{"id":141290,"date":"2022-01-05T18:13:33","date_gmt":"2022-01-05T18:13:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=141290"},"modified":"2023-01-10T16:14:57","modified_gmt":"2023-01-10T16:14:57","slug":"por-que-me-atraen-los-hombres-mayores","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-me-atraen-los-hombres-mayores\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me atraen los hombres mayores? 20 razones sorprendentes"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me atrae <\/i>hombres mayores<\/i>? \u00bfQu\u00e9 hechizo me ponen que apenas reconozco a alguien de mi edad?<\/i><\/p>\n

If these questions bother you as much as they do me, then you’ve come to the right place.<\/p>\n

Te dir\u00e9 por qu\u00e9 est\u00e1s en diferencias de edad en las relaciones<\/a>la diferencia entre hombres mayores y j\u00f3venes, y todo lo que influye en la elecci\u00f3n de pareja.<\/p>\n

Stay with me, and let’s explore the minds of both older men and us!<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me atraen los hombres mayores? 20 razones<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Si quieres saber por qu\u00e9 las relaciones con diferencias de edad te suenan atractivas, echa un vistazo a las 20 razones siguientes:<\/p>\n

1. Parecen m\u00e1s varoniles<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Not that there’s anything wrong with feminine men (God forbid), but there’s just something about the manliness you can see in older men.<\/p>\n

It isn’t about looks but rather their energy. The way they move screams confidence and experience.<\/p>\n

Estos zorros plateados tienen la capacidad de arrasar en cuesti\u00f3n de segundos.<\/p>\n

Todo lo que define un <\/b>hombre de verdad<\/b><\/a> is there: strength, decisiveness, wisdom, intelligence, fearlessness… You can sense all that without even speaking to them.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s really true what they say… <\/i>Hombres mayores<\/i> son como el vino <\/i>\u2013<\/i> mejoran con la edad.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. Son m\u00e1s maduros<\/h3>\n

Younger partners call women out for being drama queens, but in reality, they’re no different.<\/p>\n

They create problems where there aren’t any. They are often so possessive that they expect you to be there 24\/7. Not even terapia de pareja<\/a> could save these types of relationships\u2026<\/p>\n

Un hombre mayor nunca har\u00eda algo as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

He’s self-sufficient and values his time, so he understands if you need some solitude. He understands the importance of <\/b>l\u00edmites en las relaciones<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

When there is an actual problem, he doesn\u2019t fight or give you the tratamiento silencioso<\/a>. Nunca le ver\u00e1s reaccionar de forma exagerada, sino buscar activamente soluciones a tus problemas.<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t be asking yourself ”Why am I attracted to <\/i>hombres mayores<\/i>?” but rather ”Why wouldn’t I be?”<\/i><\/p>\n

3. Saben lo que quieren<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You’re probably attracted to <\/i>chicos mayores<\/i> because they always have a clear goal in mind. There’s no room for doubts or <\/i>inseguridades<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Even when they are at a crossroads, they handle it like mature men. They’re not confused for long like their younger counterparts tend to be.<\/p>\n

If they like you, they won’t sit in silence and hope for the best. They’ll reach out straight away and charm you with their decisiveness.<\/b><\/p>\n

They won’t hide behind social media and dating sites but will prefer to talk to you in person.<\/p>\n

Even if you’re a big challenge and give them a hard time, they won’t easily back out.<\/p>\n

Creen demasiado en s\u00ed mismos como para rendirse.<\/p>\n

4. They\u2019ve already built a life for themselves<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Younger men usually don’t have anything figured out. It’s like they’re totally excluded from real life and all they do is play video games and party with their friends.<\/p>\n

How can they be capable of being a good partner then? It’s no wonder women find older men attractive.<\/p>\n

Most of them have a career and a home of their own. Of course, this doesn’t mean that we are materialistic. It’s not about wealth at all.<\/p>\n

It’s just a <\/b>gran encendido<\/b><\/a> to see a man who’s accomplished all of his goals, a man who overcame every obstacle to get what he wants.<\/b><\/p>\n

Alguien capaz y fuerte te llamar\u00e1 la atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Since you (probably) haven’t accomplished your goals due to your age, you are inspired by his abilities. You want to be a part of his life because you think he might help you find your own purpose.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, alguien as\u00ed es una opci\u00f3n mucho mejor para un <\/i>relaci\u00f3n seria<\/i><\/a>\u00bfNo es as\u00ed?<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Aprecian m\u00e1s la vida<\/h3>\n

