{"id":138711,"date":"2021-11-19T18:31:12","date_gmt":"2021-11-19T18:31:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=138711"},"modified":"2022-07-05T09:57:33","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T09:57:33","slug":"entender-a-un-hombre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/entender-a-un-hombre\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfC\u00f3mo entender a un hombre? Consejos para una relaci\u00f3n que cambia el juego"},"content":{"rendered":"

We always hear it… the famous phrase ”Los hombres son tan simples.<\/em>” We lead our lives believing this lie and confining men within the boundaries of their gender.<\/p>\n

Did you forget that they’re human beings first?<\/strong> Son tan complejas como cualquiera de nosotras, las mujeres.<\/p>\n

What do I mean by this? How can you understand a man? How can you know he’s the one for you?<\/em><\/p>\n

So many questions and the answers seem so out of reach… but they’re not. If you keep reading, you will have them all\u2026 and much more!<\/p>\n

How Do You Read A Man’s Mind?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You can’t read a man’s mind any more than they can read yours.<\/p>\n

We’re not sorcerers with superpowers, just human beings who can’t know what the other is feeling unless we ask them.<\/p>\n

Yes, that’s right. If you want to know a man’s thoughts, there is no other way but to openly comunicarse con ellos<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know that scares you because we are used to repressing our feelings and acting like they don’t matter. But, they do. Your peace of mind is of primary importance, and it’s actually your duty to achieve it.<\/p>\n

So, the next time you’re having doubts about a man, share them. What’ve you got to lose?<\/em> El \u00fanico resultado podr\u00eda ser una relaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s amorosa (a menos que he’s too immature<\/a>).<\/p>\n

If you’re not in a relationship, though, you can still follow the same principle. Communication is ALWAYS key.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa que te llame nena? (13 posibles razones)<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo entender a un hombre? Consejos a tener en cuenta<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Para entender a un hombre, necesitas dos cosas: una mente abierta y empat\u00eda.<\/em> Don’t stick to your old beliefs but rather expand your horizons and truly try to understand what’s hiding beneath the surface.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now that we’ve established that, here’s what you need to know about the true nature of a man and how you need to act with him:<\/p>\n

Nacido para ser tu superh\u00e9roe<\/h3>\n

\u00bfHas notado cu\u00e1nto disfruta un hombre arregl\u00e1ndote cosas?<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00bfTe has dado cuenta de lo satisfecho que se siente cuando cuida de ti?<\/em><\/p>\n

Bueno, eso se llama instinto de h\u00e9roe<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Esencialmente, a los hombres se les ense\u00f1a que su papel en la vida es ser tu cuidador. Cuando no pueden ayudarte en todo lo que deseas, se sienten fracasados.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Voces del pasado resuenan en sus o\u00eddos y les dicen: ”One day, you’re going to get married, and you’re going to have to provide for your wife.”<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s difficult to abandon your core beliefs. What they tell men in childhood, that’s who they’re going to be. And I’m sure we know what’s expected of each gender.<\/p>\n

Even when they know how wrong these expectations are, it is still engraved in their minds, and they can’t just change overnight.<\/p>\n

Cuando intentes comprender a un hombre, ten esto en cuenta y ay\u00fadale a superarlo. Pero, bajo ning\u00fan concepto, satisfagas sus deseos grandiosos de ser tu h\u00e9roe. T\u00fa eres tu propio h\u00e9roe. No lo olvides nunca.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vino, vio, venci\u00f3<\/h3>\n

What men want most is victory. It doesn’t matter what the final prize is as long as they have it. It can be a job promotion…or you.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 es importante?<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, it’s because the things men do aren’t without an explanation or cause. And, if they have a cause, they can be stopped.<\/p>\n

Now, don’t get me wrong. Being ambitious and wanting to win is great. However, if this becomes their primary drive in life, that’s a problem.<\/p>\n

You wouldn’t want to be one of his prizes, right? I’m sure you had another label in mind.<\/p>\n

Well, then understand that this, too, stems from the childhood stories they listened to. You can help him understand that it’s okay to take it slow sometimes and that losing won’t make him weak.<\/p>\n

Encourage him to be his best self but also remind him that he has nothing to prove and that he’s enough as he is.<\/p>\n

Un libro cerrado<\/h3>\n

Los hombres tienden a ocultan sus sentimientos<\/a>, but no, it’s not in their nature. It’s the result of a traumatic upbringing that made them learn to invalidate themselves.<\/p>\n

