{"id":14053,"date":"2020-04-07T13:14:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T13:14:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14053"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:57:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:57:52","slug":"felicitaciones-chica-perdida-realmente-queria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/felicitaciones-chica-perdida-realmente-queria\/","title":{"rendered":"Felicidades, has perdido a una chica que realmente quer\u00eda ser tuya"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfC\u00f3mo demonios has conseguido perder a una chica que realmente quer\u00eda ser tuya?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo podr\u00edas alejar a alguien<\/a> who\u2019d do anything to be with you? She needed just one reason to stay.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo necesitaba una peque\u00f1a prueba de que hay un futuro feliz para ella y de que le har\u00e1s un hueco en tu vida, pero eso era, obviamente, demasiado pedir.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que siempre quiso fue a ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t care about your flaws or your past. She didn\u2019t care about what others told her.<\/p>\n

She wanted you to be good so she believed you have good sides just waiting to come to the surface. She didn\u2019t care for anything in this world other than you.<\/p>\n

Ella quer\u00eda amarte. Quer\u00eda estar a tu lado. Quer\u00eda ver tu mensaje al despertarse y dormirse pensando en ti. Quer\u00eda que fueras feliz.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

She wanted to have a future with you, to hold your hand in front of everyone and proudly say \u201cThis is the guy I love and the guy who loves me.\u201d She didn\u2019t want much. She just wanted to freely love you and to be loved by you.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que ten\u00edas que hacer era tratarla bien.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No hab\u00eda necesidad de darle estrellas, aunque ella se los merec\u00eda<\/a>. No hab\u00eda necesidad de regalos caros ni nada que fuera demasiado pedir.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo necesitabas tratarla bien. S\u00f3lo necesitabas demostrarle que te importa, demostrarle que te preocupas por ella, decirle lo mucho que significa para ti y que quieres lo mismo que ella para los dos.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo necesitabas un peque\u00f1o esfuerzo para que se quedara en tu vida.<\/p>\n

But that was too much to ask, wasn\u2019t it?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even \u2018basic\u2019 things, even the smallest effort, even the things she deserved to get were too much for you to give to her?<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t ready to do anything for her, regardless what she did for you.<\/p>\n

You just weren\u2019t on the same boat as she was. You didn’t care as much as she did. But you should have.<\/p>\n

Te negaste a elegirla.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When she saw no one else she could be with, you chose to keep your options open and hold her at arm’s length\u2014too scared to lose her but too afraid to commit as well.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa estabas en su vida de vez en cuando y ella te ten\u00eda en su vida s\u00f3lo a veces.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

No estabas dispuesto a dejar pasar todas las dem\u00e1s oportunidades. Quer\u00edas tener tus opciones abiertas. Pensaste que tal vez merec\u00edas mucho m\u00e1s de lo que ella pod\u00eda ofrecerte y fuiste demasiado ego\u00edsta y voraz.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, era tan desinteresada cuando se trataba de darte su amor.<\/p>\n

Usted didn\u2019t make her your priority<\/a> ni valor\u00f3 sus esfuerzos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Todo lo que hizo, lo hizo por ustedes dos. Lo intent\u00f3 una y otra vez. Sigui\u00f3 encontrando esperanza en lugares donde nadie pens\u00f3 en buscar.<\/p>\n

She stuck by your side even when any other normal person would\u2019ve walked away a long time ago.<\/p>\n

But you never saw any of it. Or at least you didn\u2019t bother seeing it. You never acknowledged any of her efforts nor did you bother thanking her for fighting so hard for you. Instead, you took it all for granted.<\/p>\n

You thought she\u2019ll stay by your side even if you don\u2019t give her anything. That she\u2019ll fight for you just because. Well, you thought wrong.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Ella se cans\u00f3<\/a> of fighting for someone who didn\u2019t care if he lost her or not.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Adm\u00edtelo, eras indiferente. O al menos eso cre\u00edas. Te dec\u00edas a ti mismo que no sent\u00edas nada por esa chica y que hab\u00eda otras mejores que ella. Ella estaba ah\u00ed para subir tu ego y ser tu plan de respaldo.<\/p>\n

You thought that\u2019s all she’ll ever be to anyone. But you thought wrong once again.<\/p>\n

La perdiste cuando la hiciste rogar por tu tiempo. La perdiste cuando le mostraste you couldn\u2019t care less for her feelings<\/a>. La perdiste cuando te negaste a esforzarte en luchar por ella.<\/p>\n

Tard\u00f3 un tiempo en darse cuenta de que luchaba por alguien a quien le parec\u00eda bien perderla.<\/p>\n

Ella realmente planeaba quedarse<\/a>...pero t\u00fa la alejaste.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La alejaste con tu comportamiento de mierda, con no apreciarla, con darla por sentada, con hacerla sentir sola incluso cuando estaba contigo.<\/p>\n

Enhorabuena, has perdido a una chica \u00fanica en la vida<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You lost a girl who wanted to be yours. You lost a good girl\u2014one who just needed your love and appreciation and nothing more. You lost a girl who could\u2019ve made you happy if you just let her.<\/p>\n

You lost a girl any other man would die to have. You lost a girl you\u2019ll be looking for in every other girl that comes along from now on.<\/p>\n

Ninguna de las otras chicas ser\u00e1 buena contigo como lo fue ella. Ninguna de las otras chicas te amar\u00e1 como ella lo hizo.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t treat you with respect, won\u2019t look at you with admiration as she did.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t make sacrifices as big as she did, nor will they stay when you show them your bad sides. No one will be as silly as she was.<\/p>\n

But you know what? You did this one good thing for her. You let her go and open a space for someone who\u2019ll appreciate her and love her the way she deserves to be loved. Who would\u2019ve thought\u2014in the end you did something right.<\/p>\n

\"Felicidades,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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