2019t show affection so easily<\/h2>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/couple-drinking-coffee.jpg\")
<\/p>\nSer\u00e1 extremadamente cr\u00edtica<\/h2>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-outside.jpg\")
<\/p>\nElla va a retroceder si usted trata de moverse demasiado r\u00e1pido<\/h2>\n
![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-couple-looking-at-each-other-at-cafe.jpg\")
<\/p>\nProbablemente tiene un plan B<\/h2>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/upset-woman-looking-away-while-sitting-with-man.jpg\")
<\/p>\nElla sobreanalizar\u00e1 todo<\/h2>\n
![\"retrato](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/portrait-of-woman-listening-to-her-man-outside.jpg\")
<\/p>\nShe will apologize to you all the time but isn\u2019t her fault<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nLe aterroriza compromiso<\/a><\/h2>\n
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