You will never hear them complain. They solve their issues internally without your help. They might even call you dramatic for expressing your feelings, but they secretly hate that they’re not as brave as you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 se puede hacer?<\/em><\/p>\n

Pues empieza por abrirte a \u00e9l. Hazle ver que vulnerabilidad emocional<\/a> isn’t such a frightening thing. Then, encourage him to do the same.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to do this directly. You can do it through your actions. Pero, bajo ning\u00fan concepto, le ridiculices si expresa sus emociones.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00e1s bien hazle preguntas y demu\u00e9strale que le entiendes. Ambos le ayudar\u00e9is y har\u00e9is que vuestra relaci\u00f3n sea m\u00e1s significativa.<\/p>\n

Men don’t have to be ‘manly’<\/h3>\n

\"hombres<\/p>\n

Are you the type of woman who judges a man when he’s emotional?<\/em><\/p>\n

Do you tell him he’s weak?<\/em><\/p>\n

If so, I hate to break it to you, but that’s not the wisest choice of words. It just le hace sentirse inseguro<\/a>, so don’t be surprised if you start fighting or if he distances himself.<\/p>\n

All their lives, men hear how they have to ‘toughen up.’ They aren’t even allowed to have a bad day without someone telling them that’s not a very ‘manly thing’ to do.<\/p>\n

Al final, ese se convierte en su \u00fanico deseo, y esto se llama masculinidad t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Well, guess what? It is the right of each man and woman to embrace their feelings. Neither is supposed to be only ‘manly’ or only ‘feminine.’<\/strong><\/p>\n

Men are not from Mars, and women are not from Venus. Men don’t have to like video games, and women don’t have to be fragile. They are both allowed to mix it up.<\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, we’re human, aren’t we? Our gender doesn’t matter much. So, the next time you feel like you’re about to utter something so hurtful, stop and think it through.<\/p>\n

Wanting to understand a man isn\u2019t the same thing as carefully observing what made him who he is and gently remedying the harmful effects.<\/p>\n

What’s in the box?<\/h3>\n

Well, it’s not the remains of Brad Pitt’s wife, but neither is your man.<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que quieres que te revele la verdad. \u00bfC\u00f3mo entender realmente a un hombre? Pero, la \u00fanica verdad es esta: Each man is different, and you can’t put them in a single box.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Algunos son machos alfa y otros t\u00edmidos. Algunos se te acercan solo para jugar contigo, y otros quieren compromiso.<\/p>\n

They DO NOT possess the same wishes and needs as many have made you believe. If you can’t figure your man out, try talking to him. Or, simply analyze what’s there in front of you.<\/p>\n

Don’t hold onto stereotypes because, trust me, they will not help you. You will only end up feeding your mind with falsehoods, which will make you unnecessarily miserable.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, conf\u00eda en tu capacidad de pensamiento cr\u00edtico, intuici\u00f3n y empat\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Remember \u2013 Aunque existen ciertas similitudes, al igual que con las mujeres, cada hombre es un individuo. Tr\u00e1telos como tales.<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfPuede un hombre acostarse con una mujer sin desarrollar sentimientos?<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que un hombre te entienda?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Well, you can’t magically achieve that.<\/em><\/p>\n

Los dos sois adultos perfectamente capaces de solucionar las cosas. As\u00ed que, en lugar de quejarte de \u00e9l con tus amigos y buscar respuestas en internet, haz esto:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Calmly explain to him why you’re upset.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Remember that you’re seeking a solution, not more problems.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Listen to his side of the story.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Both of you clearly state your needs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Take accountability for your actions.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Actively work to become better partners.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si tiene un pareja evasiva<\/a>, though, you’re going to have to approach the matter with a little more caution and empathy.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si un hombre es para ti?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

We all have our doubts. It’s not strange to question the love we have for someone or the love someone has for us.<\/p>\n

So, if you’re unsure whether the guy in front of you is the right one, here are some signs that will help you with that:<\/p>\n

1. No hay necesidad de fingir.<\/h3>\n

S\u00e9 que a menudo reprimes partes de ti misma para atraer a los hombres. Pero, cuando finalmente encuentras una buena<\/a>no es necesario.<\/p>\n

No hay se\u00f1ales contradictorias<\/a>, and you are finally able to be who you are, and so is he. You celebrate each other’s differences and enjoy what you have in common.<\/p>\n

Tus bromas siempre se entienden, tus sentimientos nunca se juzgan y cada palabra que dices se aprecia como un evangelio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Todos estos son signos de que un hombre te ama de verdad<\/a>.<\/p>\n