When you’re younger, your main goal is to have fun. And you think that by having fun, you appreciate life more. But that’s not exactly the case.<\/p>\n

Hombres mayores<\/b> han tenido su raci\u00f3n de diversi\u00f3n, por lo que saben que apreciar la vida consiste en aprovechar sus m\u00faltiples oportunidades.<\/b><\/p>\n

They won’t hesitate to accept a job offer or form a relationship with you. This is because they aren\u2019t looking for temporary excitement.<\/p>\n

They’re aware that life is passing them by, and they want to be truly HAPPY. They don’t waste their time with the ‘what ifs.’<\/p>\n

Y cr\u00e9eme, alguien que se da cuenta del valor de la vida sabr\u00e1 quererte como te mereces.<\/i><\/p>\n

6. Est\u00e1n m\u00e1s dispuestos a comprometerse<\/h3>\n

S\u00e9 que los hombres de todas las edades luchan con <\/i>cuestiones de compromiso<\/i><\/a>, but let’s be honest <\/i>\u2013<\/i> hombres mayores<\/i> est\u00e1n m\u00e1s preparados para un <\/i>relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Lo que caus\u00f3 los problemas con el compromiso a\u00fan est\u00e1 fresco en las mentes de los hombres m\u00e1s j\u00f3venes, por lo que les afecta m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n

Si les han roto el coraz\u00f3n, tardan siglos en volver a confiar en alguien. Y cuando lo intentan, acabas atascado con un hombre emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, los hombres mayores han tenido m\u00e1s tiempo para aclarar sus ideas y descubrir qui\u00e9nes son realmente.<\/p>\n

Como pueden manejarse mejor, est\u00e1n m\u00e1s preparados para ser <\/b>emocionalmente unida a ti<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Incluso si luchan contra el desamor (y todos lo hacemos), con el tiempo empiezan a verlo como algo del pasado.<\/p>\n

This is because the years are passing by quickly, and they don’t want to die alone without a legacy. So, it’s not only that they don’t fear commitment, but they are desperate for it.<\/b><\/p>\n

7. Son m\u00e1s cari\u00f1osos<\/h3>\n

Have you ever seen a 40-year-old man who doesn’t know how to take care of a woman?<\/p>\n

Exactamente.<\/p>\n

So, why do you still keep asking yourself ”Why am I attracted to older men?”<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo te miman, sino que adem\u00e1s siempre saben qu\u00e9 decir. Son aut\u00e9nticos caballeros que te tratan con amabilidad y respeto.<\/p>\n

Nada cruel o inapropiado saldr\u00e1 de sus bocas.<\/p>\n

Te ven como un ser precioso al que tienen que proteger, as\u00ed que hacen todo lo posible por cumplir tus deseos.<\/b><\/p>\n

If all of this sounds like a Hollywood romance movie, that’s probably because you’ve had too many relaciones inmaduras<\/a> with younger men…<\/p>\n

8. Tienen m\u00e1s experiencia vital<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

That’s the first thing you think of when you look at an <\/i>hombre mayor<\/i>, isn’t it? You are attracted to how much they know about life, how much they have been through.<\/i><\/p>\n

Puede que t\u00fa misma seas una joven experimentada, pero aun as\u00ed los miras y te sientes tentada por todo lo que podr\u00edan ense\u00f1arte.<\/p>\n

Si se siente perdida o desesperanzada ante la vida, probablemente se sentir\u00e1 atra\u00edda por hombres mayores.<\/p>\n

You want a lover, but you also want a mentor, a guide. You want someone who will save you from the misery of life you don’t yet know how to deal with.<\/b><\/p>\n

9. Le ofrecen una sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad<\/strong><\/h3>\n

There are many strong and smart young men nowadays, but security isn’t about that…<\/p>\n

Don’t you always feel safer when you’re with someone who knows more than you? That’s why you’re into <\/i>hombres mayores<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Al conocer su experiencia, se crea una sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad. Piensas que se han enfrentado a todo tipo de situaciones y que probablemente tengan una soluci\u00f3n sabia para todo.<\/p>\n

In reality, you just want a hero. And you don’t see heroic potential in men your age.<\/b><\/p>\n

