{"id":14014,"date":"2020-10-07T10:52:59","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T10:52:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14014"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:04:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:04:34","slug":"7-cosas-que-alejaran-a-un-hombre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-alejaran-a-un-hombre\/","title":{"rendered":"Si haces estas 7 cosas alejar\u00e1s a tu hombre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Has it ever happened to you that you met someone and you had a good time, but after a while, he just disappeared? You didn\u2019t have a clue why he stopped answering your texts all of a sudden. You had no idea what was going on since you had such a good time together.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 fantasma que<\/a>?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s only natural that we always blame the other one for losing interest all of a sudden. He is a jerk; he is an idiot that isn\u2019t worthy of us. We deserve better.<\/p>\n

Okay, that is all true, but have you ever looked at things from a different perspective? Have you ever thought that the problem might be you or something you\u2019re unconsciously doing?<\/p>\n

Aunque te cueste o\u00edrlo, a veces el problema eres t\u00fa y tu comportamiento con tu cita. Tal vez te has pasado de la raya y le has ahuyentado, o quiz\u00e1 tienes tantas ganas de salir con alguien que es demasiado evidente.<\/p>\n

No importa cu\u00e1l sea el problema, echa un vistazo a la lista de cosas que la mayor\u00eda de las mujeres hacen para alejar a los hombres:<\/p>\n

You\u2019re over analyzing everything<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Te gusta tanto que observas cada uno de sus movimientos y prestas mucha atenci\u00f3n a cada peque\u00f1a cosa que dice. Esto te lleva a analizarlo demasiado. Tomas cada una de sus palabras y la analizas cuidadosamente.<\/p>\n

This causes you to obsess over everything he says, trying to find hidden meanings if there are any. The problem is that this leaves an impact on him and he doesn\u2019t want to be surrounded by people who make him feel that way.<\/p>\n

Le persigues<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

You chase him instead of letting him chase you. Men like to play this game and let\u2019s face it, most women like to be chased. It gives you the thrill that you don\u2019t feel later on in a relationship.<\/p>\n

If you chase him, he will stop chasing you and you don\u2019t want that. You want him to put an effort to catch you because you are a prize he\u2019s never going to win again in his life. Find another way to keep him interested because chasing him is the wrong way to go.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> If He Wants You, You Won\u2019t Need To Chase Him<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re too negative<\/h2>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t shed a dark light on your relationship and don\u2019t keep asking your boyfriend negative questions. No one wants to be with Ms. Grumpy.<\/p>\n

Try to look at things from a positive perspective and nourish the nice things in your relationship and this way, you\u2019ll make him stay and you\u2019ll make him happy.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t use negative reinforcement to find out what you are interested in from him. Just ask him straightforwardly. It\u2019s better to be in an honest relationship with no hidden meaning and lies. Therefore, don\u2019t beat around the bush and ask what you want to know.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s tratando de cambiarlo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the biggest mistake you can ever make. Don\u2019t try to change who he is<\/a> or his habits. If you accepted him for what he is in the beginning, you don\u2019t have the right to ask him to act differently now.<\/p>\n

Your acts showed that you\u2019re going to love him for who he is and it\u2019s perfectly normal that he is going to back down if you try to do the opposite.<\/p>\n

You can help and encourage him to become better, but don\u2019t try to change his core because that is just not right and it will bother him and chase him away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re talking about your ex<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Meter al ex en tu nueva relaci\u00f3n no es lo correcto. Imagina c\u00f3mo se siente \u00e9l cuando le comparas con tu ex novio. Imagina la carga que eso supone para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

How would you feel if he did that to you? You would probably feel less worthy and his ex-girlfriend would be a huge threat, so you would probably back down. This is the exact way he feels and this is how you\u2019ll push him away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re putting him on a pedestal<\/h2>\n

\"sexy<\/p>\n

You\u2019re making him the center of your life and he doesn\u2019t want that, especially not in the beginning. He can read your love as pure neediness and that will drive him off. He doesn\u2019t want someone by his side who is super dependent on him.<\/p>\n

He wants an independent girl who lives her life in harmony with his\u2014a girl who won\u2019t rely on him that much. Don\u2019t be emotionally dependent because it\u2019s just not attractive and it will push him away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a drama queen<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Keep things simple because guys don\u2019t like their lives to get complicated. Don\u2019t play games with him and tease him by making yourself hard to get because guys don\u2019t like to play those games when they are in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Drama isn\u2019t the way to go\u2014drama will just push him away.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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