2. Emoci\u00f3n imperecedera.<\/h3>\n

I’m sure you’ve all felt it…the overwhelming enthusiasm that their presence brings. You can’t get the smile off of your face. It lights up each second you’re with him.<\/p>\n

Puedes sentir que he’s attracted to you<\/a>. La qu\u00edmica es incomparable, y la contacto visual prolongado<\/a> makes you feel like this is what you’ve been waiting for all your life. Su lenguaje corporal<\/a> says it, too. Also, you can’t wait to choose a perfectly novio lindo nombre de contacto <\/a>para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

He’s not one to change after the honeymoon phase but rather makes the whole relationship a fase de luna de miel<\/a>.<\/p>\n

That’s how you know he’s the right man for you.<\/p>\n

3. Una mente que rechaza a todos los dem\u00e1s.<\/h3>\n

Do you know that line from Lana Del Rey\u2019s song: ‘‘Why wait for the best when I could have you?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, if you’ve found a high-value guy, you know exactly what she’s talking about.<\/p>\n

When that happens, you don’t care that le caes bien a tu compa\u00f1ero de trabajo<\/a> ni que tu amigo est\u00e1 secretamente enamorado de ti<\/a>. You don’t see any of them.<\/p>\n

You feel like you’ve found what you’ve been looking for for so long. Why, then, would you look elsewhere?<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. La amistad en llamas.<\/h3>\n

If you’re in a long-term relationship, I’m sure you’ll agree with me that friendship is what truly makes it special. Yes, atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica<\/a> is important, but that’s not what makes it last.<\/p>\n

If you’re not able to have fun as friends and share intimate thoughts with each other, then what’s the point?<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, if you’ve found a true friend in a man, I assure you that you’ve also found the perfect partner.<\/p>\n

5. Un alma que reconoce lo que busc\u00f3.<\/h3>\n

Realmente sientes cuando un hombre es el adecuado para ti, a veces incluso despu\u00e9s de la primera cita... Hay una conexi\u00f3n inexplicable que nadie ni nada es capaz de romper. Por primera vez en tu vida, te sientes segura y comprendida.<\/p>\n

With other guys, there were always barriers you never dared to cross, but with him, those barriers don’t exist.<\/strong> You are drawn to each other to the point where you merge. If you feel this way, that’s your sign.<\/p>\n

P.S. If you still haven’t found a guy who has made you feel the things described above, try reading ”To Date a Man, You Must Understand a Man: The Keys to Catch a Great Guy (Dating and Relationship Advice for Women).\u2019\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n

Another great book to help you understand a man better is ”Power Texting Men,” and both are written by Gregg Michaelsen, a relationship expert.<\/em><\/p>\n

De este modo, aumentar\u00e1s tus posibilidades de entablar una relaci\u00f3n seria con un hombre.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que un hombre se d\u00e9 cuenta de que ha cometido un error?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00edselo.<\/em><\/p>\n

How can he realize that he made a mistake if you don’t let him know? You can’t be mad with someone over something they have no clue about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Este es uno de los mayores errores que cometen las mujeres. Olvidan que una buena comunicaci\u00f3n es signo de una relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>. As\u00ed que s\u00e9 t\u00fa quien lo practique. H\u00e1blalo y ve d\u00f3nde est\u00e1 el problema.<\/p>\n

If he refuses to accept the blame even after all your efforts, then I’m afraid that’s a major red flag. If he doesn’t respect you enough to take your feelings into consideration, he is just bad news.<\/em><\/p>\n

Odio decirte esto, pero lo mejor ser\u00eda que te fueras.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if he’s willing to put in the necessary work to remedy what he has done, he’s an hombre emocionalmente maduro<\/a> que siempre debes apreciar.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que un chico te eche de menos?<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfEst\u00e1s deseando recuperar a tu ex? O, \u00bfest\u00e1s enamorada de un chico que de repente dej\u00f3 de enviarte mensajes<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Si de m\u00ed dependiera, te dir\u00eda que un chico que te rechaza<\/a> isn’t worthy of your efforts.<\/p>\n

But, since it’s not, I am here to show you that not all hope is lost. Here are some pieces of dating advice that will make him rush back to you immediately:<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 el alma de la fiesta<\/h3>\n

Por alguna extra\u00f1a raz\u00f3n, los chicos a menudo distanciarse tras la intimidad<\/a>, so if you want him to miss you, you have to show him that you’re having a great time without him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, go out with your friends, travel to new cities, and post pictures to show him that you don’t really need him. Also, don’t text him and he will text you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Se acercar\u00e1 a ti por dos razones:<\/p>\n

