{"id":13889,"date":"2020-03-06T09:37:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-06T09:37:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13889"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:52:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:52:20","slug":"5-juegos-mentales-que-los-hombres-emocionalmente-inseguros-hacen-a-las-mujeres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-juegos-mentales-que-los-hombres-emocionalmente-inseguros-hacen-a-las-mujeres\/","title":{"rendered":"5 juegos mentales que los hombres emocionalmente inseguros hacen a las mujeres"},"content":{"rendered":"

Los hombres inseguros son los m\u00e1s peligrosos porque intentan ocultar su inseguridad mediante la manipulaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

They are frustrated because they don\u2019t believe in themselves, so they seek their emotional strength through hurting you.<\/p>\n

Cuando te tienen bajo su control, da sentido a su vida, y creen que controlan algo, o en este caso a ti, lo que les hace sentirse importantes.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

At first, you can\u2019t see through their insecurities because they hide them so well and you fall into their trap. When he starts showing his true face, you don\u2019t get it either, not at first.<\/p>\n

Sabes que tiene algunos problemas e incluso puedes pensar que est\u00e1 un poco perdido y que necesita que le orienten.<\/p>\n

You think you can change him and show him the right way, but you don\u2019t, you can\u2019t. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nunca cambiar\u00e1 mientras est\u00e9 descontento consigo mismo y la \u00fanica persona que puede cambiar eso es \u00e9l y no t\u00fa.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

So, you end up hurt, crying yourself to sleep because you decided to give him a chance and he took it and manipulated you into oblivion. He made you act the way he wanted and you didn\u2019t even realize it.<\/p>\n

Usted fue jugado como un tonto por un maestro manipulador<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Para evitar que esto vuelva a suceder, para ahorrarse el dolor y las l\u00e1grimas desperdiciadas, lea sobre estas manipulaciones que los hombres emocionalmente inseguros infligen para culparla de quedarse con ellos:<\/p>\n

Te culpan<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Te culpa porque carece de autoestima, as\u00ed que lo hace sobre ti y te culpa s\u00f3lo para quitarse la atenci\u00f3n de encima.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to face his own mistakes, so he tricks you into facing your own.<\/p>\n

Este es un tipo cl\u00e1sico de abuso emocional porque las palabras duelen y a veces duelen incluso m\u00e1s que los actos.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

When this happens, it\u2019s best to get out of the conversation or don\u2019t even let him into the situation to manage to culparte de nada<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This can be exhausting and it\u2019s best to find consolation with your friends. Seek their advice and don\u2019t let him corner you to attack you.<\/p>\n

They play \u2018the bait and switch\u2019 game<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando discut\u00e1is, sacar\u00e1 la artiller\u00eda pesada y le dar\u00e1 la vuelta a la discusi\u00f3n, convirti\u00e9ndote en la principal fuente del problema.<\/p>\n

Te culpar\u00e1 a ti, aunque no hayas hecho nada malo.<\/p>\n

De esta manera, te manipula para que hagas lo que \u00e9l quiere y que quer\u00eda desde el principio.<\/p>\n

At some point, you\u2019ll get tired of arguing and you\u2019re going to back down just because you don\u2019t want to defend yourself anymore and you\u2019ll try to prove to him that you are not guilty of anything.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Never back down if you are right. Don\u2019t let someone make your life miserable.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t be with him, then leave him because you obviously weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\n

You deserve to be happy and his manipulations will make you miserable and it won\u2019t stop, ever.<\/p>\n

Te averg\u00fcenzan<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Avergonzar a alguien puede ser extremadamente peligroso, pero tambi\u00e9n tiene un giro totalmente distinto.<\/p>\n

La persona que averg\u00fcenza a alguien lo hace por su propia inseguridad.<\/p>\n

Por eso te menospreciar\u00e1 y te avergonzar\u00e1 para que te sientas como una mierda.<\/p>\n

The thing is, he is doing this to you because he doesn\u2019t want you to see that you are better than him. He is afraid that you\u2019re going to leave him if you realize this.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Never give him the satisfaction of making you feel like crap. Don\u2019t give him a chance to make you dependent on him.<\/p>\n

Eres una mujer fuerte e independiente y no necesitas a nadie en absoluto.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 t\u00fa mismo y don\u2019t let anyone put you down<\/a>. Try to distance yourself from his shaming and don\u2019t let it bother you.<\/p>\n

If this starts happening on a regular basis, just leave him because let\u2019s face it, you don\u2019t need him.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo act\u00faan como idiotas<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Crees que es el chico perfecto que te trata como a una princesa. Crees que quiere darte el mundo, o al menos act\u00faa as\u00ed cuando est\u00e1is solos, pero en el momento en que sales con \u00e9l y cuando est\u00e1s rodeada de sus amigos, se convierte en un completo D-bag.<\/p>\n

He becomes obnoxious and you don\u2019t even recognize him. He does this to cover up his insecurities, as he feels like a bigger man when he puts someone down in front of others.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Advi\u00e9rtele y habla con \u00e9l de ello. Dile c\u00f3mo te sientes cuando te hace eso.<\/p>\n

Give him a chance to correct his behavior and if he does it again, just leave. You don\u2019t need that in your life.<\/p>\n

They play \u2018the roller coaster\u2019 with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say that he\u2019s taken you out on a dinner or to a movie, or you stayed at home, but you talked and had fun.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter where you were, the important thing is that you enjoyed each other\u2019s company.<\/p>\n

Bueno, al d\u00eda siguiente se comporta super raro y act\u00faa como si algo hubiera ido mal cuando estabais juntos.<\/p>\n

Esto hace que parezca que no est\u00e1 seguro de lo que piensa de ti, o de si le gustas.<\/p>\n

You will try and wrap your head around this, and you\u2019ll wonder where it all went wrong.<\/p>\n

By doing so, you\u2019re giving him all the attention he didn\u2019t deserve because he tricked you into giving it to him.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Talk to him once again. Ask him why he\u2019s acting like that, and if he needs someone to talk to.<\/p>\n

Si acepta, estupendo. Probablemente tenga un verdadero problema y quiera tu ayuda.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si se niega de forma sarc\u00e1stica, d\u00e9jalo porque no es m\u00e1s que un inseguro buscador de atenci\u00f3n que se pasar\u00e1 el resto de su vida manipul\u00e1ndote para que le quieras.<\/p>\n

If you like Maria\u2019s work, check out her new book, \u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n

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