{"id":13930,"date":"2020-11-06T11:43:34","date_gmt":"2020-11-06T11:43:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13930"},"modified":"2021-11-03T16:01:40","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T16:01:40","slug":"signos-relacion-pasiva-agresiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/signos-relacion-pasiva-agresiva\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n pasivo-agresiva"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you are dealing with passive-aggression in a relationship, you will notice that whatever your partner says doesn\u2019t match his behavior. He will say, \u201cI\u2019m fine,\u201d yet in his behavior, you will be able to detect a dose of repressed anger.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cada vez que intentas mantener una conversaci\u00f3n abierta y sincera con \u00e9l, chocas contra un muro de piedra. Parece in\u00fatil intentar que se abra y te diga lo que siente de verdad.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Es agresivo de forma encubierta. Nunca mostrar\u00e1 abiertamente su frustraci\u00f3n ni admitir\u00e1 que alguien le ha hecho enfadar.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta mantener la calma y la serenidad, pero su comportamiento es totalmente distinto. Se le nota la negatividad y la rabia por mucho que intente disimularlas.<\/p>\n<p><em>Las cosas que hace una persona pasivo-agresiva tienen algunas similitudes con las de un narcisista encubierto. Sin embargo, un <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/communication-success\/201601\/7-signs-covert-introvert-narcissist\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">narcisista encubierto<\/a> llevar\u00e1 las cosas al extremo de una forma mucho m\u00e1s t\u00f3xica.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Estas son algunas se\u00f1ales de que podr\u00eda estar en una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/pasivo-agresivo\/\">relaci\u00f3n pasivo-agresiva<\/a>:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Prefieren mantener las distancias a admitir que est\u00e1n enfadados.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123619 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre serio con barba se sienta en el sof\u00e1 y piensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-bearded-man-sits-on-the-sofa-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t have an honest and open conversation with them. They will keep their distance rather than tell you what the issue is. They never admit that they are angry.<\/p>\n<p>Prefieren guard\u00e1rselo todo antes que cont\u00e1rtelo todo. Te dir\u00e1n que est\u00e1n bien aunque est\u00e9n lejos de estarlo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tienen sus peque\u00f1as t\u00e1cticas para sentirse superiores.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123623 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"un afroamericano descansa en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-African-American-is-resting-in-a-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nunca hacen lo que dicen que har\u00e1n. Siempre te dejan esperando algo. Esperas a que te llamen o te env\u00eden un mensaje de texto, pero nunca lo hacen cuando dicen que lo har\u00e1n, lo posponen y se toman su tiempo porque saben que lo est\u00e1s esperando.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n esperan mucho antes de responderte. Llegan tarde a prop\u00f3sito, as\u00ed que siempre eres t\u00fa quien espera.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Evitan los conflictos.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123626 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"una atractiva pareja en la casa est\u00e1 discutiendo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/an-attractive-couple-in-the-house-is-arguing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Har\u00edan cualquier cosa por evitar una pelea, una confrontaci\u00f3n o cualquier tipo de discusi\u00f3n conflictiva. Prefieren estar de acuerdo con todo lo que dices que mostrar abiertamente su desaprobaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que incluso te culpen de algo, pero nunca esperes que sean sinceros al respecto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Te culpan de todo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123627 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre grita a una mujer triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-man-yells-at-a-sad-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te manipulan para que pienses que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/odio-hacer-sentir-culpa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">todo lo malo es culpa tuya<\/a>. They convince you that you are the one to blame even when you know that\u2019s far from the truth. They will even use mild language to get what they want. That&#8217;s how you know that you&#8217;re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/toxic-relationship\/\">relaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They forget everything that doesn\u2019t have a direct connection to them.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123629 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns.jpg\" alt=\"la morena se sienta y se lamenta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-brunette-sits-and-mourns-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Like your birthday, a dinner date, something they said they would do but they never got around to actually doing and similar stuff. That\u2019s because deep down, nothing is more important than them. In the end, you end up frustrated.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Puede que desaprueben algo, pero nunca ofrecen una soluci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123631 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy.jpg\" alt=\"la chica suplica al chico enfadado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/the-girl-begs-the-angry-boy-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They won\u2019t hesitate to say no to your plans for a weekend getaway, a new place to stay, a night on the town or suchlike, but they won\u2019t bother explaining their viewpoint or offer some kind of solution to the matter.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Utilizan comentarios hirientes disfrazados de cumplidos.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123633 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"una pareja cari\u00f1osa sentada en un biplaza y hablando\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-a-two-seater-and-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Recurren al sarcasmo para expresar su resentimiento. Suelen decir una cosa y la contraria. Y por muy bien que envuelvan los insultos en cumplidos, en esencia ser\u00e1n muy hirientes.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not easy to deal with a person who is passive-aggressive, let alone be involved with one. Don\u2019t try to give him a taste of his own medicine, as it will only make things worse.<\/p>\n<p>He will just deny everything and take the role of a victim. Not to mention that by acting like him you are risking becoming just like him, and that\u2019s something you surely don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to change him either. He can only change if he is aware of his passive-aggressive behavior and if he wants to change.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes decirle que sus sentimientos ocultos no te llevan a ninguna parte, pero lo m\u00e1s probable es que se niegue a escucharte. Mantente a salvo t\u00fa y tus emociones. Si ves que no cambia, lo mejor que puedes hacer es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-trato-de-llamar-la-atencion-realmente-me-alejo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">al\u00e9jate de \u00e9l<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123637 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Signs-You-Are-In-A-Passive-Aggressive-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 se\u00f1ales de que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n pasivo-agresiva\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Signs-You-Are-In-A-Passive-Aggressive-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Signs-You-Are-In-A-Passive-Aggressive-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Signs-You-Are-In-A-Passive-Aggressive-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Signs-You-Are-In-A-Passive-Aggressive-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Signs-You-Are-In-A-Passive-Aggressive-Relationship-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you are dealing with passive-aggression in a relationship, you will notice that whatever your partner says doesn\u2019t match his behavior. He will say, \u201cI\u2019m fine,\u201d yet in his behavior, you will be able to detect a dose of repressed anger. Every time you try to have an open and honest conversation with him, you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":123616,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13930","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Signs-You-Are-In-A-Passive-Aggressive-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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