10. Los hombres j\u00f3venes siguen decepcion\u00e1ndote<\/h3>\n

When I think to myself: ”Why am I attracted to older men?” the first answer that comes to mind is:<\/p>\n

Porque <\/i>hombres m\u00e1s j\u00f3venes<\/i> \u00a1son demasiado decepcionantes!<\/i><\/p>\n

I mean, no offense here, but let’s be honest… They never know how to handle their problems like adults, and it only ends up ruining your relationship.<\/p>\n

Los hombres mayores nunca permitir\u00edan que eso sucediera. Llevan su equipaje, pero sus relaciones permanecen intactas.<\/b> Esto se debe a su mayores niveles de madurez<\/a> y la inteligencia emocional.<\/p>\n

11. Tienen m\u00e1s confianza<\/h3>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntos romances han fracasado por culpa de j\u00f3venes inseguros?<\/p>\n

So many of them don’t have the courage to approach you, and if they do approach you, it only turns into a very relaci\u00f3n complicada<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Older men rarely have these problems! They\u2019ve probably had many relationships in the past that made them confident enough to ligar como un profesional<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You don’t ever have to worry that it’s not going to work. If they like you, that’s already finished business. Nothing will stop them from getting your attention.<\/b><\/p>\n

And let’s be honest… Who doesn’t like to be chased?<\/p>\n

12. Parecen m\u00e1s atractivos<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

What? This is a valid reason! Some women just like you better when you’re older. Some prefer 30-year-olds, whereas others are attracted to men twice their age!<\/p>\n

Why wouldn’t they be? There’s nothing NOT to like. Just think about Dr. House or Aaron Hotchner from Mentes Criminales<\/i>. Dios sabe que lo hago todos los d\u00edas.<\/p>\n

We get to see scenes where they’re younger, yet I can’t help but be more attracted to them when they get older. Does that happen to you, too?<\/p>\n

Don’t think that there’s anything wrong with you, though. You have the right to like whoever you want.<\/i><\/p>\n

Besides, isn’t this encouraging? We often fear old age because we think our beauty will disappear, but look! There’s always someone who will find you attractive.<\/b><\/p>\n

13. Tienes problemas con tu padre<\/h3>\n

It’s always some kind of trauma, isn’t it? Well, sadly, yes. Your fascination with older men might just stem from problemas con pap\u00e1<\/a>. \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa eso?<\/p>\n

It means that your father didn’t offer you the love and protection that you deserved as a child.<\/p>\n

Como fuiste abandonado emocionalmente, ahora buscas un <\/b>figura paterna<\/b> that will make up for what you didn’t have in childhood.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sounds complicated, doesn’t it? But it’s valid.<\/p>\n

You’re not unstable for having <\/i>problemas con pap\u00e1<\/i>. It’s okay to want someone to protect you, especially if nobody ever did.<\/i><\/p>\n

So, don’t think that this is wrong. You are not weird or messed up. Don’t let anyone convince you that you are.<\/p>\n

14. Respetan m\u00e1s a las mujeres<\/h3>\n

When you’re in a relationship with someone your age, they rarely know how to appreciate you. And since they don’t appreciate you, they have no te respeto<\/a> tampoco.<\/p>\n

They’re just too young to understand what partnership means.<\/i><\/p>\n

That’s what’s so appealing about older guys. They’re aware that you’re two individuals but you still function as a TEAM.<\/p>\n

And a team values the opinion of everyone. They will always listen to your advice carefully. You don’t ever have to worry about not being taken seriously.<\/b><\/p>\n

Older guys will never see you as ‘just a girlfriend’ but rather as a human being and a partner who’s equally as important as them.<\/p>\n

15. Tienen experiencia sexual<\/h3>\n

Well… we are sexual beings, too, aren’t we? Having an older partner who knows what he’s doing is bound to make sex much more exciting!<\/p>\n

After all, you’re young and (probably) don’t have much sexual experience. So, it’s not unusual that you want someone who does.<\/p>\n

At least one of us has to know what they’re doing, right?<\/b><\/p>\n

T\u00fa quieres experiencia y ellos quieren a alguien que no la tenga.<\/p>\n

Yes, as men age, they are more into younger women, in the age range of around 20\u201330, because they want to prove to themselves that they\u2019ve still ‘got it.’<\/p>\n

