{"id":13783,"date":"2020-05-05T08:13:25","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T08:13:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13783"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:36:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:36:50","slug":"10-maneras-de-contar-un-trato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-maneras-de-contar-un-trato\/","title":{"rendered":"10 maneras de saber si te est\u00e1 tomando el pelo (y c\u00f3mo afrontarlo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Normalmente, eres t\u00fa quien env\u00eda los mensajes primero.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Siempre responde, pero casi nunca manda primero un mensaje. Le gusta que te esfuerces, pero no est\u00e1 dispuesto a hacer lo mismo.<\/p>\n

The fact that you are always texting first tells him that you are very much into him. His ego is just growing and growing but that\u2019s leading you nowhere.<\/p>\n

The best thing you can do is to ignore him to get his attention. Don\u2019t allow yourself to be the only one trying.<\/p>\n

Efforts and investments must be mutual. Even when it\u2019s something as simple as texting. But let\u2019s be honest\u2014texting can tell you a lot.<\/p>\n

2. He refuses to put a label on your relationship because \u201cHe\u2019s not into labels\u201d.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Come on. Really??? This \u201cI\u2019m not into labels expression is as old as Greece and he still has the nerve to use it?<\/p>\n

No importa lo mucho que te guste o si ya has desarrollado sentimientos por \u00e9l, debes admitir que es un mentiroso. Te est\u00e1 diciendo abiertamente que est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para algo a corto plazo y casual.<\/p>\n

Make sure you want the same things. Because it\u2019s highly unlikely that he will change his opinion.<\/p>\n

Especialmente si usted est\u00e1 all\u00ed independientemente de las etiquetas. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 hacer un esfuerzo cuando \u00e9l tiene todo lo que quiere de ti de todos modos?<\/p>\n

3. Pasa tiempo contigo s\u00f3lo cuando le parece conveniente.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u201cWe\u2019ll see.\u201d and \u201cI\u2019ll get back to you on that.\u201d are his favorite two sentences. If he is constantly dogging straightforward answers, he is just biding his time until he sees if he has something better to do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a clear sign that he is keeping you on the bench.<\/p>\n

Next time he asks to see you, write: \u201cOh. I\u2019m not sure if I can make it. I\u2019ll get back to you on that.\u201d Play the game right and show him who the coach is.<\/p>\n

No ir\u00e1s a ninguna parte con \u00e9l si acudes a todas sus llamadas y lo dejas todo s\u00f3lo para pasar tiempo con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Keep yourself busy and he will adjust his time to fit your schedule. If not, his loss. But at least you won\u2019t be strung along anymore.<\/p>\n

4. No eres m\u00e1s que un bot\u00edn.<\/span><\/h2>\n

98% of the time you spend together ends in sex. He is not too interested in texting if it\u2019s not flirting.<\/p>\n

Evita verte cuando tienes la regla. Todos estos son indicadores de que est\u00e1 interesado en una cosa y s\u00f3lo en una cosa.<\/p>\n

If you are not down for that, tell him and leave. Sleeping with him won\u2019t change him or make him want a relationship with you. It will only procrastinate the situation or leave things where they are at now.<\/p>\n

This situation might suit you for a while but if you have feelings for him, you won\u2019t be happy with just sex.<\/p>\n

5. Tiene una situaci\u00f3n no resuelta con su ex.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Su ex sigue formando parte de sus vidas. O ella lo arruin\u00f3 por completo o \u00e9l sigue en contacto constante con ella.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s que afectan a su relaci\u00f3n<\/a> in a negative way and it\u2019s making you question everything.<\/p>\n

I am sorry but if this is happening to you\u2014you are probably his rebound girlfriend. He likes the time he spends with you.<\/p>\n

He wants you around but with this ex-situation, he is keeping you at arm\u2019s length and not allowing you to come closer and make your relationship stronger.<\/p>\n

Talk openly about it with him and see if there\u2019s any solution and how he really feels about you.<\/p>\n

6. Se aleja al menor indicio de compromiso.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Evita el tema del compromiso y salta directamente a otra cosa en cuanto puede. Probablemente sea un fobia al compromiso<\/a>. That\u2019s something that can be temporary but it also can be terminal.<\/p>\n

If you think it\u2019s temporary, avoid mentioning the topic. Give him time to get there all by himself. If it\u2019s terminal, you have probably already given him more than enough time.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 claro que no est\u00e1is de acuerdo sobre el rumbo de vuestra relaci\u00f3n. As\u00ed que lo mejor que puedes hacer es no perder m\u00e1s tiempo.<\/p>\n

7. Te pide tiempo para rehacer su vida.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Lo peor de todo es que hace todas esas promesas y lo \u00fanico que quiere es tiempo. T\u00fa le apoyas y sigues esperando a que llegue el d\u00eda en que recupere su vida, pero la triste realidad es que nunca lo hace.<\/p>\n

Puede que tenga una vida desordenada y problemas que cree que har\u00edan que una relaci\u00f3n fuera mal. Pero, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, no es m\u00e1s que una buena excusa para hacerte esperar.<\/p>\n

Si ves que no hace ning\u00fan esfuerzo por cambiar su situaci\u00f3n y no progresa, lo m\u00e1s probable es que nunca lo haga.<\/p>\n

8. He wants out but he doesn\u2019t want to hurt your feelings.<\/span><\/h2>\n

La mejor manera de ver que esto est\u00e1 ocurriendo es cuando \u00e9l cambia dr\u00e1sticamente. Pone excusas y siempre est\u00e1 ocupado para verte.<\/p>\n

Ya no te manda tantos mensajes como antes. Desaparece y pasan los d\u00edas sin ning\u00fan contacto. Y lo \u00fanico que te ofrece cuando vuelve son excusas poco convincentes.<\/p>\n

He might be lacking the strength to tell you that he doesn\u2019t feel the same anymore. He doesn\u2019t want to hurt you but he is doing it anyway.<\/p>\n

Be open and honest with him and tell him that this situation is making you sad. See if there is any point in staying and working things out. Don\u2019t let the situation go any further.<\/p>\n

9. Promete que cambiar\u00e1, pero nunca lo hace.<\/span><\/h2>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to lose you, so he makes all these promises about how he will treat you better, how he will change his behavior, how he will put more effort into your relationship and try to be a better man.<\/p>\n

Pero, has o\u00eddo esta historia demasiadas veces y nada cambia<\/a>. La triste verdad es que nunca nada lo har\u00e1.<\/p>\n

He has had enough chances. Don\u2019t stay in a bad situation in the hope things will change.<\/p>\n

10. Usted es el \u00fanico que invierte.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Eres el \u00fanico que se entrega en cuerpo y alma a la relaci\u00f3n. Lo haces lo mejor que puedes, pero todos tus esfuerzos son en vano.<\/p>\n

Pasan desapercibidos. Y la otra persona est\u00e1 acostumbrada a recibir cosas sin dar nada a cambio.<\/p>\n

Las relaciones unilaterales nunca funcionan. Deja de dar lo mejor de ti a la persona equivocada. Qui\u00e9rete lo suficiente como para alejarte cuando las cosas no te hagan feliz ni te amen.<\/p>\n

When you are underappreciated and poorly treated. You deserve the world\u2014don\u2019t settle for anything less.<\/p>\n

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