Si has estado desplaz\u00e1ndote por TikTok en los \u00faltimos d\u00edas, seguro que te has topado con los v\u00eddeos de Esther Perel hablando sobre relaciones de pareja.<\/p>\n
S\u00e9 que me hizo cuestionar todo lo que cre\u00eda saber sobre el amor y las relaciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n But let me give you a brief intro for those of you who have no idea what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n Esther Perel es una psicoterapeuta belga experta en relaciones. Entre otras cosas, aborda dos necesidades humanas aparentemente enfrentadas: la necesidad de seguridad y la necesidad de libertad.<\/p>\n En realidad, explorar la paradoja central del amor es lo que la hizo famosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLove rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness. One does not exist without the other. With too much distance, there can be no connection. But too much merging eradicates the separateness of two distinct individuals.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n Pero no fue por esto por lo que empez\u00f3 a ser tendencia.<\/p>\n A few days ago, TheMindHub posted several short clips of Esthel\u2019s 2017 interview on the Scandinavian talk show Skavlan, where the expert explains the psychology behind cheating, breaks the \u201cone and only\u201d myth, and gives us some hard truths about romantic love.<\/p>\n Ever since TheMindHub revived the interview, the hashtag with the therapist\u2019s name has reached 19,2M views. And the numbers continue to grow.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, what\u2019s so special about Esther Perel\u2019s views on relationships?<\/p>\n He aqu\u00ed una p\u00edldora dif\u00edcil de tragar: you don\u2019t have to spend the rest of your life with one person. The concept of \u201cone and only\u201d is outdated and doesn\u2019t work so well in practice.<\/strong><\/p>\nInformaci\u00f3n general<\/h2>\n
La idea de una persona para siempre<\/h2>\n
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