Cuando tienen sexo con un 20-<\/b>mujer de un a\u00f1o<\/b>, they get their validation, and you get great sex! It’s a win-win situation!<\/b><\/p>\n

16. Saben comunicarse<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Do you often ask yourself: ”Why am I attracted to older men?” Yeah, me too… Or at least I did until I figured out the answer.<\/p>\n

It’s because I never have to worry that they’ll misunderstand me!<\/b><\/p>\n

Incluso cuando lo hagan, hablaremos de ello como adultos y averiguaremos d\u00f3nde est\u00e1 el problema.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que nunca ponerse a la defensiva<\/a> o se\u00f1alar con el dedo. Entienden que nunca se puede resolver nada sin comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Su objetivo es solucionar el problema juntos, no estar unos contra otros, lo que es se\u00f1al de un relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Besides, you can\u2019t form a una conexi\u00f3n emocional m\u00e1s profunda<\/a> if you don\u2019t hear each other out.<\/p>\n

17. Tienen seguridad econ\u00f3mica<\/h3>\n

More often than not, older people have steady jobs and a secure future, so it’s understandable if you’re attracted to them.<\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean you want them for their money. You just want someone who’ll be able to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Esto es especialmente comprensible si su objetivo es ser un ama de casa.<\/a><\/p>\n

And even if you’re employed, too, it’s okay if you don’t want to be the only provider. It’s okay to want a capable man who’s ready to help you out.<\/b><\/p>\n

18. Quieres un sugar daddy<\/h3>\n

S\u00ed, puede que encuentres el <\/i>diferencia de edad<\/i> attractive just because there’s something in it for you!<\/i><\/p>\n

A sugar daddy doesn’t mind paying for whatever your heart desires, and you’re happy because you’re able to live the life of your dreams.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ser un beb\u00e9 azucarado<\/a> benefits both you and your ‘benefactor.’ That’s why you shouldn’t feel guilty for doing it. If both sides are happy, then there’s nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n

19. Salir con ellos es un acto de rebeld\u00eda<\/h3>\n

Sea sincero. \u00bfQui\u00e9n apoyar\u00eda a tu relaci\u00f3n con un hombre mayor<\/a>? Rarely anyone would…<\/p>\n

And that’s exactly what strengthens your desire!<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s a turn on to look at someone nobody would approve of, especially if you’re in your early to late 20s…<\/p>\n

Tu esp\u00edritu rebelde sigue muy vivo y dirige tus deseos. Quieres lo que la sociedad rechaza.<\/p>\n

En <\/b>diferencia de edad<\/b> no significa nada para ti porque significa todo para ellos.<\/b><\/p>\n

This isn’t wrong, but still make sure that you actually like the person, and not just what they represent!<\/i><\/p>\n

20. Son m\u00e1s c\u00f3modos<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando los chicos nuestra <\/i>propia edad<\/i> manage to approach us, they’re still struggling to relax. They try to look all macho but don’t know that we have a sixth sense that tells us a different story.<\/i><\/p>\n

Older men, on the other hand, don’t have those problemas de autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They approach you with confidence and talk to you in a relaxed manner because they’re not intimidated by women.<\/p>\n

Their beauty and intellect aren\u2019t something to be afraid of, but something they need to conquer. And they usually do… because they believe they can.<\/b><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo hacer que un hombre mayor te desee en 27 pasos infalibles<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Reflexiones finales<\/h2>\n

I hope that the question ”Why am I attracted to older men?” no longer keeps you up at night. See, it’s not just the influence of Lana Del Rey’s music!<\/p>\n

Cita con las mujeres<\/b> hombres mayores<\/b> porque tienen m\u00e1s que ofrecer.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s the same with <\/b>chicos j\u00f3venes<\/b>. En su mayor\u00eda est\u00e1n encaprichados con <\/b>mujeres mayores<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

A <\/i>mucha gente<\/i> quieren un socio con experiencia que les d\u00e9 sensaci\u00f3n de seguridad. A <\/i>mucha gente<\/i> quieren a alguien que les ense\u00f1e a vivir como es debido.<\/i><\/p>\n

It’s no wonder we are attracted to people who are different from us. We want something that we don’t have because it’s new and exciting.<\/b><\/p>\n

And don’t EVER think there’s anything wrong with that!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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