1. He can’t stand that you’ve forgotten all about him.<\/p>\n

2. He’s attracted to your energetic spirit and wants to be a part of your life.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, t\u00fa ganas.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 14 cosas inteligentes que hacer cuando no te contesta en d\u00edas<\/a><\/p>\n

Trabaja tu viejo encanto<\/h3>\n

A veces, los hombres se alejan porque s\u00f3lo necesito algo de espacio<\/a>. It’s not necessarily over. But, we don’t have time for such analysis.<\/p>\n

If you want to win him back, it’s essential that you acentuar todo lo que hizo que se enamorara de ti en primer lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEra tu personalidad juguetona? \u00bfO tu car\u00e1cter obstinado?<\/em><\/p>\n

Whatever it was, make sure that you bring back the old you to help you seduce him. Join forces and remind him of what he lost. He’ll come right back knocking at your door!<\/p>\n

Or, if you’re too impatient, just dile que te gusta<\/a>. You’ve got nothing to lose.<\/p>\n

Mu\u00e9strale que tienes opciones<\/h3>\n

Tal vez he doesn’t want a relationship with you<\/a> en este momento, pero a\u00fan puede ser motivado a cambiar de opini\u00f3n, \u00a1y nada puede motivar m\u00e1s a un hombre que la presencia de otro hombre!<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si\u00e9ntete libre de ser un poco coqueta y de hazte el duro<\/a>, or if you dislike playing games, then simply mention how many suitors you have when he’s around.<\/p>\n

You will notice that he’s paying attention because he just can’t stand the competition! Que otro te tenga es a\u00fan peor que no tenerte.<\/strong> Un poco raro, pero es lo que hay.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is that if you make him jealous, you’ve done half the job of winning him back!<\/p>\n

Tip: While it’s valid to act on your feelings, you also need to understand the importance of mutual effort. If he doesn’t try at all, then maybe it’s time to finally let go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Saber cu\u00e1ndo alejarse<\/h3>\n

Un hombre usar\u00e1 muchos estrategias furtivas y manipuladoras<\/a> para seducirte. Aprende a reconocerlos en lugar de ceder a su poder porque he’s just playing you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 sincero contigo mismo. Un hombre que quiere estar contigo<\/a> WILL be with you. It’s that simple. Move on and find someone who will truly appreciate you instead of focusing on a guy who won’t even lift a finger.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hago que se d\u00e9 cuenta de mi valor?<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Pues empieza por darte cuenta t\u00fa mismo.<\/em><\/p>\n

If he disrespects you often, don’t make excuses for him. Demand the respect you give him. Granted, if he were a quality man who really cared about you, you wouldn’t have to tell him any of this. But alright, we are only human after all.<\/p>\n

Establecer l\u00edmites<\/h3>\n

Let him know what is okay to do and what is not. Let him do the same. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you are each other’s slaves. That’s not what boundaries are.<\/p>\n

Los l\u00edmites s\u00f3lo existen para que pod\u00e1is mantener una relaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s sana. Antes de ser compa\u00f1eros, sois individuos con necesidades distintas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is why it’s crucial to state them instead of just hoping that your partner will fulfill them without even knowing what they are.<\/p>\n

Now, I know I’m no dating coach, but here’s an honest piece of advice: Nunca tendr\u00e1s que demostrar tu val\u00eda a una mujer o un hombre que te quiera de verdad<\/a>. Te apreciar\u00e1n sin necesidad de que se lo digas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Conclusi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

In order to understand a man, you need to look at him with unbiased eyes. Don’t put him in a box with the rest of them but rather see him for the individual he is.<\/p>\n

If you have a problem, say what it is clearly. It won’t disappear until you face it together. But, remember \u2013 no se trata de vosotros contra vosotros, sino de vosotros contra el problema.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si notas que un hombre no tiene inter\u00e9s en contribuir a la relaci\u00f3n, qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo<\/a> lo suficiente como para marcharse.<\/p>\n

Every woman needs and deserves a great love story, so don’t settle for less.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We always hear it… the famous phrase ”Men are so simple.” We lead our lives believing this lie and confining men within the boundaries of their gender. Did you forget that they’re human beings first? They are just as complex as any of us women. What do I mean by this? How can you understand…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":138712,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-138711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/How-Do-You-Understand-A-Man-Game-Changing-Relationship-Advice-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=138711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/138712"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=138711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=138711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=138711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}