{"id":13852,"date":"2020-08-05T12:34:50","date_gmt":"2020-08-05T12:34:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13852"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:01:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:01:31","slug":"nunca-baja-la-guardia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-baja-la-guardia\/","title":{"rendered":"Por eso nunca baja la guardia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nadie la culpar\u00eda si supiera por lo que ha pasado.<\/p>\n

No one would say that she\u2019s weird or that she\u2019s afraid of commitment. No one would talk behind her back if they knew what he did to her.<\/p>\n

You should know that she is very afraid\u2014no, more than that: she is aterrorizada de amor<\/a>. Don\u2019t blame her for that because it\u2019s not her fault.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not her fault that she never saw what true love is. It\u2019s not her fault that she met a jerk who took advantage of her.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not her fault that he took her for granted because he was too selfish and only wanted to please himself. He pretended he loved her because he wanted to have her all to himself.<\/p>\n

Era demasiado cobarde para admitir que ten\u00eda miedo de estar solo. So, he used her and rejected her when he didn\u2019t need her anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La rechaz\u00f3 y la dej\u00f3 de lado como si nunca hubiera significado nada para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Aunque ella le dio todo de s\u00ed misma, aunque invirti\u00f3 en su relaci\u00f3n y la aliment\u00f3 porque cre\u00eda que durar\u00eda para siempre, \u00e9l le dio la espalda, dej\u00e1ndola rota<\/a> y solo.<\/p>\n

He tortured her by distancing himself bit by bit. He was never man enough to own up to his mistakes. He didn\u2019t have the guts to tell her he doesn\u2019t love her anymore.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que sab\u00eda hacer era apartarla poco a poco de su vida sin explicaci\u00f3n alguna.<\/p>\n

Nunca tuvo la cierre<\/a> que se merec\u00eda. Nunca tuvo la oportunidad de seguir adelante pac\u00edficamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La destruy\u00f3 actuando como si se preocupara por ella. Cada vez que ella estaba herida y necesitaba que \u00e9l estuviera a su lado, \u00e9l nunca estaba.<\/p>\n

Cuando ella se ahogaba en l\u00e1grimas, \u00e9l ten\u00eda algo m\u00e1s importante que hacer. Nunca tuvo ning\u00fan apoyo. Ten\u00eda que pasar por todo ella sola.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And the saddest part is that she got used to it.  He hurt her because he didn\u2019t respect her. The only words which meant something were his own.<\/p>\n

She never had a chance to speak her mind and even when she did, he didn\u2019t listen to her. He pretended he did, but her words turned into mumbling sounds\u2014they meant nothing.<\/p>\n

Se atrevi\u00f3 a darle largas como a una tonta y luego dejarla, al final, vagando como un cachorro perdido por las calles, confundida y sola.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she never lets her guard down.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s afraid to be vulnerable because every time she opened up to him, he turned away and hurt her even more.<\/p>\n

Every time she tried to get near him and share her pain, he showed her that he couldn\u2019t care less. Now she has locked her heart and sealed the doors so no one can ever enter.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s afraid to make the first move because she is scared to death. When she sees someone she likes, she\u2019ll back down because she doesn\u2019t want history to repeat itself.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t even want to give him a chance to prove that he won\u2019t treat her like she was treated in the past.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll walk away, knowing she might miss her chance for happiness, but her fear is way bigger than her bravery to make a move.<\/p>\n

Tiene miedo de las despedidas sin una palabra porque \u00e9l nunca le dio un cierre. Nunca le dio una verdadera raz\u00f3n de por qu\u00e9 le hizo esto.<\/p>\n

He never gave her a real reason why he stopped loving her. Actually, she isn\u2019t sure that he loved her at all.<\/p>\n

Teme que la gente cambie de opini\u00f3n por su pasado. Al principio, jur\u00f3 por su vida que la amaba. Quer\u00eda darle el mundo.<\/p>\n

He made her think that she was the most beautiful person in the world and then he took it all from her\u2014just like that without any warning.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

She\u2019s afraid that someone will get to know her better and reject her because they don\u2019t like what they see.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want to change for anyone’s sake because she knows she is perfectly fine just the way she is.<\/p>\n

Ella sabe se merece algo mejor<\/a>pero tiene miedo de aceptarlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And finally, she is tired of people trying to change her and that\u2019s the reason she keeps them out of her reach.<\/p>\n

She wants to stay true to herself and if someone doesn\u2019t like it, it\u2019s not her problem.<\/p>\n

She appears confident and strong, but actually, she is falling apart from the inside. Every day when she gets up, she puts on her smile like she puts on her clothes. It\u2019s all fake.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t feel like smiling, but she has to, otherwise, her fear would eat her alive.<\/p>\n

\"Por<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No one would blame her if they knew what she has been through. No one would say that she\u2019s weird or that she\u2019s afraid of commitment. No one would talk behind her back if they knew what he did to her. You should know that she is very afraid\u2014no, more than that: she is terrified…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121455,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13852","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-Why-She-Never-Lets-Her-Guard-Down-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13852","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13852"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13852\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121455"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13852"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13852"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13852"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}